"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Geechie Dan]

Any info on this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ec756...b-9155d6aa4c49

Personally I'd avoid any woman that tells me right off the bat that she's high maintenance, but that's just me.

[AksWorld]

Any info on this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ec756...b-9155d6aa4c49

[AssLuVA]

Here's some more 411 for ya guys.

https://www.seeking.com/member/59f74...b-7046f36ccd7c

This one is a hot mess. Moved quickly to text and first message she sends is "I need help with bills. " she sends a few pix but clearly she is a hot mess. Gives me an utr type of feeling.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0861a...f-dba8e9d1ef7f

This one has no idea what she wants. It was like teeth trying to get her to indicate what she's looking for so I gave up. Too much work for little reward. *.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2a24f...b-25cdce4ee0e8

Not my usual type. Single mom with kid that lives with her. Was dtf pretty quickly. Very persistent for me to give her a price which threw me off. Maybe it's paranoia of hearing from Uncle LEO, she stopped responding after the agreed upon arrangement and location so oh well. *.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5155e...5-41c2dce79a70

When I initially emailed her I was a bit hesitant because it seemed too good to be true. Her first email back was "can I have your email and phone number" . Got the sense its spam so blocked her. *.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c95fc...9-8f4063577367

Nice girl but way too shy for me. She, admittedly said she was shy and wanted to take things slow. Thats not what I'm looking for so wished her to best. No exchange of arrangement details to share, sorry.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad355...4-16784f4c96b2

Says car broke down and needs help. Just wants to sell pix. No intention of meeting up or starting something. *.

Does anyone have any real SB's they want to share? If so, hit me up. I've done so much digging and only a few are on the hooks. Appreciate it in advance fellas. Enjoy.

[Shampoo55]

She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.

Now you have 3 votes for Option #1 - IGNORE HER! Don't forget to block her!

One technique a scammer uses is to keep in touch and keep you responding. Eventually they will break you down or wear you down where you will give in. But if you block them AND pledge to yourself to ignore them then it is over. Eventually with no replies she will run out of energy. But a prime example of why one needs OpSec when dating.

[Alkalinedio]

Ghost her my friend.

Stay safe.

AD.

She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.

[Tidad]

She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.

Do? #1 is the only reasonable option. I'm 100% with EvilTmp; there is no reason to continue engaging w this person. You're not fucking her any more, she lied about having your child and she tried to blackmail you; what more are you looking for?

[EvilTmp]

She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.

Of course she's not backing down. From your previous post it's obvious there is no baby (her insistence you can't see her pee on a stick). You have absolutely nothing to gain from even one more reply to this girl. #1 is the way to go. Ignore, block, and forget this chick. There is nothing left in this situation for you. All you'll do is prolong the inevitable. NEXT!

[Member #7176]

She waits a week, and texted me today that she keeping it. I don't know how I should respond. Clearly she lying. She said she moved in with her ex BF. Wouldn't he wonder why if she suddenly got pregnant, especially since I'm Asian and she and her ex are both white. So what should I do.

1. Just ignore her.

2. Call out her lying.

3. Play along with her, and tell her I love the fact that I did breed her.

I'm leaning more towards option 1 or 3.

Same old, same old. Hoes don't lie a little bit or even most of the time. They literally lie non-stop, like every-single-word-out-of-their-mouth-lying! When will men learn? (Based on many posts I read on here: never.). Lobsid, good on you for having a good head on your shoulders and calling her out.

[Jcn1965]

Agreed. Was just my opinion and yes I didn't stress enough on the disease of it. Pregnancy is actually secondary to a lot of things you can get that can't be cured.

[DoneThatOnce]

Another little tip is to keep hand sanitizer in your car. After an outing with your SB, rub hand sanitizer up and down your forearms and put some around your neck. In the age of covid, your SO won't bat an eye that you smell of hand sanitizer. And because hand sanitizer has such a strong medical odor, people tend to pull away once they get a whiff of it. So your SO likely won't be taking long deep sniffs of you.

Yet another tip is use Coppertone Sport Clear Cooling Gel Sunscreen. It is strong smelling stuff. My daily job is outside so always use sunscreen. Even the cat stays clear of me until I shower that stuff away. I also drink a spicy V8 juice on the way home to cover up any DATY breath.

[Member #7176]

You can say the same thing about hooking up with a escort or sugar. You can just jerk off, and reduce your risk to zero. We all have different needs, and what we are willing to risk. Try reading some of the street walking threads in the big cities. Those guys are bbfscip / greek on girls they know are hard drug users. I even told 1 forum member in NOVA not to bang a sugar I meetup with once last year, because I knew she had the gift that keeps giving. He told me he wouldn't, but I found out from another forum member that he still bbfscip that SB. We all have to make that personal decision on what we are willing to rise. I'm worried about STD more then if I impregnate a girl.

Just to add why would anybody not strap up? Yea it feels good and all but holy crap unless you want a baby with this person. Strap the fuck up yall. These bitches are just looking for a permanent SD for the next 18 years and trust you will pay. Be safe think smart.

[Jcn1965]

Same old, same old. Hoes don't lie a little bit or even most of the time. They literally lie non-stop, like every-single-word-out-of-their-mouth-lying! When will men learn? (Based on many posts I read on here: never.). Lobsid, good on you for having a good head on your shoulders and calling her out.

Just to add why would anybody not strap up? Yea it feels good and all but holy crap unless you want a baby with this person. Strap the fuck up yall. These bitches are just looking for a permanent SD for the next 18 years and trust you will pay. Be safe think smart.

[EvilTmp]

She a load of BS. She sent me a pic of a home pregnancy test. I told her that I would take care of all expenses to remove the problem, but I need her to do the pee test before and after removal with me. She tells me a one excuse after another. Why she can't meetup. 1st she say I should trust her, and it's her body it has nothing to do with me. I told it has 18 years of child support for me. Then she said move farther away, and it would be a drive to see her. I told her I'm willing to meet any were with in 4 hrs drive. Then she say she business with work. I said you have at less half a day off we can meet any day your free. She say she move back with her ex and I can't come to her apt. I told her we never had any problems meeting at a hotel before. Then she say her Ex is controlling and requires her to share her location all the time. I told her that I can get a hotel close to a shopping Center and just leave her phone in the car for 15 mins while she meets up at hotel. She told me she will get back to me when she free.

This is the same girl who was in the middle of work and finals last month, but made time for me to creampie her. Now she only has work, but is too busy to meetup for 15 mins. 3 days now and no text now. Let's see what other reasons she finds to not do the pee test for me. Its been 3 days after her last msg. Let's see what other reasons she finds to avoid doing the pee test for me.

Same old, same old. Hoes don't lie a little bit or even most of the time. They literally lie non-stop, like every-single-word-out-of-their-mouth-lying! When will men learn? (Based on many posts I read on here: never.). Lobsid, good on you for having a good head on your shoulders and calling her out.

[Member #7176]

She a load of BS. She sent me a pic of a home pregnancy test. I told her that I would take care of all expenses to remove the problem, but I need her to do the pee test before and after removal with me. She tells me a one excuse after another. Why she can't meetup. 1st she say I should trust her, and it's her body it has nothing to do with me. I told it has 18 years of child support for me. Then she said move farther away, and it would be a drive to see her. I told her I'm willing to meet any were with in 4 hrs drive. Then she say she business with work. I said you have at less half a day off we can meet any day your free. She say she move back with her ex and I can't come to her apt. I told her we never had any problems meeting at a hotel before. Then she say her Ex is controlling and requires her to share her location all the time. I told her that I can get a hotel close to a shopping Center and just leave her phone in the car for 15 mins while she meets up at hotel. She told me she will get back to me when she free.

This is the same girl who was in the middle of work and finals last month, but made time for me to creampie her. Now she only has work, but is too busy to meetup for 15 mins. 3 days now and no text now. Let's see what other reasons she finds to not do the pee test for me. Its been 3 days after her last msg. Let's see what other reasons she finds to avoid doing the pee test for me.

[John G Smith]

The whole SB in the car thing is such a pain. I've occasionally had SB dalliances at the same time as I've had a civilian girlfriend and I learned early on (never the hard way, thankfully) that having someone in the car can really leave a lot of evidence. From drug paraphernalia to scrunchies to barrettes to lighters to different color / different length hair and more, it seems like SBs shed incriminating crap on purpose. Like FFA, I go completely CSI on my car after every encounter and look in every nook and cranny for anything, including hairs. It's amazing where those get into.

Perfume is another trouble spot. I drive home with the windows and sunroof open (and the heat on full blast if it's cold), and leave them open overnight in the garage to further air things out. A place that almost got me once except for a quick lie is the seat belt. SBs will spray their neck / chest area with perfume which rubs off onto the seat belt, and that shit lasts forever, days to a week if they've overdone it. The only thing I've found that helps at all besides time is rubbing the offending area of the seat belt with a bounce dryer sheet. It reduces the perfume smell and replaces it with a fabric softener smell, which is much less noticeable and incriminating.

Another little tip is to keep hand sanitizer in your car. After an outing with your SB, rub hand sanitizer up and down your forearms and put some around your neck. In the age of covid, your SO won't bat an eye that you smell of hand sanitizer. And because hand sanitizer has such a strong medical odor, people tend to pull away once they get a whiff of it. So your SO likely won't be taking long deep sniffs of you.