Seeking Arrangement

[SomeDetroitGuy]

I just started poking around on SA. How do you read messages without having to pay? What are some tips to using this site?

My biggest tip right now is to wait a few more months. Before Covid, it was awesome. Found quite a few amazing women who were gorgeous, sexy, fun, great conversationalists and we'd have a nice night out then return back to my place for amazing sex a few times a month. Never paid more than $300 a night and it never felt like a quick, "hit it and quit it" transaction. They were women who weren't pros and liked having a guy take them out for a nice night out and then they make some money.

Now, though, I went back with the thought of trying to find someone now that things are settling down with Covid and it's a desolate wasteland. You only find folks who are obvious scams (a single picture, little to no description, today is their starting day, instantly favorite you without any messages) or very obvious pros (I've had four different strippers reach out to me trying to get me to visit them in clubs well-known for extras) or folks who want online only.

Once vaccines start rolling out, I expect more women will be looking to get back into the game and then you'll see something of a boom. Wait a couple months then try it out.

[CrazyAsianJet]

Covid hurt the quality because the more "normal" women got more careful. It's almost all pros right now, or fakes.

Generally, look. For well written profiles from mid twenties women that use actual grammar and doesn't look like a backpage ad. Anything that looks like professional pics is almost always a no, too.

I can second that! Even in the night club scene where some normal girls would hang around late to do dates for extra cash it's just DRY.

[Taz41]

Covid hurt the quality because the more "normal" women got more careful. It's almost all pros right now, or fakes.

Generally, look. For well written profiles from mid twenties women that use actual grammar and doesn't look like a backpage ad. Anything that looks like professional pics is almost always a no, too.

That's the sense I've gotten as well. A lot seem to think they can find that arrangement that's online with a dude scared about covid. I had one tell me they didn't do anything in person due to covid, and then apologized for not responding while "at work" LOL.

I've tested a few of the "platonic" ones to see if they are serious, and so far they all seem to be. Figured they may be just posting that to have a post up.

[BrandoM]

So, looking for new friends and I've been hit and miss. It's been easy to connect with the pros and semi-pros looking to hook-up that day. I bit on one and it was covered everything, too many no's, etc. I haven't gone actual ladies on escort sites for many years, but remember a much more fun experience. The risk it's going to suck isn't worth the potential for it to be great.

I'm curious of some of the experienced gents that have found gems. Is there some sort of signal that you look for in an ad or response? Because I'm only seeing same day / pros / single moms (my experience is they have too many limits, but maybe I'm wrong) and "platonic" / online.

I'm tempted to try more semi-pros, but my gut says they're going to be misses, overselling, etc. My ideal would be not much of a time limit, freak in the sheets open to it, and looking for something regular. I've been scouting 20-25, but maybe that's too narrow.

Does "platonic" always mean something other than hookup? I spent way too much time on one that seemed open to texting, but couldn't get anything going. Is there some other clue? Newer members?

Covid hurt the quality because the more "normal" women got more careful. It's almost all pros right now, or fakes.

Generally, look. For well written profiles from mid twenties women that use actual grammar and doesn't look like a backpage ad. Anything that looks like professional pics is almost always a no, too.

[Taz41]

Should I just send my kik in my messages?

I've found it works for the pros looking for same day. If that's what you're looking for. Not sure it's a good strategy for others, at least not in the first 1-2.

[Taz41]

So, looking for new friends and I've been hit and miss. It's been easy to connect with the pros and semi-pros looking to hook-up that day. I bit on one and it was covered everything, too many no's, etc. I haven't gone actual ladies on escort sites for many years, but remember a much more fun experience. The risk it's going to suck isn't worth the potential for it to be great.

I'm curious of some of the experienced gents that have found gems. Is there some sort of signal that you look for in an ad or response? Because I'm only seeing same day / pros / single moms (my experience is they have too many limits, but maybe I'm wrong) and "platonic" / online.

I'm tempted to try more semi-pros, but my gut says they're going to be misses, overselling, etc. My ideal would be not much of a time limit, freak in the sheets open to it, and looking for something regular. I've been scouting 20-25, but maybe that's too narrow.

Does "platonic" always mean something other than hookup? I spent way too much time on one that seemed open to texting, but couldn't get anything going. Is there some other clue? Newer members?

[Wiggles0923]

In order to read messages you have to pay.

Should I just send my kik in my messages?

[STime]

I just started poking around on SA. How do you read messages without having to pay? What are some tips to using this site?

In order to read messages you have to pay.

[Wiggles0923]

I just started poking around on SA. How do you read messages without having to pay? What are some tips to using this site?

[HungaryMan]

My points of thought:

She can be new to the game as stated, food would just be part of the 'date'. Also explain why the address so early. Go drive bay the next couple of day with a sub and stake out.

She isn't the girl in the pick, and she catfishing you, but once there you would walk, maybe even leave the food for her.

She will upcharge the hell out of you, even with the higher start price. I'm already into for X amount and I'm not going to walk away with noting so what is another x.

I would go, bring subs or ask if pizza is OK. Take the food price off of her price. LOL.

Those things to do are okay but would you ruin a good thing over a 10 buck pizza? SA girls aren't, hopefully, some 20 dollar girl on the corner. Just saying. But always keep your guard up. Too many things can go wrong.

[John Inv]

Hey all! So, I've messaged back and forth a couple times with this girl on SA, and quickly went to text. Seems legit, maybe a amateur / pro, very cute, comms were prompt, but short. Price was a little higher than I would normally pay, but says she can host. Set up a time (tonight), but she almost immediately gave me her address in Redford (96/ Inkster). Asked if I wanted to pick us up subs or pasta or something to eat. Now that I've had a little time for my little brain to calm down, it seems a little weird that she immediately gave me her address days before we meet. And wants me to pick up subs (not picky what kind). Spider sense is tingling a bit. Am I just being paranoid, or are those red flags that I should be listening to? I haven't had time to check out the area or address in person so I'll be just showing up a little early just to scope things out?

I'm at the point now where I'm am almost exclusively on SA for the activity. I have found that these type of interactions are often a good sign that you are dealing more with a woman who is on the site for a little help and affection as opposed to a woman who is more of a professional.

I definitely enjoy the former Moreno than the latter because you seem to get more our of them for a lesser cost. Especially if they enjoy your company.

[Verizon75]

My points of thought:

She can be new to the game as stated, food would just be part of the 'date'. Also explain why the address so early. Go drive bay the next couple of day with a sub and stake out.

She isn't the girl in the pick, and she catfishing you, but once there you would walk, maybe even leave the food for her.

She will upcharge the hell out of you, even with the higher start price. I'm already into for X amount and I'm not going to walk away with noting so what is another x.

I would go, bring subs or ask if pizza is OK. Take the food price off of her price. LOL.

Hey all! So, I've messaged back and forth a couple times with this girl on SA, and quickly went to text. Seems legit, maybe a amateur / pro, very cute, comms were prompt, but short. Price was a little higher than I would normally pay, but says she can host. Set up a time (tonight), but she almost immediately gave me her address in Redford (96/ Inkster). Asked if I wanted to pick us up subs or pasta or something to eat. Now that I've had a little time for my little brain to calm down, it seems a little weird that she immediately gave me her address days before we meet. And wants me to pick up subs (not picky what kind). Spider sense is tingling a bit. Am I just being paranoid, or are those red flags that I should be listening to? I haven't had time to check out the area or address in person so I'll be just showing up a little early just to scope things out?

[ESide]

Hey all! So, I've messaged back and forth a couple times with this girl on SA, and quickly went to text. Seems legit, maybe a amateur / pro, very cute, comms were prompt, but short. Price was a little higher than I would normally pay, but says she can host. Set up a time (tonight), but she almost immediately gave me her address in Redford (96/ Inkster). Asked if I wanted to pick us up subs or pasta or something to eat. Now that I've had a little time for my little brain to calm down, it seems a little weird that she immediately gave me her address days before we meet. And wants me to pick up subs (not picky what kind). Spider sense is tingling a bit. Am I just being paranoid, or are those red flags that I should be listening to? I haven't had time to check out the area or address in person so I'll be just showing up a little early just to scope things out?

[Verizon75]

Thank You.

To help weed through the rest of his / her targets and stop getting message notifications from him.

[SomeDetroitGuy]

If it is a fake profile, why would she block him?

To help weed through the rest of his / her targets and stop getting message notifications from him.