Seeking Arrangements

**Billlc3425** · 10-16-21 00:16

Originally Posted by BostonNorth16 [View Original Post]

Where can I purchase an online visa gift card? What is the brand name?

Right here.

https://www.vanillagift.com/

**RandomChance72** · 10-15-21 19:42

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

This tactic may work for your average back page type hooker. But I hope you are not asking the average college chick or young professional these types of questions on this site. This is why they delete their account in the first week or two.

Girls that delete their accounts within the first two weeks are usually the ones who have their dreams shattered once they realize most guys won't pay them purely for the benefit of being in their company.

Regardless. At some point money is discussed (whether its at the M&G or before). This would be the time to utilize this approach. When I wrote my original post I assumed I didn't need to add the obvious disclaimers (establish rapport, don't frame it as a choice / ultimatum, remember not to be hyper logical, etc). But I guess I'll state it explicitly for those less savvy at using their soft skills.

As always, tips are tips. Use what works for you.

**Spike77** · 10-15-21 19:20

Originally Posted by RandomChance72 [View Original Post]

Reviews matter. But there are small tips and tricks that can help further mitigate risk. One trick I use is to offer three different price points based on services offered. For example I might offer:

Option 1: FS for 200.

Option 2: BBFS for 250.

Option 3: BBFS w/ Anal for 300.

If a girl is planning to steal your money and run, she'll likely choose option 3 to maximize her payday. Obviously there are some girls who are cool with BBFS anal, but I think we all know that these are rare.

I like this trick because it alerts me to start looking for other clues if a girl agrees to option 3. Another dead give away I've seen is girls who choose option 3 quickly and without hesitation. In my experience, even girls who are down with anal usually ask lots of questions and add qualifiers (i.e. "how big are you? "I'm not really that into anal", "we can try but I can't promise anything", etc.).

At the end of the day, there's always some risk involve. But if you're smart, you can mitigate some risk.

This tactic may work for your average back page type hooker. But I hope you are not asking the average college chick or young professional these types of questions on this site. This is why they delete their account in the first week or two.

The best advice I can give and what previous posters have already mentioned, never give money upfront. Just don't do it. Anyone that asks for money upfront is a scammer. I made this mistake once years ago. I will never make that mistake again knowing that one simple rule.

**RandomChance72** · 10-15-21 16:57

Originally Posted by Demmacssawi [View Original Post]

The problem, as I see it, is that dishonest people always have the upper hand. Let's say that one is in her apartment and the $500 has been passed over. Then, a big man shows up and threatens violence. There are a few guys on this site who know how to handle a threat, but I am not one of them. Nor would an encounter that might result in the presence of law enforcement be worthwhile. In fact, I would gladly forgo $500 rather than involve LEO.

That is why reviews matter. Real reviews that involve actually seeing the gal.

Reviews matter. But there are small tips and tricks that can help further mitigate risk. One trick I use is to offer three different price points based on services offered. For example I might offer:

Option 1: FS for 200.

Option 2: BBFS for 250.

Option 3: BBFS w/ Anal for 300.

If a girl is planning to steal your money and run, she'll likely choose option 3 to maximize her payday. Obviously there are some girls who are cool with BBFS anal, but I think we all know that these are rare.

I like this trick because it alerts me to start looking for other clues if a girl agrees to option 3. Another dead give away I've seen is girls who choose option 3 quickly and without hesitation. In my experience, even girls who are down with anal usually ask lots of questions and add qualifiers (i.e. "how big are you? "I'm not really that into anal", "we can try but I can't promise anything", etc.).

At the end of the day, there's always some risk involve. But if you're smart, you can mitigate some risk.

**Spill** · 10-15-21 13:03

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

Has she improved at all? Is she changing for the better or just changing?

Transformed to Stacey Mack:

https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/b...5369.htm?cat=1

**Joe1223** · 10-14-21 19:38

Originally Posted by Demmacssawi [View Original Post]

This girl wanted $500 for an evening out. Drinks, talk and fun at her place.

She wanted payment up front. Agreed to give her $100 and $400 in her apartment. Got to restaurant and had 45 minutes of nice conversation. Foolishly gave her the remaining $400. At that point she bolted out and climbed into a van that was waiting the entire time for her.

Of course, her cell phone line went dead. She is now listed on SA as Sweet Chick. She has been through a number of names and profiles in the last few days, but is consistently listed as being from Natick.

She is a complete scam.

Unfortunately you had to learn the hard way in a big way. My opinion and have posted several times, I will never pay that much and I will never pay up front. Ever. Coffee dates are the best for meet and greets as it's low risk and then make a date for an outcall at a hotel for the first time. You have more control of the situation and if she decides to flake her real intentions are exposed. Don't check in until she arrives either.

I know it hard to resist sometimes but if you read these posts you see a common denominator. Paying first smells like a rip-off. Good luck next time and we have all been there so just keep trying.

**Member #6453** · 10-14-21 15:51

Originally Posted by Hobbyist420 [View Original Post]

Ugh that SUCKS.

Pre-BP shutdown, I never worried about this shit from girls on SA (naive on my part, but I also screened well). Also seems more boyfriends getting involved in these scams.

Before it was no money before meet. And now its also no money until the deed is done and if they refuse, then move on to the next one. Risk aint worth it.

She started the run as soon as the cash touched her hands. There was no time to respond, although a response might have been dangerous.

The problem, as I see it, is that dishonest people always have the upper hand. Let's say that one is in her apartment and the $500 has been passed over. Then, a big man shows up and threatens violence. There are a few guys on this site who know how to handle a threat, but I am not one of them. Nor would an encounter that might result in the presence of law enforcement be worthwhile. In fact, I would gladly forgo $500 rather than involve LEO.

That is why reviews matter. Real reviews that involve actually seeing the gal.

**Hobbyist420** · 10-14-21 15:29

Originally Posted by Demmacssawi [View Original Post]

This girl wanted $500 for an evening out. Drinks, talk and fun at her place.

She wanted payment up front. Agreed to give her $100 and $400 in her apartment. Got to restaurant and had 45 minutes of nice conversation. Foolishly gave her the remaining $400. At that point she bolted out and climbed into a van that was waiting the entire time for her.

Of course, her cell phone line went dead. She is now listed on SA as Sweet Chick. She has been through a number of names and profiles in the last few days, but is consistently listed as being from Natick.

She is a complete scam.

Ugh that SUCKS.

Pre-BP shutdown, I never worried about this shit from girls on SA (naive on my part, but I also screened well). Also seems more boyfriends getting involved in these scams.

Before it was no money before meet. And now its also no money until the deed is done and if they refuse, then move on to the next one. Risk aint worth it.

**Member #6453** · 10-13-21 23:08

Originally Posted by Hobbyist420 [View Original Post]

Either a fake account trying to get cashapp money, or an actual person trying to get cashapp money. They get reported via screenshot, and then kicked off the site. But one can easily make a new profile with new user name to get around that. SA's quality control around these things is horrible.

Also semi-pros / pros also tend to make new profiles on a regular basis to not leave the pro scent because they know the men are getting smarter in hunting for UTR.

Report to follow. She will take your money and run.

**Member #6453** · 10-13-21 21:48

This girl wanted $500 for an evening out. Drinks, talk and fun at her place.

She wanted payment up front. Agreed to give her $100 and $400 in her apartment. Got to restaurant and had 45 minutes of nice conversation. Foolishly gave her the remaining $400. At that point she bolted out and climbed into a van that was waiting the entire time for her.

Of course, her cell phone line went dead. She is now listed on SA as Sweet Chick. She has been through a number of names and profiles in the last few days, but is consistently listed as being from Natick.

She is a complete scam.

**Hobbyist420** · 10-13-21 15:10

Originally Posted by DougF [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-ed85f770a7ca

What's this broads deal? Is she real? Always on there with new accounts. Looks good though.

Either a fake account trying to get cashapp money, or an actual person trying to get cashapp money. They get reported via screenshot, and then kicked off the site. But one can easily make a new profile with new user name to get around that. SA's quality control around these things is horrible.

Also semi-pros / pros also tend to make new profiles on a regular basis to not leave the pro scent because they know the men are getting smarter in hunting for UTR.

**DougF** · 10-13-21 13:42

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-ed85f770a7ca

What's this broads deal? Is she real? Always on there with new accounts. Looks good though.

**BR1201** · 10-12-21 16:29

Evaheb, 28, Wellesley.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-1e5cf376fe62

Tough to communicate with won't give out any details on what she wants. Pretty good private pics. I wonder what it takes to bang her.

Juztme4 u, 33, South Shore.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...1-a81a5bb6a19f

Single mom. Cute. Gets pretty dirty in her messaging. But doesn't seem to ever want to meet.

Mermaidcayy, 29, Southern NH.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-cae87af17c10

Hot, all holes open, quoted me 6. But with a drive and a hotel definitely overpriced. Passed.

WorshipThis, 38, Milton.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...4-264622860018

MILF, can host, talks some pretty serious game. 4 was agreed upon. Place was a mess. No cover but smell turned me off. Decent time but won't repeat.

Alexaaaa23,23, Boston.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-a07829f7eb5c

GPS says she is being courted by 50+ guys. Mmmm hmm. Great pics. But can already tell she wants more than she's worth.

CheekyTemptress, 26.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-fa954769db8b

Says Boston but is really from Cape Cod. Will take $250 for a romp. Travel to you. Everything is covered and is pretty good. Did not pursue the 3rd hole but might be available.

**Hobbyist420** · 10-10-21 10:01

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Is there any way to tell if photos sent to my cell phone are legit??

Thanks CM.

Google image search.

https://www.google.com/imghp?hl=EN

Download the file and plop it in there.

**InterTravlr56** · 10-10-21 09:15

Originally Posted by BR1201 [View Original Post]

Anyone ever see this one? I know she's in RI but she keeps popping up on my SA home page and she looks hot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...c-088d3c215579

Full time college student. I am eager to please and open minded. Looking for some help getting me though school, let's chat!

***** never responds.