"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**DrSummer** · 07-09-21 09:12

I have been on SA closer to 4 years now, always paid with my own credit card. I cancel autopayment option right after I pay and take out credit card info. Never had any issue so far (either them mishandling the card (overcharge etc), and no indication someone else stole my info. I am more comfortable using my own card so that I can challenge it if there is unauthorized charge. But, there are reasons why you want to use a prepaid card or something else, not your own card.

1. Your wife (or SO) checks your credit card expenses and question the charge. That doesn't apply to me.

2. A hack like Ashley Madison happens with SA (good possibility) and your personal info become public associated with SA site. I am divorced and don't give a fuck about that. The place where I work doesn't care who I fuck as long as I don't fuck a girl who is reporting to me.

I have no concern whatsoever about LEO. They are not monitoring the site to check who fucks who. You don't have to worry about that unless you are committing a criminal offence such as talking to a girl underage or stalking someone. If LEO wants to find who you are (if you are committing a crime) using a fake credit card is not going to help, they are going to find you. Actually it would be more incriminating that you used a fake name with a prepaid credit card to join in.

I know different people have different level of risk tolerance. But, I will tell you sugar dating is not for the weak-hearted. You have to take some risks to reap rewards. Not to boast, but to give you and idea, I am touching 60, and by any means not Brad Pitt type material. I keep records, I have fucked more than 80 different girls I met from SA for the last 4 years. About a half are college girls. I don't spend a fortune for that either. It can be done. But one thing I know is that it is getting harder. I cast a wide net and message as many as possible. The success rate is going down, but I still mange to find about 3 legit new girls per month. Be respectful to them, but be assertive. Be upfront and clear. Don't play games. The key is to make them feel safe with you, and reliable.

Enjoy the Bowl.

Dr. S.

Originally Posted by HugeDell [View Original Post]

All seniors on seeking please advise, I tried to register with a visa gift card and it automatically blocked my account.

What am I risking if I pay with my regular card? Is it theft reasons I should not give out info or LEO (site isn't protected) kind of reason?

I am single no wife no kids, I am not really hiding from anyone, I need to be on there as it's life and death situation, I am very depressed and I think a good GFE BBFS and cip would get me back on track. You guys have posted at least 10-15 users who were verified so I think I have the best chance of getting that on seeking.

Thank you for the help.

**2me4Looking2** · 07-09-21 09:06

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

You have definitely crossed the line and become a stalker. This kind of shit makes it harder on the rest of us because it will make her even less trusting. She said no and you need to move on. If I were in her shoes, I would be more than pissed if someone pulled this shit. Nothing good is going to come of this.

**2me4Looking2** · 07-09-21 08:50

Originally Posted by HugeDell [View Original Post]

All seniors on seeking please advise, I tried to register with a visa gift card and it automatically blocked my account.

What am I risking if I pay with my regular card? Is it theft reasons I should not give out info or LEO (site isn't protected) kind of reason?

I am single no wife no kids, I am not really hiding from anyone, I need to be on there as it's life and death situation, I am very depressed and I think a good GFE BBFS and cip would get me back on track. You guys have posted at least 10-15 users who were verified so I think I have the best chance of getting that on seeking.

Thank you for the help.

My account was also suspended yesterday and I originally thought the payment was processed and then I was suspended, but after checking my balance I see the charge never went through. It's still frustrating, but at least I don't feel like I was robbed. I've been paying with a virtual Visa from giftcards.com for a couple of years now and never had an issue. Has anyone else had their account suspended after paying with a virtual gift card? Also, has anyone renewed in the last couple of weeks with a gift card and if so can you please tell me what brand and where it came from. The verbiage on the notice makes it seem like this is a timed suspension so I'm hoping it will be lifted, but I'll still be faced with having to pay.

To answer this question about the risk of using a real credit card. Take a look at some of the articles regarding the Ashley Madison hack several years ago. Lots of people had their identities released for the world to see and it cost people their jobs, friends, and marriages. If you aren't worried about blowback from the world knowing then go for it.

**DrSummer** · 07-09-21 08:39

This is funny. But you are running into a dangerous legal territory of "stalking". She turned you down for a reason (whatever it is), get a clue and move on. Lets think about of situation where roles are reversed. You turned down 5 out of 8 you met. Assume the ugliest of them looked you up found where you work and turn up in disguise at your workplace (or at your house) to talk to you to change your mind. How do you feel about that, and what would your reaction be?

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

**MrHobbyist** · 07-08-21 23:54

Originally Posted by Pharmacy470 [View Original Post]

I signed up for sugardaddymeet for 90 for 3 months. I have seen a few profiles that are the same as on seeking. Initial impression is that it feels the volume of women is less.

I have reached out to a few prospects and am hoping something comes out of it.

Sorry for all those that were suspended off seeking. I also didn't have much language in there that I thought was questionable or over the top. I'll just assume they may have gotten in trouble or something happened on their backend that warrants this type of action as it didn't matter for the 2 years I was a member.

I didn't have a whole lot of luck. I made a lot of contacts, scheduled a few meets, but they were either asking way too much out the gate or trying to set up an allowance. I dropped the account when the three months was over.

**PharmaGuy72** · 07-08-21 22:19

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

She's been discussed on here before I believe.

**Yinzer67** · 07-08-21 21:45

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

You have already posted about this same girl and her rejection of you. Twice! WTF? Get over it and move on.

**MatchesM** · 07-08-21 20:57

Originally Posted by BuckHead71 [View Original Post]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

I would say its a reason she turned you down, take the hint and be an adult. Especially if she turned you down after meeting.

Everyone isn't for everyone, even if we find the other party attractive.

**BuckHead71** · 07-08-21 20:11

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

**HugeDell** · 07-08-21 16:52

All seniors on seeking please advise, I tried to register with a visa gift card and it automatically blocked my account.

What am I risking if I pay with my regular card? Is it theft reasons I should not give out info or LEO (site isn't protected) kind of reason?

I am single no wife no kids, I am not really hiding from anyone, I need to be on there as it's life and death situation, I am very depressed and I think a good GFE BBFS and cip would get me back on track. You guys have posted at least 10-15 users who were verified so I think I have the best chance of getting that on seeking.

Thank you for the help.

**QuartJess** · 07-08-21 16:28

Originally Posted by GnesSmith [View Original Post]

Man I thought I was special everybody's fucking this hoe holy shit LOL.

LOL. Never think that you're special to these SA chicks. One time I met this SA chick at a room in Duluth. We did our thing for a few hours, and while she was still in the parking lot with my hot cum freshly inserted inside of her, she was texting my other number, thinking I was someone else saying that she was ready to come to meet. I just laughed and shook my head. As for PlayWithKay, she sent me a text one night, I responded early the next morning, and by lunchtime, I was releasing deep inside her.

**GnesSmith** · 07-08-21 14:22

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/3ae71...1-a64ada37e2d7

I've seen her twice now. She comes into town every few weeks for work and looking for some fun during the day. Everything bare and she usually can't host but willing to come to my side of town. She asked for $$$ but got her to $$.

While she is fun, I probably won't see her again. She's ready to leave after 1 round and not really the type to cuddle afterward etc which I like.

Man I thought I was special everybody's fucking this hoe holy shit LOL.

**Pharmacy470** · 07-08-21 13:42

I signed up for sugardaddymeet for 90 for 3 months. I have seen a few profiles that are the same as on seeking. Initial impression is that it feels the volume of women is less.

I have reached out to a few prospects and am hoping something comes out of it.

Sorry for all those that were suspended off seeking. I also didn't have much language in there that I thought was questionable or over the top. I'll just assume they may have gotten in trouble or something happened on their backend that warrants this type of action as it didn't matter for the 2 years I was a member.

**Harley32** · 07-08-21 11:08

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I know people get their accounts suspended and it finally happened to me, but the timing and way it happened has me very pissed. I log in and get a notice that my account has been flagged for a possible violation and they make me read a long document and watch a video to get access to the site. I go through this and am then able to log in. Literally 5 minutes after that I get the popup that my account has expired. I use a prepaid card and it had no money left so I buy a new virtual card and pay the 99.99 and it processes the payment and then immediately logs me out. I then try to log back in and get the notice that my account is suspended. That is literally stealing my money and I'm very pissed. I emailed support, but I don't expect any resolution.

I am VERY careful what I discuss on there. It's impossible to avoid women mentioning PPM, but I do my best not to use any terms that would get me flagged. No idea what it was that they didn't like.

I think it goes beyond PPM. You can't talk about money / allowance / support and any hint of sex / bedroom activities / adult play, etc, etc. I always ask what they're looking for and if I get the hint that we're on the same page, I immediately suggest we text and discuss details off site. I even say you can get your profile deleted for discussing details on the site. I don't even agree with what they just suggested.

You can't control what the other person says, just don't agree with it or anything that they can use to say your were engaging in such discussions.

**HugeDell** · 07-08-21 11:07

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I know people get their accounts suspended and it finally happened to me, but the timing and way it happened has me very pissed. I log in and get a notice that my account has been flagged for a possible violation and they make me read a long document and watch a video to get access to the site. I go through this and am then able to log in. Literally 5 minutes after that I get the popup that my account has expired. I use a prepaid card and it had no money left so I buy a new virtual card and pay the 99.99 and it processes the payment and then immediately logs me out. I then try to log back in and get the notice that my account is suspended. That is literally stealing my money and I'm very pissed. I emailed support, but I don't expect any resolution.

I am VERY careful what I discuss on there. It's impossible to avoid women mentioning PPM, but I do my best not to use any terms that would get me flagged. No idea what it was that they didn't like.

I don't think they took your money, the gift card should have the money still on, mine does.

I tried to log in for the first time with a prepaid and it automatically logged me out and gave me the suspended notice.

I am really depressed as it would have been my first time on seeking, and there are like 10 leads posted on here for a good time, and was wanting to try them out. Is it risky to give them my real card? I don't have a wife and not hiding from anyone, I was just not willing to risk my card for theft reasons but I can give all my info if it's not a matter of security.