Arrangement Reports

**DWaits** · 08-30-21 16:11

Originally Posted by FafaFooey [View Original Post]

But I do see the credit card issue as a big obstacle for you. Even if one of the 'hacks' from the other posters work, that puts you in the position of withdrawing and / or moving cash around to have it on hand or load one of these other payment options. If your credit card activity is not private, are you sure you can pull off that kind of cash coming out of your account in a short time without questions being asked?

This is the exact reason I have avoided SA and even my general mongering is more limited than I want. It is nearly impossible to move money around if you had not previously moved money around and do not own your own business. If you work for someone else and your spouse is used to money coming in from your employer and going out for normal expenses and entertainment, it is very hard to find ways to shift 1 K plus a month. QV at 80-100 is much easier.

The thing that sucks is that I have seen a couple random people pop up on SA that I have either seen out and about or might see on IG and there is no way a guy with average looks, dad bod would have a shot with those women. But I'm not paying 1 K in hotel fees and donation for one shot. Too hard to do for me and not economical when that money could be spread over a few months with EB junkies. .

**FafaFooey** · 08-30-21 13:13

Originally Posted by Ammar [View Original Post]

I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.

I wouldn't worry so much about paper mailed ads, since I don't see any of that from either these kind of stays or legitimate business / family trips. On the off chance it happens, it should be pretty easily explainable away as junk mail.

But I do see the credit card issue as a big obstacle for you. Even if one of the 'hacks' from the other posters work, that puts you in the position of withdrawing and / or moving cash around to have it on hand or load one of these other payment options. If your credit card activity is not private, are you sure you can pull off that kind of cash coming out of your account in a short time without questions being asked? If you're doing a typical PPM allowance, full price of the hotel room, and deposit / incidentals all in cash that would easily be 500 to 1 k in play for one session. If you have bank accounts under your control that are managed differently from your credit cards, then maybe you're ok. But if your spouse watches your bank account in the same way as the credit cards, it still seems like a version of the same issue. But hope you work it out and are able to have some fun!

**Ron M** · 08-30-21 13:10

Originally Posted by Jinurso [View Original Post]

Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.

Then she started "joking" that she was late.

The whole thing was creepy.

Seems like she wants to trap a guy for monthly money for herself and child support for good measure.

**Jinurso** · 08-30-21 13:01

Originally Posted by Anons550 [View Original Post]

Please tell me she at least put out.

Of course. That was the only good part of the entire thing until she started "joking" that she wasn't on BC despite telling me it was ok to CIP. Was she joking? She never really made it clear so I stopped CIP.

Then she started "joking" that she was late.

The whole thing was creepy.

**Jayp80** · 08-30-21 11:37

Originally Posted by Ammar [View Original Post]

I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.

There is nothing more discrete than an Air BNB, if you get marketing mail (which I never have) it's very easy to associate it to a prior trip or future trip you have planned. You reduce the risk of one of your wives friends seeing you go into a hotel etc. I have a small side business with chase / Amex business credit cards that allow me to create employee cards with completely random names (no ss# required) With business credit the inquiry goes against your personal credit but the balance doesn't report on your personal credit. You can always get cards sent to your office, PO Box etc. I also use privacy.com which allows you to generate virtual credit cards using funds from a bank account, it allows you to use random names and addresses and it allows you to mask the transition from Hilton.com to privacy.com/ hardware store / convenience store / etc.

Everyone has mentioned prepaid cards before but sites like Robinhood, cash app allow you to create debit cards as well. Apple Cash (not the CC) is an option as well. You can have a friend send you cash app or Apple Cash as your funding source.

**GetOnUrKnees** · 08-30-21 10:59

Originally Posted by Ammar [View Original Post]

I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.

I use dayuse because I can only do stuff in daytime and it's like half the price at nice hotels. Have not gotten any actual mail to house, only a few emails of promotions. I also do occasional cash motels that are cleaner. You can search reviews on ChicagoLand motels that are cleaner, TripAdvisor, and won't upset the sb. I haven't had complaints. But for motel it's best to meet at a coffee shop first if it's the first meet. If you are nice and put it the right way (oh there's a festival-Chicago event" so, and looks like nice ones are all booked LOL) . They will overlook it. In a pinch there my suv, LOL the office after hours, or invest in an RV?

**TheArgent** · 08-30-21 10:33

Originally Posted by JustinFields [View Original Post]

Anyone get this one to meet?

Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.

Looks like she has a great pair of tits.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20c...8-615b7d05cae8

I did a meet and greet with her and she looked better in person than I expected. Agreed to $500 PPM next visit. However she has a personality disorder or something. Just can't keep herself from saying or messaging really off-putting stuff. I found something better and never followed through. Imagine that if in the first 15 minutes of meeting her it's already the same feeling as the last month of the worst relationship you've ever been in. It's possible she was created by one of the more mischievous Greek gods as a way to torture lustful men in the afterlife. If she could just find it in herself to pretend to be sweet, she'd make tons of money.

**ChicagoBred33** · 08-30-21 10:07

Originally Posted by GetOnUrKnees [View Original Post]

Quick report been meeting Alpalxoxo from SA awhile now. I believe a few guys here posted about how she wasn't replying. I think she's not very responsive due to she's an alcoholic and a hot mess. One of the times we met at the hotel she asked me if she should bring vodka from the car into the room. I told her no, because I actually like sober sex. Otherwise a sweet girl and appreciates the $ help.

Had the same experience. Nice girl, amazing tits, absolute alcoholic and can get sloppy which quickly became annoying.

**StanKost** · 08-30-21 02:15

Originally Posted by Ammar [View Original Post]

Hello, does anyone have experience getting a hotel room without a credit card. I am concerned about a paper trail. Thanks.

I have been using Walmart money card for years without hitch. They don't send you a paper statement and you can check your transactions and balance online. I load it with cash for 3 $ fee. It works for online or in person hotel pay, parking fees, incident deposit, restaurants and presents if I want to treat the girl. The only thing is to be careful checking your mail when ordering it or renewing it, but at that point you know it will be coming in few days, so I just check my mail every day for few days. I havent received too many hotel letters by mail and I used to travel a lot for work, so I had a ready made lie that the hotel send me that cause I had stayed at their hotel chain for work. Few times I was able to put my work as my home address for extra security.

**TimeForPlay10** · 08-30-21 00:29

Originally Posted by Jge096 [View Original Post]

Anyone else try for this one? We switched to text recently and she blasted me with 2000-3000 a month, then lowered to 1000 for two meets a month (not awful in my opinion) and then I suggested 300-400 ppm prior to an allowance and she was okay with that. Has called herself "a very sexual being" multiple times LOL.

This is actually the one I met not the one in the previous post. I met her in early summer for a meet / greet. Good personality, cute and has a nice body but complexion wasn't very good. We didn't discuss allowance in person but when we texted after, she gave me the same 2 k-3 k range for a "few dates" per month. I didn't even bother negotiating. I would consider at 300-400 but not a chance beyond that. She's thinks very highly of herself too which I find annoying from young twenty somethings in general. Please ignore my previous post-can't figure out how to delete a post.

**TimeForPlay10** · 08-29-21 21:24

Originally Posted by JustinFields [View Original Post]

Anyone get this one to meet?

Probably an only fans girl or wants to sell pics.

Looks like she has a great pair of tits.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20c...8-615b7d05cae8

I met her in early summer for a meet / greet. Good personality, cute and has a nice body but complexion wasn't very good. We didn't discuss allowance in person but when we texted after, she gave me the same 2 k-3 k range for a "few dates" per month. I didn't even bother negotiating. I would consider at 300-400 but not a chance beyond that.

**Ammar** · 08-29-21 20:36

Originally Posted by Jayp80 [View Original Post]

Can you explain what trail you're trying to avoid leaving? Charges from wife? The description of hotel on the charge? Hotel literature to your house? A hotel record of you being there? You may be able to get around using a card but they will almost certainly ask for at least one form of I'd.

I guess that's the issue. I'm married and open about this on SD site. I have had a few nibbles but asking the woman to get the room can be a deal breaker. I can't put a charge on my credit card and don't want ads from a hotel coming to my house. I may not be able to crack this nut.

**GetOnUrKnees** · 08-29-21 19:37

Quick report been meeting Alpalxoxo from SA awhile now. I believe a few guys here posted about how she wasn't replying. I think she's not very responsive due to she's an alcoholic and a hot mess. One of the times we met at the hotel she asked me if she should bring vodka from the car into the room. I told her no, because I actually like sober sex. Otherwise a sweet girl and appreciates the $ help.

**GetOnUrKnees** · 08-29-21 19:26

Originally Posted by JustinFields [View Original Post]

It is going to be hard for her to make 5-10 k a month off sugaring. She is uneducated and doesn't speak English. She is not the type you could take to a work function or dinner. Her personality is also kind of blah.

She does have a great body and her tits are natural and top tier.

She doesn't speak English? How does she communicate on text to setup a meet? Google translate? Or you think she has a pimp or booker type helping her? What does she speak? LOL.

**Anons550** · 08-29-21 17:48

Originally Posted by Jinurso [View Original Post]

She wasn't interested in a PPM, which was part of the problem. I don't know what she's like now, but at the time it was basically "$3000 for a month plus we hang out on weekends and go shopping". It started off a good deal because she was over like every day for hours so by week two she was cheaper than most escorts. But then she started coming over on days I didn't really want her or expect her to come over. And she wouldn't really take a hint that it was time to go. Then she was like "hey mind if I stay tonight? I have to be at x tomorrow and your place is real close" and each time more of her stuff wouldn't leave with her. By the end of the first month she somehow had a week's worth of clothes at my place and I don't know how that happened.

For the first couple of weeks I thought it was awesome because between the allowance, meals and occasional shopping trips it was working out to like $50 per hour. But then I realized that it was because she was quickly building her life around me and I knew I had to do something to get out of the situation before she ended up with keys and my credit card for buying nursery furniture.

I feel bad for whatever guy doesn't catch what's happening before it's too late.

Please tell me she at least put out.