NoVA SugarBabies

**JonFisher** · 07-11-21 16:54

https://www.seeking.com/member/549fb...f-d0d0969e3945

Anyone seen her. Just want to make sure she is not a scammer.

**BDM1227** · 07-11-21 07:29

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

I hear you about additional effort in posting links. But without links its super difficult. And almost impossible. For example the <emily flight attendent prospect. I have my search parameters set up which obviously I can't use to search for emily because, I don't know local, age, ethnicity etc. So I have to reset all search parameters and then search for emily, which I did. Still not hits. So my request is please post links. In addition to helping us, think of someone wanting info on someone 6 months from now is searching for reviews using the last part of the URL like we all do. This kind of post without link won't come up in the searches. And lastly SA searches are not that sophisticated. So my request is to post links.

Your post parameters wouldn't pick her up unless you went to NYC https://www.seeking.com/member/91d6c...f-4817e3efab55 . And looked at her pics.

**Shinshi** · 07-10-21 14:12

Originally Posted by AdcFellow [View Original Post]

No offense Jon, but girls activate and deactivate their profiles all the time. Certainly very few are still on SA after a month, and a very small percentage after 6 months. Thus, posting a link is not that helpful either, even if I have access to it (which is not always the case if they block you). Finally, although I keep a running tally of the numbers I get, I don't keep a list of the links for the reasons listed above. Thus, it is a lot of extra work to recreate the last weeks of messaging. If you want links, feel free to post them. You are also fine just ignoring my posts. But to ask me to be your personal secretary so that you don't have to reset your search parameters is quite selfish.

P.S. "Emily" has deactivated her account.

Not trying to pile on what three others have already said, but that earlier post was pretty heavy on excuses which lack merit. If you don't want to share certain details, that's your prerogative. No one's asking for a play-by-play, nor asking you to be their "personal secretary. " And you're right that many girls don't linger on Seeking more than a few months. This isn't a forum where we twist people's arm & try to get a free lunch (well, maybe the newbies might try though they're almost always shot down). And like you, I'm hesitant to share numbers while keeping personal faves close to the chest (until the girl or I tire of each other's company).

However, posts without links / screenshots are almost worthless. It's even more so when you don't even bother with a location, age, hair color, or anything for all the ones you had "described". Case in point, you wrote "Emily is a Hispanic flight attendant" who's down for 400 PPM. That couldn't be any more vague. Be honest, how do you even begin to search with such limited parameters? You seriously mean to say / write with a straight face that JonFisher's being selfish for asking basic info? That Emily isn't a common name and that we're all supposed to extrapolate off that kind of info? Be reasonable.

By sharing links along with a username, age, and location, it helps pinpoint who you're even talking about. If they block you or take their profile down, fine. No problem. That's outside your control. But whether you admit it or not, it does help weed out the scams, freeloaders, lazy lays, thieves, violent con artists, etc. If you don't recall who's who or can keep your interactions with SBs straight, that's fine. Bottom line, that one post of yours wasn't much good for anything other than bolster your total post count below your name. Sorry, but that's facts.

**RegularJoe1985** · 07-10-21 08:32

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

With out a link I view it as half a review. Not everyone will go searching for the name. Names change more often then the girls deleting their account. When you search a name, and find nothing you are not sure if you mess up in the search, they change names, or close account. A link makes it clear if the account is active. Giving a link is like keeping the door open when somebody's walking right behind you. Just being courteous.

I've also discussed this earlier but can't get some people to see the logic, not yet though.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...383&viewfull=1#post5393383.

**SuckeredByaSB** · 07-10-21 02:12

https://www.seeking.com/member/fd5ed...c-207075e4f88c

Let me know if one of you mongers taps this ass. She was on hinge looking for a serious relationship, and now I see her selling pussy on SA. Too funny. She is lying about her age and face is pretty rough, but nice Korean / black mix bod.

**Dimples572** · 07-09-21 19:29

This one's an utr pro posing as an SB. Everything covered, $300 an hour. Pretty sure I've seen her pics on pro sites before.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2e398...e-5d06641b7fe6

**Dimples572** · 07-09-21 19:01

Originally Posted by AdcFellow [View Original Post]

No offense Jon, but girls activate and deactivate their profiles all the time. Certainly very few are still on SA after a month, and a very small percentage after 6 months. Thus, posting a link is not that helpful either, even if I have access to it (which is not always the case if they block you). Finally, although I keep a running tally of the numbers I get, I don't keep a list of the links for the reasons listed above. Thus, it is a lot of extra work to recreate the last weeks of messaging. If you want links, feel free to post them. You are also fine just ignoring my posts. But to ask me to be your personal secretary so that you don't have to reset your search parameters is quite selfish.

P.S. "Emily" has deactivated her account.

I couldn't disagree more. This is supposed to be a community about sharing and helping each other out as much as possible. You being too lazy to provide the link is incredibly selfish. And like I mentioned in my previous post, chicks change their username all the time. Your reasons for not providing the info aren't reasons, they're excuses.

**ShortMan22** · 07-09-21 17:55

Originally Posted by CireSire [View Original Post]

Met this one today.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8781d...8-4bf7f443bfaf

Should have known this was going to be a disaster when I asked for more pics and she sent one of her in a hotel smh. She also said she can host but wanted to do a meet and greet. She said she for PPM is 300. I said no and could do 200. She ended up meeting me a public place super later. She took and Uber all the way from Alexandria to Woodbridge that she paid for. She did look like her pics but there was no connection but I didn't want to waste a trip so I said let go. She got all the way to my car and proceeded asl me where are we going. I said back to my place. She said I'm not trying to do anything it's a meet and greet. I said okay. Then asked me for money. I told her to get out my car as she was giving me attitude. She got out and that was that. Is this the new con now? Show up and show out and try to get money without doing anything. Not on my watch.

Seriously we need to boycott SA for not doing a better job. There has been a huge increase with scammers and flakes lately. I'm seriously thinking about canceling my membership and take a break.

**ChrisHansen92** · 07-09-21 17:54

That's why she's on there doing M & G offering nothing getting paid. I rarely even do M & G. If I have to it's about 20 minutes and 10 bucks at Starbucks. That's it. Simps feel guilty and give them money. They then go home alone and Jack off to pics the girl sold them hoping they will get the real thing someday. They never do. Guys stop giving these girls money if your not getting sex in return. We are the problem. Not them.

Originally Posted by CireSire [View Original Post]

Met this one today.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8781d...8-4bf7f443bfaf

Should have known this was going to be a disaster when I asked for more pics and she sent one of her in a hotel smh. She also said she can host but wanted to do a meet and greet. She said she for PPM is 300. I said no and could do 200. She ended up meeting me a public place super later. She took and Uber all the way from Alexandria to Woodbridge that she paid for. She did look like her pics but there was no connection but I didn't want to waste a trip so I said let go. She got all the way to my car and proceeded asl me where are we going. I said back to my place. She said I'm not trying to do anything it's a meet and greet. I said okay. Then asked me for money. I told her to get out my car as she was giving me attitude. She got out and that was that. Is this the new con now? Show up and show out and try to get money without doing anything. Not on my watch.

**CireSire** · 07-09-21 17:41

Met this one today.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8781d...8-4bf7f443bfaf

Should have known this was going to be a disaster when I asked for more pics and she sent one of her in a hotel smh. She also said she can host but wanted to do a meet and greet. She said she for PPM is 300. I said no and could do 200. She ended up meeting me a public place super later. She took and Uber all the way from Alexandria to Woodbridge that she paid for. She did look like her pics but there was no connection but I didn't want to waste a trip so I said let go. She got all the way to my car and proceeded asl me where are we going. I said back to my place. She said I'm not trying to do anything it's a meet and greet. I said okay. Then asked me for money. I told her to get out my car as she was giving me attitude. She got out and that was that. Is this the new con now? Show up and show out and try to get money without doing anything. Not on my watch.

**AdcFellow** · 07-09-21 17:14

No offense Jon, but girls activate and deactivate their profiles all the time. Certainly very few are still on SA after a month, and a very small percentage after 6 months. Thus, posting a link is not that helpful either, even if I have access to it (which is not always the case if they block you). Finally, although I keep a running tally of the numbers I get, I don't keep a list of the links for the reasons listed above. Thus, it is a lot of extra work to recreate the last weeks of messaging. If you want links, feel free to post them. You are also fine just ignoring my posts. But to ask me to be your personal secretary so that you don't have to reset your search parameters is quite selfish.

P.S. "Emily" has deactivated her account.

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

I hear you about additional effort in posting links. But without links its super difficult. And almost impossible. For example the <emily flight attendent prospect. I have my search parameters set up which obviously I can't use to search for emily because, I don't know local, age, ethnicity etc. So I have to reset all search parameters and then search for emily, which I did. Still not hits. So my request is please post links. In addition to helping us, think of someone wanting info on someone 6 months from now is searching for reviews using the last part of the URL like we all do. This kind of post without link won't come up in the searches. And lastly SA searches are not that sophisticated. So my request is to post links.

**CireSire** · 07-09-21 14:54

Originally Posted by MikelSuTiger [View Original Post]

She sent me some photos then wanted to send me videos for a donation. Told her I preferred tommeet in person. Then crickets.

Red Flag is usually sending nude pics right from the start without even asking. She sent me some as well and I knew right away it was a scam.

**MikelSuTiger** · 07-09-21 14:08

Originally Posted by ShortMan22 [View Original Post]

G93728.

Did the same thing to me.

She sent me some photos then wanted to send me videos for a donation. Told her I preferred tommeet in person. Then crickets.

**JohnnyFive85** · 07-09-21 13:11

SDM has added a feature that reveals your current location when you login. I've enjoyed calling out the catfishes.

I'll post some more reviews this weekend, since that seems to be the only way anyone will share phone numbers with me. I'm off SA currently, took a break while joining SDM and working the Tinder and Instagram methods. I have a former volleyball player from you of Buffalo, a former UMD dance team member and a complete pothead who is pretty hot but more importantly lives literally within walking distance to me in the rotation. Nine of whom I met on SA.

That is why I'm hoping to work with some guys on DM to swap some numbers. SA isn't the only way to meet SBs fellas. Step up your game. And hit me up if you have any numbers for current college athletes. Love them. I'll reciprocate. We're on the same team here men.

**ShortMan22** · 07-09-21 12:22

Originally Posted by Mcc110 [View Original Post]

G93728.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4ef1e...9-6903545c8285

Plans to meet up then asked for "money for groceries". Said no but I'd take care of her when I would meet her. Ghosted.

Hotwifesb.

https://www.seeking.com/member/960ea...4-2f934376641f

"Husband's rules" include sending money before any meet ups. Give me a break.

Aleegm.

https://www.seeking.com/member/75328...1-644ad60478c3

Is real and ready to meet up. Just haven't pulled the trigger.

Foreignconcept.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2f4b8...3-0bdf23b8621c

Met for a meet and greet. Cool, tomboyish girl from Eastern Europe (although not much of an accent). She is new to this and in no rush to jump in. Taking her time to find someone. A little thick but fit and chill personality. Never discussed $ but I think she is looking for like 400-500 for get togethers. Didn't follow up.

G93728.

Did the same thing to me.