Sugar Daddy Sites

[Uncountable]

These are exactly the kinds of women that led me to SA in the first place. They are both real from my investigation. I am tempted to re-subscribe just to try my luck with these women; I know without a shred of a doubt that they-especially the Asian one-will ask for at least $800, and honestly, I'll pay it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/aaa95...7-25f8f2e745fe

https://www.seeking.com/member/d164f...1-126cc06e1828

[FirstClass1]

I'd offer that no one, least of all law enforcement and the media, will care that you asked for her identification, took a picture of it, got her SSN or anything else if you get popped for putting your pecker in a girl below the age of majority. Your life will be ruined, and saying she lied won't be much of a defense.

Agreed, that's a situation no one wants to be in. It's a lot easier to accurately confirm a girl's age and identity today than say 30 years ago, thanks to people search engines, social media, plus knowing what to look for during preliminary interactions. Porn producers today shoot content with 18+ year old all the time, and there have been no major incidents in a long while.

That being said, always trust your instincts. If there's any reason to doubt, never go through with it.

[FirstClass1]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3ec5...a-af42720e4b95

I spoke with this young lady on SB. She straight out said she is looking for a PPM type of arrangement and said her average offer is 500. Who out there is just offering 500 to her and these other young women? Please stop. You're making it too hard on the rest of us.

Anyway, I told her that was out of my range. A few days later she messaged me that she had a friend that would take 300. I inquired about her friend, but she never replied. I will probably rant later about how annoying the lack of communication is from these girls.

Wow. She's not pretty at all. She can take 100 or leave it.

[TheHuntsman]

Review of Sugar Daddy Sites:

Most of the posts on this forum are in regards to the use of Seeking Arrangement (SA), but since I was banned at the end of last year I've used both Sugar Daddy Meet (SDM) and Secret Benefits (SB). In no way am I a professional reviewer, but I will share my experiences with both these sites.

Sugar Daddy Meet (SDM).

Pros:

1. The billing process and overall cost. It's a monthly subscription that you can subscribe to thru the Google Play Store. I believe the price was about 64/ month. Less than SA's fee of 99/ mo. No other hidden fees.

Cons:

1. Must pay monthly subscription to access full features such as browsing profiles in your area. Without a monthly subscription you are not able to filter profiles and are basically left with browsing thru all profiles in all of Southern Cali.

2. Lack of real women. There are a lot of profiles but most seem fake. You will notice many profiles where they use both a first and last name. No one on any kind of dating site ever uses a first and last name as their profile name. It's very suspect.

Experience:

I met a few ladies from the site so they are out there and are willing to meet and have a good time. On SA you will get a few messages from girls located in other countries or will notice them adding you to their favorites. On SDM instead of them being from out of the country they are usually from out of state (or so they claim). I also received a lot of messages from girls trying to set up online relationships and even going so far as asking me to send them money after replying to their message. As if we have now begun interacting with each other LOL.

Secret Benefits (SB).

Pros:

1. Verified video feature. On SA you are able to have your profile verified thru your social media. For SB a profile can be verified thru them holding up a picture with the date and SB written on it or in a video. The video feature is great because you get a better sense of what they look like instead of a picture with great lighting, good angles or a filter.

Cons:

1. Billing process and extra costs. Instead of a monthly subscription you have to buy tokens. They are sold as 200 tokens for 89,500 for 169 and one more tier but can't remember the cost. If you see a profile you like and decide to send a message that will cost you 10 tokens. Once your message is sent you can exchange unlimited messages with this person. If someone initiates communication with you first it's locked and will cost 10 tokens to read it. Again afterwards unlimited messages with this person. Like SA there are private albums. To access a private album you have to request it and once granted permission it costs 10 tokens to view it. You can also send and receive photos while messaging, but again this costs tokens. If a picture is sent to you it's locked and you must unlock it by using 10 tokens, BUT if you send a picture there is no notice that it just cost you 10 tokens.

Experience:

Like SDM there are real girls on there and I have met a few and had a good time. Although I am very suspicious of the site and its costs. I receive quiet a number of messages from girls, but once I reply to them they do not continue the conversation. Also I have never requested to view anyone's private photos, but almost every girl who I have messaged has sent me their private photos to view. Again to view these photos it's another 10 tokens. Basically I receive a message from a girl. Unlock it for 10 tokens. Send reply to them. Nothing. But then receive permission to view their private photos for 10 more tokens. Or if I initiate the communication I will again receive permission to view their private photos, but with no response to my message. Also I notice in a majority of profiles on SB the girls say they are looking for weekly dinner dates, shopping and mentoring. It feels like I see that more on SB than on SA or SDM. Not sure why the girls on SB seem to use the same phrases. Again it makes me suspicious of the site.

Overall I still prefer SA to SDM and SB. Although there is an overlap of girls using all 3 sites, but the girls always seem to be more active on SA than their other profiles. Anyway that's my somewhat brief experience with using those sites. Sorry for all the posts recently but it's been a boring weekend for me.

[TheHuntsman]

My apologies to the group. I probably should've done this to begin with instead of making multiple posts. Below are a few brief interactions I've had with girls from SA and SB. Most of these girls seem to be asking for 500 which again is beyond my budget. I hope what little information I share helps when deciding on who to see.

https://www.seeking.com/member/18db7...d-0389e7cd82b6

This is Bri. She used to live in Anaheim and currently lives out in the valley after having her bf's baby. Here is my review from my experience with her. Looks wise From her pics you can see she is a bit chubby. She was a little thick back when I used to see her, but obviously she put on additional weight from having a baby. Performance wise she was kinda lame. I only fucked her 1 x but received multiple blow jobs from her (which she allowed me to record). She doesn't like the taste of cum so no cumming in her mouth and she can be kind of a whiner when she begins to taste your pre-cum. With all that being said the only reason I saw her so many times was that, at the time, she was okay with only receiving 40 for head. This was no rush, chilling, talking, making out. So that made it worth it for me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3db8...e-4a7607bc5e76

Flaca. I spoke with her for awhile but did not meet. She is very political and supports BLM and the trans movement and other social causes. She jokingly asked if I would still like talking to her if she had a penis to which I said that I like my women to have a vagina. Her response was that you don't have to have a vagina to be a woman. She doesn't believe in shaving so she does not shave her pits or her vagina, but is willing to shave if you pay. She is also looking for 500 per meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d867f...e-8cbabea7e0d3

Anna. She's been on SA for a few years. Actually think she looked prettier a few years ago. Is only able to meet during the day on the weekdays do to school, work and being married. Is asking for 400.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5b310...9-24749a177d02

Jess messaged me on SB and said her minimum is 500.

Came across Jess's IG and SC. I'm curious if she will ask for Jess on there vs sa and sb.

[TheHuntsman]

My common refrain, but if you are negotiating w / these girls online, you will get their 'escort' rate. If you really do want to treat them like an escort, that is what you should expect. If you are going to treat them like a SB, flatter them, promise them some future that may or may not exist, raise their hopes, get them thinking they might even enjoy spending time w / you, inside or outside of the sack, then you have a hope to get a more reasonable amount. I always do my negotiating face-to-face, people hate rejection, their ask will be less, and their take will be less. I know that profile, I've pretty much ignored her, she has been intermittent in even replying when I have messaged her. To me, that indicates she isn't really a pro, maybe she is uncertain if she could really go through w / it, and a high ask is one way to ensure she can engage in the fantasy of being a sugar baby without really having to confront the reality of what she's up to.

I believe she is a pro. I told her I was looking for something fun and discrete and mutually beneficial. She then said ppm. I see you're also experiencing the huge delays in replying to messages. Yesterday a girl asked me to go see her and I said we haven't even talked. I'd prefer to get to know her a little before meeting. She then sent me her phone number and said text her. Sent her a text and nothing LOL.

[ShowMeHow23]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3ec5...a-af42720e4b95

I spoke with this young lady on SB. She straight out said she is looking for a PPM type of arrangement and said her average offer is 500. Who out there is just offering 500 to her and these other young women? Please stop. You're making it too hard on the rest of us.

Anyway, I told her that was out of my range. A few days later she messaged me that she had a friend that would take 300. I inquired about her friend, but she never replied. I will probably rant later about how annoying the lack of communication is from these girls.

Someone must be extremely desperate to want to pay $500 for that. I'm at $400 with one of my current SB's but at least that comes with all access pass and now, recordings. Chick is down for it all now.

[TheHuntsman]

My apologies to the group. I probably should've done this to begin with instead of making multiple posts. Below are a few brief interactions I've had with girls from SA and SB. Most of these girls seem to be asking for 500 which again is beyond my budget. I hope what little information I share helps when deciding on who to see.

https://www.seeking.com/member/18db7...d-0389e7cd82b6

This is Bri. She used to live in Anaheim and currently lives out in the valley after having her bf's baby. Here is my review from my experience with her. Looks wise From her pics you can see she is a bit chubby. She was a little thick back when I used to see her, but obviously she put on additional weight from having a baby. Performance wise she was kinda lame. I only fucked her 1 x but received multiple blow jobs from her (which she allowed me to record). She doesn't like the taste of cum so no cumming in her mouth and she can be kind of a whiner when she begins to taste your pre-cum. With all that being said the only reason I saw her so many times was that, at the time, she was okay with only receiving 40 for head. This was no rush, chilling, talking, making out. So that made it worth it for me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3db8...e-4a7607bc5e76

Flaca. I spoke with her for awhile but did not meet. She is very political and supports BLM and the trans movement and other social causes. She jokingly asked if I would still like talking to her if she had a penis to which I said that I like my women to have a vagina. Her response was that you don't have to have a vagina to be a woman. She doesn't believe in shaving so she does not shave her pits or her vagina, but is willing to shave if you pay. She is also looking for 500 per meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d867f...e-8cbabea7e0d3

Anna. She's been on SA for a few years. Actually think she looked prettier a few years ago. Is only able to meet during the day on the weekdays do to school, work and being married. Is asking for 400.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5b310...9-24749a177d02

Jess messaged me on SB and said her minimum is 500.

https://www.seeking.com/member/18dad...c-8c49ddedd82b

Lyssa. Spoke with her on SB. Her SB profile doesn't say platonic like her SA profile, but yeah definitely platonic and a waste of time. She told me her bf is okay with her having an SD as long as she doesn't send them nudes or any sex. I don't know what the hell they think is in it for the SD then, but yeah waste of time.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1321a...d-613be7b10972

Maggie. Spoke to her last year and she wanted 300. From the private pics she sent me she is a bit heavier than the photos online. Never pulled the trigger, although I had a weird incident with her. As I said never met up with her, but then contacted her online again after some time. Told her I still had her number and she said to text her. I text her and said, "Hi Maggie it's X from X" and the message I got back was how did you get "her" phone number?

https://www.seeking.com/member/63552...2-d8e7caa36265

Lucy. Met up with her back when she was 18. She was a lot of fun! I haven't spoken to her in a few years, but at the time she was trying to get her GED and then move out of state. She is a bit of a chola / young hoodlum type, but as I said a lot of fun. Don't know what she is asking for now. If her price is reasonable then I would highly recommend her.

[FarFarAway]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3ec5...a-af42720e4b95

I spoke with this young lady on SB. She straight out said she is looking for a PPM type of arrangement and said her average offer is 500. Who out there is just offering 500 to her and these other young women? Please stop. You're making it too hard on the rest of us.

Anyway, I told her that was out of my range. A few days later she messaged me that she had a friend that would take 300. I inquired about her friend, but she never replied. I will probably rant later about how annoying the lack of communication is from these girls.

My common refrain, but if you are negotiating w / these girls online, you will get their 'escort' rate. If you really do want to treat them like an escort, that is what you should expect. If you are going to treat them like a SB, flatter them, promise them some future that may or may not exist, raise their hopes, get them thinking they might even enjoy spending time w / you, inside or outside of the sack, then you have a hope to get a more reasonable amount. I always do my negotiating face-to-face, people hate rejection, their ask will be less, and their take will be less. I know that profile, I've pretty much ignored her, she has been intermittent in even replying when I have messaged her. To me, that indicates she isn't really a pro, maybe she is uncertain if she could really go through w / it, and a high ask is one way to ensure she can engage in the fantasy of being a sugar baby without really having to confront the reality of what she's up to.

[TheHuntsman]

https://www.seeking.com/member/927f4...8-32652ad2410a

This is Bunny aka Natalie. This is a relatively new profile, but she has been on SA before. Her profile says she is Asian, but I could've sworn she was Latina. Anyway, we never met, but we did text for awhile and I would say to be cautious with her. When we first text she was asking for 300 and her profile only had a pic of her face. I asked for a body pic, but she said no and that when we meet I still have to pay her 300 even if I don't like her body. I eventually got body pics from her (nudes) and she has a nice little body actually. At the time she didn't have a car and said I would have to pick her up or uber her back and forth. She has a lot of drama in home life and is always hinting at the she needs some help even without meeting. She had told me that she had gotten into legal trouble and had to pay her bail or court fees. She went on SA looking for help and someone was nice enough to pay all her fees and didn't want anything in exchange but to be a mentor for her. Fast forward the guy wanted to meet up with her and role play daddy / daughter and she didn't like that and cut them off even after he paid off all her court fees.

[TheHuntsman]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3ec5...a-af42720e4b95

I spoke with this young lady on SB. She straight out said she is looking for a PPM type of arrangement and said her average offer is 500. Who out there is just offering 500 to her and these other young women? Please stop. You're making it too hard on the rest of us.

Anyway, I told her that was out of my range. A few days later she messaged me that she had a friend that would take 300. I inquired about her friend, but she never replied. I will probably rant later about how annoying the lack of communication is from these girls.

[RogerOver]

I am very selective of my girls, preferring them to be young and beautiful, so this is a common risk for me. I will date girls in their mid to late 20's if they're very beautiful, but never past their early 30's. Gorgeous 18 year old dimes are my absolute ideal.

There is always a danger of minors pretending to be older than they are, so I *always* card them during preliminary conversations. Even if a POT claims to be in their early 20's, and *especially* when they state to be 18 or 19.

Early on in our texting, I'll ask them to send me a photo of their government issued identification, and if they cannot provide it, I don't move forward under any circumstances. It is better to take care of this at the beginning, rather than risk meeting a minor in any setting.

Many girls will cross out sensitive data such as their address, but I require their photo and date of birth remain visible. I'll also double check the identification number to be sure it's not a fake. Once everything looks kosher, I will firm up plans for a date.

I highly recommend everyone incorporate age verification when seeking out POTs. There are millions of delicious girls of lawful age to choose from. There is no need to put our freedom and our lives at risk.

I'd offer that no one, least of all law enforcement and the media, will care that you asked for her identification, took a picture of it, got her SSN or anything else if you get popped for putting your pecker in a girl below the age of majority. Your life will be ruined, and saying she lied won't be much of a defense.

[TheHuntsman]

https://www.seeking.com/member/aae70...b-9539a75d66ac

Avoid the girl in the profile. I talked to her from SDM and she basically just wants free money. I'll try to sum up my interactions as best as I can. I messaged her on SDM and she gave me her phone number. We had very brief conversation that consisted of "hi" "how are you?" "you're x old? She told me she hadn't had a manicure in a long time. I told her if we met up she would have money to do it. I'm not sure if it was at this point but I did make an offer of how much money to get together. A day or two passes and she texts me that she is free during the day and we should both go get mani-pedis. I state that I work during the day. A few days pass and she texts me that she needs to make a credit card payment and needs help doing it. She tells me it's only 300+ dollars and can I give her the money. I tell her if she comes over and we get together she will have the money to pay for it. I decide for kicks to text her a few days later that I think she is very hot and am very attracted to her. She said it doesn't seem like it since I haven't sent her any gifts or tips yet. I asked her gifts or tips for what?

On SDM you are allowed to leave public comments on someone's profile. I saw that another person left comments that all she did was keep asking him for pics and he believed the profile was fake. Her profile isn't fake as I did find her IG account on accident and I did mention something from her IG page to her to which she reached,"how did you find my IG?

Again avoid her. She is just another girl asking for money for nothing. IDK how the game got so out of wack with women expecting men to just randomly send them money.

[FirstClass1]

I never would have gone to the mall to meet her if she couldn't prove she was over 18.

Seriously, trying to bang chicks as close to their 18th birthday as possible is fraught with danger imo. I like to stick to drinking age and above.

I am very selective of my girls, preferring them to be young and beautiful, so this is a common risk for me. I will date girls in their mid to late 20's if they're very beautiful, but never past their early 30's. Gorgeous 18 year old dimes are my absolute ideal.

There is always a danger of minors pretending to be older than they are, so I *always* card them during preliminary conversations. Even if a POT claims to be in their early 20's, and *especially* when they state to be 18 or 19.

Early on in our texting, I'll ask them to send me a photo of their government issued identification, and if they cannot provide it, I don't move forward under any circumstances. It is better to take care of this at the beginning, rather than risk meeting a minor in any setting.

Many girls will cross out sensitive data such as their address, but I require their photo and date of birth remain visible. I'll also double check the identification number to be sure it's not a fake. Once everything looks kosher, I will firm up plans for a date.

I highly recommend everyone incorporate age verification when seeking out POTs. There are millions of delicious girls of lawful age to choose from. There is no need to put our freedom and our lives at risk.

[PriscillaM]

Had an interesting experience with a supposed 18 year old.

Hurried texting, she sent me sexy pictures (she looked young). I said meet me at the Mall. Within an hour, she showed up and was standing at a designated spot at the mall.

Lots of red flags, The vibe was off. I texted her to send me a picture of her I'd so I can verify she is 18. She says she does not have an I'd.

Too risky for me. I drove away without a meet.

How would you handle it?

I will fuck just about anything these days. There is always a way to find out if a girl is under age 18. Ask her for her ssn. No one under 25 even knows their own ssn. Or ask them who the president is. No one under 30 knows.