"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**CrestWood87** · 07-11-21 12:23

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

Dude your being creepy as F $#k. Sooner or later she is going to find out who you really are. As far as using SA to try and find anything other than friends with benefits is not the smartest move. Remember this you can't turn a WG into a housewife. Sooner or later the hoeness will come back out.

**The Bobster** · 07-11-21 10:29

"I'm somewhat following her social media accounts. " Classic, you're documenting your behavior and making the DA's job a helluva lot easier. Keep us posted, and let us know how it goes down when you're cuffed and thrown in the backseat in the parking lot of this bar. This trainwreck is obvious.

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I think we all got it wrong with all the "stay clear of her" advice to him. We did that when he came up with this idea first a couple of months ago, he still went to her place of work in disguise to stalk her. I think we should help him improve his game. I suggest a fake beard and a wig so that the disguise is foolproof. She may recognize his voice, so voice altering gadget implanted in the throat is a good idea. This will make him to get her agreed to go to FC with him. Now, when you are in the act you have to be careful. She hasn't seen his dick when he met her, he is good there. But fucking a girl while wearing a hat is weird, she may become suspicious. I think he should wear a mask covering the full face. It may interfere with French kissing, but at least he get to fuck her.

Go for it my friend.

Dr. S.

**QuartJess** · 07-11-21 10:26

This is just a PSA to expand your search when searching for chicks on seeking. I usually search the neighboring GA states (TN, AL, FL, SC, NC). This past week, I searched in NC, and I came across a 36 yr old mom that would be in town for her son's travel ball baseball tournament in the Gwinnett area. We exchanged text messages daily, and the messages eventually turned more intimate. She hit me up last night, stating that her son would be staying in a shared room with some of his teammates and that I could stop by today (Sunday morning), at 8:30. When I asked if she was looking for a financial gift for her time, she stated that she hadn't even thought that far ahead and just wanted some excitement before heading to the ball field for the day. Needless to say, I was there at 8:30 sharp, and as I write this, I am fully drained with my semen inside her. I usually post the link to the profile, but this would be too obvious to trace back to me. This is the 4th time I met with a chick off-seeking who drove down from another state for fun.

Have fun and good luck.

**ChrisHansen92** · 07-11-21 10:00

All jokes aside I have been on the receiving end of being served with an "order of protection". A girl I cut off and stopped seeing because she was too high volume decided to get back at me by filing one against me. If you don't show up in court they side with the victim and you have a order of restraint placed against you. All she had to do was walk in fill out a form and make up a few lies. She also received a free victim advocate to represent her. I was quoted 1500-2500 by a couple attorneys. Will spare you all the details but it was very embarrassing and I did get her to dismiss the charges. It sucks.

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I think we all got it wrong with all the "stay clear of her" advice to him. We did that when he came up with this idea first a couple of months ago, he still went to her place of work in disguise to stalk her. I think we should help him improve his game. I suggest a fake beard and a wig so that the disguise is foolproof. She may recognize his voice, so voice altering gadget implanted in the throat is a good idea. This will make him to get her agreed to go to FC with him. Now, when you are in the act you have to be careful. She hasn't seen his dick when he met her, he is good there. But fucking a girl while wearing a hat is weird, she may become suspicious. I think he should wear a mask covering the full face. It may interfere with French kissing, but at least he get to fuck her.

Go for it my friend.

Dr. S.

**DrSummer** · 07-11-21 09:16

I think we all got it wrong with all the "stay clear of her" advice to him. We did that when he came up with this idea first a couple of months ago, he still went to her place of work in disguise to stalk her. I think we should help him improve his game. I suggest a fake beard and a wig so that the disguise is foolproof. She may recognize his voice, so voice altering gadget implanted in the throat is a good idea. This will make him to get her agreed to go to FC with him. Now, when you are in the act you have to be careful. She hasn't seen his dick when he met her, he is good there. But fucking a girl while wearing a hat is weird, she may become suspicious. I think he should wear a mask covering the full face. It may interfere with French kissing, but at least he get to fuck her.

Go for it my friend.

Dr. S.

Originally Posted by TheBobster [View Original Post]

Are you that infatuated that you're reverting to actual stalking? As someone that had to get a restraining order against a stalker myself, you're going down a very dark path. For example, Gwinnett County had no issues in a 30 day sentence in the Lawrenceville facility. And when there were issues after that, an additional six months. So play your little game with this lady, wear your hat and glasses, and be so amazed at how nice she is to you at the bar. I can tell you this, in all probability someone has probably already tipped her off to your behavior. Just have an attorney on speed dial, because you're going to need it.

**DrSummer** · 07-11-21 08:47

My prediction is that the number of genuine girls seeking an arrangement will go up (coinciding with college girls returning to in person classes in colleges in fall). But at the same time the numbers of scammers will go up too. So, it may not necessarily improve the success rate. Good news is if you are smart enough to weed out scammers and find the good ones, you will have more chances. I doubt the asking rate from these girls will go down. I am not an economist, but I know it doesn't go with normal demand-supply theories. Just my gut feeling being in this game for sometime. Pandemic has shown the SB scene is a different ball game.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

Originally Posted by Buzzsaw1 [View Original Post]

Do you think the success rate will pick up now that all the government handouts are stopping?

**The Bobster** · 07-11-21 08:16

Are you that infatuated that you're reverting to actual stalking? As someone that had to get a restraining order against a stalker myself, you're going down a very dark path. For example, Gwinnett County had no issues in a 30 day sentence in the Lawrenceville facility. And when there were issues after that, an additional six months. So play your little game with this lady, wear your hat and glasses, and be so amazed at how nice she is to you at the bar. I can tell you this, in all probability someone has probably already tipped her off to your behavior. Just have an attorney on speed dial, because you're going to need it.

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

**Buzzsaw1** · 07-10-21 19:44

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

...But one thing I know is that it is getting harder. I cast a wide net and message as many as possible. The success rate is going down, but I still mange to find about 3 legit new girls per month. Be respectful to them, but be assertive. Be upfront and clear. Don't play games. The key is to make them feel safe with you, and reliable.

Do you think the success rate will pick up now that all the government handouts are stopping?

**LikeMike1963** · 07-10-21 13:30

This chick has and has had profiles all over the southeast. I had chatted with her, the white girl. She had a profile of her own in Lexington but has been in New Orleans. Louisville. Now Atlanta. Texted a bit offered a very nice monthly allowance. We were to meet and ghosted that day. She currently has an ad In Louisville now.

Originally Posted by Paladin90 [View Original Post]

These young ladies seemed amicable enough to start. I got their number and started chatting them up off the site almost immediately. They wanted $500 each for only 90 minutes. CFS. I refused and their attitude changed drastically. Name calling and shitting on my military service. Good luck to anyone who wants to try talking to them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1f14e...4-a6e5d698083c

**Peter Johnson** · 07-10-21 13:29

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

To state the obvious, I was not suggesting anyone handing their SSN and DL to the girl. The guy got banned from the site because he messed up using a prepaid card. Now he can't get back in. I was telling him risks of using his own card. But worry about LEO monitoring the site is not one of them. I stand by what I said.
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It seems like would be worse to get banned from the site with your real ID and information, than by using a different name. Anyway, JohnnyMapalo posted some tips lately, with re-registering with a prepaid card. I am going to try it, as I was banned a couple of times, and haven't managed to get back in. But using my real name and credit card is just not a reasonable option for me. I will try his technique and report back, if I have some success. I hate to give SA any more money, because they seem to have some real a$$holes running the site, but sadly, I will probably do it.

**JoyDrop** · 07-10-21 13:01

100% scammer.

Don't take it personally. She's just a low class piece of trash trying to scam guys into sending her money under the guise of getting her car fixed. Supposedly she can't get an uber to her house but earlier in our conversation she had told me she lives just a couple of miles outside Athens. It's all just part of her scam. She claims her car is cut off due to non payment, I'm sure there are plenty of guys who send her the $300 she needs to get "mobile" so they can meet. Suckers are born every minute.

When I politely told her I wasn't interested, she went ballistic and sent me a whole bunch hate that was completely irrelevant to our conversation. She told me that all of the things I asked her to do were depraved and sick and she was going to report me to SA and the authorities and all that. Which was really interesting because we had never discussed anything sexual in the slightest to that point. It was obvious that it just a series of copy and paste messages she sends to the guys who aren't dumb enough to fall for her scam. Then of course she told me I was ugly and all that. She's just a sorry little piece of trash, unfortunately SA is full of them. Cast them aside and move on.

Originally Posted by CarmelFight [View Original Post]

Don't have link cause I blocked her but she is complete mess. I thought everything was going well until I mentioned how we were going to meet due to her current situation she can't drive herself, won't get picked up, won't Uber like WTF? Anyways she completely went crazzzzy. The usual, name calling, how we SD's are embarrassing and dumb having to pay for the hobby. How she has 2 "other" SD a d wish I was one of them. LOL umm I guess? I did want her cause thought she was a cute little thing would have many fun nights LOL. Her profile says from Hull, GA but she lied she lives somewhere in Comer.

**DrSummer** · 07-10-21 12:55

To state the obvious, I was not suggesting anyone handing their SSN and DL to the girl. The guy got banned from the site because he messed up using a prepaid card. Now he can't get back in. I was telling him risks of using his own card. But worry about LEO monitoring the site is not one of them. I stand by what I said.

Peace.

Dr. S.

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

To state the obvious, those are not the two choices involved here.

Hey, you can hand all these women a copy of your drivers license and SSN if you want to. That is your choice, and I'm not trying to convince you to do otherwise.

My post was directed to the other mongers out there, and point out that it is often foolish to take unnecessary risks. Burner phone and prepaid cards are always recommended. Don't be like Jerry Springer and write a check to a hooker.

**Peter Johnson** · 07-10-21 12:37

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

Lets see what common sense is. What is more serious offence in legal point of view? Buying a prepaid credit card, then register it with a fake name and address and use if for an international monetary transaction. Or talking to a girl on a dating site and ask her to meet for a coffee?

To state the obvious, those are not the two choices involved here.

Hey, you can hand all these women a copy of your drivers license and SSN if you want to. That is your choice, and I'm not trying to convince you otherwise.

My post was directed to the other mongers out there, and point out that it is often foolish to take unnecessary risks. Burner phone and prepaid cards are always recommended. Don't be like Jerry Springer and write a personal check to a hooker.

**Peter Johnson** · 07-10-21 12:33

Originally Posted by BrewsterBaker [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...b-84ea5088d1bf

Drives an uber at night. So, her schedule is wide open and can come to you. $$. Haven't tried her yet. Submissive, loves porn, loves toys, greek, loves doggy. Very eager.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...b-df61dd36d04f

Those links don't work. Theytry to go to your SA inbox (easy mistake to make). They both sound promising, so could you possibly grab the proper links to their profiles. Thanks much.

**DrSummer** · 07-10-21 12:10

Lets see what common sense is. What is more serious offence in legal point of view? Buying a prepaid credit card, then register it with a fake name and address and use if for an international monetary transaction. Or talking to a girl on a dating site and ask her to meet for a coffee?

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

Yes, I have done some extensive sugaring as well, and no issues yet. That doesn't mean it won't happen, and that doesn't mean I want to make it extra easy for it to happen. And I understand that ignorance is bliss, but some of us do not like to be reckless and careless, when it is unnecessary.

It does apparently take a bit more work to get on SA, with prepaid card and different name, etc but it is worth the extra effort to lower the risk. I don't look over my shoulder all the time. Not even close. And one doesn't need to have a law degree to figure out whether sugaring can be seen as against the law or not. That is common sense. Again, I hope your good luck continues. It probably will, but it very well may not.