"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**DickLongwood** · 06-24-21 21:31

Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]

All this talk of Plan B and pregnancy tests has me wishing I had a vasectomy. Kind of hard for me to get one at this point. I am married with kids and a menopausal wife. Vasectomy talk came up years ago when we decided we had enough kids. I didn't want anyone messing with the plumbing at the time and my wife went on birth control, which she is now talking about ditching soon.

So if I want to start shooting blanks now, I see two alternatives: (1) I get snipped without mentioning it to my wife; of (2) I find some excuse for why I want one other than to avoid impregnating her.

(1) Seems pretty hard to pull off. I would have to find a health care provider who wouldn't send statements to house or apply charge to insurance deductible, meaning I guess I would need to pay cash. And I think it might be hard to explain why I was in bed for days with an ice pack.

(2) Anyone have ideas for "other" reasons to get a vasectomy? Any studies showing reduction in prostate cancer or something among men with vasectomies?

Anyone else miss the boat but manage to get snipped without arousing SO suspicions?

Good luck with that! I have one friend on here--single--who just had the procedure done. He's very sore.

I have 2 other married SD friends who would like to get it done. For at least one, it opens a wider range of women, because a few SBs refuse birth control and are opposed to abortion if an accident happens.

**DogBert77** · 06-23-21 15:52

All this talk of Plan B and pregnancy tests has me wishing I had a vasectomy. Kind of hard for me to get one at this point. I am married with kids and a menopausal wife. Vasectomy talk came up years ago when we decided we had enough kids. I didn't want anyone messing with the plumbing at the time and my wife went on birth control, which she is now talking about ditching soon.

So if I want to start shooting blanks now, I see two alternatives: (1) I get snipped without mentioning it to my wife; of (2) I find some excuse for why I want one other than to avoid impregnating her.

(1) Seems pretty hard to pull off. I would have to find a health care provider who wouldn't send statements to house or apply charge to insurance deductible, meaning I guess I would need to pay cash. And I think it might be hard to explain why I was in bed for days with an ice pack.

(2) Anyone have ideas for "other" reasons to get a vasectomy? Any studies showing reduction in prostate cancer or something among men with vasectomies?

Anyone else miss the boat but manage to get snipped without arousing SO suspicions?

**Truth777** · 06-23-21 00:30

Originally Posted by SaTraveler [View Original Post]

Daughter was removed from her and is with grandparents -- very restricted visitation -- and if she is spiraling out like it seems. Then she is not going to get her back any time soon.

Take care with her if you see her -- she is fun and good for deposits -- but control the situation and do NOT give her $ until she is leaving!
SA.

The beginning of this thread stated that she took the money meant for the hotel and skipped out on the date. So it is probably best to be careful with that too.

**Member #6575** · 06-22-21 09:29

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

Lauren has a bad nose candy problem. I used to see her regularly for a quick and cheap $85 whatever I wanted. She was convenient to i95 and not horrible looking. Her bf worked during the days so I'd sneak in around 2 pm before he got home and fill her with my man juice. I only stopped because her daughter (probably 6) at the time would constantly scream to us upstairs asking if that weird man was gone yet and it just ruined the mood every time.

Daughter was removed from her and is with grandparents -- very restricted visitation -- and if she is spiraling out like it seems. Then she is not going to get her back any time soon.

Take care with her if you see her -- she is fun and good for deposits -- but control the situation and do NOT give her $ until she is leaving!

SA.

**ItsAHobby45** · 06-21-21 15:32

Originally Posted by Grafenberg [View Original Post]

She was probably dope sick and needed her fix.

Lauren has a bad nose candy problem. I used to see her regularly for a quick and cheap $85 whatever I wanted. She was convenient to i95 and not horrible looking. Her bf worked during the days so I'd sneak in around 2 pm before he got home and fill her with my man juice. I only stopped because her daughter (probably 6) at the time would constantly scream to us upstairs asking if that weird man was gone yet and it just ruined the mood every time.

**Va343** · 06-20-21 17:22

Originally Posted by Grafenberg [View Original Post]

She was probably dope sick and needed her fix.

I always wondered if she was on something was always jittery and fidgety and then some days like lethargic that would make sense I always thought she may be a pill addict but never saw proof.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 06-20-21 14:54

So girl looks TGTBT. She replied back with what looks like a past reply. Wondering if anyone had any experience.

https://www.seeking.com/member/18b1e...f-0d64f781bed4

**TennisStud90** · 06-20-21 13:27

Hey all. I'm getting married soon and bought in on SA again (been on before) for one last fling before getting hitched. Can anyone point me in the direction of an attractive woman who is DTF? Don't have a lot of time for m&g or weeks of messaging. Thanks for any help you can give!

**Grafenberg** · 06-20-21 11:51

Originally Posted by VAvet [View Original Post]

Cash and dashed me. Kinda shocked me LOL. After several perfectly no-drama meetings. Anyone else? Wonder what gave.

https://www.seeking.com/member/21f12...d-1de4e538c8e0

She was probably dope sick and needed her fix.

**Member #6575** · 06-20-21 11:38

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Yeah, I heard from other reliable sources that she is the real deal.

But had someone bail on my on the 3 rtd date for just the $100 hotel money I gave her an hour before.

She is real -- but becoming UN-reliable -- she was always bad communicator and last minute only.

Also did the same thing to another friend. Then claimed her BF had tracked her and she had to dash -- with other evidence we believed her -- now I am not so sure and seeing a pattern.

Cannot post it here. But have a real FB page.

**DoggieFan** · 06-20-21 08:43

Originally Posted by JWalker350 [View Original Post]

I used Vannila prepaid Visa card for SA premium account fee and SA did not accept it. I did activate the zip code. How did you pay for yours? Off course, I do not want to use my bank credit cards. Thanks in advance.

I've been paying for my membership for about a year & a half using the $100 Vanilla Card. I love it because at the end of the thirty days there's nothing left on it so my membership goes off.

Then I work all the new Babies I've gone to text with. Eventually I get way to intrigued by the new Babies I want to message or to message back ones that messaged me.

Just a tip. Don't buy the one that's reload able, the one that you can put $20-$500 on. I got that one once & it didn't work.

If you have the $100 one, try again. I did have to message SA once to get it to work, mainly because it kept saying I was entering the info wrong & the site locked me out.

**Va343** · 06-19-21 18:03

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Yeah, I heard from other reliable sources that she is the real deal.

But had someone bail on my on the 3 rtd date for just the $100 hotel money I gave her an hour before.

She is nothing but trouble Nurse Lauren she has burned me so many times but I kept going back goes she's a good lay. But she will burn your phone and find every excuse there is to need money before. No matter how good she is she has a long history of BS she goes away awhile and then comes back I have warned guys on here before beware. I can't believe with such a small pool of people she still has takers. But I guess to some it's good enough to take a chance I would probably go back LOL it's that good but I wouldn't pay her to after. Hell if I still had her number I may bang her and not pay her I think she still owes me in fact I know she does. Anyone feel free PM her number and I will get her back. She still has some of the toys I bought I wouldn’t ever take them back but don’t let her offer you a cock ring lol 😂

**Ernest Ll** · 06-19-21 15:48

Originally Posted by VAvet [View Original Post]

Cash and dashed me. Kinda shocked me LOL. After several perfectly no-drama meetings. Anyone else? Wonder what gave.

https://www.seeking.com/member/21f12...d-1de4e538c8e0

Yeah, I heard from other reliable sources that she is the real deal.

But had someone bail on my on the 3 rtd date for just the $100 hotel money I gave her an hour before.

**VAvet** · 06-19-21 14:53

Originally Posted by GolfMan57 [View Original Post]

I have had nothing but good experience with her, but there have been reports that she has done this before or will burn your phone up. Did you prepay, or what?

No man she showed up just like always, seemed happy to be there as always, said she needed to give the cash to her friend who was going to go do something which we have done before and then disappeared. Have a feeling if I texted her I could probably bang her this afternoon but I'm done. Always thought she was super cool but plenty of fish.

**GolfMan57** · 06-19-21 14:38

Originally Posted by NotBob2014 [View Original Post]

Is she willing to do the same? Can you find her on FB and see 2+ years of pictures, history, etc? IMO, this is not a find a husband site. What GOOD reasons are there to share everything before you even meet? Crazy. Unrealistic. Don't be stupid, you know better; otherwise you wouldn't be inquiring on this page! Don't let the small brain take over and fuck your life up (again).

Oh I know better, and will never do it, just wondering if anyone else had any contact with her. Since I first started messaging her, I had almost the same conversation with one from Northern VA. Must be the new scam.