Sugar Daddy Sites

**TheHuntsman** · 03-27-21 10:48

So I kind of think of this place a family of guys that share information. I haven't been on here as much recently. But when my last postef everyone could see how I fell for a girl I met on SA. So I'm just going to open up and be honest. I hope that's okay here. It miss the days when the legend B Malibu was here and he was such a great guy and open about his experiences and even falling for a provider at an AMP.

So one of my biggest issues coming back into the game is comparing everyone to my previous relationship. I've been off and on SA for a few years and I've had a lot of different experiences. Majority fwb and I've had two long-term arrangements if you will before, but nothing like this girl. The thing is I feel like she kind of declawed me. I spent most my life having casual relations with girls. And now I feel like I don't know how to act how to get girls on these sites anymore. I go in being way too nice. The longer you're in this you're bound to take a loss or two. I've taken two small losses before, but not like this. I've had a few losses recently when trying to get back in it. I never gave money up front before but when I met this previous girl I really just liked her so much I gave her 60 before we met and she was shocked and I was shocked. From there we talked everyday and saw each other every week. We never exchanged money per visit.

But now I find myself without my killer instinct anymore. I talked to these girls online I'm almost trying to recreate the situation or the dynamic me and the other girl had, by trying to be nice. But it never works out. I don't know I just don't have that firmness anymore I'm too much of a simp now. I know I'm just kind of ranting but I had to share this somewhere.

**TnaStylez** · 03-26-21 19:41

Originally Posted by SFVsag [View Original Post]

This explains much as to why newbies are asking so much these days. They think it's market standard rate.

It is amazing how just a handful of providers are controlling the narrative on Reddit and setting the expectations on what is acceptable for the rest of us. Talk about BBBJ on Reddit and you will be treated like a creepy pervert.

**SFVsag** · 03-25-21 18:20

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Reddit sugar forum is mostly a platform for pros and semi-pros SBs. Their whole outlook is how to get the most from men while doing the least possible. So of course all you'll hear is whatever benefits the girls most and they couldn't care less about the men's experience or point of view. Things like monthly allowance and 'how dare you offer less than 2 k a month' are all over the forum. Once you understand where it's coming from you can safely ignore it and just go on your merry way. It's just hoes complaining for the most part.

This explains much as to why newbies are asking so much these days. They think it's market standard rate.

**RogerOver** · 03-25-21 16:52

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Reddit sugar forum is mostly a platform for pros and semi-pros SBs. Their whole outlook is how to get the most from men while doing the least possible. So of course all you'll hear is whatever benefits the girls most and they couldn't care less about the men's experience or point of view. Things like monthly allowance and 'how dare you offer less than 2 k a month' are all over the forum. Once you understand where it's coming from you can safely ignore it and just go on your merry way. It's just hoes complaining for the most part.

Their entire model is to be a rinser.

**EvilTmp** · 03-25-21 11:01

Originally Posted by TheHuntsman [View Original Post]

I've also explored a bit of a reddit forum and feel as if I got roasted for saying I've only done ppm. Everything I've learned about using SA from this site over the years has been ppm. Are we in the minority in not giving weekly allowances? On Reddit it's as if they're making me out to be a monster. When I know every girl I've met has had an enjoyable time with me.

Reddit sugar forum is mostly a platform for pros and semi-pros SBs. Their whole outlook is how to get the most from men while doing the least possible. So of course all you'll hear is whatever benefits the girls most and they couldn't care less about the men's experience or point of view. Things like monthly allowance and 'how dare you offer less than 2 k a month' are all over the forum. Once you understand where it's coming from you can safely ignore it and just go on your merry way. It's just hoes complaining for the most part.

**TheHuntsman** · 03-24-21 23:30

I've been trying to get back into after the huge mess of my previous relationship with a girl from SA. Since I've been banned I've tried 2 other sites, but it's been horrible. The lack of girls on these sites is horrible compared to SA. Also it's as if girls are using covid as an excuse to meet and are asking for online only. WTF!? Girls are also asking for money before ever meeting or even a deposit before. Also girls are quoting prices like 500 just to talk and nothing sexual at meet up.

I've also explored a bit of a reddit forum and feel as if I got roasted for saying I've only done ppm. Everything I've learned about using SA from this site over the years has been ppm. Are we in the minority in not giving weekly allowances? On Reddit it's as if they're making me out to be a monster. When I know every girl I've met has had an enjoyable time with me.

**FarFarAway** · 03-20-21 09:27

Originally Posted by PussyPumper [View Original Post]

This is one detail where I differ!

I avoid Google in all its forms. Google apps, and Google Voice.

Google are infamous as world leading data aggregators.

They put 2 +2 together to come up with well over 5 all the time.

Use Google, and the chances that they will know the "real" you are high.

I have read that they even check who else has a Google phone with you in your car, if you have a Google / Android phone.

I do understand this. Yes, it's true, they have ways of identifying that are amazing. Somewhat similar to what happened with David Petraeus, when the NSA figured out that he was having an affair with his biographer b / c their two devices that were connecting to the same email account were in close proximity (same hotel room). They never sent an email, they just logged into the same account and wrote message they saved as drafts.

The issue is, Google voice is just too damn convenient. I guess my thinking is that Google isn't very likely to try to show me up to my SO, whereas a baby might if she was pissed by something I had done and knew my real identity.

I have heard everyone discussing the downsides of many current POTs on SA. I have experienced it to, I do think there are a lot more problems. I absolutely cut those off at the pass. I am blocking every one that is even a slight bit bitchy, or doesn't fit into my deal. I am 60+, if a girl has an age cut off of anything below 55, I just block the profile, never to be seen again, cluttering up my searches, etc.

I mostly don't tell girls off when we have conflicts. In soCal right now there's a pretty blond who says she is pregnant. It's an interest of mine, something I've never done, so we messaged. Eventually she admits she's not even in CA right now, the usual crap, wants to start the 'arrangement' online, once she gets here we'll get together. Yeah right. I told her calmly that I am very experienced and there'll be no allowance until an in person meeting. She gives the 'nice' kiss-off, YK, I hope you can find what you're looking for on here, and I just block her and delete all those messages. She's not very smart when she's trying to pull that shit with someone who has a profile that is a few years old.

**PussyPumper** · 03-20-21 01:21

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I have also heard that if you have the SA app on an Android smartphone and get a GooglePay debit card, you can use the $ on that.

This is one detail where I differ!

I avoid Google in all its forms. Google apps, and Google Voice.

Google are infamous as world leading data aggregators.

They put 2 +2 together to come up with well over 5 all the time.

Use Google, and the chances that they will know the "real" you are high.

I have read that they even check who else has a Google phone with you in your car, if you have a Google / Android phone.

**PussyPumper** · 03-20-21 00:22

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**PussyPumper** · 03-20-21 00:09

Originally Posted by JDeller [View Original Post]

Yeah, I understand now where you are coming from. However, like another guy said, if a person is determined enough they will find you.

I am very much with FarFarAway on this one!

I use the same security measures he does, with the exception of the license plate removal (not all SA women ever see my car).

The other steps he described are easy to do / arrange. As with him, I use a years old dumb burner phone. Not a smartphone, and paid for with prepaid cards. I have no photos on SA, and never exchange photos that appear anywhere public. So no use of photos from social media, etc. Most of my texting is done on the web using free disposable numbers. I access both web browsers and SA using Tor and/or VPN. So no IP tracking, and no text record even on the burner phone, other than a few last min directions to the door. Nothing with my real name or location.

Those steps all cut risk dramatically. Other than that, lots of women on SA are not that smart. Some are very smart indeed of course, and I tend to favor UC and equivalent students (ha ha). But most, not so much.

Using this approach has saved me from drama on several occasions over the years.

- The date who was wearing an ankle bracelet (tracker), when I got her clothes off! (Did not see her again).

- The dates who turned out to be druggies. Did not see them again.

- One lovely girl I saw, there was a message next day on my burner number from a "police officer". Did not even bother to listen to the rest of the message. No follow-up.

- The odd crazy.

So, thankfully no real issues other than being scammed in my early days, in over 4 years on SA.

**Alkalinedio** · 03-19-21 14:47

Funny story, buddy of mine (not on here or SA) had his V done and divorced twice, etc. He had a girl on the side he was banging and was smashing her raw. After he had the surgery, she tried to say she was a month preggo and he said, nice try bxxxx and cut her. Girls can be scanless!

Stay safe.

AD.

Originally Posted by RogerOver [View Original Post]

I remember the first time I fucked a chick after getting my big V. Didn't have to worry about her being on birth control, didn't have to even think about pulling out. I just loved, and still do, firing my deactivated load inside these little hookers that don't think they're hookers.

Of course, when the big apocalypse happens, I won't be able to help repopulate the planet, so there's that draw-back.

**LWashington** · 03-19-21 14:26

Originally Posted by BobbyO [View Original Post]

What is it with these L.A. GPS SB's that want $1000 and block you when you offer 500?

Plenty of whales out there who hit the lottery / were born with it and want to waste their money LOL.

Thankfully there's even more girls, so just got to roll on and you'll hit.

**RogerOver** · 03-19-21 09:59

Originally Posted by PriscillaM [View Original Post]

Here is the problem with "sugar dating" the "nonpros". A pro never talks. You will not hear of a girl on any of the websites with "pros" going after you for blackmail. They are prostitutes and it is part of the code. Now, there are exceptions and you run into those when you start paying over market or attempt a relationship. Witness the 45th president and the hoes that talked.

If you are part of this girl's bread and butter, and you go on a carb free diet and stop paying her, you have a problem and she is not going away easy.

First, if you are ever in the shower washing all of her numerous orgasms off you, she checked your wallet and has your DL.

This was my favorite part of this post. Thanks for the smirk.

Any girls on SA who charges 2-3 times the going rate is not stupid. She is just not part of the code of silence of pros, because she is a, wait for it, non pro.

If they charge, they pros. End of

A2

This is what I keep trying to tell everyone. Why don't they believe it?? I'm not saying you can't pretend they aren't hookers, but at the end of the day (or hour) at least be honest with yourself.

**RogerOver** · 03-19-21 09:54

Originally Posted by PussyDestroyr [View Original Post]

Easy solution, get your tubes tied boys. .

I remember the first time I fucked a chick after getting my big V. Didn't have to worry about her being on birth control, didn't have to even think about pulling out. I just loved, and still do, firing my deactivated load inside these little hookers that don't think they're hookers.

Of course, when the big apocalypse happens, I won't be able to help repopulate the planet, so there's that draw-back.