"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**LuvStJohn** · 08-23-21 14:01

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

I reported on here before. She did the same thing to me except I made the mistake of actually booking a room and she ghosted on me.

My mistake D. I searched the full user name before I went through this. Maybe I should have just used 'Yesitsme' and I might have gotten a hit. I'd say that based on both of our experiences, she's one to avoid.

I wish I'd read your post before I stopped. Would have done the St. Regis booking you suggested! LOL.

**JustMikey** · 08-23-21 05:40

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

Brothers! Hope all has been well. Good to see activity on the board. I wanted to pass along some advice / tips for mongers new and old. Of course if you're a single monger some of these won't apply to you. But for us with SOs, staying focused is key out here. Let me know what things works for you. Ripper.

1. If you haven't done so in a while, google your real phone number. If it comes back with results on those whitepage sites with your real information, follow the process with those companies to REMOVE the record from their database. Usually takes them about two or three business days but they'll wipe it clean. FREE. I also did the same for my wife as added protection on a few of those sites. The key here is to eliminate your online footprint as much as possible. I never used my real number mongering, but someone crafty can trace anything.

2. For goodness sake use a burner line so you don't have to ever resort to bullet 1 . GV, Pinger, etc. All free to use. No excuse at this point to be using a real line. Unless you just don't care about revealing your identity.

3. Got a middle name? Use it. One of the most painful things about mongering with a SO is handling hotel check-ins. If you have a middle name listed on your driver's license, use it to book the hotel. 98% of the time, the hotel clerk checking you in won't change it to your first name. This gives you a layer of protection since hotel chains have started putting your check-in information on the television menu station in your room. So if you're name is Michael Lewis Thomas. Booking the reservation as Lewis Thomas won't raise any eyebrows. If you book using hotels.com . You can put in any name you like.

4. Clear your maps history. DO this as soon as you reach the destination of sin! I was headed on a family vacation earlier this summer and something was going on with the wife's maps on her phone so she asked to use mine. I wipe this clear. Every. Single. Time. So I could breathe easy when I made the phone exchange. LOL. But some of you right now have the latest location of where you banged the most recent hottie just sitting in your google maps history. Don't get tripped up here. Or at the very least. Find a store near the hotel and put that in the GPS instead of the hotel itself. Easier to explain a trip to a CVS than one to the Hyatt Place all day everyday and twice on tuesdays.

5. Don't be Cheap. You're already paying $150-300 for some tail. Throw a hotel charge on top of that and most of us are looking for financial relief. Don't get tripped up here. If you purchase a 3-pack of condoms and use only two. Leave the last one in the room or just throw it away. No need to risk it all trying to save money on a $5 pack of condoms. Might seem like common sense but this tripped another monger up on another board.

6. Browse in incognito mode whenever mongering and stay clear of the "family" computer (even if it is convenient).

Park on the other side of the hotel, walk around, back the car into the space so that reading the license plate is difficult. Lowers the blackmail odds. Also, if LE gets involved, you story is you took a cab. Don't get your car searched or impounded. And have a quick way out if the date turns bad.

**MilfHunter818** · 08-22-21 17:13

Great advice especially the middle name for hotels. I didn't even think of that. . I use Firefox focus for my browsing and always disconnect from my house WiFi just in case.

I use sideline for any texting and created a special Snapchat login as well, which I always clear. Firefox focus will clear everything once you actually close it and there's even a trash can button to just dump everything. When I'm done with sideline I just delete it but keep my sub active so I can download and log back in.

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

Brothers! Hope all has been well. Good to see activity on the board. I wanted to pass along some advice / tips for mongers new and old. Of course if you're a single monger some of these won't apply to you. But for us with SOs, staying focused is key out here. Let me know what things works for you. Ripper.

1. If you haven't done so in a while, google your real phone number. If it comes back with results on those whitepage sites with your real information, follow the process with those companies to REMOVE the record from their database. Usually takes them about two or three business days but they'll wipe it clean. FREE. I also did the same for my wife as added protection on a few of those sites. The key here is to eliminate your online footprint as much as possible. I never used my real number mongering, but someone crafty can trace anything.

2. For goodness sake use a burner line so you don't have to ever resort to bullet 1 . GV, Pinger, etc. All free to use. No excuse at this point to be using a real line. Unless you just don't care about revealing your identity.

3. Got a middle name? Use it. One of the most painful things about mongering with a SO is handling hotel check-ins. If you have a middle name listed on your driver's license, use it to book the hotel. 98% of the time, the hotel clerk checking you in won't change it to your first name. This gives you a layer of protection since hotel chains have started putting your check-in information on the television menu station in your room. So if you're name is Michael Lewis Thomas. Booking the reservation as Lewis Thomas won't raise any eyebrows. If you book using hotels.com . You can put in any name you like.

4. Clear your maps history. DO this as soon as you reach the destination of sin! I was headed on a family vacation earlier this summer and something was going on with the wife's maps on her phone so she asked to use mine. I wipe this clear. Every. Single. Time. So I could breathe easy when I made the phone exchange. LOL. But some of you right now have the latest location of where you banged the most recent hottie just sitting in your google maps history. Don't get tripped up here. Or at the very least. Find a store near the hotel and put that in the GPS instead of the hotel itself. Easier to explain a trip to a CVS than one to the Hyatt Place all day everyday and twice on tuesdays.

5. Don't be Cheap. You're already paying $150-300 for some tail. Throw a hotel charge on top of that and most of us are looking for financial relief. Don't get tripped up here. If you purchase a 3-pack of condoms and use only two. Leave the last one in the room or just throw it away. No need to risk it all trying to save money on a $5 pack of condoms. Might seem like common sense but this tripped another monger up on another board.

6. Browse in incognito mode whenever mongering and stay clear of the "family" computer (even if it is convenient).

**Ripvan12** · 08-22-21 09:27

Brothers! Hope all has been well. Good to see activity on the board. I wanted to pass along some advice / tips for mongers new and old. Of course if you're a single monger some of these won't apply to you. But for us with SOs, staying focused is key out here. Let me know what things works for you. Ripper.

1. If you haven't done so in a while, google your real phone number. If it comes back with results on those whitepage sites with your real information, follow the process with those companies to REMOVE the record from their database. Usually takes them about two or three business days but they'll wipe it clean. FREE. I also did the same for my wife as added protection on a few of those sites. The key here is to eliminate your online footprint as much as possible. I never used my real number mongering, but someone crafty can trace anything.

2. For goodness sake use a burner line so you don't have to ever resort to bullet 1 . GV, Pinger, etc. All free to use. No excuse at this point to be using a real line. Unless you just don't care about revealing your identity.

3. Got a middle name? Use it. One of the most painful things about mongering with a SO is handling hotel check-ins. If you have a middle name listed on your driver's license, use it to book the hotel. 98% of the time, the hotel clerk checking you in won't change it to your first name. This gives you a layer of protection since hotel chains have started putting your check-in information on the television menu station in your room. So if you're name is Michael Lewis Thomas. Booking the reservation as Lewis Thomas won't raise any eyebrows. If you book using hotels.com . You can put in any name you like.

4. Clear your maps history. DO this as soon as you reach the destination of sin! I was headed on a family vacation earlier this summer and something was going on with the wife's maps on her phone so she asked to use mine. I wipe this clear. Every. Single. Time. So I could breathe easy when I made the phone exchange. LOL. But some of you right now have the latest location of where you banged the most recent hottie just sitting in your google maps history. Don't get tripped up here. Or at the very least. Find a store near the hotel and put that in the GPS instead of the hotel itself. Easier to explain a trip to a CVS than one to the Hyatt Place all day everyday and twice on tuesdays.

5. Don't be Cheap. You're already paying $150-300 for some tail. Throw a hotel charge on top of that and most of us are looking for financial relief. Don't get tripped up here. If you purchase a 3-pack of condoms and use only two. Leave the last one in the room or just throw it away. No need to risk it all trying to save money on a $5 pack of condoms. Might seem like common sense but this tripped another monger up on another board.

6. Browse in incognito mode whenever mongering and stay clear of the "family" computer (even if it is convenient).

**DArrow404** · 08-22-21 00:14

Originally Posted by LuvStJohn [View Original Post]

Not sure what to make of this one. Didn't work out for me but think it might for someone either willing to travel or in the Kennesaw / Woodstock area. She's non-pro. https://www.seeking.com/member/12acc...f-1a22e2715c4e We made plans for a M&G twice this past week and something came up both times. She said it was unavoidable, she was sorry, and wanted to go straight to a hotel instead of scheduling another meeting. After being canceled twice, I didn't want to go to a hotel and possibly be left there alone holding Junior, so I declined and tried to go for another meeting. She got angry with me, said I wasn't flexible, blah, blah, blah, so we just dropped it. With the drive to her area, I'd be adding 2-3 hours to the meet time, so it just wasn't worth it. But she does seem willing, can't host, and seems to have better availability earlier in the day before her schedule gets busy. She quoted $400 but in a way that said there was room for negotiations. If you get her private photos, you'll see she's a cutie! Some gentleman will probably be very happy. Report back please!

I reported on here before. She did the same thing to me except I made the mistake of actually booking a room and she ghosted on me.

Plisknoob1 · 08-21-21 18:48

Originally Posted by LuvStJohn [View Original Post]

Not sure what to make of this one. Didn't work out for me but think it might for someone either willing to travel or in the Kennesaw / Woodstock area. She's non-pro. https://www.seeking.com/member/12acc...f-1a22e2715c4e We made plans for a M&G twice this past week and something came up both times. She said it was unavoidable, she was sorry, and wanted to go straight to a hotel instead of scheduling another meeting. After being canceled twice, I didn't want to go to a hotel and possibly be left there alone holding Junior, so I declined and tried to go for another meeting. She got angry with me, said I wasn't flexible, blah, blah, blah, so we just dropped it. With the drive to her area, I'd be adding 2-3 hours to the meet time, so it just wasn't worth it. But she does seem willing, can't host, and seems to have better availability earlier in the day before her schedule gets busy. She quoted $400 but in a way that said there was room for negotiations. If you get her private photos, you'll see she's a cutie! Some gentleman will probably be very happy. Report back please!

So she wanted to skip the M&G and go straight to pound town?

**LuvStJohn** · 08-21-21 12:57

Not sure what to make of this one. Didn't work out for me but think it might for someone either willing to travel or in the Kennesaw / Woodstock area. She's non-pro. https://www.seeking.com/member/12acc...f-1a22e2715c4e We made plans for a M&G twice this past week and something came up both times. She said it was unavoidable, she was sorry, and wanted to go straight to a hotel instead of scheduling another meeting. After being canceled twice, I didn't want to go to a hotel and possibly be left there alone holding Junior, so I declined and tried to go for another meeting. She got angry with me, said I wasn't flexible, blah, blah, blah, so we just dropped it. With the drive to her area, I'd be adding 2-3 hours to the meet time, so it just wasn't worth it. But she does seem willing, can't host, and seems to have better availability earlier in the day before her schedule gets busy. She quoted $400 but in a way that said there was room for negotiations. If you get her private photos, you'll see she's a cutie! Some gentleman will probably be very happy. Report back please!

**Jims2321** · 08-20-21 19:44

https://www.seeking.com/member/fbdbb...6-271fd553b8e4

Okay where to begin on this one. I decide to give it a shot, yeah she is on the heavy side, but chatting with her, she implies she is very much DTF. Divorced and looking to get drilled. Seem like everything was cool for our get together, and while in the middle of a conversation about our days, she throws an non sequitur about 'how guys are not in sync with her opinions'. WTF? Okay. Next thing she say adios, date is off. Glad I dodged that mental shit storm.

JimS2321.

**MilfHunter818** · 08-20-21 16:31

Originally Posted by SteelWolf [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b1cfd...5-fb1bf463e2fe - Talked to this one through What's Your Price, not Seeking. Immediately said we should get some dinner, when I replied fairly promptly she ghosted me. Wound up messaging me back a week later. Seemed nice enough, but I told her I wasn't in Atlanta at the time (Which was true). She manufactured an emergency where she needed money immediately (Eviction notice) and then wouldn't even so much as give me a price for when I got back.

Hey check your PMs. I'm talking to the same girl and want to see something.

**JT4K99** · 08-19-21 21:29

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

I posted this earlier in the News / Reports thread, but I think it will have a bigger effect in the sugaring scene than anywhere.

https://www.inputmag.com/tech/onlyfa...at-made-it-big

Hopefully this will reel in GPS when girls suddenly need to make their rent payment and their no longer going to be able to reliably make $1400 a month from half assing an O*lyfans.

I'm sure it will only be a matter of time before another site take sits place but it will put a temporary dent in the trend. I think it will affect the pros more than the SBs but could be both. Either way I'm happy about it.

**Darmour88** · 08-19-21 19:56

Originally Posted by SeekingHead [View Original Post]

Also one thing which has worked for me is to offer them a higher ppm the first couple of times you meet. Say the girl wants $400 ppm, but you want to pay $200, offer them $300 the first 2 meets then it drops to $200. I'm at 100% at around 20 girls doing this, consistency is a huge deal for the girl next door types.

I've tried that before. She agreed. Then after the first two times she ghosted.

**CueBall826** · 08-19-21 19:44

Originally Posted by MatteoRusso [View Original Post]

She message me about a month ago requesting an arrangement. She said that she was interested in hangout and that she was definitely DTF. I made her an offer and she jumped right at. She gave me her number and messaged me for a day or so and went silent when it was time to give up the kitty katt. I messaged her several times but no response.

A lot of these seeking arraignment escort types lie about being a student. I don't think a broke student would sell herself.

**Steel Wolf** · 08-19-21 19:28

https://www.seeking.com/member/b1cfd...5-fb1bf463e2fe - Talked to this one through What's Your Price, not Seeking. Immediately said we should get some dinner, when I replied fairly promptly she ghosted me. Wound up messaging me back a week later. Seemed nice enough, but I told her I wasn't in Atlanta at the time (Which was true). She manufactured an emergency where she needed money immediately (Eviction notice) and then wouldn't even so much as give me a price for when I got back.

**MatteoRusso** · 08-19-21 18:27

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d38e4...c-607dc010dc59

Not much action with the Athens board so I'll post here. She talked a good game but I'm leaning towards her being a time waster. Says she's a UGA student and is available on Tuesdays and Wednesdays but crickets on those days.

She message me about a month ago requesting an arrangement. She said that she was interested in hangout and that she was definitely DTF. I made her an offer and she jumped right at. She gave me her number and messaged me for a day or so and went silent when it was time to give up the kitty katt. I messaged her several times but no response.

**Jims2321** · 08-19-21 17:45

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d38e4...c-607dc010dc59

Not much action with the Athens board so I'll post here. She talked a good game but I'm leaning towards her being a time waster. Says she's a UGA student and is available on Tuesdays and Wednesdays but crickets on those days.

Reading her profile, seems like she is semi-pro SB (claims 2 previous SD's).

So if you actually ever get a date, I am guessing it will be expensive and unsatisfying.