NoVA SugarBabies

**Member #6353** · 07-18-21 11:51

https://www.seeking.com/member/6d3f6...8-7dc2f2e04915

Lots of red flag indications, but seems real just. Off. Responds in one or two words, will give an address to pick her up from, specifics what kind of drinks she would like during the date, but insists on CBJ (she let me know before I left to meet her, thank god) which is a deal breaker for me so I called it off. Has anyone actually met her and was it worth it?

**Itfcd** · 07-18-21 11:17

So Blurry's post a couple down has her link; you probably already saw it. I actually had reached out to her back in June but didn't get the best feeling about her. She wanted 3 for PPM, which seemed low for how hot she was. She didn't approve seeing her other photos, and when I asked her for another pic, she sent me something super-grainy. Turns out it was her Twitter profile picture and it just looked bad. I didn't follow up, and maybe I should have.

So fast-forward to yesterday when I see Blurry's notice. I find her number in my contacts and reach out again. We go back and forth and decide on 10 AM this morning, but she says, "Since I'm hosting, it'll be more. " She asks for 4, but I stayed firm on 3. Her last text to me was that that number "will be fine tomorrow morning. ".

I get there 5 minutes early like I usually do and ask for the room #. No response, send a couple more texts asking if everything is OK and if we're still on. Nothing. Finally tell her at 10:15 that I'm only staying 5 more minutes unless I hear from her. Nope.

Already made it back home. A 50 mile round-trip drive, mind you. And still haven't heard anything. I figure if she just messed up the time, she would have sent some frantic "Oh shit, I'm sorry" kinds of responses, but it's now well past 11 and nothing. I think it's far more likely she found some other sucker to cough up the 4, then decided to just waste my time and screw me over for being too cheap in her mind (never mind we'd agreed on 3 more than once). So, if you like girls who pull those kinds of stunts, she's probably your type.

**MilesNoDavis** · 07-17-21 17:00

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Hooked up with this one a few weeks ago. Beautiful, tall girl. Not quite as pretty as her pics and has a beer gut on her that you don't see coming until you get her naked, which was a bit shocking. Sucks a mean dick but she will not do BBFS no matter how much you try to convince her, so that part sucks. Got my nut titty fucking her and she left shortly after. She's a typical 21 yr old, kinda annoying personality. Damage was 350 plus Uber, will not repeat.

https://www.seeking.com/member/11a39...8-eb9ef15eaeea

Thanks for the review- was about to pull the trigger based on the photos.

**BlurryVision28** · 07-16-21 23:31

https://www.seeking.com/member/d84fd...2-dd46f5dbcee0

Had a dream with this cutie pie, she's 20 and black / Guatemalan. Looks more Spanish, petite and in great shape and amazing legs / ass. Super pretty face. Pictures don't do her justice. She hosting at a hotel she was staying at (no pro vibes, she just moved from Cali and is in process of getting an apt). We texted for a day and set up PPM that was $ $ $ . She's 420 friendly so we hit a blunt first on her bed. Then fun began. She was wearing tight pink yoga pants and a white tube top, that I slipped off to give her a massage. Then went down, she enjoyed it. She's cool with everything except greek. No hat. Wasn't even brought up. She hit O multiple times during DATY. Moaning so loud and thrusting her hip back in my face shaking. 69 was ridiculous. She gave an amazing BBBJ. And lot of reverse cowgirl to see that beauitful ass. Finished bbfscip. Took shower together, never rushed. Great fun time. Would repeat in a pinch.

**Pyty11** · 07-16-21 18:42

Likely a scammer. The first thing she told me was that she was behind on a lot of stuff and had no groceries (strike #1). I offer her to help her with a PPM and she said ok and how much. I offer her 3 $ and she agreed. Soon after she ask me if I could give her half in advance or at least. 5 (strike #2). I said no, but she replied that she was starving so I offered to order food from her place and she just went radio silence, but she was still online and reading my messages (strike #3, and she is out).

https://www.seeking.com/member/8c42c...3-59d45ef62eba

Happy hunting!

**ChrisHansen92** · 07-16-21 18:21

For 100 a month (no discounts) you use to be able to just cancel "auto renew" which I always did. That has now changed. You now have to go and "cancel subscription" If you do that immediately your profile and messages are hidden. This might mean you have to check your exact 30 day expiration time and cancel before it renews. If your on a prepaid card with no funds NBD. Wade with his 5 billion of annual revenue is always finding ways to f*ck over the paying customer. Us. You now can't check exactly when your membership will expire (meaning hours and minutes) only the day. They are tweaking the site doing all kinds of little changes. Never announced to members. I just noticed I keep a creeper account non paying to track who blocked me etc. You can no longer favorite them to watch them as a non paying profile. Also all messages and profiles over 6 months are now purged and deleted.

Originally Posted by PoppaDux [View Original Post]

Just curious, how difficult is to cancel a membership on Seeking. Been thinking about trying it out for a month but that $90 price tag is a little steep if I don't have any luck.

**DickLongwood** · 07-16-21 17:44

Any intel on Bikinis and Margaritas?

https://www.seeking.com/member/9d16a...d-9ef889399387

**ProCatHunter** · 07-16-21 15:27

These are excellent rules to live by if you want to last in the sugar bowl.

Also the flakiness thing is also a product of most of these girls having rotations. Just like we all have our backups, chances are we are all backups for these girls as well.

Had two on the line last month. Had to cancel m&gs because of life stuff and because there were too many dates so I had to pick and choose. Both deactivated their seeking profiles and have since gone dark.

I've seen their profiles before and based on our exchanges am 99% certain they are both real, but because of timing, couldn't add them to my existing rotation.

At the end of the day take it all with a grain of salt. Life's too short to be salty. Besides odds are that when one of you mongers gets voted of them they'll pop back up on the scene or contact me before setting up a new SA profile.

It's just as annoying for them to weed out all the flakes and assholes as it is for us.

Originally Posted by SuckeredByaSB [View Original Post]

You guys getting upset at ****** acting like idiots and / or broke young dumb girls acting flaky kills me. That's how they are supposed to act. They are immature knuckleheads selling sex to strangers.

1. Never fall in love with one.

2. If you care about the hotel charge, never book the hotel until you are on the way together or you KNOW you have a backup ready to go.

3. Get a burner # obviously.

4. Don't take the ghosting personally. These girls are a mess.

5. Be nice and offer guidance, but don't try to save them and don't let them drag you down.

6. If you see or sense any sign of instability (other than the baseline, LOL) or scam, move on immediately. Do some due diligence. Search the # on spokeo.

7. Never pay for pics or to meet.

8. Don't obsess over the allowance and getting "value". Don't piss away your savings or money for your kids or vacations on these ******, so if you can't afford this just stick to massages or save up for trips to Cartagena or Bangkok. If you can afford it, it's better off being patient and seeing a low mileage true hottie for 400 every other week or every three weeks then going for the 250/300 more often and getting a STD or sucked into their drama.

9. Foreigners are normally more appreciative and hotter.

10. Don't be a creepy stalker abusive asshole. Yeah they are dumb girls selling pussy, but they are someone's daughter and we don't want to screw them up any worse.

Good luck.

**PoppaDux** · 07-16-21 13:58

Just curious, how difficult is to cancel a membership on Seeking. Been thinking about trying it out for a month but that $90 price tag is a little steep if I don't have any luck.

**Dimples572** · 07-16-21 12:58

Originally Posted by Jsidd [View Original Post]

CallerID.com and Callername.com have worked for me in the past very well.

This one is free and will give you a ton of info if its their real number or google voice # attached to their real gmail account.

truepeoplesearch.com

**Jsidd** · 07-16-21 09:58

Originally Posted by SuckeredByaSB [View Original Post]

You guys getting upset at ****** acting like idiots and / or broke young dumb girls acting flaky kills me. That's how they are supposed to act. They are immature knuckleheads selling sex to strangers.

1. Never fall in love with one.

2. If you care about the hotel charge, never book the hotel until you are on the way together or you KNOW you have a backup ready to go.

3. Get a burner # obviously.

4. Don't take the ghosting personally. These girls are a mess.

5. Be nice and offer guidance, but don't try to save them and don't let them drag you down.

6. If you see or sense any sign of instability (other than the baseline, LOL) or scam, move on immediately. Do some due diligence. Search the # on spokeo.

7. Never pay for pics or to meet.

8. Don't obsess over the allowance and getting "value". Don't piss away your savings or money for your kids or vacations on these ******, so if you can't afford this just stick to massages or save up for trips to Cartagena or Bangkok. If you can afford it, it's better off being patient and seeing a low mileage true hottie for 400 every other week or every three weeks then going for the 250/300 more often and getting a STD or sucked into their drama.

9. Foreigners are normally more appreciative and hotter.

10. Don't be a creepy stalker abusive asshole. Yeah they are dumb girls selling pussy, but they are someone's daughter and we don't want to screw them up any worse.

Good luck.

CallerID.com and Callername.com have worked for me in the past very well.

**SuckeredByaSB** · 07-15-21 20:23

You guys getting upset at ****** acting like idiots and / or broke young dumb girls acting flaky kills me. That's how they are supposed to act. They are immature knuckleheads selling sex to strangers.

1. Never fall in love with one.

2. If you care about the hotel charge, never book the hotel until you are on the way together or you KNOW you have a backup ready to go.

3. Get a burner # obviously.

4. Don't take the ghosting personally. These girls are a mess.

5. Be nice and offer guidance, but don't try to save them and don't let them drag you down.

6. If you see or sense any sign of instability (other than the baseline, LOL) or scam, move on immediately. Do some due diligence. Search the # on spokeo.

7. Never pay for pics or to meet.

8. Don't obsess over the allowance and getting "value". Don't piss away your savings or money for your kids or vacations on these ******, so if you can't afford this just stick to massages or save up for trips to Cartagena or Bangkok. If you can afford it, it's better off being patient and seeing a low mileage true hottie for 400 every other week or every three weeks then going for the 250/300 more often and getting a STD or sucked into their drama.

9. Foreigners are normally more appreciative and hotter.

10. Don't be a creepy stalker abusive asshole. Yeah they are dumb girls selling pussy, but they are someone's daughter and we don't want to screw them up any worse.

Good luck.

**Dimples572** · 07-15-21 19:43

Originally Posted by FunDreams [View Original Post]

She's back in the DC area. But now she's asking for 6 just to meet and says she can't host. Had her down to 3 with her hosting at one point. She's all over the place, sometimes super energetic and fun and then she goes dark for a few days only to resurface a different person.

I chatted with her off and on about a month ago. Like you said, flakey as hell. She was adamant about not having sex without protection but I kept working it / negotiating with her and she agreed. So we made plans and she doesn't drive so I told her I'd get a room near her in MD / DC. Double and triple confirmed with her that morning that we were good. She assured me we were so I drove to her neck of the woods and waited to meet her before we got a room. For 2-3 hrs I sat in my truck as she sent text after text, excuse after excuse as to why she was running late assuring me she was on her way. A few times telling me she was literally minutes away from me Finally after 3 hrs of me waiting she literally told me verbatim "My my little cousin has died I can't dos al". Needless to say I was irate, I told her she was a shitty, inconsiderate person, etc.. I was mad, wasted half an entire day on her dumbass. She just texted me back the other day asking if I still wanted to me LOL. But now she refuses to have unprotected sex, only with rubber and wants $500. FOH with that shit.

**SuckeredByaSB** · 07-15-21 19:38

Originally Posted by FunDreams [View Original Post]

VanillaLatteNoFoam.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3e36a...f-d22016b4c17c

Texted for a while. Made plans to meet up. Can't host but was open to 2-3 ppm, didn't finalize figures until we met up. Talks a big game, open to everything covered but ghosted after a few days of texting. Shame, if anyone meets up with her, interested in hearing back.

I might give her another shot in the future, there was potential there.

I enjoyed this one. Thanks for the negotiating leverage.

**FunDreams** · 07-15-21 16:45

Originally Posted by BDM1227 [View Original Post]

Your post parameters wouldn't pick her up unless you went to NYC https://www.seeking.com/member/91d6c...f-4817e3efab55 . And looked at her pics.

She's back in the DC area. But now she's asking for 6 just to meet and says she can't host. Had her down to 3 with her hosting at one point. She's all over the place, sometimes super energetic and fun and then she goes dark for a few days only to resurface a different person.

That seems to be the theme on Seeking lately. Lost of flakes, ghosters and scammers. Will most likely not renew with the crazy monthly fee they charge.

VanillaLatteNoFoam.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3e36a...f-d22016b4c17c

Texted for a while. Made plans to meet up. Can't host but was open to 2-3 ppm, didn't finalize figures until we met up. Talks a big game, open to everything covered but ghosted after a few days of texting. Shame, if anyone meets up with her, interested in hearing back.

I might give her another shot in the future, there was potential there.