"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[DaRiv]

This Sugar Baby Favorited my Profile and then kept looking at my Profile trying to get my attention. I finally messaged her to find out specifically what she wanted. She immediately informed me that she was in a financial crisis and needed 275 upfront. She never wanted to discuss any type of arrangement but literally needed money asap. I told her have a nice day. Vibes from her was a potential scammer.

https://www.seeking.com/member/12fa4...a-1ac09249551d

The first thing I always do is look at when they joined the site. The second thing you look at is how often they log on or are at the top of the feed when you refresh because that means they're messaging a lot. 99% of the time they are scammers. They are brand new to the site and they are always logged on seemingly 24 hours a day and they are always at the top of the feed because they're messaging so many people trying to scam as many people as they can before their account gets shut down. If they haven't done the site for at least 3 months I keep going now. And even in that situation you need to look out for people that are trying to slow play a profile as a scam. Do us all a favor and report them immediately one night do what they did to you. Take a screenshot and record it so they get kicked off faster. Yes there is the odd diamond in the rough you can look for. But most new members are time wasters now. And you would be surprised how many of them are now choosing cities in the outlying areas instead of putting Atlantis so it seems more legit.

[MatteoRusso]

This Sugar Baby Favorited my Profile and then kept looking at my Profile trying to get my attention. I finally messaged her to find out specifically what she wanted. She immediately informed me that she was in a financial crisis and needed 275 upfront. She never wanted to discuss any type of arrangement but literally needed money asap. I told her have a nice day. Vibes from her was a potential scammer.

https://www.seeking.com/member/12fa4...a-1ac09249551d

[Szulla77]

Tattedbaby97.

https://www.seeking.com/member/aa4c9...6-6df02832b7f5

We went to text and she said she was DTF. When we started talking numbers she said she couldn't do anything for less than a grand.

Yes, she actually said $1,000.00.

What the fuck are these young girls smoking these days?

More importantly, who is fucking dumb enough to pay anything close to that?

[DaRiv]

Anyone have experience with her? She's mid-30's, does massage. She won't host but will come to you (or hotel). I saw one post about her that said she's business-like and will do everything for $300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e51a6...c-5ff742696f49

Not sure why she flaked out on the other guy. I didn't have that experience with her. But she is flaky or flighty. It did take a couple times to get it set up. She came to me and brought a massage table and all of the other stuff you bring with you for massage. All of this acting as if she's there to be your therapist. The massage itself was okay I'd give it a six out of 10. And she went and changed into some lingerie to wear during the massage. She likes to try to keep the massage side separate from the place side. You know some of these girls think that makes them feel less like a "common provider".

She's very manic and runs around because you can tell she's that kind of girl that's always late everywhere she goes. Left several things at my house because she was running around so much with her stuff everywhere in and out of the bathroom getting ready. She was even late to our appointment after setting it up days ahead of time and keeping in touch the whole time to confirm it was going to happen. Anyways, she's very giving and can take the d pretty well. Follow instructions very well for the sucky and it wasn't bad. The JJ is pretty tight with no smell. She's a bit bigger around the middle than she seems. Has a belly on her but nothing that can't be worked around. She's also the type that kind of never stops talking just so you're aware of that too. We agreed to 200 Mario coins but after all of the running behind and the service being semi rushed although not crazily I got it dropped down to 150. I have had the option to repeat as she has been in contact but I haven't. As usual YVMV. And oh yeah. No umbrella was necessary.

[MilfHunter818]

She scammed me on her premium Snapchat and blocked me. Before I get flamed for doing that, I am in the financial place to take a few hits. I just haven't had a chance to report yet. Tread lightly.

One more I thought I'd ask about: https://www.seeking.com/member/00bbe...c-5d8d814794b0.

Has only been on the site since beginning of Aug. Not super chatty in our messaging. But agreed to a meet and greet. Anyone have any experience with her? Will report back on what I find.

[DudeNextDoor]

One more I thought I'd ask about: https://www.seeking.com/member/00bbe...c-5d8d814794b0.

Has only been on the site since beginning of Aug. Not super chatty in our messaging. But agreed to a meet and greet. Anyone have any experience with her? Will report back on what I find.

[DudeNextDoor]

Thanks for the info, Joe. Glad I bailed on her.

She setup a meeting with me for all of that and stood me up, never responded to messages.

[SeekingHead]

Anyone recognize her.

Kris_follies.

https://www.seeking.com/member/84028...d-d46df39c0f28

[MariettaJoe]

Anyone have experience with her? She's mid-30's, does massage. She won't host but will come to you (or hotel). I saw one post about her that said she's business-like and will do everything for $300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e51a6...c-5ff742696f49

She setup a meeting with me for all of that and stood me up, never responded to messages.

[JimStokes]

https://www.seeking.com/member/85b77...0-7ee767dc1b25

Chatted this one up for a bit. Moved to text, wants to sell me pics or videos. I declined. Responds with an OF page.

Redirect to in person meet. Banters as if it will, then hit me with the cash request preempt. I politely decline. Then wants more pictures and send me her Cashapp. I decline.

What sets off a red flag is when I asked her what area of town she was located she never responded. Her profile shows as Macon and I know that area well. Maybe she is real and someone else will have better luck. But I found her unwillingness to give an area of town, not her location mind you, combined with the link to her OF page and her cash app to all be red flags.

As widely posted, never prepay before meeting.

Macifo.

I don't have a link because for the first time ever, I blocked a chic on SA. In the third message asks how I am going to fix her being broke. Easily, I ain't *****. Sorry I can't post the link but this one was so out there I took a pre-emptive strike. She didn't even look that hot, just looked available.

Seems the number of scammers on SA is taking an uptick. Not sure if its circumstantial based on the current Covid cases, OF on the decline, school starting or full moon crazy bitches.

Monger wisely.

[DonHomes]

Brothers! Hope all has been well. Good to see activity on the board. I wanted to pass along some advice / tips for mongers new and old. Of course if you're a single monger some of these won't apply to you. But for us with SOs, staying focused is key out here. Let me know what things works for you. Ripper.

1. If you haven't done so in a while, google your real phone number. If it comes back with results on those whitepage sites with your real information, follow the process with those companies to REMOVE the record from their database. Usually takes them about two or three business days but they'll wipe it clean. FREE. I also did the same for my wife as added protection on a few of those sites. The key here is to eliminate your online footprint as much as possible. I never used my real number mongering, but someone crafty can trace anything.

2. For goodness sake use a burner line so you don't have to ever resort to bullet 1 . GV, Pinger, etc. All free to use. No excuse at this point to be using a real line. Unless you just don't care about revealing your identity.

3. Got a middle name? Use it. One of the most painful things about mongering with a SO is handling hotel check-ins. If you have a middle name listed on your driver's license, use it to book the hotel. 98% of the time, the hotel clerk checking you in won't change it to your first name. This gives you a layer of protection since hotel chains have started putting your check-in information on the television menu station in your room. So if you're name is Michael Lewis Thomas. Booking the reservation as Lewis Thomas won't raise any eyebrows. If you book using hotels.com . You can put in any name you like.

4. Clear your maps history. DO this as soon as you reach the destination of sin! I was headed on a family vacation earlier this summer and something was going on with the wife's maps on her phone so she asked to use mine. I wipe this clear. Every. Single. Time. So I could breathe easy when I made the phone exchange. LOL. But some of you right now have the latest location of where you banged the most recent hottie just sitting in your google maps history. Don't get tripped up here. Or at the very least. Find a store near the hotel and put that in the GPS instead of the hotel itself. Easier to explain a trip to a CVS than one to the Hyatt Place all day everyday and twice on tuesdays.

5. Don't be Cheap. You're already paying $150-300 for some tail. Throw a hotel charge on top of that and most of us are looking for financial relief. Don't get tripped up here. If you purchase a 3-pack of condoms and use only two. Leave the last one in the room or just throw it away. No need to risk it all trying to save money on a $5 pack of condoms. Might seem like common sense but this tripped another monger up on another board.

6. Browse in incognito mode whenever mongering and stay clear of the "family" computer (even if it is convenient).

Thanks good stuff. I follow a lot of that advice and do much of it already. Just googled my phone number and found more public records that I am now waiting up to 72 hours to be removed that was a great tip.

[DudeNextDoor]

Anyone have experience with her? She's mid-30's, does massage. She won't host but will come to you (or hotel). I saw one post about her that said she's business-like and will do everything for $300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e51a6...c-5ff742696f49

[LuvStJohn]

I reported on here before. She did the same thing to me except I made the mistake of actually booking a room and she ghosted on me.

My mistake D. I searched the full user name before I went through this. Maybe I should have just used 'Yesitsme' and I might have gotten a hit. I'd say that based on both of our experiences, she's one to avoid.

I wish I'd read your post before I stopped. Would have done the St. Regis booking you suggested! LOL.

[JustMikey]

Brothers! Hope all has been well. Good to see activity on the board. I wanted to pass along some advice / tips for mongers new and old. Of course if you're a single monger some of these won't apply to you. But for us with SOs, staying focused is key out here. Let me know what things works for you. Ripper.

1. If you haven't done so in a while, google your real phone number. If it comes back with results on those whitepage sites with your real information, follow the process with those companies to REMOVE the record from their database. Usually takes them about two or three business days but they'll wipe it clean. FREE. I also did the same for my wife as added protection on a few of those sites. The key here is to eliminate your online footprint as much as possible. I never used my real number mongering, but someone crafty can trace anything.

2. For goodness sake use a burner line so you don't have to ever resort to bullet 1 . GV, Pinger, etc. All free to use. No excuse at this point to be using a real line. Unless you just don't care about revealing your identity.

3. Got a middle name? Use it. One of the most painful things about mongering with a SO is handling hotel check-ins. If you have a middle name listed on your driver's license, use it to book the hotel. 98% of the time, the hotel clerk checking you in won't change it to your first name. This gives you a layer of protection since hotel chains have started putting your check-in information on the television menu station in your room. So if you're name is Michael Lewis Thomas. Booking the reservation as Lewis Thomas won't raise any eyebrows. If you book using hotels.com . You can put in any name you like.

4. Clear your maps history. DO this as soon as you reach the destination of sin! I was headed on a family vacation earlier this summer and something was going on with the wife's maps on her phone so she asked to use mine. I wipe this clear. Every. Single. Time. So I could breathe easy when I made the phone exchange. LOL. But some of you right now have the latest location of where you banged the most recent hottie just sitting in your google maps history. Don't get tripped up here. Or at the very least. Find a store near the hotel and put that in the GPS instead of the hotel itself. Easier to explain a trip to a CVS than one to the Hyatt Place all day everyday and twice on tuesdays.

5. Don't be Cheap. You're already paying $150-300 for some tail. Throw a hotel charge on top of that and most of us are looking for financial relief. Don't get tripped up here. If you purchase a 3-pack of condoms and use only two. Leave the last one in the room or just throw it away. No need to risk it all trying to save money on a $5 pack of condoms. Might seem like common sense but this tripped another monger up on another board.

6. Browse in incognito mode whenever mongering and stay clear of the "family" computer (even if it is convenient).

Park on the other side of the hotel, walk around, back the car into the space so that reading the license plate is difficult. Lowers the blackmail odds. Also, if LE gets involved, you story is you took a cab. Don't get your car searched or impounded. And have a quick way out if the date turns bad.

[MilfHunter818]

Great advice especially the middle name for hotels. I didn't even think of that. . I use Firefox focus for my browsing and always disconnect from my house WiFi just in case.

I use sideline for any texting and created a special Snapchat login as well, which I always clear. Firefox focus will clear everything once you actually close it and there's even a trash can button to just dump everything. When I'm done with sideline I just delete it but keep my sub active so I can download and log back in.

Brothers! Hope all has been well. Good to see activity on the board. I wanted to pass along some advice / tips for mongers new and old. Of course if you're a single monger some of these won't apply to you. But for us with SOs, staying focused is key out here. Let me know what things works for you. Ripper.

1. If you haven't done so in a while, google your real phone number. If it comes back with results on those whitepage sites with your real information, follow the process with those companies to REMOVE the record from their database. Usually takes them about two or three business days but they'll wipe it clean. FREE. I also did the same for my wife as added protection on a few of those sites. The key here is to eliminate your online footprint as much as possible. I never used my real number mongering, but someone crafty can trace anything.

2. For goodness sake use a burner line so you don't have to ever resort to bullet 1 . GV, Pinger, etc. All free to use. No excuse at this point to be using a real line. Unless you just don't care about revealing your identity.

3. Got a middle name? Use it. One of the most painful things about mongering with a SO is handling hotel check-ins. If you have a middle name listed on your driver's license, use it to book the hotel. 98% of the time, the hotel clerk checking you in won't change it to your first name. This gives you a layer of protection since hotel chains have started putting your check-in information on the television menu station in your room. So if you're name is Michael Lewis Thomas. Booking the reservation as Lewis Thomas won't raise any eyebrows. If you book using hotels.com . You can put in any name you like.

4. Clear your maps history. DO this as soon as you reach the destination of sin! I was headed on a family vacation earlier this summer and something was going on with the wife's maps on her phone so she asked to use mine. I wipe this clear. Every. Single. Time. So I could breathe easy when I made the phone exchange. LOL. But some of you right now have the latest location of where you banged the most recent hottie just sitting in your google maps history. Don't get tripped up here. Or at the very least. Find a store near the hotel and put that in the GPS instead of the hotel itself. Easier to explain a trip to a CVS than one to the Hyatt Place all day everyday and twice on tuesdays.

5. Don't be Cheap. You're already paying $150-300 for some tail. Throw a hotel charge on top of that and most of us are looking for financial relief. Don't get tripped up here. If you purchase a 3-pack of condoms and use only two. Leave the last one in the room or just throw it away. No need to risk it all trying to save money on a $5 pack of condoms. Might seem like common sense but this tripped another monger up on another board.

6. Browse in incognito mode whenever mongering and stay clear of the "family" computer (even if it is convenient).