Arrangement Reports

[MwmChicago]

In 2012 I had a great job calling on Toys are Us and a few others and making $180,000 a year with 7 weeks vacation. I always had a thing for someone I worked with and gathered she did too but we were both married and in different states. June of that year found us in LA at a huge party my company was having and ended up hooking up and it was awesome. Until late the next day when I found out the VP spotted us making out in an elevator at the hotel. A week later I was out of work and remained that way for sometime. Within a year my hot Spanish girl dumped me and I ran out of money. I had recently started a side job and was running it out of a small cheap storefront which ended up being my home for 13 months. I was homeless!

That one night cost me a lot, including having to work for 8-10 more years before I can retire and with less $'s to retire with. Things are good now, been with my current girl for 5+ years and she's a hottie (and not insane). My business took off 3 years ago and I'm doing quite well so it all worked out. But man, that was a pretty painful 4 year period and the only time in my 58 years where I ever thought about suicide.

But if you do fuck her, tell us all the juicy details!

[Lchtus]

Back to the game but got nothing, here is my inbox from bottom to top.

Maybe you handsome young guys game is better then mine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...9-ebcd32279fbb

Chat with her, chance of fucking her is 0%.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-8c0543f37365

Chat with her, chance of fucking her is 0%.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-81e517a2e705

Chat with her, change of fucking her is 0%.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-9243d88ee188

Chat with her, chance of fucking her is 10%,she travel from chicago to denver and back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-79ad23f96c3e

Chat with her, change of fucking her is 0%....

Fing hilarious. I am there with you my friend.

[Pau Ford]

She is a traveling pro. Makes routine visits to Chicago. Talked to her once, very escort like process with scheduling a day / time to meet at her hotel. $400/ hr. Never pursued.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-4e716f4d5514

She coming next week, but I will be busy, I am guessing she's probably a traveling pro, but with an ass like that, do you really care.

[Pupsnu]

So I just tried setting up a new account, and it just logged me out midway through the process. I am thinking they may not like certain VPNs?

I use prepaid debit cards.

[Pupsnu]

I use prepaid debit cards.

I'm thinking about getting back on too, but I'm in the same boat as you. Someone else said you also need to use a different browser than before, use a credit card with a different name & address, and a new email. It's a pain. I use ProtonVPN.

[Pal5600]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-4e716f4d5514

She coming next week, but I will be busy, I am guessing she's probably a traveling pro, but with an ass like that, do you really care.

[Zimbler]

What VPN do people use for VPN to use SA? Thinking of getting back, but given my previous ban, need something to actually being able to use it.

I'm thinking about getting back on too, but I'm in the same boat as you. Someone else said you also need to use a different browser than before, use a credit card with a different name & address, and a new email. It's a pain. I use ProtonVPN.

[Pupsnu]

What VPN do people use for VPN to use SA? Thinking of getting back, but given my previous ban, need something to actually being able to use it.

[LivetheLife]

So fckn true! Before I got in the hobby I had a 2 - 3 yr affair with feelings and love and the whole enchilada and I had spent way more than I had spent for escorts and SA girls all combined for my years in the hobby, not to mention the multiple problems the affair caused.

This is not an SA post but here it is. I took a part-time job out of state approximately a week on and a week off. About 75% of the women I work with are fat AA type, just a notch above the ghetto hood rats except one girl who is thick but not ghetto. One of the girls "aksed" me if I was married and I told her that I was and she was "too bad, one of the girls likes you". Next day the woman told me it was the young girl and told me that I have to make a move. The girl herself has big, thick ass, face is probably 7. She is shy and uses "messangers" to tell me she had saved me a plate for dinner and left a note on my desk wishing me a good night but without her name. I returned to Illinois for a week and last night she texted me telling me she had found my number on the board that we have to put our cell numbers for contact if necessary. She texted me today too. I don't know if she is attracted to me as a man or more as a professional cause I worked closely with her few nights. She is 21-22 AA girl and I will be 50 in few weeks, married with 2 kids and my daughter is her age. She is more sweet and nice than hot and sexy but I would like to bang her of course. I don't know how to proceed, she stays in the area and I travel back and forth and we both work nights, so it's hard to go out for dinner and drinks. All the AA women will know if anything happens as they make comments even now. I am also very average in term of male size and she probably had big dicks cause AA guys have big cocks. I'm supposed to be back there in a week and don't know how to ask her to go for coffee after the night shift, besides she may cool off after a week of not seeing me. I think, she likes me for who I am at work and doubt she finds some white old guy attractive, but it's a chance. Also there is a possibility of sexual harassment speculation if things turn sour after few dates cause I am considered much higher in terms of position and experience than her 🤔.

Just don't do it. I just witnessed one scenario for my co worker even in remote working conditions. She kept a virtual happy hour voice recording conversations as evidence for a sexual harassment case against her manager and HR took her side due to Race, position level difference and also the management directives. There was no physical involved it was just few comments made in virtual settings after work but used the company Zoom credentials set for the virtual happy hour settings. These things come in light only when things go south and not during the act.

[Hoffman Oliver]

This is not an SA post but here it is...I'm supposed to be back there in a week and don't know how to ask her to go for coffee after the night shift, besides she may cool off after a week of not seeing me. I think, she likes me...

Stan I got you bro. Follow this exactly as I write it.

Send her a note thru your co-workers asking her "Do you want to fuck? - circle yes or no".

Follow that question with this statement: "I am fully vaccinated having received my cooties shot including a booster recently. " I cannot stress this last part enough especially in today's current environment.

Best of luck!

[JustinFields]

Never shit where you eat. That and the fact that everyone will know and she is married is just not a smart move.

[DWaits]

If you work with her it is a definite no.

Man, you started by describing the affair as a problem. Why go back to that world. There is no sexual harassment charges with an escort and escorts who aren't scammers could care less if you are married, have kids, whatever. Way better than the headache of an affair in my opinion.

[Ron M]

Don't do it. Stay away from this girl unless dealing with work related issues. And even then have another co-worker accompany you. (Mike Pence effect) Not worth it the era of the "Me Too" movement.

All she has to say you've been sexually harassing her and you lose everything. Marriage gone, Career gone, Finances gone, Wife gone. Good luck trying to defend yourself against a work place sexual harassment accusation by a female co-worker.

[Pal5600]

I actually treat my sb very, very well, I go to the mall almost every week to buy gift cards, perfume, clothes, make up, fix their car, buy them text books, paid for they online shopping, take them on vacation, take them to the zoo ect, I paid from their gas, insurance, shopping ect. Most long term sb stay the whole night with me, I cook for them, let them pick the movies, I give them back massages, I cook breakfast for them, and I leave their private life alone, many time they will text their boyfriends, friends, class mates during the movies or / and a few time during sex they still be texting hahaha, and I don't really care, I had to buy two blankets because they always take the whole blanket at night, and I don't know why women do that. I let they sleep in as long as they want. After the first meet, 90% of the time, I let them text me first and schedule the next meet up,. Many of my long term want to stay with me longer but the problem me, I just want to fuck different women,. To me they re like temporary or shared / rent girlfriends for a few hours, overnight, or few days, that's how I see it, and you can't do all these things with an escorts.

[Al Melrose]

If you work with her it is a definite no.

I thought you were much older than 50.

Myth that blacks have bigger schlongs.