Seeking Arrangements

[Hobbyist420]

Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-34a3acdaeefe

Always use VOIP numbers (I. E. Textnow). Don't share pictures that you use on social media or professional profiles. Don't even respond when stuff like this happens; immediately block the number after, and I'd also maybe even get and use a new number for SB activities as well for extra security so no bullshit comes across your eyes. Also report the profile to SA; I am sure if you mention posing as underage, they will take action to remove it.

I will add the profile is not up anymore, so that's good but I am sure the scammer will just start a new one.

[Joe1223]

Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-34a3acdaeefe

I had a similar scam attempted with me. I told them I would meet them and pay them off. I gave them the address to a local gun range in Manchester and apparently they decided to do a no show LOL. Just push back on all of these rip off attempts and tell them to eff off. Most of them are so lazy they will give up pretty quick if you ignore them.

[TheList00]

Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-34a3acdaeefe

Don't send them a penny. These scams are not even good well thought scams. There old and typical. I'm really 16 and the father texts you which is actually her bf. The best one is the I can't meet I have no gas in my car so send me 50 for gas, yea because driving 10 miles to my house takes 50 bucks in gas. I just fight back with them. Punk them out, talk shit, there your typical internet losers all talk no action. Stand up to them, don't be afraid of the police because trust me 1000 % these scammers are never going to police and the biggest reason is once you make a police report you have to give your info and then the case becomes public record so noones cop calling.

[Purnikator]

I have been using SA and there is a girl who said she is 18 wanted to meet with me and stuff. So we started texting (used a google voice number) and talked about arrangements and no money amount or any explicit sexual was mentioned. We did exchange pictures mostly casual pictures but she did sent one nude photo later. Yesterday, her parents texted me with the number demanding an explanation why I am sending these messages to her 16 years old daughter or s / he would call the police. I briefly explained that her daughter was pretending she was 18 on a dating site and that I wouldn't have continued if I knew. I blocked her shortly after. In my mind, I know nothing is probably going to happen, but I've been really paranoid about this. How likely is the police going to track me down, and if they do, for what crime? Any advice will be greatly appreciated!

Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-34a3acdaeefe

[Hobbyist420]

The best way not to get scammed is to stop treating these woman like there your gf and kissing there ass and actually thinking they like you. Treat them for what they are. There just woman looking to make money by the means they feel are necessary. Now not all woman are trying to scam but like anyone else once they spot a mark and an easy target then they will go for the kill. I read how you guys hand over the money when you walk in the door and how you have an ongoing thing and she said your best sex of her life so you trust her lending her money up front. I mean how dumb can you be. 70 % of these chicks have bfs. I agree with another guy here, single moms, legit single moms are the best ones to meet. But just use common sense and you won't get scammed.

Good post.

Will also add: all of my top SB true UTR experiences. They don't ask for the money upfront. Its not even a discussion until they are about to leave. Obv more rarer today than it was during the BP / CL era.

You can also have good experiences from girls who do ask up front; but those are usually from semi-pros. Who can be good experiences, but just understand that you aren't going to get that UTR attention. They usually are dating someone else ("dating" being a loose term if you catch my drift LOL), you are less likely to get overtime, and you are also less likely to get "value" (meaning you'll pay more of the market rates that are inflated nowadays, or clock watchers).

This is also why UTR single moms are the best value: they want a good time as well as money. It's not just about the money for them, mom is stressed and she needs dick haha. But single moms also tend to me the most likely semi-pros too, because they got bills to pay, but they'll usually be more candid about what they expect as supposed to a 21 year old texting you to send cashapp every 20 minutes. As always YMMV.

[Joe1223]

My take is: If you buy the card with a cash transaction and not through one of your credit cards, I don't see any harm.

Do not waste your time with a gift card. If they want a card over cash it's a scam waiting to happen.

[Hobbyist420]

Got a winner here. Anyone up for the challenge?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...f-d9c1f8c6fd71

LOL!

I just don't understand why girls like this don't just start an OF or do web camming. They'd make more money. Maybe they don't because that involves actual work.

As FYI to newbies on here: DO NOT send any gift cards, venmo, cashapp, etc before meet. Even if the girl is real; the thing today for theis new crop of SBs is often the old adage of "if you say a pervy, gross thing to 10 girls, 1 one like it".

Ditto with these girls, who are often real (there used to be WAY more fake profiles a few years ago), and they essentially try to talk to as many guys as they can to get them to send them anything. If for example, they talk and text 20 dudes, they only need 1-3 of them to actually send them money of any amount and they can call it a day without ever having to meet, put out, or shit even text you again. I mean if you did some example math, say they talk to 100 dudes week; if they get 10 dudes a week to send them $25, that's $200 a week for as minimal work as possible. It's a grift that is more and more popular, and they are often girls you'll see on multiple SB and even dating sites who look for these gullible dudes as a job.

If any girl ever tells you it's a requirement, or keep pressing about it, tell them why you won't send and only transact in person. It's against SA's policy to send money before meet (which they don't enforce, sadly, even if you report them), it can lead to a paper trail (which even a single dude like me is uncomfortable with), and obv explain to them why its sugar for intimacy, and if they don't understand it and keep pressing: then block their ass and on to the next one.

[ManDownUnder]

Thanks sounds. Never done it and never will. Best!

I guess if you give her the GC at the end, then no harm. However, I agree there is a very high probability that she will ask for in advance and scam you. She'll just want to make sure it's real and you are not going to scam her, LOL. It also makes no sense, why would she want a GC over cash?

[TheList00]

The best way not to get scammed is to stop treating these woman like there your gf and kissing there ass and actually thinking they like you. Treat them for what they are. There just woman looking to make money by the means they feel are necessary. Now not all woman are trying to scam but like anyone else once they spot a mark and an easy target then they will go for the kill. I read how you guys hand over the money when you walk in the door and how you have an ongoing thing and she said your best sex of her life so you trust her lending her money up front. I mean how dumb can you be. 70 % of these chicks have bfs. I agree with another guy here, single moms, legit single moms are the best ones to meet. But just use common sense and you won't get scammed.

[Trailman44]

Usual scam for gift card is they will ask for the card number when you arrive before giving out the room number. Once you give them the number, they have access to the card and you won't get a room number or any reply.

Thanks sounds. Never done it and never will. Best!

[Laurion]

I've been texting with her, but haven't met because schedules don't align. Seems genuine.

Anyone have experience with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/c0f51...c-6960ce9c85ec

[Sounds]

Not the question I asked. She wants payment on a gift card "in person". She didn't ask for a deposit. Just curious if any one else has run across this. I have never sent a deposit and have never been scammed. Been around for a bit and am not an idiot. Answer the question I asked or not.

Usual scam for gift card is they will ask for the card number when you arrive before giving out the room number. Once you give them the number, they have access to the card and you won't get a room number or any reply.

[DrinIvisible]

Not the question I asked. She wants payment on a gift card "in person". She didn't ask for a deposit. Just curious if any one else has run across this. I have never sent a deposit and have never been scammed. Been around for a bit and am not an idiot. Answer the question I asked or not.

My take is: If you buy the card with a cash transaction and not through one of your credit cards, I don't see any harm.

[Trailman44]

Here we are in 2021, with about a million examples AND warnings from guys having been burned and we still get the question: Should I send her a deposit before meeting?

It's like groundhog day or something. It doesn't matter what she says or how hot she is, that deposit you're sending is blocking your ass the second it hits her (or most likely 'his') inbox.

Not the question I asked. She wants payment on a gift card "in person". She didn't ask for a deposit. Just curious if any one else has run across this. I have never sent a deposit and have never been scammed. Been around for a bit and am not an idiot. Answer the question I asked or not.

[EvilTmp]

Here we are in 2021, with about a million examples AND warnings from guys having been burned and we still get the question: Should I send her a deposit before meeting?

It's like groundhog day or something. It doesn't matter what she says or how hot she is, that deposit you're sending is blocking your ass the second it hits her (or most likely 'his') inbox.