Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and Bullshit

[Skboy]

Almost 100% of the info I share is by PM. Different mongers have different ideas how this hobby is.

To many like to pillow talk with providers. You know so they have that extra special friendship LMFAO!

[Member #6090]

There's a plethora of apps out there, but the big 4 to download and use would be Tinder, Bumble, PlentyOfFish, and OkCupid. The profile pic will be the biggest determinant of success. Put on your best clothes and clean up. If you're not good-looking at all, you can use an app like Face App to tweak your profile picture to make your face look more appealing. Just don't go crazy. Some would say this is disingenuous, but women use makeup and those stupid Snapchat filters all the way. The profile description you put down is somewhat important, but don't fret too much. Just say something that stands out about you that a complete stranger will find enthralling or interesting.

The next step in the process is to bomb that swipe. I mean, don't bother swiping left and right. That takes too much time. Swipe right on every single profile until the app says you're done for the day. You can filter out the girls later. I've even been pleasantly surprised and took a chance on some women I normally wouldn't be interested in and was blown away at how good the sex was. Sometimes a hole is a hole.

On Bumble, the girls will reach out to you if they're interested. Tinder probably has the worst response rate for me. PlentyOfFish and OkCupid are slightly better than Tinder. I've also had success before on an app called MeetMe, but it's been a few years since I last used that one. If a girl responds back, you'll typically want to try to meet up the same day or the next day at the latest. I've gotten flaked on every single time I've ever tried to set up a meeting or date more than a day out. Plenty of girls on there will tell you they're looking for a relationship and will say that sex is off the table until they're in a committed relationship, but in practice my close rate on the same day meetup is probably 50% if we make it to meeting up. The other half usually move on within a few weeks.

This strategy I laid out is akin to throwing spaghetti against the wall, but it's more or less what's worked for me. I typically only spend time on these apps when I'm not busy at work or otherwise idle, and it nets me a bang at least once a month. Dating apps probably aren't for you if you're married or otherwise want to keep a low profile. For single guys, it's an extra avenue to try out. Your mileage may vary.

Oh, and of course there's also FetLife. While I've never actually used it, I've heard good things about that one as well.

I have found that if you check fetlife for their SA city and user name that you will find quite a few. Go thru fetlife and with a little game you can have the same for free that others are paying for.

[NerdJohn]

Excellent info. I recall that at NerdJohn has a lot of dating / hook-up app experience as well. If you guys (or other members) could coordinate and provide a roundup of those apps that have worked for you in this area and on your travels, that would be an immense benefit to the brethren. I'm not on any of those app and don't plan to be, but that may open up a wealth of possibilities for those disenchanted with the decline of SA an other arena. Keep pushing us forward.

Stay vigilant. ,. ,

Milfman.

There's a plethora of apps out there, but the big 4 to download and use would be Tinder, Bumble, PlentyOfFish, and OkCupid. The profile pic will be the biggest determinant of success. Put on your best clothes and clean up. If you're not good-looking at all, you can use an app like Face App to tweak your profile picture to make your face look more appealing. Just don't go crazy. Some would say this is disingenuous, but women use makeup and those stupid Snapchat filters all the way. The profile description you put down is somewhat important, but don't fret too much. Just say something that stands out about you that a complete stranger will find enthralling or interesting.

The next step in the process is to bomb that swipe. I mean, don't bother swiping left and right. That takes too much time. Swipe right on every single profile until the app says you're done for the day. You can filter out the girls later. I've even been pleasantly surprised and took a chance on some women I normally wouldn't be interested in and was blown away at how good the sex was. Sometimes a hole is a hole.

On Bumble, the girls will reach out to you if they're interested. Tinder probably has the worst response rate for me. PlentyOfFish and OkCupid are slightly better than Tinder. I've also had success before on an app called MeetMe, but it's been a few years since I last used that one. If a girl responds back, you'll typically want to try to meet up the same day or the next day at the latest. I've gotten flaked on every single time I've ever tried to set up a meeting or date more than a day out. Plenty of girls on there will tell you they're looking for a relationship and will say that sex is off the table until they're in a committed relationship, but in practice my close rate on the same day meetup is probably 50% if we make it to meeting up. The other half usually move on within a few weeks.

This strategy I laid out is akin to throwing spaghetti against the wall, but it's more or less what's worked for me. I typically only spend time on these apps when I'm not busy at work or otherwise idle, and it nets me a bang at least once a month. Dating apps probably aren't for you if you're married or otherwise want to keep a low profile. For single guys, it's an extra avenue to try out. Your mileage may vary.

Oh, and of course there's also FetLife. While I've never actually used it, I've heard good things about that one as well.

[MilfMan865]

Regular member senior member makes no different to me It's what he brings to the table and is willing to share to other Knox forum members.

But it's ok plenty of kitty in the SA barrel. Enjoy you new find.

You prompted me to think about recent experiences. A ho's a ho, is a ho, shouldn't matter where she advertises or where you find her. If she has an ad out, that brings different levels of interactions to the playbook. Skboy, EasttnnFun, and TheLoad2 often elaborate on their experiences and views of "the game", the importance of "having a bit of game", and the "gentlemen's rules of the game". Others have chimed in but this isn't a roll call.

If I'm seeing someone on SA who hasn't been discussed here and I plan/would like to keep seeing her, I refrain from putting out a notice due to negative experiences from the past. I won't share that level of info privately either since we all have skin in the game, but we should also be willing to put in some work to make it beneficial for us. Some gals have mentioned that they don't want their info shared due to the level of attention they may receive; I'm sure you've seen where their SA profiles get deactivated for months on end. Since keeping their info close is the way that I choose to operate for the time being, I'll also refrain from asking you to share info privately if I'm not willing to share my SA finds in kind. I have had gals report being treated in all kinds of f*cked up ways by dudes on here who I've recommended or shared info. We all know that ho's fabricate aspects of the truth, but still, that some messed up stuff. When I have exchanged info in private messages, I usually set canary traps with bits of information so that if she approaches me with something that I "allegedly said", I'll know exactly who shared that nugget of info. When you see me chiming in about someone on SA that I happen to have seen, it's a guarantee that I have no intentions of seeing her again. Many of those gals are easily spooked anyway. It's the blatant disregard of Fight Club Rules that make me hesitant to put SA gals' (who don't consider themselves escorts, but come on) info out there like that when I've been burned many times over for the generosity. The game has truly changed and you often have to reevaluate your love for it.

Regular member or not, being an azzhole when a member goes out of his way to provide verifiable intel transcends membership status.

Stay vigilant. ,. ,

Milfman.

[Member #6269]

Excellent info. I recall that at NerdJohn has a lot of dating / hook-up app experience as well. If you guys (or other members) could coordinate and provide a roundup of those apps that have worked for you in this area and on your travels, that would be an immense benefit to the brethren. I'm not on any of those app and don't plan to be, but that may open up a wealth of possibilities for those disenchanted with the decline of SA an other arena. Keep pushing us forward.

Stay vigilant. ,. ,

Milfman.

I'm interested in other resources as well. Bumble was recommended by a friend that lives in Florida. Every time he comes to TN, he has a date within the hour. I'm not a tech expert and really don't know the ins and outs of other apps. What I like about Bumble, is you can set the distance you're willing to go, and it only shows you who is on-line at that moment. No endlessly browsing bio's, just the one that are near by and ready to go. Also, don't be discouraged if they say in their profile that they want a relationship. Especially if their not local. If all they want is a relationship why would they make themselves available in a town they don't live in. It's code for I'm a good girl, but want some attention. I'm pretty sure the one I met yesterday was married. She had a ring finger tan line, kept her phone close by, and didn't answer calls. You know, the same tricks we all use. Strangely enough, most of my encounters are early to mid-morning.

Good luck my brothers.

[MilfMan865]

Just thought I'd pass along my recent travel experience.

PSA.

I suggest you guys try Bumble. It's pretty easy to determine which ladies are DTF.

Excellent info. I recall that at NerdJohn has a lot of dating / hook-up app experience as well. If you guys (or other members) could coordinate and provide a roundup of those apps that have worked for you in this area and on your travels, that would be an immense benefit to the brethren. I'm not on any of those app and don't plan to be, but that may open up a wealth of possibilities for those disenchanted with the decline of SA an other arena. Keep pushing us forward.

Stay vigilant. ,. ,

Milfman.

[RollOneUp]

Is this site worth the price? I see some promise there but wanted to ask before spending the cash.

Tried it several years ago. Full of fake profiles. Never met anyone from there. Should be illegal to collect money and then knowingly load the site with fake profiles.

[Member #6269]

PSA.

I suggest you guys try Bumble. It's pretty easy to determine which ladies are DTF. They don't have a lot of unnecessary BS in their bio. I focus on the ones that are close by, but actually live in another town. They are usually here on business, or vacation and looking for a little action while they're here. Especially if they're in their 40's or even 50's. No transaction fee required, maybe just a couple of drinks. Unfortunately you'll have to find them on your own, they're not professionals or even UTR. They just want to get laid while on vacation.

Also, I don't pay for the upgrade on Bumble. Just swipe right on the ones I like and they make first contact and are usually quick to go to texting.

[NerdJohn]

Just got back from a trip to Southwest Florida. Not sure who said that South Florida was a monger paradise, but I ran into the same desolate wasteland down there that is up here. You've got your GPS sugar babies, except these ones are used to getting 4 Bens a meeting from all the snowbirds with disposable income. You've got your usual junkies that are a bargain if dipping into that pool is your thing. And then you've got the massage parlors. I didn't have any luck with any sugar babies, but I did receive an amazing massage with a bargain priced HE. I went for FS since the girl was younger than the kinds you usually find in parlors, but she wouldn't budge.

Just thought I'd pass along my recent travel experience.

[Skboy]

For us regular members finds like this is what open up our options to better our game because senior won't share info to regulars just base on out number of post, I know how expensive this game is, and is time and money invested on like any other hobby, I'm just trying to open up my menu not to offend senior members. Some of us don't have the resources to have 1000 + posts on our profile. But we the little guys take the risk either way for the love the game. That's my 2 cents on the subject. Thanks.

That last line I just LMFAO on that one.

Regular member senior member makes no different to me It's what he brings to the table and is willing to share to other Knox forum members.

But it's ok plenty of kitty in the SA barrel. Enjoy you new find.

[JohnDoeMain]

Thanks, that's the info I'm looking for. Damn, it's hard to find some extra pussy once you're married.

I have used AFF off and on for several (10+) years. I have always been a free member. Over the past 2 years or so the number of flakes on the site has increased exponentially.

My latest profile name is actually my phone number. LOL. (artfully disguised I might add) Figure I'd try and beat them at their own game. Trouble is after nearly a year the only people that have contacted me on my phone are 2 crossdressing men.

Looking at the website however my profile has allegedly been viewed by no fewer than 80 people. Trouble is nearly every single one are from locations that are hundreds of not thousands of miles away. It's plainly obvious these profiles are fake and intended to lure free members like myself into buying a full membership in order to "contact" these women. There are several local profiles that look legit, but like you being a married solo player has its drawbacks. There are just a many single guys to choose from and the sincere ladies are much more likely to pick them. Either that or I'm just a hideous monster.

I'm keeping my profile active on the off chance a real and sincere lady (or couple) might see it and contact me, but in my opinion AFF has become just another money pit intended to separate men form their money.

[InFromBehind]

I paid for it last year. IMO, not worth it. No one can answer unless they pay also. Unlike SB and SA the females have to pay on AFF.

Thanks, that's the info I'm looking for. Damn, it's hard to find some extra pussy once you're married.

[VolBoater]

Is this site worth the price? I see some promise there but wanted to ask before spending the cash.

I paid for it last year. IMO, not worth it. No one can answer unless they pay also. Unlike SB and SA the females have to pay on AFF.

[InFromBehind]

Is this site worth the price? I see some promise there but wanted to ask before spending the cash.

[NerdJohn]

Short rant, but I've dipped my feet into the sugar bowl again. Most girls don't message me back. The ones who do give me this horse shit that sex is completely off the table. Do girls really think guys join these sites so they can find a friend they'll give cash to? My patience has grown so thin with this crap that it's an instant block from me. I'm done even trying to convince them otherwise or wading through their delusional nonsense. They're not going to be the ones who are going to tell me how it's going to be. I have the cash. If they want to play, they're playing by My rules.