Escort Reports

[Taz41]

I'm truely touched that you guys spent so much time thinking my situation over and taking the time to offer your opinions. I want to assure you I'm not about to run out and liquidate my IRA to split it amongst my ATFs or with a random 20 YO spinner. I have no illusions about serious relationships with any of these girls. I was merely acknowledging that with my personality and inexperience with the hobby I find myself caring more than is probably healthy. I'll get over it.

Meanwhile, I'll be in the hunt tomorrow for an early 20's spinner. Wish me luck on my c*nt hunt.

I wish you luck with that hunt and hopefully you'll report. But, IDK the message got through. I'm not myself speaking about liquidating IRA funds. Has nothing to do with IRA funds. They get all the appointments they want LOL. You're not getting it if you think they care about your money. They don't need that.

I was speaking to someone who said they were new on what I saw in what they were saying both about themselves and about what they thought a regular was. I'm not going to share the specifics I've had with regs (and I've always tried to stay with escorts that were on a higher end as regs, not to brag, but to share). But, I didn't say a word about your money.

I've largely saw 5 regulars myself during my past decade plus. Yeah, I could and did care about them. But, you eventually see the same ways they can and will abuse that, and if you aren't completely honest about it up front. They'll expose it. They have 12+ regular dicks and 3-4 exit plan dicks. If you aren't an exit plan dick, you are there to pay the bills and you're going to be dealt with. You don't seem to be able to think to that level to start, which is a problem. The ones I saw wouldn't even take extra money... that's how little they care about the extra money after a point! They wanted a stable of "guys that cared" that they didn't care about, to the very last point you can imagine that meaning once they don't want you around.

The one went in the hardest, seemed the most normal and down-to-earth. The most petite and sex-driven one of them all. Went from that to the most psychotic and I'll just keep the rest of that story to myself. Have no doubt that they are all, at all times, wondering what they'll have to do if you may even start to look like you're "too concerned" bc you're there for their regular needs while they need them and only until that time. And also. Have no doubts. That they are ready to dump all their shit on the nicest, most caring guy that comes along. And, as I said, to the final extent of what that may mean. As I said, if you want a relationship, be honest, bc you seem to be setting that up. Again, I'm not talking SWers here or some new girl bc I avoided new girls... they're also about the money and will drop a reg who started at a low-rate with the same violence just bc their rate goes up. Always found it easier to pay quality to start.

This post took no thought whatsoever. You said you were going to care and "it was a process" to not see it as a transaction. My point was simple - It's not to them... why isn't it to you? Perhaps you just don't know. Well, hope you are wise enough to listen, since you asked.

[LotharioPK]

I agree with everything you said. Especially that a SB will manipulate him and bleed him dry if he can't grasp and continually hold onto the fact it's a paid-for fantasy. No matter what other window dressing is involved she's there for only one thing. Remove the money from the equation and she's history as fast as one can flick a light switch. So my advice would be to forget the SB idea entirely unless he's very well off and doesn't mind losing his shirt for a pretend gf.

Sorry Lothario, but that's the reality. Whichever way you go, every single day, take a step back from your emotions and ask yourself "Would she be here without the money, and am I really getting what I'm paying for?" Good luck.

I'm truely touched that you guys spent so much time thinking my situation over and taking the time to offer your opinions. I want to assure you I'm not about to run out and liquidate my IRA to split it amongst my ATFs or with a random 20 YO spinner. I have no illusions about serious relationships with any of these girls. I was merely acknowledging that with my personality and inexperience with the hobby I find myself caring more than is probably healthy. I'll get over it.

Meanwhile, I'll be in the hunt tomorrow for an early 20's spinner. Wish me luck on my c*nt hunt.

[LionGuy09]

Visit two weeks ago. Not bad, not great. A little awkward with getting right down to business, maybe she was in a hurry? Overall looks are pretty solid. Tall but that's okay with me. Everything covered. Nice location, more Walled Lake than Novi. Looking to find something on the regular in the Novi area, so the search continues. Seems even if $$$ isn't the limiting factor, steady and reliable is hard to come by these days. Stay safe.

[Kinger19]

The Seventh Heaven agency. Must be a member to really look their site over. https://www.t7h.net/home.

Once you book one of the girls you have access as a "member".

[Wiggles0923]

Yep, could not find the ad. I hope she reaches back out. Even if it is just one more time, I want to smash that puss.

Was she the girl from SugarDaddyMeet? Out of Ann Arbor?

[WednesdayFun]

Last time she wanted more customers but was about to leave for the clinic. Also I was really selfish and wanted her to myself. For $250 I was living a dream with that girl. If she responds to my text I will ask if I can pass out her digest, as I am not active now.

Love scouting leads. Maybe it can be a side gig like a personal shopper.

Was she the girl from SugarDaddyMeet? Out of Ann Arbor?

[OaklandT309]

I seem to come and go here a lot recently and I wanted to provide an update. I have tried reaching out to Ingrid to see if she is back. She must be at the mental hospital still, or quit the lifestyle for good. I will miss that sweet 18 yo, I'd verified pussy. Oh my god it was so tight, and her spinner body. I have not been able to find a replacement but I shall keep searching.

She must be at the mental hospital still? If mental hospital isn't another term for drug rehab that's reason enough to stay away permanently IMHO. It's likely that her young life and escort lifestyle put her there. Going back into the lifestyle is like putting a recovering addict into a halfway house that's doubles as a crack house.

[Wiggles0923]

Sounds amazing. Hope you'll share if you do or if she's back!

Last time she wanted more customers but was about to leave for the clinic. Also I was really selfish and wanted her to myself. For $250 I was living a dream with that girl. If she responds to my text I will ask if I can pass out her digest, as I am not active now.

Love scouting leads. Maybe it can be a side gig like a personal shopper.

[OaklandT309]

Search the forums for Courtney. If I recall, she has has some not so good reviews.

It took a while to backtrack to a discussion with a link (jeez, why don't people add a link or screen cap? Nearly every girl in town shares the same first name with someone else and some change their name and number often too). She sounds like a psycho.

[Taz41]

I seem to come and go here a lot recently and I wanted to provide an update. I have tried reaching out to Ingrid to see if she is back. She must be at the mental hospital still, or quit the lifestyle for good. I will miss that sweet 18 yo, I'd verified pussy. Oh my god it was so tight, and her spinner body. I have not been able to find a replacement but I shall keep searching.

Sounds amazing. Hope you'll share if you do or if she's back!

[Wiggles0923]

I seem to come and go here a lot recently and I wanted to provide an update. I have tried reaching out to Ingrid to see if she is back. She must be at the mental hospital still, or quit the lifestyle for good. I will miss that sweet 18 yo, I'd verified pussy. Oh my god it was so tight, and her spinner body. I have not been able to find a replacement but I shall keep searching.

[OaklandT309]

You're looking for a relationship even though you know you shouldn't be, you know you aren't going to get the 20 y / o you want and you don't want the 60 y / o, so it sounds to me like you're giving yourself a reason to not accept that reality by saying there's some sort of process that you'll always be stuck in, even though you've lived nearly 60 years on this planet and you that's not how life works.

It's not a "compartmentalization process" to realize she's seeing you for money. That's what it is. If you can't (or don't want to) accept that, then perhaps you should be more open about what you want for what you are doing, rather than pretending it will be something you'll accept some day, when we and especially she knows otherwise.

It could be a SB fits your needs. IDK what you're talking about 'skin thickening' though. It sounds like you're just allowing yourself to live in fantasy land where you may end up with the girl. Let me share that any 20 something seeing a 60 y/o man even for pay won't respect that dishonesty or find it attractive, so you may as well transition your thinking or be more honest about what you're looking for right now. They will figure out what you're looking for pretty quickly and probably exploit it in their own ways, whether you know it or not. You're an open book here so I'm sure women will have no problem realizing they can get what they want from you, let them see this weakness. Some of the sweetest, most popular ones on here will and, trust me, they aren't in any illusion like you seem to be about the relationship, and you had better get real about what many of them know about the ways that work to get rid of the heartbroken old man. I'm speaking as someone that has had end it with many regulars, and the result when you cut them off from guaranteed funds the response isn't always "I hope you have a wonderful life. " You are smart enough to know many had daddy issues; guess who often gets to step in for the abuse they never got to give to daddy. If you're not up to accepting the reality of that and keep choosing to go into these things not being honest about the higher degree of attachment it's pretty clear you want, then go do the SB thing and pay for that relationship you want would be my advice.

I agree with everything you said. Especially that a SB will manipulate him and bleed him dry if he can't grasp and continually hold onto the fact it's a paid-for fantasy. No matter what other window dressing is involved she's there for only one thing. Remove the money from the equation and she's history as fast as one can flick a light switch. So my advice would be to forget the SB idea entirely unless he's very well off and doesn't mind losing his shirt for a pretend gf.

Sorry Lothario, but that's the reality. Whichever way you go, every single day, take a step back from your emotions and ask yourself "Would she be here without the money, and am I really getting what I'm paying for?" Good luck.

[OaklandT309]

300 for 1/2 hr. Not cheap. But AL OT of fun. Nice hotel in novi.

10/ min worth fun? With a GFE provider I'm usually not done eating their pussy in the first 1/2 hr. LOL.

[OaklandT309]

So some concerns I've had about getting into this side of the hobby:

One time I got a massage and got pulled over leaving the parlor I didn't get a ticket or arrested and pretty much refused to answer any questions. Nothing happened. I was in a storefront business so I didn't sweat it.

Obviously that's a way different situation than leaving a provider at a hotel. Have any of you guys got pulled over after? Can they send a warrant out later if they suspected you of anything even if they didn't write you up then like if the girl gets busted and she tries ratting you out? Or do they need to catch you in the act?

How do you handle people trying to dash or rob you? Is it smarter just to let the cash ride or to not back down from it?

I've never been accosted by the po-po before or after. You're not going to get a warrant in the mail down the road. Unless they have mics and cameras in the room and you're babbling about paying her for sex they have no proof you did. If you're worried the cops are taking license plate numbers just park somewhere else and walk over. She isn't going to rat you out; it would be her admitting to prostitution.

If a chick runs, let her go. There's probably a pimp with a gun nearby. If you are literally robbed then it's your call whether to report it to the police. But then you got to explain something believable why you were there in the first place. Good luck with that.

Caution is smart, but don't over-think it. Scouring these boards for known, legit, cool providers is your best course of action. If you see an ad that catches your eye Google their phone numbers to find other ads. Use reverse google image search to check if the pics are only in escort ads or lifted from somewhere else. If you find the same pics in ads in a dozen different states she's likely fake. Lastly, copy / paste the link here and ask about her.

Good luck.

[Taz41]

I think you've just described the skin thickening / compartmentalization process I need to through. Meanwhile, I'm still exploring and currently looking for a really socially inappropriate (but legal) age-gap date. I'm turning 60 soon, whatcha got?

I scrolled through some of these. Even though you say you've "got real concerns" about an attachment, I don't buy that and she won't either. You say you're not looking for a relationship, but you're making it sound like you are. It sounds to me like you're giving yourself a reason to not accept that reality by saying there's some sort of process that you'll always be stuck in, even though you've lived nearly 60 years on this planet and you that's not how life works.

It's not a "compartmentalization process" to realize she's seeing you for money. That's what it is. If you can't (or don't want to) accept that, then perhaps you should be more open about what you want for what you are doing, rather than pretending it will be something you'll accept some day, when we and especially she knows otherwise. She has lots of regulars. She's seen them all more than you. She has no issue with it. You do and seem to be saying she'll develop one?

It could be a SB fits your needs. IDK what you're talking about 'skin thickening' though. It sounds like you're just allowing yourself to live in fantasy land where you may end up with the girl being attached to you. Let me share that any 20 something seeing a 60 y/o man even for pay won't respect what you've written here or find it attractive, so you may as well transition your thinking or be more honest about the issue being with you right now, and I would suggest it's you're not being honest about "being concerned you won't develop think skin." If that's the case... dude, don't go there with these women. They will figure out what you're looking like we all have quickly and exploit it in their own ways, whether you know it or not. You're an open book here so I'm sure women will have no problem realizing they can get what they want from you, let them see this weakness. Some of the sweetest, most popular ones on here will and, trust me, they aren't under any illusion like you seem to be about the relationship, and you had better get real about what many of them know about the ways that work to get rid of the heartbroken old man. I'm speaking as someone that has had end it with many regulars, and the result when you cut them off from guaranteed funds the response isn't always "I hope you have a wonderful life. " Every one of these girls (especially the ones I suspect you want to see) has had a ton of regulars. They've had a ton lie about "I don't want a relationship." They've had many turn into stalkers and worse. If you think they're delusional about attachments, I guarantee that you need to rethink that. They have very real experiences with all sorts of attachment and they often will be a very different person that is in your head when they want it ended.

You are smart enough to know many had daddy issues; guess who often gets to step in for the abuse they never got to give to daddy? If they see you as being connected and want to end it, while you play this game out of "I'm just not compartmentalizing this" fantasy... good luck, hope she isn't dating someone and telling him about guys giving her problems, leaves her phone unlocked, etc. If you're not up to accepting the reality of that and keep choosing to go into these things not being honest about the higher degree of attachment it's pretty clear you want, then go do the SB thing and pay for that relationship you want would be my advice. Otherwise, stop lying about needing to compartmentalize an hourly rate.