Arrangement Reports

[StanKost]

Pay up front.

I have been using only ppm and few times SB had asked for a monthly allowance which never worked for me. They want me to commit to monthly allowance without even seeing them live just based on their pics and without having sex. How would I know if I will like her looks and performance? Also you pony up 1500 on the first date with agreement to meet 5 times per month how would I know that she will show up the next 4 times? Few times when I was asked for monthly allowance and I had suggested to start with ppm they play offended that I don't trust them and I just drop it there.

[CharissaSaleh]

Each girl is different, but honestly it depends on how much they've heard from other friends. I haven't done $1500 before, but the other times I've done an allowance it's been upfront with the understanding that we would meet X amount of times. If you split it some girls might get turned off or think you're cheap. Most dudes shouldn't care but I can see how some might get pressured. Honestly for what a high majority of us do (hence why we're on this site &#128521. Ppm is the way to go. Surprised at how many girls are open to PPM so play your cards right from the get go to make them feel comfortable.

And yes I agree. She is not someone I'd provide that type of allowance to. Her attitude was "meh". Didn't take that long for her to blurt that out in our messages.

In Asia, some will pay round $250 to $500 per week.

[CharissaSaleh]

$1500 isn't bad for a monthly allowance if it's a girl I would regularly see, at least weekly.

I wouldn't want to see that girl weekly. That's a Tinder girl you fuck for free.

Anyway, I've been contemplating an allowance arrangement with a SA girl. I didn't think I would ever need it, but there's been a lot of pressure from the girls I'm seeing lately to either commit to a regular relationship or to start paying. I knew it would happen one day.

So how do longer term allowances work? Do you pay the month up front or afterwards?

Pay up front.

[VicStick2]

Each girl is different, but honestly it depends on how much they've heard from other friends. I haven't done $1500 before, but the other times I've done an allowance it's been upfront with the understanding that we would meet X amount of times. If you split it some girls might get turned off or think you're cheap. Most dudes shouldn't care but I can see how some might get pressured. Honestly for what a high majority of us do (hence why we're on this site &#128521. Ppm is the way to go. Surprised at how many girls are open to PPM so play your cards right from the get go to make them feel comfortable.

And yes I agree. She is not someone I'd provide that type of allowance to. Her attitude was "meh". Didn't take that long for her to blurt that out in our messages.

$1500 isn't bad for a monthly allowance if it's a girl I would regularly see, at least weekly.

I wouldn't want to see that girl weekly. That's a Tinder girl you fuck for free.

Anyway, I've been contemplating an allowance arrangement with a SA girl. I didn't think I would ever need it, but there's been a lot of pressure from the girls I'm seeing lately to either commit to a regular relationship or to start paying. I knew it would happen one day.

So how do longer term allowances work? Do you pay the month up front or afterwards?

[Jinurso]

She's cute but asked for 1500 a month allowance. Have at it if you're interested.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8c994...e-82175d98993c

$1500 isn't bad for a monthly allowance if it's a girl I would regularly see, at least weekly.

I wouldn't want to see that girl weekly. That's a Tinder girl you fuck for free.

Anyway, I've been contemplating an allowance arrangement with a SA girl. I didn't think I would ever need it, but there's been a lot of pressure from the girls I'm seeing lately to either commit to a regular relationship or to start paying. I knew it would happen one day.

So how do longer term allowances work? Do you pay the month up front or afterwards?

[DWill]

If you care to share and still have them. Can you share the numbers of the few selected ladies below. I am no longer a member of SA. Felt like I wasn't getting anywhere for the price and the recent price increase made me move on. Thanks in advance.

This one wanted $300, but agreed to $150. She came over to my place. Photos are heavily edited, she's a bit bigger as well, but nothing bad. Follows instructions well. I will repeat in a pinch.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4da90...7-0370b41c6467

This one agreed for $200. Wants to meet at a hotel. Added her on Snapchat, seems too rachet for me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9eec5...4-f809cb995707

This one wanted $200, but she needed to be picked up in Joliet. Photos are legit. I pass though.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bfbd6...0-667373b6374d

This one I'm in talks with. Any intel?

https://www.seeking.com/member/5fb60...a-1cf84c8fb5a9

[SeekAndDestroy]

This is why I did not renew. Too much garbage that is not worth my time.

This board has become therapy for guys to convince themselves they arent missing anything by not subscribing to SA. Half the posts are about how things are soooo terrible and many on here really want / need to believe that. I know I personally get anxious during months I'm not a member and look through the newer profiles to make sure I'm not missing out on much, so I get it. Just funny.

As always, if you give the effort you're rewarded. I see nothing different.

[VicStick2]

She's cute but asked for 1500 a month allowance. Have at it if you're interested.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8c994...e-82175d98993c

[GWheaton]

Before COVID I always reported the online only, pic sellers and scammers. I have a 2nd non paying account where I can check to see if SA deletes their profile after I report them. I have never seen a profile get deleted after I reported them.

This is why I did not renew. Too much garbage that is not worth my time.

[DougPeterson]

A variation of Randolph's strategy is for everyone to report / block any of the women that are wanting to do text / phone, online / pics / Only Fans, prepay, deposit or any of the other items that aren't allowed. Screen shot the profile, message and add it using the "upload evidence" button and then they will see it. May be far fetched but if they get enough women reported / blocked and taking up too much of their time they may wake up. The messages complaining may help and I usually send a message every few months when there are an abundance of them.

Before COVID I always reported the online only, pic sellers and scammers. I have a 2nd non paying account where I can check to see if SA deletes their profile after I report them. I have never seen a profile get deleted after I reported them.

[LoveSmallPerky]

A variation of Randolph's strategy is for everyone to report / block any of the women that are wanting to do text / phone, online / pics / Only Fans, prepay, deposit or any of the other items that aren't allowed. Screen shot the profile, message and add it using the "upload evidence" button and then they will see it. May be far fetched but if they get enough women reported / blocked and taking up too much of their time they may wake up. The messages complaining may help and I usually send a message every few months when there are an abundance of them.

[Randolph]

These last few months have been horrible and it is only getting worse.

Does seeking even monitor who signs up? Do they have moderators to monitor things? 95% are scammers and online seekers. Charge a membership to girls of 25 dollars one time fee and that will eliminate half of the the bullshit.

I agree with the change but as a one month user at a time over the last many years, I can pretty much just block from searches most of the bullshit ones. It is taking more work but in the two weeks I have been back on I have found three to meet up with. One I am doing again this afternoon. I am less focused on looks and more on distance from me. I am getting lazy. You are not going to find the 18 yr old blonde with the killer body and smile willing to go for 200. It's just the reality. If you can wrap your brain around a bit of chubbiness, there are a lot of horny chubby women out there.

[LikeMike1963]

Let SA know your thoughts. I have written them. In a respectful tone. Letting them know they are destroying their own brand with all the ON LINE girls. I suggested setting up a sister ONLINE SB site for those that want it or yes. Charge girls some minimum fee. Even $3 . Just something that will weed out a fair bit of the issues.

Yup.

Nope. Apparently not.

Yup. Couldn't agree more. Free certainly boosts the quantity of female members greatly but it reduces quality exponentially. Law of diminishing returns in full effect where a lot of guys stop paying simply b / c they've let it become a such a massive dumpster fire. Charging a nominal fee would weed out the vast majority of the bullshit AND bring more paying guys back to the site. Win / win.

[Pau Ford]

These last few months have been horrible and it is only getting worse.

Yup.

Does seeking even monitor who signs up? Do they have moderators to monitor things?

Nope. Apparently not.

Charge a membership to girls of 25 dollars one time fee and that will eliminate half of the the bullshit.

Yup. Couldn't agree more. Free certainly boosts the quantity of female members greatly but it reduces quality exponentially. Law of diminishing returns in full effect where a lot of guys stop paying simply b / c they've let it become a such a massive dumpster fire. Charging a nominal fee would weed out the vast majority of the bullshit AND bring more paying guys back to the site. Win / win.

[Chiguy007]

https://www.seeking.com/member/43f70...1-d033dd19740b

Made plans to meet up with her for drinks later tonight and get a motel afterwards for 4-5 hours. Was able to verify she was real through facebook. Meeting her in Janesville, hopefully this one turns out great! I'll keep yall posted.

Any update?