Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**BigBoss203** · 04-02-21 19:25

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

First thing is that lots of girls get tons of messages. So, you need some patience. Don't send lots of messages, but definitely follow up after a couple of days.

That said, I only message women that have written at least a few sentences about them. Then, I will try to make a positive comment about something in their profile. Its worked for me as a good conversation starter.

I would not ask to view private pics until you have shared a few messages, better yet, don't ask and have her offer them to you. Thats always a good sign.

Just my opinions. I look for women for something long term. If you want a hookup / short term thing, I would probably be a bit more direct.

Be careful when you mentioned things such as short term, or a one time thing, this is how I was banned.

**XxMarkXx** · 04-02-21 19:20

Originally Posted by DiscreteGuy888 [View Original Post]

Hi,

I'm a lurker here and finally decided to post. Thanks to everyone that's shared their experiences with SA. I guess my question for those that have had successful "arrangements", what is your typical opening line when messaging? I've been on and off SA for about 2-3 years. I generally sign up for a free account, then wait for them to offer a 33% promotion off the regular price membership (generally during holidays like Valentines, St. Patricks, etc). I've sent out so many messages but lately it seems like many girls don't respond at all. Just curious to see what others are using. Sorry not really a "report" but more of a question.

I can tell you that I've had success most recently with "moderndaylolita". She was really attractive and we had a few dates. Has her own place. She's been doing it a while. https://www.seeking.com/member/f55b5...d-46a90c4400d2.

First thing is that lots of girls get tons of messages. So, you need some patience. Don't send lots of messages, but definitely follow up after a couple of days.

That said, I only message women that have written at least a few sentences about them. Then, I will try to make a positive comment about something in their profile. Its worked for me as a good conversation starter.

I would not ask to view private pics until you have shared a few messages, better yet, don't ask and have her offer them to you. Thats always a good sign.

Just my opinions. I look for women for something long term. If you want a hookup / short term thing, I would probably be a bit more direct.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 04-02-21 19:19

Originally Posted by BigBoss203 [View Original Post]

Those prosecutors are trying hard to charge him with Sex Trafficking is ridiculous. Paying sex for a woman!= sex trafficking.

I wouldn't put too much stock in that story since the Times and FBI aren't what they used to be. It's all political bs. File it away as trying to prosecute a ham sandwich. The real trafficking is being ignored. Regardless, SA and other sites are offshore.

**XxMarkXx** · 04-02-21 19:10

Originally Posted by BigBoss203 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/913c4...5-a414f3c6dacc

Has anybody seen Katie this year? I am looking for any new reviews and see if it is worth it? Old reviews mentioned she was a dead fish but I am hoping things changed.

I have not seen any great reviews of her here. I have tried a few times to get together with her. She is firm on $250 for a meet, I need to host and she only wants to meet on weekday mornings. Given the reviews, I have not pulled the trigger. I would be surprised if she got a lot of interest with those expectations.

**BigBoss203** · 04-02-21 19:03

https://www.seeking.com/member/913c4...5-a414f3c6dacc

Has anybody seen Katie this year? I am looking for any new reviews and see if it is worth it? Old reviews mentioned she was a dead fish but I am hoping things changed.

**BigBoss203** · 04-02-21 19:00

Originally Posted by Stickman55 [View Original Post]

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/01/u...epartment.html

Looks like a Florida congressman has given SA some free publicity.

Those prosecutors are trying hard to charge him with Sex Trafficking is ridiculous. Paying sex for a woman!= sex trafficking.

**BigBoss203** · 04-02-21 18:57

Originally Posted by DiscreteGuy888 [View Original Post]

Hi,

I'm a lurker here and finally decided to post. Thanks to everyone that's shared their experiences with SA. I guess my question for those that have had successful "arrangements", what is your typical opening line when messaging? I've been on and off SA for about 2-3 years. I generally sign up for a free account, then wait for them to offer a 33% promotion off the regular price membership (generally during holidays like Valentines, St. Patricks, etc). I've sent out so many messages but lately it seems like many girls don't respond at all. Just curious to see what others are using. Sorry not really a "report" but more of a question.

I can tell you that I've had success most recently with "moderndaylolita". She was really attractive and we had a few dates. Has her own place. She's been doing it a while. https://www.seeking.com/member/f55b5...d-46a90c4400d2.

Can you share here her SA private pictures? I am curious to see how she looks and if it is worth it to sign up.

What do you typically send? Some girls you need to read their bio to see what they are asking for. It depends on the girl, sometimes I throw the old "Lets do an arrangement for x" or "I am interested let me know if you are". This starts up the conversation.

Also make sure you have pics.

**Mankind617** · 04-02-21 13:38

Originally Posted by BoredinCT12 [View Original Post]

This the girl? https://www.seeking.com/member/5105d...-40ef59d89234. If so saw her like 6 years ago. Enjoyed my time. Saw her again about 2 years ago. Those pictures are old. Last I saw her she was probably 40 pounds heavier and was not as fun.

The link says profile not available.

**DiscreteGuy888** · 04-02-21 12:39

Hi,

I'm a lurker here and finally decided to post. Thanks to everyone that's shared their experiences with SA. I guess my question for those that have had successful "arrangements", what is your typical opening line when messaging? I've been on and off SA for about 2-3 years. I generally sign up for a free account, then wait for them to offer a 33% promotion off the regular price membership (generally during holidays like Valentines, St. Patricks, etc). I've sent out so many messages but lately it seems like many girls don't respond at all. Just curious to see what others are using. Sorry not really a "report" but more of a question.

I can tell you that I've had success most recently with "moderndaylolita". She was really attractive and we had a few dates. Has her own place. She's been doing it a while. https://www.seeking.com/member/f55b5...d-46a90c4400d2.

**BoredinCT12** · 04-02-21 11:54

Originally Posted by Mankind617 [View Original Post]

I did do a search in this forum. There was nothing recent posted, mostly over a year or two ago and mixed some good some poor reviews. Wanted to see if there was more recent information before I reached out. Thanks.

This the girl? https://www.seeking.com/member/5105d...-40ef59d89234. If so saw her like 6 years ago. Enjoyed my time. Saw her again about 2 years ago. Those pictures are old. Last I saw her she was probably 40 pounds heavier and was not as fun.

**Stickman55** · 04-02-21 09:43

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/01/u...epartment.html

Looks like a Florida congressman has given SA some free publicity.

**Mankind617** · 03-30-21 13:20

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

I'm being kind to her when I say she was marginal, at best, back then. She had some larceny in her heart, too. These types and most do not get better over time.

Better to check the bargain newbies and their "join" date on SA. There are many on SA who've been there 5-15 years, past their prime, and best to avoid.

I'll message her and see what happens. I will check out the newbies though some look really fake. Thanks for the help. Much appreciated.

**Mankind617** · 03-30-21 13:18

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

I think that those of us that saw here a couple years ago decided to not keep seeing her and don't have further updates.

She was a nice enough girl to have a drink with a couple years back, just not my type. You could alwayseet up with her and give us updated info.

I may just do that. Thank you for the info.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 03-30-21 12:25

Originally Posted by Mankind617 [View Original Post]

I did do a search in this forum. There was nothing recent posted, mostly over a year or two ago and mixed some good some poor reviews. Wanted to see if there was more recent information before I reached out. Thanks.

I'm being kind to her when I say she was marginal, at best, back then. She had some larceny in her heart, too. These types and most do not get better over time.

Better to check the bargain newbies and their "join" date on SA. There are many on SA who've been there 5-15 years, past their prime, and best to avoid.

**XxMarkXx** · 03-30-21 12:08

Originally Posted by Mankind617 [View Original Post]

I did do a search in this forum. There was nothing recent posted, mostly over a year or two ago and mixed some good some poor reviews. Wanted to see if there was more recent information before I reached out. Thanks.

I think that those of us that saw here a couple years ago decided to not keep seeing her and don't have further updates.

She was a nice enough girl to have a drink with a couple years back, just not my type. You could alwayseet up with her and give us updated info.