Arrangement Reports

[DWaits]

Share links to those people you knew and saw pop up on SA and you can live vicariously through us LOL.

I posted one below who I saw once or twice in a music venue pre-covid and this one is on IG. She's in LA, where I travel for business meetings from time to time. No way she's going to be in budget, unfortunately.

https://www.seeking.com/member/440a9...a-f2ec9822d2c0

[StanKost]

I read an article a while ago about mongering that I found helpful. The guy was saying that preparation for the hobby is key for the married guys. I am fortunate to have a flexible schedule with odd hours especially prior to Covid but if you have a 9 to 5 job and a nosy wife it is a good idea to start by finding a hobby few month prior to starting mongering and he recommended swimming cause you can't pick up your phone or answer texts while in the pool and can explain why you return home freshly showered. The wife can start snooping around but you are really going to the pool at YMCA 1 - 2 a week for 2 - 3 months, but she won't find anything and lower her guard and then you can use the window you had carved to play instead of going to the pool. As far as money is concerned the author suggested to squirrel away small amounts over time and I was using my debit card at Costco to take 60 $ at the time and also I told my employers to send me paper checks instead of direct deposit and I will take 100 - 200 $ cash and deposit the rest. I personally prefer to play less often and "splurge" once a month for 300 - 500 $ instead of paying 75 $ for a high volume trashy ones, but obviously it depends on your financial capabilities. Of course you need a text app and e. Mail dedicated only for mongering. For me the saying "Pigs get fed and hogs get slaughtered" has been working well and if you play smart and not too often you can hide your secret life for a long time and my wife is a big time Gestapo but I have been successful with these strategy tips so far.

[Anons550]

Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.

Then she started "joking" that she was late.

The whole thing was creepy.

Was the sex worth the money?

[KisaHero]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5baa9...5-6443af47aa28

This one will tell you nothings off limits and drive to your place. Wants the money right outside your door before going in. I said sure since I'm not wasting time going anywhere. I planned on giving her an empty envelope. If she runs I'm not at a loss but if she didn't then I'd reward her honesty later. Turns out she just grabbed the envelope and hopped in the car and drove off.

Be careful. Will try to rush you.

[JustinFields]

Has been around and half the guys in here have probably seen her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/09326...6-c0e23f65b1e0

Anyone care to share a report?

Pm me if you prefer.

[JustinFields]

Not very hot, but is extremely eager to meet!

Anyone have any info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/1c5d4...7-188b7e7161e9

[Agoraphobe]

Ran across this profile and she seemed familiar. Eventually remembered that I had seen her fetlife profile before LOL.

It's funny she's ShyNerdyGirl on SA but ChiFuckSlut there. Says she won't send you nudes on SA but posts a bunch of them on FL. Too old for me but she's into some kinky shit so figured I'd share in case any of you want to take a swing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9332f...e-7a67a6faf963

[Agoraphobe]

This is the exact reason I have avoided SA and even my general mongering is more limited than I want. It is nearly impossible to move money around if you had not previously moved money around and do not own your own business. If you work for someone else and your spouse is used to money coming in from your employer and going out for normal expenses and entertainment, it is very hard to find ways to shift 1 K plus a month. QV at 80-100 is much easier.

The thing that sucks is that I have seen a couple random people pop up on SA that I have either seen out and about or might see on IG and there is no way a guy with average looks, dad bod would have a shot with those women. But I'm not paying 1 K in hotel fees and donation for one shot. Too hard to do for me and not economical when that money could be spread over a few months with EB junkies. .

Share links to those people you knew and saw pop up on SA and you can live vicariously through us LOL.

[TheArgent]

A guy responded to one of my vanilla personal ads and wants me to fuck his girlfriend with him. He wants to watch and do like a chicken-on-a-spit thing. Maybe get a little rough with her. He sent me a pic and she looks pretty good. Mid to late 20's. I'd *definitely* fuck her if there wasn't another guy in the room.

I've been chatting with him. It's not for me. They don't want any payment but would like someone to host. Also important for them to find someone fit, professional, respectful and attractive. Like a dentist who bikes a lot or something. They sound extremely new to any sort of "scene" so this might be a good chance for one of you weirdos to have a good time and show this chick the ropes.

He didn't ask me to post this, but I'll pass along one or two prospects to him as a way of saying "thanks, but no thanks. " If you fit the bill, shoot me a note.

[DWaits]

But I do see the credit card issue as a big obstacle for you. Even if one of the 'hacks' from the other posters work, that puts you in the position of withdrawing and / or moving cash around to have it on hand or load one of these other payment options. If your credit card activity is not private, are you sure you can pull off that kind of cash coming out of your account in a short time without questions being asked?

This is the exact reason I have avoided SA and even my general mongering is more limited than I want. It is nearly impossible to move money around if you had not previously moved money around and do not own your own business. If you work for someone else and your spouse is used to money coming in from your employer and going out for normal expenses and entertainment, it is very hard to find ways to shift 1 K plus a month. QV at 80-100 is much easier.

The thing that sucks is that I have seen a couple random people pop up on SA that I have either seen out and about or might see on IG and there is no way a guy with average looks, dad bod would have a shot with those women. But I'm not paying 1 K in hotel fees and donation for one shot. Too hard to do for me and not economical when that money could be spread over a few months with EB junkies. .

[FafaFooey]

I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.

I wouldn't worry so much about paper mailed ads, since I don't see any of that from either these kind of stays or legitimate business / family trips. On the off chance it happens, it should be pretty easily explainable away as junk mail.

But I do see the credit card issue as a big obstacle for you. Even if one of the 'hacks' from the other posters work, that puts you in the position of withdrawing and / or moving cash around to have it on hand or load one of these other payment options. If your credit card activity is not private, are you sure you can pull off that kind of cash coming out of your account in a short time without questions being asked? If you're doing a typical PPM allowance, full price of the hotel room, and deposit / incidentals all in cash that would easily be 500 to 1 k in play for one session. If you have bank accounts under your control that are managed differently from your credit cards, then maybe you're ok. But if your spouse watches your bank account in the same way as the credit cards, it still seems like a version of the same issue. But hope you work it out and are able to have some fun!

[Ron M]

Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.

Then she started "joking" that she was late.

The whole thing was creepy.

Seems like she wants to trap a guy for monthly money for herself and child support for good measure.

[Jinurso]

Please tell me she at least put out.

Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.

Then she started "joking" that she was late.

The whole thing was creepy.

[Jayp80]

I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.

There is nothing more discrete than an Air BNB, if you get marketing mail (which I never have) it's very easy to associate it to a prior trip or future trip you have planned. You reduce the risk of one of your wives friends seeing you go into a hotel etc. I have a small side business with chase / Amex business credit cards that allow me to create employee cards with completely random names (no ss# required) With business credit the inquiry goes against your personal credit but the balance doesn't report on your personal credit. You can always get cards sent to your office, PO Box etc. I also use privacy.com which allows you to generate virtual credit cards using funds from a bank account, it allows you to use random names and addresses and it allows you to mask the transition from Hilton.com to privacy.com/ hardware store / convenience store / etc.

Everyone has mentioned prepaid cards before but sites like Robinhood, cash app allow you to create debit cards as well. Apple Cash (not the CC) is an option as well. You can have a friend send you cash app or Apple Cash as your funding source.

[GetOnUrKnees]

I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.

I use dayuse because I can only do stuff in daytime and it's like half the price at nice hotels. Have not gotten any actual mail to house, only a few emails of promotions. I also do occasional cash motels that are cleaner. You can search reviews on ChicagoLand motels that are cleaner, TripAdvisor, and won't upset the sb. I haven't had complaints. But for motel it's best to meet at a coffee shop first if it's the first meet. If you are nice and put it the right way (oh there's a festival-Chicago event" so, and looks like nice ones are all booked LOL) . They will overlook it. In a pinch there my suv, LOL the office after hours, or invest in an RV?