Arrangement Reports

[SummerCheer]

When I contacted her she said she was interested and was I available that night. Which was an interesting response as I'd only said I like her photos and asked her name?

She is not BBFS friendly. She asked or 250 for a ppm. Just a heads up.

[Limeyincal]

Anyone meet up with this one? She is DTF but didn't pursue because I am guessing fake pics and probably a pro.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5347...0-5e51eb82d307

When I contacted her she said she was interested and was I available that night. Which was an interesting response as I'd only said I like her photos and asked her name?

[ChicagoGoer]

Anyone speak to this one? Profile says platonic but initial conversation appears to lead to more.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b3962...8-e8de0f7e5ab2

[JustinFields]

Anyone meet up with this one? She is DTF but didn't pursue because I am guessing fake pics and probably a pro.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5347...0-5e51eb82d307

Anyone meet up with this one? I have been talking to this one but it appears she wants to start off platonic.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d466a...c-180e51e29571

[JustinFields]

Anyone have any luck with this one? Our schedules didn't match but it appears she is always online.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7e20c...8-615b7d05cae8

[ThickWallet]

I just rejoined after a year and am trading messages with this one. Anyone have any info? https://www.seeking.com/member/2111f...b-b09482017bf6.

She probably has ENFP personality or something similar and you would find it to be extremely draining to be dating her. Go for it if you have a penchant for complex conversations, exciting drama, damning judgments, mind blowing sex, and your wife eventually finding out "by accident".

[Bonadrag]

I just rejoined after a year and am trading messages with this one. Anyone have any info? https://www.seeking.com/member/2111f...b-b09482017bf6.

[Limeyincal]

Millek.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8ef75...b-350638988cd3

This one wanted me to view and purchase something from her extensive Wishlist before proceeding with any communication, asking me if I had viewed her wishlist.

Needless to say now Blocked.

[MnCuckold]

That's one way to go. One of my best arrangements started this way. On the other hand, four of my worst lays on Seeking started this way. A girl who agrees to meet you in a Dunkin Donuts for 10 minutes right before you fuck in the motel next door may or may not be a good time. But the odds are a lot higher that she's a hustler, semi-pro, desperate because of her circumstances or sees me just as a source of cash and nothing else. That can be hot. I'd love to see a girl who turned 18 last week and is exploring her wild side with me a month before she decides to get into porn. And it would be exciting to see a 25 yo married chic who is desperate for just enough money to hire a divorce lawyer. But in reality, in my experience these kinds of very transactional arrangements are just like seeing an escort, which doesn't really do it for me.

The best sex with the hottest girls have been in arrangements where we went to a nice dinner to meet and she wouldn't go to a hotel with me until date two. And there's been a bunch of girls who went on a nice dinner with me and wouldn't go to a hotel with me ever, despite my best sales pitch. It's not wasted money. It's an investment. Some of these girls I'm still thinking about when I jerk off 10 years later. That's life changing sex and I can't wait to put in the investment to have more of it.

Sometimes I'm traveling and horny and I take what I can get. But the difference in how much I enjoy A) "This girl is cute and says she's basically DTF, but in her snapchat she's clearly been up for 24 hours and it looks like there's a gun in her backseat?" and B) "That Purdue cheerleader was with me two weeks ago and I just saw her on ESPN. " . Is tremendous.

I agree. I've slept with some remarkably attractive women on SA which required some investment, like a dinner and drinks where I didn't actually sleep with them the first time. And, actually, that wasn't at all terrible. Especially the very smart ones who are going somewhere in life whose company I actually really enjoyed--the law students, the med school women, the art history PhD student (I just think it's worth that investment. But again, it's a matter of taste and preference and I fully respect those who prefer a different pathway.

[NewInChi]

Cynthia.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5b624...b-20c4779fe0ab

- asks for money upfront.

Westyneulii8.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bc929...8-1fc972317e6a

Scammer and selling pics. Asked me to install Skype or hangouts. LOL.

Smartblonde3.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...1-8d21b453590d

asked to send some money for uber upfront.

[TheCondor7]

When meeting up a girl for first time, meet up for a coffee or a quick bite. Avoid going out for dinners, it can get expensive. Especially if you're not even sure of the outcome afterward. I'm only posting this in case it is of any use to any newbies. Surely all you experienced hobbies know this as "common sense. ".

I am definitely a bit rusty, finally connected with a girl last week. We had been chatting a few months ago. The girl is gorgeous, had a cute dress that showed off her great body very nicely. Convo was enjoyable. We fucked at the end of the night, so everything was on point.

Work usually keeps me busy, so I had gone along with her pick on where to go for dinner. Seemed like a good idea at the time, but the bill with drinks afterward was almost 2 bills. I'd want to avoid spending too much on a p4 p girl. Shoot, even if we're fucking for free. Our next date will be at her house. I'll just pick up a 6 pack and order a pizza.

Definitely agree about getting coffee for meeting up for the first time. There's also an influx of women who listen to the podcast "call her daddy" where they've discussed going on dates for free food at fancy restaurants. My impression there's a lot more of that going on now too.

[DynoJr]

That's one way to go. One of my best arrangements started this way. On the other hand, four of my worst lays on Seeking started this way. A girl who agrees to meet you in a Dunkin Donuts for 10 minutes right before you fuck in the motel next door may or may not be a good time. But the odds are a lot higher that she's a hustler, semi-pro, desperate because of her circumstances or sees me just as a source of cash and nothing else. That can be hot. I'd love to see a girl who turned 18 last week and is exploring her wild side with me a month before she decides to get into porn. And it would be exciting to see a 25 yo married chic who is desperate for just enough money to hire a divorce lawyer. But in reality, in my experience these kinds of very transactional arrangements are just like seeing an escort, which doesn't really do it for me.

The best sex with the hottest girls have been in arrangements where we went to a nice dinner to meet and she wouldn't go to a hotel with me until date two. And there's been a bunch of girls who went on a nice dinner with me and wouldn't go to a hotel with me ever, despite my best sales pitch. It's not wasted money. It's an investment. Some of these girls I'm still thinking about when I jerk off 10 years later. That's life changing sex and I can't wait to put in the investment to have more of it.

Sometimes I'm traveling and horny and I take what I can get. But the difference in how much I enjoy A) "This girl is cute and says she's basically DTF, but in her snapchat she's clearly been up for 24 hours and it looks like there's a gun in her backseat?" and B) "That Purdue cheerleader was with me two weeks ago and I just saw her on ESPN. " . Is tremendous.

Haven't been premium since just before pandemic but have been thinking a lot about what I want out of it. Spending money that doesn't necessarily go straight to hookups are ok with me as long as I have a good time with her, which can happen with the right ones. I'm just trying to figure out what that profile is before making the investment. Maybe one day a Lauren Boebert type will run for Congress and I'll immediately know what she likes to do in bed.

[Natefarwell]

All:

Seeing if someone can help me gather some information. I have seen a smokeshow named Olivia from Milwaukee a few times now. Her profile name was LittleMiss (Deactivated). She also goes by Liv. She has seen a few of you in the Chicago area so that is why I am asking you all. She says she wants to do an exclusive with me. However, I have caught her a couple lies already. I am reaching out to see if anyone is still seeing her or texting still. Please PM me with any info. Thank you.

[HarryMcHardon]

I found that even that's a waste. I offer to meet them in public. They like that. Then I tell them to lets meet in the parking lot and we can chat in one of our cars without having to whisper. 90% of the time they are ok with that. I usually push for a motel parking lot and say that if you are not comfortable we don't have to go further. If you are, here we are.

Pretty much my approach. But if I could do dinner / drinks, I would with selected prospects. I just like drinking and talking, and if it's with a nice looking woman so much the better! I just don't have the freedom to do dinners / drinks so with me, it's pretty much short, cheap M&G's. I realize that many women want dinner / drinks, and it probably leads to better dates and higher quality simply because it reduces the stigma of P2 P. I just have to realize I won't ever get those SBs. BUt it does save me money. I am upfront, I do tell them that they will never have evening dates with me. Cuts through the BS and saves time. But it does cost plenty of responses.

When I do manage to achieve one, M&Gs have worked out well for me whether the parking lot variety, or a coffee shop. Sometimes it can get awkward at the coffee shops, though if the girl is particularly hot and / or she dresses sexy. Now I say "Don't dress sexy!" if doing a public M&G. The seating at Starbucks is very tight, lotta loners staring silently into PC screens, closeby, easy for them to pretend they're busy on the laptop creating the next Amazon instead of trying to listen to what that old man and hottie are discussing. And it's usually some 20-something incel type, drooling and doing a poor job of hiding the fact he's staring at your date, and wondering why HE can't have coffee with that hot 20-something, instead of some old guy. LOL.

[HarryMcHardon]

I was on SA a couple years ago and recently reactivated. You can still strike gold, but it feels like a lot more work, and the girls are more flaky, entitled, and shameless than ever. Avoid the strippers.

I saw a difference between my 2nd whirl on SA, in Feb / Mar 2021 vs my 1st whirl, early 2020.2nd whirl, probably jumped back in too early, before the pandemic broke. It wasn't totally insurmountable, because I found a few SBs that were mountable and insertable. But the quality just wasn't there for me vs my earlier spin. My impression was there were less women active on the site. Especially college types. Had to work harder.

I did find a keeper that I'm still seeing, nice but not the ultra hottie keeper I found last time. I also got the impression the girls were more impatient and more likely to move on if they didn't hear back quickly or felt you weren't serious. Another thing I really didn't feel last time. I like to chat and joke around for a little while, to feel the girl out. Some don't have the patience for that, I guess. I did make a couple stupid rookie mistakes that I feel cost me a couple good prospects. That's on me. Less room for error in one's approach maybe. ☹ Face it, some guys will always be successful, no matter what, and the decline in SBs will be more keenly felt by the 2nd and 3rd tier guys (unfortunately, that would be me&#9785.

Still will admit, definitely worth the price of emission, um. Admission. It's only $100, chump change. The time, effort and frustration are the big considerations. Guess there's always that hit on your self confidence if you strike out after 30 days. Plenty of K's there but in between there are a few homeruns. LOL I'll probably jump back in soon.