Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[TheMechanik365]

I hear what you saying, but I feel like there is a significant number of women that are downright scared to meet strange men especially from a site like SA where we all know dudes can be quite creepy / weird / overbearing.

When an average decent, and not so decent, looking girl gets countless messages on there, how can she really decide who to meet or not? These chicks are all money hungry, and while I have had sugar babies who actually enjoyed my company, at the end of the day, most just care about money, lets just be honest. Most of us we just buy sex from them because they just treat us like wallets, and it is what it is.

Believe me, I am not a huge fan of paying them for just showing up, but theoretically if 100-150 $ could consistently buy me 1-2 hours of dinner time with the sb that usually never meet up, I could build trust with a lot of them I think.

I was thinking along the lines of this but I appreciate your input.

Drinks or coffee and that's it. What incentive would a girl have to sleep with you if she could get 100-150 just to meet? Drinks or coffee is a goodwill gesture and you're only out a few bucks. She gets to see if she's interested in going further and so do you. You don't want to be out 100/150 and find out you're not even interested. These girls already think their vaginas are gold, this would only make it worse.

[PSeries]

Come on guys, who else has smashed this one. She seems to be open to meet anyone and everyone from SA and I am so surprised she has not found a steady daddy yet?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca6e6...b-49f20918774f

I enjoyed smashing her a few times. A bit expensive though.

[CinMiner]

We all recognize the high number of flakes, fakes, scammers and those simply looking for validation on SA. I never agree to pay for the meet and greet and, yet, have met a number of real girls, and converted some to SB's. Don't come out of the gate acting as if it's pay to play. Genuine, non-pro SB's, in my experience, prefer to feel like it is dating and want a connection. After dinner, giving them an unexpected $50 or $200 for their gas / baby sitter. Without being asked, has made some light up and ensured a second date.

I honestly think as opposed to being seen as confident and respected, it will be seen as weak. That is not the way to start the game.

I see your point, and I agree majority will never want to see me again, I was just thinking along the lines of if 100 $ buys me a time with otherwise very suspicious / scared / hesitant chick, I'd hope 1 out of 5 (provided a guy is not a creep and let's face it most of these women don't want to meet us because they either had bad experiences or view us as major weirdos) would be hooked / pleasantly surprised, and now you got yourself a potential SB who otherwise would not have ever met you.

[Djapa1234]

Let see. !

You are going to pay her $100 to $150 just to meet up. Then pay for whatever meal, drinks, etc when you do meet up. Then she decides not to see you saying "There was not match" That has always been my logic whenever they want me to pay them to meet up. To me, if they can get that deal there is no point of them ever getting with anybody.

Just my 2 cents.

I see your point, and I agree majority will never want to see me again, I was just thinking along the lines of if 100 $ buys me a time with otherwise very suspicious / scared / hesitant chick, I'd hope 1 out of 5 (provided a guy is not a creep and let's face it most of these women don't want to meet us because they either had bad experiences or view us as major weirdos) would be hooked / pleasantly surprised, and now you got yourself a potential SB who otherwise would not have ever met you.

[DollarBill50]

Let see. !

You are going to pay her $100 to $150 just to meet up. Then pay for whatever meal, drinks, etc when you do meet up. Then she decides not to see you saying "There was not match" That has always been my logic whenever they want me to pay them to meet up. To me, if they can get that deal there is no point of them ever getting with anybody.

Just my 2 cents.

Have been considering lately to offer 100-150 to some of these young / prettier girls that seem to be suspicious of meeting up.

I have heard mixed reviews about this approach, but wanted to see if any of you tried with success? My gut instinct tells me if someone does not want to meet up, 100-150 won't make a huge difference but willing to try.

Also, have you guys tried purchasing content, then maybe getting these girls on Face-Time where you pay them and gaining trust via this route?

I am just exploring different ways in this tough Sd / Sb market.

[Djapa1234]

Anyone met this? I have a meet and greet schedule at 7 pm today at a brewery. Earlier during text she asked for STD tests before we'd start an arrangement, which I am ok doing if she is worth it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c8b59...4-3ff1d5c793f4

[Djapa1234]

To me, it's the equivalent of paying ransome money. It sets a precedent and an expectation on their part. As soon as I hear pay for meet, pay for pics, pay for whatever before we've even had a chance to get to know each other, I bolt. It reveals that the only thing they're interested in is the money, so how good can the rest of the experience be?

I hear what you saying, but I feel like there is a significant number of women that are downright scared to meet strange men especially from a site like SA where we all know dudes can be quite creepy / weird / overbearing.

When an average decent, and not so decent, looking girl gets countless messages on there, how can she really decide who to meet or not? These chicks are all money hungry, and while I have had sugar babies who actually enjoyed my company, at the end of the day, most just care about money, lets just be honest. Most of us we just buy sex from them because they just treat us like wallets, and it is what it is.

Believe me, I am not a huge fan of paying them for just showing up, but theoretically if 100-150 $ could consistently buy me 1-2 hours of dinner time with the sb that usually never meet up, I could build trust with a lot of them I think.

I was thinking along the lines of this but I appreciate your input.

[Gastonian4]

To me, it's the equivalent of paying ransome money. It sets a precedent and an expectation on their part. As soon as I hear pay for meet, pay for pics, pay for whatever before we've even had a chance to get to know each other, I bolt. It reveals that the only thing they're interested in is the money, so how good can the rest of the experience be?

I've not used SA just WYP, even though the pickings are slim most of the girls expectations aren't nearly as high as the SA girls from what I understand. I don't give the girls anywhere near the price of the date to meet but I do pay them. Usually require them to meet me in Gastonia rather than my hoofing it to the QC. I have to thread the needle to make it work, but Way more often than not I talk the girl into much more and for a usually decent price. When possible I try to work it out with gashouse / Dallas type girls because those girls are usually more DTF. But have been out with some gorgeous Charlotte women as well. Once I've got the girl sitting at the bar having drinks and appetizers, I've ever only had a time or two where I didn't do them right after drinks or at least on a second meet. If you know how to work it right, WYP can be productive. I'm just not going to pay 100 a month for being able to communicate with willing girls. It's just me. Good luck to all.

[Sledg77]

Have been considering lately to offer 100-150 to some of these young / prettier girls that seem to be suspicious of meeting up.

I have heard mixed reviews about this approach, but wanted to see if any of you tried with success? My gut instinct tells me if someone does not want to meet up, 100-150 won't make a huge difference but willing to try.

Also, have you guys tried purchasing content, then maybe getting these girls on Face-Time where you pay them and gaining trust via this route?

I am just exploring different ways in this tough Sd / Sb market.

To me, it's the equivalent of paying ransome money. It sets a precedent and an expectation on their part. As soon as I hear pay for meet, pay for pics, pay for whatever before we've even had a chance to get to know each other, I bolt. It reveals that the only thing they're interested in is the money, so how good can the rest of the experience be?

[Djapa1234]

I have a meet and greet set up with this one on sudany, we texted for few days, she rescheduled once, seems promising.

Anyone see her, if yes please provide any info you have ahead of me seeing her tomorrow, thank you.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...f-3cd960ac426d

[Hal1957]

If you have to pay her just to meet, do you think she's going to jump in the sack? You're feeding the bears.

Have been considering lately to offer 100-150 to some of these young / prettier girls that seem to be suspicious of meeting up.

I have heard mixed reviews about this approach, but wanted to see if any of you tried with success? My gut instinct tells me if someone does not want to meet up, 100-150 won't make a huge difference but willing to try.

Also, have you guys tried purchasing content, then maybe getting these girls on Face-Time where you pay them and gaining trust via this route?

I am just exploring different ways in this tough Sd / Sb market.

[John Marigold]

Have been considering lately to offer 100-150 to some of these young / prettier girls that seem to be suspicious of meeting up.

I have heard mixed reviews about this approach, but wanted to see if any of you tried with success? My gut instinct tells me if someone does not want to meet up, 100-150 won't make a huge difference but willing to try.

Also, have you guys tried purchasing content, then maybe getting these girls on Face-Time where you pay them and gaining trust via this route?

I am just exploring different ways in this tough Sd / Sb market.

Just make sure that you don't send them money via CashApp before your meeting. If they insist on that, odds are that they will not show up. In my brief 2 months on SA, I never once gave in to any request to send money in advance via CashApp. I still had at least 8 or 9 solid dates and have kept 3 of them in my solid rotation since January.

[TjtjtJall]

She's legit. I used to see her and another girl for duos.

Sadly, the other girl committed suicide. Up until Sunday, Brooke's profile has been dark since October 2020.

We chatted a bunch reconnecting this week. She was in Pineville Monday and wanted to meet up but I couldn't make it happen.

She has had a rough go and some demon issues. She's somehow even skinnier in person.

I respect when a lady denies herself calories to get there. Smoke show.

[Anon336]

Playing the long game is one thing. Paying for it is another. Don't be that guy. It just makes the already intolerable sugar game that much worse.

Have been considering lately to offer 100-150 to some of these young / prettier girls that seem to be suspicious of meeting up.

I have heard mixed reviews about this approach, but wanted to see if any of you tried with success? My gut instinct tells me if someone does not want to meet up, 100-150 won't make a huge difference but willing to try.

Also, have you guys tried purchasing content, then maybe getting these girls on Face-Time where you pay them and gaining trust via this route?

I am just exploring different ways in this tough Sd / Sb market.

[Djapa1234]

Have been considering lately to offer 100-150 to some of these young / prettier girls that seem to be suspicious of meeting up.

I have heard mixed reviews about this approach, but wanted to see if any of you tried with success? My gut instinct tells me if someone does not want to meet up, 100-150 won't make a huge difference but willing to try.

Also, have you guys tried purchasing content, then maybe getting these girls on Face-Time where you pay them and gaining trust via this route?

I am just exploring different ways in this tough Sd / Sb market.