What in the fuck are you talking about?

[ChicagoTrueLov]

Firstly, I want to thank this board for all the information over the years, and this has been one of the active boards ever. I learnt a lot from this board.

I was scrolling through the board and found the topic that surfaces time and again, falling in love with the girl you meet. It's been a while I was thinking to share my experience and thoughts over this topic, and now found some time to write it up.

Reading few positive reviews of Jess, she reminded me of Riley from Atlanta, who was active few years back (now retired I guess). I was going through lot of personal life turmoil and got to see her a few times. Riley had this combo, beauty with brains. I believe it is natural for anyone to occasionally fall in love with the girl, because s*x is an act of love. And, for people like me, who have gone through lot of personal life turmoil, it is even more natural to get attracted to someone who treats you right and communicates well. Riley used to talk about a lot of things, she was intelligent and empathized with me, and I got carried away a few times to treat her as my leaning shoulder or a friend to talk to.

Here is where I learnt my most important lesson, I texted her few times when she is out of town, and never got a reply. I only got a reply once she is in town, and it was purely business. Again, when meeting her, she used to talk with same old empathy. This made me realize that no matter how well your encounter goes, you can never be her friend, you are nothing but business, these girls are really clever. And all that empathy talk was to avoid MSOG. LOL.

I personally believe that we all meet here, because deep inside, we are MISSING something. For few, it could be love, for others it could be good s*x or whatever. For these girls, please understand that they are MISSING financial well-being, and nothing else. These girls just want to make some money, and you have that money to pour in.

So, long story short, if a girl treats you right in this business, it is mostly because one, you treated her right, and two, you have the money. You are that sugar daddy who she can count on and will default you as her regular, so that when she has no one else to see, you are the go-to person, and she can make some money.

I am still going through some personal life turmoil, and still want to see few girls who really connected well, and miss them, but at the end, it is what it is.

So, my friends, I posted this not to open any argument. If you find some value from my post, take it, otherwise, kindly ignore it.

I have few other experiences to share in MP and SW section, but they are long write ups too. LOL. But till then cya.

CTL.

[HoldenPierson]

Listening to what everyone is saying is so true. I let my guard down a couple years ago and was going to meet up with someone then all the sudden they had all my personal information and threatened to tell my family if I didn't pay. Luckily it was not a lot of money but the fact they got some. Got to be careful out there.

Please don't tell me you fell for that Mexican Cartel scam.

[Royal742]

Listening to what everyone is saying is so true. I let my guard down a couple years ago and was going to meet up with someone then all the sudden they had all my personal information and threatened to tell my family if I didn't pay. Luckily it was not a lot of money but the fact they got some. Got to be careful out there.

[LordNog]

You know what, we all have our ways of hobbying but what you just said, cameras, is the major reason I don't frequent those establishments or motels when I can avoid it. Understand their need for security but I have a need for anonymity since I have a frigid SO and decent portfolio so I prefer to stay "down low". No paypal, cashapp, or anything, if I can't get someone off a site and onto my private email or burner # I drop 'them like a hot potato. Some of you don't have those concerns and I get that. The wonderful thing is I'm at an age I can still perform but think through the right head. (most of the time LOL). And your story is the main reason I don't refer a newbie for sure because you don't know who they are or why they're asking. Have my trusted friends and their friends and my regulars and that's good enough for me. But hey, I'm always open to suggestions! LOL.

I agree completely.

[Member #7201]

It's always good for us to stay UTR also. As much as possible. Here are some more suggestions on how to remain untraceable. Use a burner phone. Pay for it with cash. Buy minute refill cards with cash. Keep the phone turned off and hidden. Clear it of all recent calls and texts. Even hide the battery separately. Change the phone number on it occasionally. When you drive to a location, change places at the last minute. If you're picking her up at a hotel, park next door and tell her to walk over. If you're spending time at a hotel park your car anywhere else and walk over. Cameras are hard to avoid but wear hat, sunglasses, and dress very plain. No loud colors or shirts with wording on them. If you stand out somebody might recognize you.

Also avoid stings by reading and following the 22 rules of street mongering on this site.

Keep up the good work and stay under the radar. Be glad your body and equipment are still working. Mine is starting to fail me.

GB40.

[Queen City Guy]

I'm usually reluctant to reply unless I know the person. A year or so back, a monger asked me about a pretty detailed post. I thought it provided all details. Anyway this guy wanted to know girls name at an AMP, the layout of the parlor and time I visited. I was suspicious and just restated the post. Next day I learned a Dept of health inspection was conducted and the inspector was asking if any condoms were kept on the location. The girl I knew was asked about the "guy" who visited last week and wanted to see security video of that day. They were smart enough to advise that video wasn't a health dept matter then started storing video history for 2 days only. So, if I haven't developed a rapport with you, don't pm me.

You know what, we all have our ways of hobbying but what you just said, cameras, is the major reason I don't frequent those establishments or motels when I can avoid it. Understand their need for security but I have a need for anonymity since I have a frigid SO and decent portfolio so I prefer to stay "down low". No paypal, cashapp, or anything, if I can't get someone off a site and onto my private email or burner # I drop 'them like a hot potato. Some of you don't have those concerns and I get that. The wonderful thing is I'm at an age I can still perform but think through the right head. (most of the time LOL). And your story is the main reason I don't refer a newbie for sure because you don't know who they are or why they're asking. Have my trusted friends and their friends and my regulars and that's good enough for me. But hey, I'm always open to suggestions! LOL.

[Titlicka]

The one time I shared a referral with one of those one or two post guys he visited her then quoted my post saying how bad she was and he recommended everyone not to visit! If the WTFAYTA thread had been up then I would have called him out!

If I message guys that I have not conversed with (which I do when I travel) I always intro myself as a Sr member and they are welcome to check out my posts. If asking for a referral I'll also be honest about being older but someone they will not be embarrassed to refer. And hey, if they don't respond I respect that, their sweat equity.

The ones that get me are the ones that do post like they're Mr Expert, talk a big game, then hit me up and act all arrogant saying they have some things to share but I have to share 1st to see if my quality matches theirs. Yeah right.

Some of those that I have shared intel with come back with theirs that are STG gals that everyone knows about. So I don't do that anymore.

I'm usually reluctant to reply unless I know the person. A year or so back, a monger asked me about a pretty detailed post. I thought it provided all details. Anyway this guy wanted to know girls name at an AMP, the layout of the parlor and time I visited. I was suspicious and just restated the post. Next day I learned a Dept of health inspection was conducted and the inspector was asking if any condoms were kept on the location. The girl I knew was asked about the "guy" who visited last week and wanted to see security video of that day. They were smart enough to advise that video wasn't a health dept matter then started storing video history for 2 days only. So, if I haven't developed a rapport with you, don't pm me.

[Queen City Guy]

I agree. I generally ignore those DMs. I am lucky to get out once or twice a month and I only play with those I know are safe or are highly recommended by trusted seniors. It is really annoying when they DM to ask a question when the answer is just a few posts down.

The one time I shared a referral with one of those one or two post guys he visited her then quoted my post saying how bad she was and he recommended everyone not to visit! If the WTFAYTA thread had been up then I would have called him out!

If I message guys that I have not conversed with (which I do when I travel) I always intro myself as a Sr member and they are welcome to check out my posts. If asking for a referral I'll also be honest about being older but someone they will not be embarrassed to refer. And hey, if they don't respond I respect that, their sweat equity.

The ones that get me are the ones that do post like they're Mr Expert, talk a big game, then hit me up and act all arrogant saying they have some things to share but I have to share 1st to see if my quality matches theirs. Yeah right.

Some of those that I have shared intel with come back with theirs that are STG gals that everyone knows about. So I don't do that anymore.

[NC Transplant]

I agree. I generally ignore those DMs. I am lucky to get out once or twice a month and I only play with those I know are safe or are highly recommended by trusted seniors. It is really annoying when they DM to ask a question when the answer is just a few posts down.

I have no problem with people lurking but if they are going to message you with no board contributions or history they are selfish and that trait could easily be passed on to how they treat the ladies. I am with you on that, if you are referring guys you are putting your credibility to the provider on the line. I do not have any UTRs to offer but I have been getting DMs from people asking specific questions about women I reviewed and I see very limited activity on the boards if any. I am going to start a policy of not responding to DMs from people who do not contribute with very few exceptions.

On the flip side I have gotten some great DMs from senior members who tell me the dark side of some of the girls I reviewed, girls who start out great but have a history of demons catching up to them and they rip guys off. Hats off to those with hundreds or thousands of posts, you have made mongering safer for the rest of us.

[The Big Cat]

LOL, right? I made a post on a different thread and got questions from guys who I had never even heard of, most of them with no posts at all. Not even one, like zero. I'm like "seriously?" I don't mind helping a fellow monger out at all, but at least have contributed to the board (any board). Those who post info are putting in effort to support the monger board and fellow mongers, so don't DM with no history and expect me to do additional work for you. I have no idea who you are. Certainly not going to recommend you to a girl I know, you could be a total ass_ole and then she gets mad at me? F-CK that. SMH.

I have no problem with people lurking but if they are going to message you with no board contributions or history they are selfish and that trait could easily be passed on to how they treat the ladies. I am with you on that, if you are referring guys you are putting your credibility to the provider on the line. I do not have any UTRs to offer but I have been getting DMs from people asking specific questions about women I reviewed and I see very limited activity on the boards if any. I am going to start a policy of not responding to DMs from people who do not contribute with very few exceptions.

On the flip side I have gotten some great DMs from senior members who tell me the dark side of some of the girls I reviewed, girls who start out great but have a history of demons catching up to them and they rip guys off. Hats off to those with hundreds or thousands of posts, you have made mongering safer for the rest of us.

[Bouinage]

I can't believe how many PMs I received from members who were not even active on this board.

She is a UTR for her own personal reasons, and I have to respect that. She may be open for a couple of my referral, but it'll be very selective.

LOL, right? I made a post on a different thread and got questions from guys who I had never even heard of, most of them with no posts at all. Not even one, like zero. I'm like "seriously?" I don't mind helping a fellow monger out at all, but at least have contributed to the board (any board). Those who post info are putting in effort to support the monger board and fellow mongers, so don't DM with no history and expect me to do additional work for you. I have no idea who you are. Certainly not going to recommend you to a girl I know, you could be a total ass_ole and then she gets mad at me? F-CK that. SMH.

[TwoShots]

From one senior member to another, I suggest that you always post about a provider that disappoints you as well as promote a provider that impresses you. That is the purpose of this board. Our posts and comments do get back to most of these girls. Hopefully, it will make them step up their game.

If a monger disagrees with what you post about, he can state his own opinion. Other mongers don't always agree with what I say but my skin is thick enough to handle it.

Well said. We should respect other mongers opinions and disagree if that is the case but refrain from critiquing the monger because if his *taste*. Case on point, fun size Steph, (king, what happened, still waiting for digits.) she was nothing to look at and definitely not the type of girl I was looking for at that time (young spiners was my thing at that time) but I couldn't have enough of her. You couldn't tell why I like those 2 types from my picture. .

[FunderJ]

You are right of course. However, most times that I am disappointed it is not because of the providers performance or attitude, but because of the body or lack thereof. And there is the conundrum of tactfully telling someone that they like to screw around with nasty looking women. Still, I should diplomatically post my opinion. Thanks for the feedback.

If you want to be tactful about a below average looking woman, you could just say she looks alright or just so so. That's what I used to say about my ex old lady's horrible cooking.

I personally feel on this board, we should be brutally honest.

[Gator1961]

From one senior member to another, I suggest that you always post about a provider that disappoints you as well as promote a provider that impresses you. That is the purpose of this board. Our posts and comments do get back to most of these girls. Hopefully, it will make them step up their game.

If a monger disagrees with what you post about, he can state his own opinion. Other mongers don't always agree with what I say but my skin is thick enough to handle it.

You are right of course. However, most times that I am disappointed it is not because of the providers performance or attitude, but because of the body or lack thereof. And there is the conundrum of tactfully telling someone that they like to screw around with nasty looking women. Still, I should diplomatically post my opinion. Thanks for the feedback.

[ModelX]

Agreed with you, especially when there is a regular 19 yo UTR who is willing to do 140 reliably.

I can't believe how many PMs I received from members who were not even active on this board.

She is a UTR for her own personal reasons, and I have to respect that. She may be open for a couple of my referral, but it'll be very selective.