"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**MoCheeks65** · 05-12-21 14:56

I have been on and off SA for the past 3 years.

Want to jump back in but my personal situation now requires me to be super careful and "lean no trace" behind.

I sued to simply punch in my own CC, can't do that anymore.

How do others handle this. Stopped at Walgreens and the number of prepaid cc was overwhelming. No idea what to get or how it works?

Thanks in advance for your help on this.

**John G Smith** · 05-11-21 21:57

Wow, it's been almost 6 years since my last post. When the new laws in 2016 started attacking adult oriented websites I decided to take a break from online discussion on these topics until the dust settled.

I'm still reading a bunch of threads and reports to get caught up, but it's really interesting just seeing how everything has evolved! I've actually been in the sugar bowl the whole time I've just kept a low profile. I may share some of my experiences, but it looks like many people have been doing very well here. Since the San Diego Sugar Daddy forums are now more active, I'll probably spend more time there. But I'll definitely check this Richmond forum if you guys have any cool Meta Sugar Bowl discussions. I still see a few familiar members, which is great.

Stay safe out there!

**DoneThatOnce** · 05-10-21 21:17

Originally Posted by S2568 [View Original Post]

Is she still on the SA, I do miss her though, hot body and seen her for few years but she stopped responding was a great fuck she turned into respectful profession but did not know if she is back on the SA!!

PM me if have any details do not mind getting back to see her again.

Safe travels.

I have only seen her on WYP for the last 6 months. I have no contact info.

**S2568** · 05-10-21 14:46

I thought I was the only lucky one who was fuc at #ng her, LOL.

Yeah she is the one.

For the bonus I do have some nice hot videos of her riding me!!

Originally Posted by VAvet [View Original Post]

Is this the slim brunette Veronica that went into real estate? Good god she had a great body and loved sex.

**Ernest Ll** · 05-10-21 11:47

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

Gift Wishlists are great to find more info on a POT. .... I found the exact same necklace on a wishlist via Amazon. I paid 9 bucks for the necklace, the one on her wishlist was around 350 if I remember. I put the necklace in a nice box (it came in a small zip-loc baggie). Gave it to her and of course she didn't know any better. She thought it was thoughtful and that I had spent big, she happily gave up backdoor access that night. It cost me 9 bucks, free shipping, LOL.

When used wisely, wishlists are great. I actually prefer profiles with them due to the intel you can get from them and the benefits when done right.

Most of these women don't know how to shop for value -- hence them being on this site. Plus, you'd be surprised how cheap some things really are or how inexpensive their tastes really are. I've had them make amazon wish lists, and they pick out dresses and shoes under $50.

**Member #6575** · 05-10-21 09:34

Originally Posted by Rhumzensual99 [View Original Post]

She was in Richmond area from June through September. DM if you saw her to trade important info.

You have asked the same question in 6 places the last week. - also posting as DyerMan.

Louisville KY.

Greensboro NC.

Richmond, VA.

Charlotte NC.

Columbia NC.

Charleston SC.

You are a non SM that claims to have had a broken marriage in Dec last year. Why the sudden interest to find this girl? You even PMed me about her.

Is she your ex and you are after creating trouble for her?

This board is not for such a use. Please stop.

SA.

**Member #6575** · 05-10-21 09:32

Originally Posted by RickFlair [View Original Post]

Tip: if you have to go to these lengths to confirm that your girl was selling herself? Time to let go and move on.

And same guy is posting and sending PMs from DyerMan -- he needs to stop chasing the girl all over VA / SC / NC!

**ChrisHansen92** · 05-09-21 16:58

It's the little things that can open up door's (holes) etc. Most girls I see ongoing I ask them to create an Amazon wish list for me. I surprise them once in a while. I never buy off the profile's wish list. One girl told me they can take the cash equivalency instead of the gift. Also if a girl has spent more time filling her wish list than her profile it's a turn off for me.

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

I have to agree with FarFarAway. Gift Wishlists are great to find more info on a POT. You can learn more from a wishlist than you can a profile. I'm always looking to see if she has sex toys first off, then I look at the other things. You can usually find the same style of jewelry for cheaper. Case in point, I found the exact same necklace on a wishlist via Amazon. I paid 9 bucks for the necklace, the one on her wishlist was around 350 if I remember. I put the necklace in a nice box (it came in a small zip-loc baggie). Gave it to her and of course she didn't know any better. She thought it was thoughtful and that I had spent big, she happily gave up backdoor access that night. It cost me 9 bucks, free shipping, LOL.

When used wisely, wishlists are great. I actually prefer profiles with them due to the intel you can get from them and the benefits when done right.

**FarFarAway** · 05-09-21 16:36

Originally Posted by Unassuming2018 [View Original Post]

I have to agree with FarFarAway. Gift Wishlists are great to find more info on a POT. You can learn more from a wishlist than you can a profile. I'm always looking to see if she has sex toys first off, then I look at the other things. You can usually find the same style of jewelry for cheaper. Case in point, I found the exact same necklace on a wishlist via Amazon. I paid 9 bucks for the necklace, the one on her wishlist was around 350 if I remember. I put the necklace in a nice box (it came in a small zip-loc baggie). Gave it to her and of course she didn't know any better. She thought it was thoughtful and that I had spent big, she happily gave up backdoor access that night. It cost me 9 bucks, free shipping, LOL.

When used wisely, wishlists are great. I actually prefer profiles with them due to the intel you can get from them and the benefits when done right.

I was recently surveyed by SA, one of my suggestions was we be able to search if a girl has a wishlist or not.

**Member #6679** · 05-09-21 16:29

Originally Posted by Rhumzensual99 [View Original Post]

She was in Richmond area from June through September. DM if you saw her to trade important info.

Tip: if you have to go to these lengths to confirm that your girl was selling herself? Time to let go and move on.

**Unassuming2018** · 05-09-21 14:18

I have to agree with FarFarAway. Gift Wishlists are great to find more info on a POT. You can learn more from a wishlist than you can a profile. I'm always looking to see if she has sex toys first off, then I look at the other things. You can usually find the same style of jewelry for cheaper. Case in point, I found the exact same necklace on a wishlist via Amazon. I paid 9 bucks for the necklace, the one on her wishlist was around 350 if I remember. I put the necklace in a nice box (it came in a small zip-loc baggie). Gave it to her and of course she didn't know any better. She thought it was thoughtful and that I had spent big, she happily gave up backdoor access that night. It cost me 9 bucks, free shipping, LOL.

When used wisely, wishlists are great. I actually prefer profiles with them due to the intel you can get from them and the benefits when done right.

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I tend to avoid girls who have "Gift Wishlist" on their SA profile. It is one of my initial weed out categories. They tent to be the ones that ask for payment for M&G, and hard to get to agree for a meet up type girls. The longer the list, lower the chance of meeting. Has this been your experience too? I am wondering if I am missing some good ones by ignoring them.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

**FarFarAway** · 05-09-21 10:34

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I tend to avoid girls who have "Gift Wishlist" on their SA profile. It is one of my initial weed out categories. They tent to be the ones that ask for payment for M&G, and hard to get to agree for a meet up type girls. The longer the list, lower the chance of meeting. Has this been your experience too? I am wondering if I am missing some good ones by ignoring them.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

Track down my earlier post on this. I find it another window into a POT. Especially when she has all kinds of nasty sex toys and bondage equipment.

**DrSummer** · 05-09-21 10:06

I tend to avoid girls who have "Gift Wishlist" on their SA profile. It is one of my initial weed out categories. They tent to be the ones that ask for payment for M&G, and hard to get to agree for a meet up type girls. The longer the list, lower the chance of meeting. Has this been your experience too? I am wondering if I am missing some good ones by ignoring them.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

**Rhumzensual99** · 05-08-21 12:06

She was in Richmond area from June through September. DM if you saw her to trade important info.

**BStreet** · 05-08-21 08:54

Now your experience may be different but this one https://www.seeking.com/member/5ba2f...8-44cf22270afa is not new to the site. Had a previous profile and had a meeting setup for coffee this past week, she actually had messaged me the day before to confirm, anyway was setup, no show, total silence to my messages, on top of that broke two previous meets prior, I only went this time because she confirmed with me the day before. Pics are hot, but I stay away.