NoVA SugarBabies

[Geeker]

Tl; dr: you can lead a horse to water, but sometimes she's just a massive bee itch.

When I decide to get back on SA, I generalize my search in 3 categories: the tens, the realistics, and then what I like to call "charity work". So I spied this one:

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd71...0-b48ea7020a92

I like redheads, so lets see where it takes us. I reach out, suggest maybe we can help each other out, she sends her number so we start texting.

I ask her what her primary motivation is, because I like to know. Money, dick, or just to have a fella around? Money, she's in a bad place with debt on some medical bills. She's divorced, kid is with her ex because COVID. Okaaay. I ask her what her source of income is, she's a Lyft driver. Physically taxing, unfulfilling work, I get it. She's studying to be a paralegal, probably another year or two. Interesting, but ok. I'm just trying to get a picture of what's going on, you know, that "mentorship" these babies always say they want. No, that's right, they don't want advice, they want stock tips or some other. I press on more, and I find out she used to be an LMT! Had a license, let it expire or moved out of the state. Are you guys thinking what I'm thinking?

I ask her if she'd ever thought about getting back into massage. How would she feel about happy endings? You know, since she's already putting it out there that she'd do "something" for money. She already has the skill, investing in a $2 bottle of oil, can you make a fist for 2 min? I know some guys who would probably be happy to help you, you wouldn't even have to advertise. Hell, 100/ hr, in a week you'll be back in business. "I wouldn't want to do massage without a license". Well sweetie, I don't think there's a license to give a handy after a massage, I think you'd be fine. "No, that's not how I want to make money". Ok, you're on a sugar babies website, well what the heck do you want? "I want a no strings attached, mutually beneficial relationship". I ask her to kindly cut the shit and tell me exactly what she wants. She'd rather meet up and discuss in person. I counter with I'd rather talk now than have you waste my time meeting you.

Finally I get it out of her. She wants an allowance, amount unspecified and I sure as hell wasn't going to ask. I tell her that the nature of my sugar stash doesn't allow for an allowance, sorry, I have to do PPM. She replies "PPM is for escorts". I ask her to explain to me what's the difference between doing something for an "allowance" vs PPM. She makes some disparaging remarks about "those men" who solicit a word that rhymes with "frostitute". The hipocrisy is amazing. I tell her I'm no longer interested, and she says good luck in my search for a ppm, as if it's some kind of insult. Yeah, good luck. As an overweight single mom in debt with a crappy attitude, I'm sure she'll do fine.

That's all I run into here in DC metro area. Unrealistic SBs working as cashier or some other work and they want a monthly allowance that's more than their annual salary.

[Jost815]

Anyone have info on this one? We are currently messaging on the site but she is a little slow to respond. Seems dtf but haven't discussed any figures or dos / donts.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8a668...3-68691dcc15b5

[GolfMan57]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfe2e...a-1d213e7c089f

Got her to text several months ago and then came the "need the deposit" to prove I am real.

[Jsidd]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfe2e...a-1d213e7c089f

[JamesBlond007]

Tl; dr: you can lead a horse to water, but sometimes she's just a massive bee itch.

When I decide to get back on SA, I generalize my search in 3 categories: the tens, the realistics, and then what I like to call "charity work". So I spied this one:

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd71...0-b48ea7020a92

I like redheads, so lets see where it takes us. I reach out, suggest maybe we can help each other out, she sends her number so we start texting.

I ask her what her primary motivation is, because I like to know. Money, dick, or just to have a fella around? Money, she's in a bad place with debt on some medical bills. She's divorced, kid is with her ex because COVID. Okaaay. I ask her what her source of income is, she's a Lyft driver. Physically taxing, unfulfilling work, I get it. She's studying to be a paralegal, probably another year or two. Interesting, but ok. I'm just trying to get a picture of what's going on, you know, that "mentorship" these babies always say they want. No, that's right, they don't want advice, they want stock tips or some other. I press on more, and I find out she used to be an LMT! Had a license, let it expire or moved out of the state. Are you guys thinking what I'm thinking?

I ask her if she'd ever thought about getting back into massage. How would she feel about happy endings? You know, since she's already putting it out there that she'd do "something" for money. She already has the skill, investing in a $2 bottle of oil, can you make a fist for 2 min? I know some guys who would probably be happy to help you, you wouldn't even have to advertise. Hell, 100/ hr, in a week you'll be back in business. "I wouldn't want to do massage without a license". Well sweetie, I don't think there's a license to give a handy after a massage, I think you'd be fine. "No, that's not how I want to make money". Ok, you're on a sugar babies website, well what the heck do you want? "I want a no strings attached, mutually beneficial relationship". I ask her to kindly cut the shit and tell me exactly what she wants. She'd rather meet up and discuss in person. I counter with I'd rather talk now than have you waste my time meeting you.

Finally I get it out of her. She wants an allowance, amount unspecified and I sure as hell wasn't going to ask. I tell her that the nature of my sugar stash doesn't allow for an allowance, sorry, I have to do PPM. She replies "PPM is for escorts". I ask her to explain to me what's the difference between doing something for an "allowance" vs PPM. She makes some disparaging remarks about "those men" who solicit a word that rhymes with "frostitute". The hipocrisy is amazing. I tell her I'm no longer interested, and she says good luck in my search for a ppm, as if it's some kind of insult. Yeah, good luck. As an overweight single mom in debt with a crappy attitude, I'm sure she'll do fine.

[Tyrex2]

https://www.seeking.com/member/fc015...c-b7c868626cd9

So. Yeah, LOL.

[Ernest Ll]

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[FogHorn1]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4729c...e-298107a9c513

This is yet another total smoke show (based on the one pic) that likely has more messages than she knows what to do with. I've messaged her twice over the past few months and neither has been read. Any one even talking to her?

[Mike77]

I got the same vibe from her. She wanted 400 and wanted to come to my place. She also said condoms are a must. Haven't pulled the trigger yet.

There's a sugar lifestyle discussion on Reddit and she is on there giving advice and talking about her experiences. Same username. She seems VERY experienced.

[RegularJoe1985]

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...e-23fe41c61b78

That link is for your message.

[JkNova9]

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...e-23fe41c61b78

[FogHorn1]

Interesting. She's now in the "Featured Members" section. Not sure how much that costs for the ladies, but it would seem to indicate that she is serious about finding a SD. I may re-engage just for the sport of it.

I messaged her on SA and like her 2nd reply was "Are you able to come to DC (I'm 2 hours away) and can you get us a hotel room".

I got the same vibe from her. She wanted 400 and wanted to come to my place. She also said condoms are a must. Haven't pulled the trigger yet.

I think more than trying to find a serious SD she seems to be more of a pro. Or at least semi pro.

[Jost815]

I got the same vibe from her. She wanted 400 and wanted to come to my place. She also said condoms are a must. Haven't pulled the trigger yet.

I messaged her on SA and like her 2nd reply was "Are you able to come to DC (I'm 2 hours away) and can you get us a hotel room".

[Decadentme]

Could this mother / daughter duo even possibly be real? Or is it just some old, fat guy catfishing?

https://www.seeking.com/member/74796...9-c09aace7fa1d

This is their "About Me", on SA:

"Hey there! This is Isabella and Natalie! We are a mother/daughter duo. We like to keep it real! Natalie is in school for psychology. Isabella is a hard working mom. We have been quite lonely and would enjoy some good company(: if this sounds like something youd be interested in, feel like to message us🖤"