NoVA SugarBabies

[Old Chinese Guy]

I agree that from the POV of a monger, there is technically no difference between an escort and an SB in that they both have sex with you for money. However, there is a difference in how an escort and an SB views themselves. An escort is a professional and most high-end escorts behave accordingly. An SB is an amateur and hence most behave like an amateurs, they are less consistent with services, how much cash they want and reliability. I have older SBs who do not need the cash but still have sex for cash because they get turned on by getting paid for sex or they like the dirtiness of the transaction. I'm not saying I agree with SBs who feel they are not escorts or prostitutes as it does smack a little holier than thou and two-faced but it is how they do feel.

Another big difference is that generally escorts require a lot less work than SBs. You may have to get verified for ones you have never seen before but once you are in, it is wham bam thank you ma'am. You turn up, get whatever services you came for and leave satisfied. This is more true of higher-end escorts, basically you get what you pay for. You ain't getting any emotional interaction and rarely the intellectual sort of interaction not matter how GFE the experience is. There are rare exceptions where you might find a cultured and intellectual escort but you are forking over big coin for that experience. But this sort transactional experience is an advantage as you will almost never get calls from an escort, you call them when you want service. Again there are exceptions and I've gotten calls for help with computer stuff from escorts I've had a long-term relationship with. I should probably charge them for that but it often parlays into going way past the hour and MSOG.

SBs are a lot more work, not only to find the one that is right for what you seek but even subsequently. Because they are amateurs, type, quality and consistency of service is highly variable because they do not view themselves of providing a service. Many do not view themselves as escorts or prostitutes (yes, it is two-faced and holier-than-thou) and often behave like a GF or SO would, so you are more likely to get that emotional component. They will call or text you and for some of us that is a huge no no. Some will get emotionally attached to you as they see you as a BF and they will not always be able to see you when you want. But you are also more likely to find the rare intellectual interaction you might want from some creative, business-type or an academic. I've had SBs who are artists, musicians and former ballet dancers. I've also had SBs who are successful business owners, work for the State Depart and travel extensively or are in graduate school for their PhD. I can tell you the intellectual interactions I have with these types of SB is very different than the ones I have with escorts. You get to converse on a wider variety of topics, enjoy the company of someone sometimes highly intelligent and still get to stick it into one or more holes. On your part it requires charm and an ability to converse at the same level they do but there is something quite satisfying about fucking an intelligent women. In some cases, since they don't really need the money and do it for some psychological kink, I don't pay then with coin but we trade services like in the olde days. I build or buy them something they need / want, teach them some sport they want to get into, take them to some performance they have been wanting to see or take them on travel to a place they have wanted to visit (have not actually done the last one but am in discussions).

Don't get me wrong, sex for money / stuff is sex for money / stuff, it does not change who SBs are or what they want to call themselves, but the experience can be very different from escorts, it's what you want out of it.

[SuckeredByaSB]

Really cool girl, but at the end of the day she wants like 800 per meet. I wasn't going for that with her.

It was weird. I met her at a Starbucks and we agreed on 400 BBFS, made plans, and then she ghosted. I guess she realized her market value was higher. Sort of bad skin and teeth, but great body.

[Member #7176]

At the end of the day we are paying them to spread their legs, but I was trying to point out a different. Escort advertised their contact information on escorts sites. So they are use to random guys msging them. While Sugar Babies don't advertise their contact information. You have to msg them through sites like SA first. When a SB gets a msg from a random number saying $300 1 hr with no previous contact wouldn't that creep them out? It happen to one of my SBs reasonly, and she was creep out.

I also ask if any of you guys share numbers of SBs, and how do they react when you msg them, with no previous contact through a site like SA.

I agree that from the POV of a monger, there is technically no difference between an escort and an SB in that they both have sex with you for money. However, there is a difference in how an escort and an SB views themselves. An escort is a professional and most high-end escorts behave accordingly. An SB is an amateur and hence most behave like an amateurs, they are less consistent with services, how much cash they want and reliability. I have older SBs who do not need the cash but still have sex for cash because they get turned on by getting paid for sex or they like the dirtiness of the transaction. I'm not saying I agree with SBs who feel they are not escorts or prostitutes as it does smack a little holier than thou and two-faced but it is how they do feel.

[Old Chinese Guy]

I understand sharing numbers with escorts, because they are pros. Sugars aren't quite the same.

Actually they are, you give them money and they fuck you.

I banned the troll, please stop talking about him. He will be back, when he does please report him don't engage him.

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I agree that from the POV of a monger, there is technically no difference between an escort and an SB in that they both have sex with you for money. However, there is a difference in how an escort and an SB views themselves. An escort is a professional and most high-end escorts behave accordingly. An SB is an amateur and hence most behave like an amateurs, they are less consistent with services, how much cash they want and reliability. I have older SBs who do not need the cash but still have sex for cash because they get turned on by getting paid for sex or they like the dirtiness of the transaction. I'm not saying I agree with SBs who feel they are not escorts or prostitutes as it does smack a little holier than thou and two-faced but it is how they do feel.

[Max #01]

Technically, she reached out first (or rather viewed then "favorited" me first). She's admittedly not a jaw-dropping beauty by any stretch, and something does seem off. But worst case scenario, I can always see friends out near Leesburg and get some great Mexican food while out there. Like I've said before, got to have some backup plans in this hobby.

I live near her and, in a strange way, she's intriguing and somewhat mysterious. Her "doesn't judge in appearance" phrase could mean that: She knows she's not a super model; may have baby damage she's hiding; or, might have some dental damage resulting from chemical usage. I am always cautious about SBs who have a closed-mouth photo gallery. And, since I am not in a position to host either, I guess we would have to meet at the No-Tell in Lucketts.

[Btt123]

What does the pricing notation mean? E. g. $200/$300.

[Shinshi]

Curious what made you reach out to her.

From her profile:

"I'm looking for some one who is fun, loving, giving, understanding, doesn't judge in appearance".

Sounds risky.

Technically, she reached out first (or rather viewed then "favorited" me first). She's admittedly not a jaw-dropping beauty by any stretch, and something does seem off. But worst case scenario, I can always see friends out near Leesburg and get some great Mexican food while out there. Like I've said before, got to have some backup plans in this hobby.

[SexCg]

Can you share your experience with her with the rest of the forum?

Yeah I fucked her raw too pre-pandemic. Got tested after and clean.

She doesn't like giving head but was a great lay.

Not on birth control so I pulled out and made her eat a plan b.

[Dimples572]

I had already messaged her earlier in the day before I saw the first report on her.

Her initial response to mine was "finally somebody local, can I call you?

I gave her my number and she literally called. We spoke for 10 mins. I've never, ever had a girl call me. Ever. They always text. Later in the night we facetimed for over an hour. Talked about everything. In my profile I have a subset "ad" to any girls that want extra money to clean my house or be my personal assistant for the summer. She wants to do that too. LOL. I told her to come over, gauge the place and atmosphere first and next thing I have a date with her next week at my place for $400. Everything is on the table. Everything. The whole alphabet.

She's down to earth, pretty easy to talk to but seems to be picky with guys and def a YMMV girl.

We'll see next week. Stay tuned.

LOL. Well done sir. Best of luck.

[FatWhiteGuy]

I offered her $350; she asked what I expected for that; I responded in general terms. Didn't hear back. Jeesh.

I had already messaged her earlier in the day before I saw the first report on her.

Her initial response to mine was "finally somebody local, can I call you?

I gave her my number and she literally called. We spoke for 10 mins. I've never, ever had a girl call me. Ever. They always text. Later in the night we facetimed for over an hour. Talked about everything. In my profile I have a subset "ad" to any girls that want extra money to clean my house or be my personal assistant for the summer. She wants to do that too. LOL. I told her to come over, gauge the place and atmosphere first and next thing I have a date with her next week at my place for $400. Everything is on the table. Everything. The whole alphabet.

She's down to earth, pretty easy to talk to but seems to be picky with guys and def a YMMV girl.

We'll see next week. Stay tuned.

[Member #7176]

I understand sharing numbers with escorts, because they are pros. Sugars aren't quite the same. [Deleted by Admin]

Actually they are, you give them money and they fuck you.

I banned the troll, please stop talking about him. He will be back, when he does please report him don't engage him.

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[Abbyk0495]

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Seriously? High school girls? We don't allow pedos on this forum.

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[ShortMan22]

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Please don't feed the trolls.

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[RazorFish1801]

Unless you're looking for a high maintenance pain in the ass stay away from this one. I started off the convo with a simple friendly Hello, this was her reply. "I'll phrase this convo by saying I'm not on here to barter sex for money. I'm a smart intelligent woman and there's not enough money in the world I'd sell my pussy for, if you're open to some good company and conversations then great- otherwise I don't want to waste your time or mine. I'm a bit more seasoned, work full time and I have 2 degrees under my belt. If a man wants something easy, he can hit up a 20 year old who is desperate for $200/300 a fuck. " Yikes! So I decided to play along for a bit and there was a little more back and forth as I tried to take the sting out of it and kill her with kindness but it didn't get any better from there LOL. No thanks lady.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e0c69...8-635054c8fcec

I offered her $350; she asked what I expected for that; I responded in general terms. Didn't hear back. Jeesh.

[SuckeredByaSB]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f9c16...2-990c0ede752d

A very sexy Chilean hottie, here for the summer, lives in the Fairfax area, but unfortunately very confused in life and about what she is doing. She hates thinking of herself as an escort but she will meet random guys in hotels. I know she is DTF, wants 5, is not that selective, but also very very flaky. I had two meetings cancelled because of her dysfunctionalness. But I did meet her (m&g only) and she is fresh faced and very pretty. Just haven't been able to get her to the FC and at this point I'm done trying. So be patient, don't book a hotel until she is there, and you might have a great night.