Arrangement Reports

**Randolph** · 07-02-21 10:31

I found that even that's a waste. I offer to meet them in public. They like that. Then I tell them to lets meet in the parking lot and we can chat in one of our cars without having to whisper. 90% of the time they are ok with that. I usually push for a motel parking lot and say that if you are not comfortable we don't have to go further. If you are, here we are.

Originally Posted by DynoJr [View Original Post]

If you've never met, dinner can be a long time to suffer through a bad meet. Coffee is great. It's in the morning so if she's into bad shit it is tough to hide. Less expensive than dinner and you can end it as soon as it goes awry.

My best first meet was with one that looked like a young Robin Wright Penn. I must have been drooling during the whole talk and I might have even proposed. The record skipped once the subject of my marriage came up.

In topic but I think it's not worth the effort to hide your relationship. In fact I think a lot of these girls are actually turned on by the idea of being the other woman. This one wasn't, not because of any moral dilemma just didn't want to have to sneak around. She was in her 30's but I think girls in their 20's enjoy the game. Maybe some of you disagree but I kind of feel this way.

**DynoJr** · 07-01-21 22:36

Originally Posted by MrCharmo [View Original Post]

When meeting up a girl for first time, meet up for a coffee or a quick bite. Avoid going out for dinners, it can get expensive. Especially if you're not even sure of the outcome afterward. I'm only posting this in case it is of any use to any newbies. Surely all you experienced hobbies know this as "common sense. ".

I am definitely a bit rusty, finally connected with a girl last week. We had been chatting a few months ago. The girl is gorgeous, had a cute dress that showed off her great body very nicely. Convo was enjoyable. We fucked at the end of the night, so everything was on point.

Work usually keeps me busy, so I had gone along with her pick on where to go for dinner. Seemed like a good idea at the time, but the bill with drinks afterward was almost 2 bills. I'd want to avoid spending too much on a p4 p girl. Shoot, even if we're fucking for free. Our next date will be at her house. I'll just pick up a 6 pack and order a pizza.

If you've never met, dinner can be a long time to suffer through a bad meet. Coffee is great. It's in the morning so if she's into bad shit it is tough to hide. Less expensive than dinner and you can end it as soon as it goes awry.

My best first meet was with one that looked like a young Robin Wright Penn. I must have been drooling during the whole talk and I might have even proposed. The record skipped once the subject of my marriage came up.

In topic but I think it's not worth the effort to hide your relationship. In fact I think a lot of these girls are actually turned on by the idea of being the other woman. This one wasn't, not because of any moral dilemma just didn't want to have to sneak around. She was in her 30's but I think girls in their 20's enjoy the game. Maybe some of you disagree but I kind of feel this way.

**RusselJimmies** · 07-01-21 19:58

Originally Posted by Silver6933 [View Original Post]

Hi,

I haven't been on SA for like 4 years and thinking of getting back in the game. Is it still worth it to join? I know they are banning users now not like before. Thanks.

I was on SA a couple years ago and recently reactivated. You can still strike gold, but it feels like a lot more work, and the girls are more flaky, entitled, and shameless than ever. Avoid the strippers.

**Silver6933** · 07-01-21 19:13

Hi,

I haven't been on SA for like 4 years and thinking of getting back in the game. Is it still worth it to join? I know they are banning users now not like before. Thanks.

**Nidhogg69** · 07-01-21 17:23

Originally Posted by JonnyRyall [View Original Post]

I know someone else she did this to. Exactly the same. Pleasant first meeting with really deep hardship stories. Keeps the psychopath well hidden, then come threats, extortion, deadlines, etc.

I think they operate on the same level as those scammer on social media that try and trap guys into video chat "sex" and then attempt to extort money saying they were talking to an underage girl and all the rest. 99% of them are all bluster and if you just refuse to engage and block them, move on to their next target. They are preying on guys who panic or think "OMG! What am I going to do, let's pay to see if this stops or goes away". Except like that, if you pay. They never go away. The threats keep coming and it just escalates. There are stories out there of guys killing themselves after getting caught up in this kind of stuff. I'm taking advice from LEO on this one and just refusing to engage, blocked her, and saving EVERYTHING just in case she decides to actually go thru with the threats.

**RusselJimmies** · 07-01-21 16:35

Originally Posted by MrCharmo [View Original Post]

Work usually keeps me busy, so I had gone along with her pick on where to go for dinner. Seemed like a good idea at the time, but the bill with drinks afterward was almost 2 bills. I'd want to avoid spending too much on a p4 p girl. Shoot, even if we're fucking for free. Our next date will be at her house. I'll just pick up a 6 pack and order a pizza.

Obviously you need a decent level of game, which is more or less true of SA in general. But how do you lead the conversation to get to that meetup and fuck while sidestepping explicit talk of arrangements, expectations, and benefits? Do you just treat it like any other dating site or is there more to it?

**Yardy00** · 07-01-21 15:31

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3592...6-afeeaa826715

Never talked to her before, but messaged me "scammer scammer scammer" and blocked me LOL.

So probably best to avoid.

**Mr Charmo** · 07-01-21 14:40

Here's another rookie move I made last week: letting a girl drink way too much. Not only more likely she'll start acting stupid, complaining about her life, get sloppy. But chances good the sex will suck as well. I am somewhat conflicted on this one, since a little bit of alcohol can help her feel more comfortable. You just want to make sure she doesn't over do it. You end up with a harder to handle chick. Plus, you're only running up your bill for the drinks. Silly reminder: LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES.

**Mr Charmo** · 07-01-21 14:22

When meeting up a girl for first time, meet up for a coffee or a quick bite. Avoid going out for dinners, it can get expensive. Especially if you're not even sure of the outcome afterward. I'm only posting this in case it is of any use to any newbies. Surely all you experienced hobbies know this as "common sense. ".

I am definitely a bit rusty, finally connected with a girl last week. We had been chatting a few months ago. The girl is gorgeous, had a cute dress that showed off her great body very nicely. Convo was enjoyable. We fucked at the end of the night, so everything was on point.

Work usually keeps me busy, so I had gone along with her pick on where to go for dinner. Seemed like a good idea at the time, but the bill with drinks afterward was almost 2 bills. I'd want to avoid spending too much on a p4 p girl. Shoot, even if we're fucking for free. Our next date will be at her house. I'll just pick up a 6 pack and order a pizza.

**Mr Charmo** · 07-01-21 14:07

Originally Posted by Jafeldm [View Original Post]

Its only a matter of time before she deletes that profile and starts a new one.

Its better for members to grab the photo when warning others of potential risks of any serious nature.

I try to include pics of their profile when posting warnings of bad ones. Def a good tip, when you have the time to include it

**Nidhogg69** · 07-01-21 11:49

Originally Posted by Chicago41 [View Original Post]

She's a moron. Screenshot all of her texts and save them to a folder somewhere along with all of the personal info you might know (phone #, where you met her, real name if you know it). Extortion is a Class 4 Felony and she just gave you all the evidence you need for a defense as well as to get her convicted. Uncle LEO will be much more interested in an extortion felony than someone fucking a chick he met on a site where everyone goes to meet people to fuck.

That's exactly what I've already done. Just wanted to warn anyone else here, it's still probably NOT worth the hassle and I am reminded of the old stand by about not sticking your dick in crazy.

**Chicago41** · 07-01-21 10:29

Originally Posted by Nidhogg69 [View Original Post]

Stay far, far, far, far away. Seemed nice chatting and first meeting, but then the boatloads of CRAZY came out, and now I've got a stalker who is trying to extort money from me or threaten to report that I attacked her. Ay carrumba.

She's a moron. Screenshot all of her texts and save them to a folder somewhere along with all of the personal info you might know (phone #, where you met her, real name if you know it). Extortion is a Class 4 Felony and she just gave you all the evidence you need for a defense as well as to get her convicted. Uncle LEO will be much more interested in an extortion felony than someone fucking a chick he met on a site where everyone goes to meet people to fuck.

**JonnyRyall** · 07-01-21 09:25

Originally Posted by Nidhogg69 [View Original Post]

Gents -.

I don't have the profile link on SA because I already blocked it, but run AWAY from the one on SA that today has started texting me messaging trying to extort money and threatening to file police reports etc.

Her 'real name' given is "Erika", posts on SA as "Smile" followed by some numbers, location is Lisle. We ended up meeting pretty spur of the moment, spent a couple hours hanging out, talking, ended up having a bit of fun. Today the messages start "broke car, stranded, please send money". I said I was busy and couldn't / wouldn't. And then just now started getting "ok, we'll do it the hard way. I said no. You got pushing. I saved some of your DNA on my shirt".

Good lord. P S why C H O doesn't even begin to describe this. Needless to say I've already talked to my local boys in blue and will be going in to formally file a report and make sure it's all documented, including her entire plan where she spells out in texts exactly how and what she's going to lie about and all that. Crazy crazy crazy, if you see this one or were thinking about it. RUN AWAY.

BAD NEWS all around. Presents as nice, likable. Then all the sob stories came out. Then the extortion attempt with threats of faking rape and all the rest. Probably taking a break because this isn't just worth it with all the crazies out there.

I know someone else she did this to. Exactly the same. Pleasant first meeting with really deep hardship stories. Keeps the psychopath well hidden, then come threats, extortion, deadlines, etc.

**JonnyRyall** · 07-01-21 08:51

Originally Posted by Nidhogg69 [View Original Post]

Gents -.

I don't have the profile link on SA because I already blocked it, but run AWAY from the one on SA that today has started texting me messaging trying to extort money and threatening to file police reports etc.

Her 'real name' given is "Erika", posts on SA as "Smile" followed by some numbers, location is Lisle. We ended up meeting pretty spur of the moment, spent a couple hours hanging out, talking, ended up having a bit of fun. Today the messages start "broke car, stranded, please send money". I said I was busy and couldn't / wouldn't. And then just now started getting "ok, we'll do it the hard way. I said no. You got pushing. I saved some of your DNA on my shirt".

Good lord. P S why C H O doesn't even begin to describe this. Needless to say I've already talked to my local boys in blue and will be going in to formally file a report and make sure it's all documented, including her entire plan where she spells out in texts exactly how and what she's going to lie about and all that. Crazy crazy crazy, if you see this one or were thinking about it. RUN AWAY.

BAD NEWS all around. Presents as nice, likable. Then all the sob stories came out. Then the extortion attempt with threats of faking rape and all the rest. Probably taking a break because this isn't just worth it with all the crazies out there.

Attempted extortion is as much a crime as extortion and in some cases can be prosecuted as a felony. Will be interesting to see where your boys take it.

**Jafeldm** · 07-01-21 02:31

Originally Posted by AlMelrose [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/38c06...c-4445790e41a7

Its only a matter of time before she deletes that profile and starts a new one.

Its better for members to grab the photo when warning others of potential risks of any serious nature.