Arrangement Reports

**DWaits** · 09-03-21 15:32

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

Location listed as Illinois, Illinois should have been an early warning sign too. Scammers all use State, State locations for some reason.

This is always a quick give away for escorts as well. They list "downtown" (anyone who researches Chicago would list the Loop), they list their phone number for location, or they list "text" Usually the ad contains OF info. , so they are posting to build paid followers, but sometimes it's clear that the ad is just a scam: "I only do outcall. You must send a deposit to cover my Uber or cab fare. " Yeah, right.

**Pau Ford** · 09-03-21 14:47

Location listed as Illinois, Illinois should have been an early warning sign too. Scammers all use State, State locations for some reason.

Originally Posted by Limeyincal [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/586a5...2-72d2925f43fa

This one contacted me first (warning sign # 1).

When texting said she was based at O'Hare (warning sign # 2).

Agreed to BBFS and 3 inpouts very quickly (warning sign # 3).

Wanted me so send a token for trust and pay for pics (warning sign # 4).

Asked for an advance before we met (even though I had told her 3 times no advances) (warning sign # 5).

Nope. Blocked her!

**Limeyincal** · 09-03-21 12:49

https://www.seeking.com/member/586a5...2-72d2925f43fa

This one contacted me first (warning sign # 1).

When texting said she was based at O'Hare (warning sign # 2).

Agreed to BBFS and 3 inpouts very quickly (warning sign # 3).

Wanted me so send a token for trust and pay for pics (warning sign # 4).

Asked for an advance before we met (even though I had told her 3 times no advances) (warning sign # 5).

Nope. Blocked her!

**Woodson2019** · 09-03-21 12:00

Met her last week. As you can probably guess, pictures are not her. She is slim but not like the pics. More like 5/6. Russian. Having a conversation was like pulling teeth.

https://www.seeking.com/member/761fb...e-5ddba8e5c5df

**Meddic80** · 09-03-21 11:39

Originally Posted by Dmm150 [View Original Post]

Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0...5-8e2347b46fac

Currently exchanging messages with her now. I'm almost there (locking a deal). I will report back when it's done.

**Dmm150** · 09-03-21 10:24

Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0...5-8e2347b46fac

**Alfonsus** · 09-03-21 01:48

Any info on this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/67e43...f-68bddb6379e7.

She looks familiar. Friend of mine said she offered BBFS.

**HitMan1783** · 09-02-21 23:50

Hey guys. Any info on this one. https://www.seeking.com/member/c559f...c-4ff1ed8024b7.

**BBPluto** · 09-02-21 17:28

Originally Posted by Dbomb [View Original Post]

Several positive reports over the past 1-1. 5 years or so. Used to do BBFS / CIP but stopped. When I talked to her she was still open to BBBJ. Nothing in the back door. And yeah, she's known to ghost out of nowhere. I never met up with her because of distance, but she's hot and nice.

Met her once last year, good time (BBBJ, but covered otherwise). Great body, very laid back, fun. And yeah then just disappeared. If you can hook up with her, I'd do it. She drives too, so location or distance is not a problem (at least wasn't for me).

**JustinFields** · 09-02-21 09:23

Originally Posted by RobotPorn [View Original Post]

I'm wondering if anyone had any experience with South asian / Indian girls on seeking. It's been on my bucket list.

Yes, I had a few from seeking. From my limited experience they like to ask a high price but will come down.

**RobotPorn** · 09-01-21 22:43

I'm wondering if anyone had any experience with South asian / Indian girls on seeking. It's been on my bucket list.

**DynoJr** · 09-01-21 21:11

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

I read an article a while ago about mongering that I found helpful. The guy was saying that preparation for the hobby is key for the married guys. I am fortunate to have a flexible schedule with odd hours especially prior to Covid but if you have a 9 to 5 job and a nosy wife it is a good idea to start by finding a hobby few month prior to starting mongering and he recommended swimming cause you can't pick up your phone or answer texts while in the pool and can explain why you return home freshly showered. The wife can start snooping around but you are really going to the pool at YMCA 1 - 2 a week for 2 - 3 months, but she won't find anything and lower her guard and then you can use the window you had carved to play instead of going to the pool. As far as money is concerned the author suggested to squirrel away small amounts over time and I was using my debit card at Costco to take 60 $ at the time and also I told my employers to send me paper checks instead of direct deposit and I will take 100 - 200 $ cash and deposit the rest. I personally prefer to play less often and "splurge" once a month for 300 - 500 $ instead of paying 75 $ for a high volume trashy ones, but obviously it depends on your financial capabilities. Of course you need a text app and e. Mail dedicated only for mongering. For me the saying "Pigs get fed and hogs get slaughtered" has been working well and if you play smart and not too often you can hide your secret life for a long time and my wife is a big time Gestapo but I have been successful with these strategy tips so far.

I pretty much do all of this, including the swimming but without realizing it. If you have a reason, say you have the ability to do a side hustle, open up a new bank account for business although this is all cash based so I suppose a sock drawer works too. Only time it got complicated was when I did the sugar bowl which is almost like another marriage.

**Yardy00** · 09-01-21 18:23

Originally Posted by KisaHero [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5baa9...5-6443af47aa28

This one will tell you nothings off limits and drive to your place. Wants the money right outside your door before going in. I said sure since I'm not wasting time going anywhere. I planned on giving her an empty envelope. If she runs I'm not at a loss but if she didn't then I'd reward her honesty later. Turns out she just grabbed the envelope and hopped in the car and drove off.

Be careful. Will try to rush you.

She's had multiple accounts, wanted $50 deposit and another $150 when we met, yeah, no thanks.

**Dbomb** · 09-01-21 12:19

Originally Posted by JustinFields [View Original Post]

Has been around and half the guys in here have probably seen her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/09326...6-c0e23f65b1e0

Anyone care to share a report?

Pm me if you prefer.

Several positive reports over the past 1-1. 5 years or so. Used to do BBFS / CIP but stopped. When I talked to her she was still open to BBBJ. Nothing in the back door. And yeah, she's known to ghost out of nowhere. I never met up with her because of distance, but she's hot and nice.

**Jayp80** · 09-01-21 12:17

Originally Posted by Jinurso [View Original Post]

I've never been married so maybe this is normal and I didn't realize it, but is it that common to have 100% blended finances? No separate accounts or cards at all whatsoever?

I was always under the impression that married couples have a joint account for joint expenses and savings but then each had their own thing.

My wife and I have both shared and separate accounts and I have 5-6 Credit cards she doesn't have access to that date back to my travel for work days so I can easily hide my expenses from her. The thing with women is they can smell happiness on you and once they do you better have your story straight and all the evidence hidden. If you guys start having more sex or less sex, you start coming home earlier or later. Anything suspicious she will start questioning. Why do you have so much cash on you? Where did you spend that cash you had in your wallet yesterday?