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[Agoraphobe]

Anyone got anything on any of these?

https://www.seeking.com/member/369fc...5-d9e26bce946e

https://www.seeking.com/member/a8129...5-bd3311b601f9

https://www.seeking.com/member/ecba4...e-994da982f2f1

[NewInChi]

I am sure everyone's "YMMV" but can you share some links on seeking of young SBs you have taken to motels? I've never had success with motels. They hear the name and either make an excuse or if in person they just flat out say no.

Also most you g hot SBs are in the city. Very rarely do I find them in the burbs.

Any input from anyone on this?

You have plenty of options. You are where I was several years ago, when I despaired of having no private CC. Still don't have one. Does my SO look at the charges or statements often? Not much. Could she, for some unforeseen reason? Yes! So I never take the chance. But I did find ways around it, using cash, and haven't really had too much an issue. But you won't be able to stay in top tier places. You need to find places that accept cash for the room AND either 1.) require no security deposit, or 2.) accept cash for security deposit. Most the time, you will be relegated to 1 star places which require no security deposits, like M6 or Red Roof. (I avoid independent dumps or hourly notels.) The next step up is 2 star and even some 3 star that will accept cash for the room and require deposit, but will accept cash for deposit. The deposit at these places will be $50 to $200 paid up front, when checking in. Although I have had a few waive the deposit when they see me. (The benefit of being a neatly dressed old white guy I guess. LOL).

I do Motel 6's a lot. Most are clean and seem to be well run. Cash for room, no security deposit required. The drawback is the clientele, sometimes fringy type people stay there. You may need to walk through a cloud of smoke at the entrance, as you pass smoking guests on your way in. LOL. And you may pass someone walking a giant Bull Mastiff in the hallway. All to be expected. But it may scare some SBs though. But mostly I haven't had a problem. Most the time, I will meet them in the parking lot and walk with them to the room, which makes it feel safer for them. These things can only be a problem in the beginning with a new SB, though. I just joke about it and try to make it fun.

[HarryMcHardon]

I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.

You have plenty of options. You are where I was several years ago, when I despaired of having no private CC. Still don't have one. Does my SO look at the charges or statements often? Not much. Could she, for some unforeseen reason? Yes! So I never take the chance. But I did find ways around it, using cash, and haven't really had too much an issue. But you won't be able to stay in top tier places. You need to find places that accept cash for the room AND either 1.) require no security deposit, or 2.) accept cash for security deposit. Most the time, you will be relegated to 1 star places which require no security deposits, like M6 or Red Roof. (I avoid independent dumps or hourly notels.) The next step up is 2 star and even some 3 star that will accept cash for the room and require deposit, but will accept cash for deposit. The deposit at these places will be $50 to $200 paid up front, when checking in. Although I have had a few waive the deposit when they see me. (The benefit of being a neatly dressed old white guy I guess. LOL).

I do Motel 6's a lot. Most are clean and seem to be well run. Cash for room, no security deposit required. The drawback is the clientele, sometimes fringy type people stay there. You may need to walk through a cloud of smoke at the entrance, as you pass smoking guests on your way in. LOL. And you may pass someone walking a giant Bull Mastiff in the hallway. All to be expected. But it may scare some SBs though. But mostly I haven't had a problem. Most the time, I will meet them in the parking lot and walk with them to the room, which makes it feel safer for them. These things can only be a problem in the beginning with a new SB, though. I just joke about it and try to make it fun.

Plenty of Red Roofs and also accept cash and no deposit. I have also found some Super 8's, Days Inns, Comfort Inns and even some higher level type places will accept cash for room also – but these need up to $200 up front for security deposit Never had a problem getting my deposit returned. You just have to call around and ask to see what their cash policy is. Also in general, in high end and urban areas, it's more difficult to find these, while in rural and poorer areas, easier to find hotels that accept cash.

Many hotels say they will accept cash but only upon check-out, they want your CC when checking in. No fn way. I don't want some knucklehead hotel employee accidentally charging my card. Of course, they'll say this charge can be reversed, but can you trust that transaction will disappear? Or will it be debit appear to cancel it out, where both transactions stay on the statement? Not worth taking a chance on. I have never given a motel / hotel my CC#, ever. And won't!!

NOW – does it affect the quality level of SB's I get? Probably. But I don't go for the high end types anyway. I've had plenty of fun with young hot SBs in these motels though, and that's what this is all about!

[Alfonsus]

I tried to contact her but no response.

She is online everyday. I am curious. Anyone have experience with this girl?

Any info on this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/67e43...f-68bddb6379e7.

She looks familiar. Friend of mine said she offered BBFS.

[Agoraphobe]

Well there's a Pakistani girl out of Skokie? I'm sure one of the guys here can help you with her link LOL. I had met her before covid started so not sure how she is lately. Prior post I saw described as village bicycle.

Here ya go. https://www.seeking.com/member/d55d9...1-2ef5da11d499.

LOL I feel bad for whatever dude her parents end up arrange marrying her off to.

[TimeForPlay10]

Talked a bunch, finally set a date to meet. And I got ghosted the day of.

Messaged back / forth for about a week. She even confirmed the night before. Completely ghosted the day of meet.

[JustinFields]

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[GetOnUrKnees]

I'm wondering if anyone had any experience with South asian / Indian girls on seeking. It's been on my bucket list.

Well there's a Pakistani girl out of Skokie? I'm sure one of the guys here can help you with her link LOL. I had met her before covid started so not sure how she is lately. Prior post I saw described as village bicycle.

[ChrisHansen92]

She is getting free money from simps. Not you or me tho. A Seeking girl just left my house. While we were alone another guy she broke it off 3 months ago with that was her giving 500, was lonely and desperate tonight. He sent her 2 Venmo 50 buck payments then a 100 payment. Offering her another 500 tonight to come over. She might be headed over there IDK and don't care LOL. My point is desperate lonely simps will pay anything for the hope of pussy. She was actually laughing showing me the Venmo payments while I was banging her. I gave her 250 and advised her to milk him for all he has. You suckers doing this driving up prices should pay thru the nose and deserve it.

Location listed as Illinois, Illinois should have been an early warning sign too. Scammers all use State, State locations for some reason.

[FeldSpot]

Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0...5-8e2347b46fac

Talked a bunch, finally set a date to meet. And I got ghosted the day of.

[DWaits]

Location listed as Illinois, Illinois should have been an early warning sign too. Scammers all use State, State locations for some reason.

This is always a quick give away for escorts as well. They list "downtown" (anyone who researches Chicago would list the Loop), they list their phone number for location, or they list "text" Usually the ad contains OF info. , so they are posting to build paid followers, but sometimes it's clear that the ad is just a scam: "I only do outcall. You must send a deposit to cover my Uber or cab fare. " Yeah, right.

[Pau Ford]

Location listed as Illinois, Illinois should have been an early warning sign too. Scammers all use State, State locations for some reason.

https://www.seeking.com/member/586a5...2-72d2925f43fa

This one contacted me first (warning sign # 1).

When texting said she was based at O'Hare (warning sign # 2).

Agreed to BBFS and 3 inpouts very quickly (warning sign # 3).

Wanted me so send a token for trust and pay for pics (warning sign # 4).

Asked for an advance before we met (even though I had told her 3 times no advances) (warning sign # 5).

Nope. Blocked her!

[Limeyincal]

https://www.seeking.com/member/586a5...2-72d2925f43fa

This one contacted me first (warning sign # 1).

When texting said she was based at O'Hare (warning sign # 2).

Agreed to BBFS and 3 inpouts very quickly (warning sign # 3).

Wanted me so send a token for trust and pay for pics (warning sign # 4).

Asked for an advance before we met (even though I had told her 3 times no advances) (warning sign # 5).

Nope. Blocked her!

[Woodson2019]

Met her last week. As you can probably guess, pictures are not her. She is slim but not like the pics. More like 5/6. Russian. Having a conversation was like pulling teeth.

https://www.seeking.com/member/761fb...e-5ddba8e5c5df

[Meddic80]

Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0...5-8e2347b46fac

Currently exchanging messages with her now. I'm almost there (locking a deal). I will report back when it's done.