Seeking Arrangements

[Spike77]

I swear all I said was I am looking for a companion to spend some time with. Or someone to hang out and have fun. And anything explicit I would always take it off site on my text or snapchat. I have no idea what the heck happened, and it happens exactly when 50% of the subscription was used. Exactly at that point.

So weird, did SA offer an explanation as to why your account got banned when they reinstated your account last time?

[SHawker25]

I have been on and off this site for 3 years and have never been banned (knock on wood). I am surprised how many people have reported getting banned. Not only once but multiple times. In your case (I am taking you at your word) my guess is they have some type of program that flags certain keywords. Right or wrong it is possible they added "companion" to that list. Either that or someone reported you. My advice, which seemed to have worked so far, is to take conversation off the site as quickly as possible. Don't use words or phrases which you think may be flagged. Lastly, don't say anything that will piss a girl off. It is not worth it.

I swear all I said was I am looking for a companion to spend some time with. Or someone to hang out and have fun. And anything explicit I would always take it off site on my text or snapchat. I have no idea what the heck happened, and it happens exactly when 50% of the subscription was used. Exactly at that point.

[TheList00]

Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?

My thought its to steal your money and make you pay another 100. I swear they make shit up or woman get butthurt when you say no then they report you and the site just goes with it. I've been banned numerous times for sex talk but that's fine because that's what I'm there for and can admit it but true story, they banned me for trying to get sex from underage woman on the site. Now this pissed me off because you need to be 18 to join the site so there's no way there's anyway listed on the site as being under 18 , so when I advised them of this it still went nowhere. This is when I knew the site is on lying to steal your money with made up shit. But we are at there mercy since all the other sites are pay per convo which is a joke. Cost me 50 bucks on WYP to open 5 convos that basically weren't what I was looking for. Talk about a waste of money. I'm now on sugardaddymeet.com. Its not bad, 50 a month, unlimited messaging and there's some cute woman there.

[Spike77]

Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?

I have been on and off this site for 3 years and have never been banned (knock on wood). I am surprised how many people have reported getting banned. Not only once but multiple times. In your case (I am taking you at your word) my guess is they have some type of program that flags certain keywords. Right or wrong it is possible they added "companion" to that list. Either that or someone reported you. My advice, which seemed to have worked so far, is to take conversation off the site as quickly as possible. Don't use words or phrases which you think may be flagged. Lastly, don't say anything that will piss a girl off. It is not worth it.

[Gianni Versace]

Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?

You were obviously to explicit in your conversations. Always take the conversations off site.

[SHawker25]

Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?

[Mattis1775]

Classic. "My time is very valuable. I expect compensation for our first (platonic) meeting. I dont have time to have coffee with every Tom dick and Harry on here". We have a winner!

Wow. I would've wrote back to told her to go screw herself and look elsewhere. I guess you do act and say things like that when you receive hundreds of messages from guys with one liners or worse.

[Oscar13]

We have a winner!

The response I got was that she is looking for a "very wealthy" man. On the bright side her movie clips were pretty good, nice angles and she takes it like a champ.

[Bran001]

My current SB was intrigued so I sent her a message on SA; no response yet.

Classic. "My time is very valuable. I expect compensation for our first (platonic) meeting. I don’t have time to have coffee with every Tom dick and Harry on here". We have a winner!

[Bran001]

Saw posts about her a few years ago. She wanted 1000 per meet or something in that range.

My current SB was intrigued so I sent her a message on SA; no response yet.

[JohnTies]

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[BR1201]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d3597...1-32a9b2df8d39 Google her and you'll see she's an adult film star or as she put it mattress actress. I imagine her rate will be high so probably be a one and done.

I should have a few reviews this week or next. The arrangements I had I let one go but then one vanished, I think she was just on for holiday help and the 3rd thought I was avoiding her when I was really quarantining for 2 weeks but she got mad & moved on. Nice girl has a cum fetish, I'll probably post about her. I think I have a few that might work really well for me including a 30 year old mom from NH that comes down to Boston for 2 days a week for her job. We did a vid call & she pointed out if the connection is there and I get a hotel, it means she doesn't have to pay for the hotel herself & she gets to spend the entire night with a man she can have fun with & get some money for it. So that works great for me.

Saw posts about her a few years ago. She wanted 1000 per meet or something in that range.

[Big Stu]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d3597...1-32a9b2df8d39 Google her and you'll see she's an adult film star or as she put it mattress actress. I imagine her rate will be high so probably be a one and done.

I should have a few reviews this week or next. The arrangements I had I let one go but then one vanished, I think she was just on for holiday help and the 3rd thought I was avoiding her when I was really quarantining for 2 weeks but she got mad & moved on. Nice girl has a cum fetish, I'll probably post about her. I think I have a few that might work really well for me including a 30 year old mom from NH that comes down to Boston for 2 days a week for her job. We did a vid call & she pointed out if the connection is there and I get a hotel, it means she doesn't have to pay for the hotel herself & she gets to spend the entire night with a man she can have fun with & get some money for it. So that works great for me.

[Bran001]

I am happy you had great times. But beside reading your adventures. I don't see any valuable info here. Give us names, links, things that can be helpful for us. I am not trying to be an ass but I feel that needed to be said.

I think it's worth commenting on the "names" thing. For the type of woman I look for, she would NOT want to be "reviewed" and absent her doing something really untoward, betraying trust, etc. , I'd not post who I was seeing even after it ended. I'd feel it violated their trust. But those who ask for what I think is silly money, or who flake, are pro's with escort ads, or who bait and switch; I'll post a link.

[Joe1223]

As I said it was a ton of work. Probably 35 offline conversations yielded 10 girls that agreed to meet, 5 ended in bed, 3 duds and 2 in process.

Based on my experience so far (one month in), this is in-between seeing an escort and having a girlfriend. My approach (based on what I've read in this forum) is to treat the girl like they are your girlfriend. In return, the good ones will make you feel like she is your girlfriend (no delusions, I realize they are there for the $. None have asked for contribution up front, where as most escorts I've been with want $ up front. Escorts typically watch the clock, and I always feel pressured to finish within the specified time. None of my successes watched the clock. One went for 3 hours. My #9, ironically, the prettiest with a rocking body, I didn't like at all because she made me feel like she didn't want to be there.

I would say on average the girls I've seen have had a very pretty face (7/8), but could lose a few pounds (body 6/7). I realize that if I target higher quality, my success rate will be much lower or probably cost more.

This is pretty much spot on for success. Understanding the girls are not escorts or don't want to be treated as such anyway is key. I agree with having a targeted group regarding age, beauty, body type that gives you what you need but doesn't turn you off. I prefer under 27-28 but struggle to really connect with the 18-19 you. I love the 23 yo's as they are usually aware of what this is about and many are sick of the "boys" treating them shitty. I just closed out with an 18 yo I got as a rookie to this action because she kept asking for more money and was hard to really have a real conversation. The sex was great, for me anyway, but like Bran mentioned you can get bored if you don't have the right match. I'm over 60 and in decent shape so I list my age a little younger than actual as some of the girls feel really weird about doing over 60 yo dudes. I'm hanging on for a little longer as these young hotties do a body good. The key to my success has been that them good, promote them and be reliable and not a freak. Most of my arrangements last for several months and the girls really start to get kinky as they get warmed up to the deal. You need to know how to read the room and make sure you can converse with them on their level not their grandfathers.