WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**PickyMonger** · 12-29-20 20:29

I talked with her last night. She wanted 300-600. Settled on 300. Agreed to a free M&G but said she was busy today. Presumably because she was set up with you? I'll keep talking to her but I'll assume she'll flake.

Told me the same story about her availability.

BF.

Originally Posted by Jt1896 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/07b4a...8-1211193e0d9e

Went to text, made a date negotiated $250. Got the hotel, she confirmed in the am and then a hour before she tells me she can't make it. Then she proceeds to complain about meeting at a hotel during covid. WTF? She didn't have a problem when we made the plans. Now she's on SA again tonight. Looking for another sucker. Blocked her but used another account to bring you her profile.

Everything looks good until the time to meet. She can only meet Sunday, Monday and Tuesday for personal reasons. If you end up seeing her, please post? And, good luck keeping the date.

**NovaDaddy69** · 12-29-20 13:13

Originally Posted by CoolDaddy07 [View Original Post]

Similar experience with her like most of you gents which makes me thinks if she is even real to begin with?

I had a confirm date set with her but then she disappeared.

I've met her. We had an M&G lunch a few months ago (when it was still warm and possible to do outdoor seating), and she was indeed someone who came across as very genuine, almost kinda shy. Talked about her background being from a more rural part of the state, and she has that kind of vibe as well. Kind of a small-town rural girl look to her. Though while the first meeting went well and we talked about getting together to cause trouble the next time, a few days later she messaged me asking if I could send her some money to help pay some bills. When I tried to gently put it off and suggest we wait until we get together, she kept trying to convince me which was a turn off so I blocked her. Just wan't sure what to believe anymore tgh.

So bottom line is she's definitely a real person. Whether she's actually a real sugar baby in the usual sense is still to be determined.

**CoolDaddy07** · 12-29-20 11:52

Originally Posted by Jbunk [View Original Post]

I haven't been active online but did anyone ever meet up with her? Shes been mention in the url and comment by m.t

Sweet Princess A.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ee9cb...0-3cb81c26b505

I've been chatting with her for the longest time. I'm not even sure how active she is on SA as I have been chatting with her on KIK. We've tentatively set things up for later this week. Not sure what to expect.

Similar experience with her like most of you gents which makes me thinks if she is even real to begin with?

I had a confirm date set with her but then she disappeared.

**Whistles** · 12-28-20 22:31

Well she is practically feral LOL.

Originally Posted by Jt1896 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/07b4a...8-1211193e0d9e

Went to text, made a date negotiated $250. Got the hotel, she confirmed in the am and then a hour before she tells me she can't make it. Then she proceeds to complain about meeting at a hotel during covid. WTF? She didn't have a problem when we made the plans. Now she's on SA again tonight. Looking for another sucker. Blocked her but used another account to bring you her profile.

Everything looks good until the time to meet. She can only meet Sunday, Monday and Tuesday for personal reasons. If you end up seeing her, please post? And, good luck keeping the date.

**Jt1896** · 12-28-20 21:08

https://www.seeking.com/member/07b4a...8-1211193e0d9e

Went to text, made a date negotiated $250. Got the hotel, she confirmed in the am and then a hour before she tells me she can't make it. Then she proceeds to complain about meeting at a hotel during covid. WTF? She didn't have a problem when we made the plans. Now she's on SA again tonight. Looking for another sucker. Blocked her but used another account to bring you her profile.

Everything looks good until the time to meet. She can only meet Sunday, Monday and Tuesday for personal reasons. If you end up seeing her, please post? And, good luck keeping the date.

**Jcinmd15** · 12-28-20 14:48

Originally Posted by Jbunk [View Original Post]

I haven't been active online but did anyone ever meet up with her? Shes been mention in the url and comment by m.t

Sweet Princess A.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ee9cb...0-3cb81c26b505

I've been chatting with her for the longest time. I'm not even sure how active she is on SA as I have been chatting with her on KIK. We've tentatively set things up for later this week. Not sure what to expect

She flaked on me a couple times. It will be interesting to hear if she meets with you.

**FunForDevils** · 12-28-20 12:39

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

So last week my buddy was complaining about his SO not appreciating him and everything he does for her, and the lack of sex. In response I recommended he find a SB to fill the void. His response was he couldn't afford one. I know my buddy's spending habits and he's a pretty outrageous spender, so I asked him where he got the idea that he couldn't afford an SB. Turns out when he travelled for work preCOVID his boss would sometimes call out his SBs to join them. According to my friend, real $ got dropped going out, and for allowances. The numbers made the allowances I give look like a pittance.

So where am I going with this? First off, there are plenty of dudes out there with FU $. They don't give a crap about rule #1 and so that's what we're up against. Luckily for us, guys like that are limited. They make up a smaller pool, and burn through ladies a lot faster. If I had FU $ like that, I'd have a new SB keeping my bed warm every night. On the upside, they are bringing more players into the sugar game, so its not all bad.

Second, from my experience, if you want to get away with lower allowances, you got to offer a POT more than just $. Either sell being reliable, or be someone they would want to sleep with IRL without an allowance. At the end of the day, if she would go home with you after a meeting you in a bar, she'll sleep with you for $250 even though she was getting $500 from her last SD.

I know this to be true after losing 20 lbs. SBs that wouldn't respond to higher allowance amounts from prior SA profiles would be willing to go straight to the FC after a M&G, even after I would propose "lowballer" amounts. After making them cum and being someone they could rely on for regular meetups, the allowance they're willing to take will go even lower, or won't be necessary at all when they just want someone familiar to bang.

Long story short, there are enough rich assholes who don't GAF about lighting their cash on fire to bang a hot 20 yo blonde. If you want to bang that same 20 yo blond without lighting your cash on fire, you got to set yourself apart from those rich assholes.

Agree with every bit of this. I used to date more than two at a time and still was within monthly budget but then due to these IMRICHF-er out there. The game is ruined almost.

Its little extra planning that needs to be done to get away from FC. With combination of factors like Covid + Job + Personal Life that scenario has hit the reliability of flow of SBs.

On a side note, SA is raising price again from 89 to a Benjamin starting 1 Jan. I am out of the SA game since last two months. But before taking a break, I had to break arrangement with two good SBs just because there are guys out there who pay 600+ and that is insane.

Anyway, the only way we can do better is what you suggested but then that approach is not everyone's cup of tea. The reliability factor is unpredictable and puts you in YMMV zone.

**GoodNightBalt** · 12-28-20 10:41

Originally Posted by Kris106 [View Original Post]

Why did she reject you?

I don't remember the specifics at this point, just the situation and how amicable it was.

**Michael Taylor** · 12-28-20 09:56

Originally Posted by Jbunk [View Original Post]

I haven't been active online but did anyone ever meet up with her? Shes been mention in the url and comment by m.t

Sweet Princess A.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ee9cb...0-3cb81c26b505

I've been chatting with her for the longest time. I'm not even sure how active she is on SA as I have been chatting with her on KIK. We've tentatively set things up for later this week. Not sure what to expect.

I never got anywhere with Sweet Princess. Same as you. Lots of talk. We'd set up a meeting for later in the week. . . . and then she'd go silent. I'd chat with her on kik, too. It was weird, because she'd be very communicative some days, and then she'd go dark. 2 months later, she'll ask how everything's going. I stopped replying after the 3rd time. She seems so genuine. If anyone ever meets up with her, you have to let us know how it went. Curious minds want to know (ha).

**Jbunk** · 12-28-20 09:05

I haven't been active online but did anyone ever meet up with her? She’s been mention in the url and comment by m.t

Sweet Princess A.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ee9cb...0-3cb81c26b505

I've been chatting with her for the longest time. I'm not even sure how active she is on SA as I have been chatting with her on KIK. We've tentatively set things up for later this week. Not sure what to expect.

**Mrgibbs** · 12-28-20 07:54

Originally Posted by NovaDaddy69 [View Original Post]

Gotcha, and thanks for the insights, all. Sounds like better to take a pass on this one.

As for the notion that all SBs are pros, I'd say only that if a girl's notion of a ppm or weekly arrangement scenario is hanging out all night causing trouble, that's more what I'd consider a true sugar baby. Vs someone who is clearly 'on the clock' so to speak, quoting rates by the hour essentially. Or by how many rounds you want.

That said no illusions that they're all ultimately in it for the money and not our charming personalities alone

She's legit. I agree that I don't think she is in medical school either. She lies a lot, but whatever works for SB's I guess. Loves to model and show off her body and definitely dtf bbfscip as well.

**Kris106** · 12-27-20 19:56

Why did she reject you?

Originally Posted by GoodNightBalt [View Original Post]

She is incredibly smart, very much an intellectual. It's been a couple of years since I met her, but she seemed very selective. She rejected me, politely and after a very pleasant meal, and I understood why.

You will need your A game.

**NovaDaddy69** · 12-27-20 15:33

Originally Posted by Mongerian [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f09e4...8-57ff9af21721

She had / had a Baltimore based profile too, so I guess trying to get as much coverage as she can.

They are all pros but this ones more pro than most, ha.

Gotcha, and thanks for the insights, all. Sounds like better to take a pass on this one.

As for the notion that all SBs are pros, I'd say only that if a girl's notion of a ppm or weekly arrangement scenario is hanging out all night causing trouble, that's more what I'd consider a true sugar baby. Vs someone who is clearly 'on the clock' so to speak, quoting rates by the hour essentially. Or by how many rounds you want.

That said no illusions that they're all ultimately in it for the money and not our charming personalities alone. .

**Mongerian** · 12-27-20 12:33

https://www.seeking.com/member/f09e4...8-57ff9af21721

She had / had a Baltimore based profile too, so I guess trying to get as much coverage as she can.

They are all pros but this ones more pro than most, ha.

Originally Posted by NovaDaddy69 [View Original Post]

Hi all. Curious if anyone has ever met this one? She seems cool, dtf, says she just got out of a decade-long marriage and now wants to explore her kinky side. So that's all encouraging.

Though also into skipping right to a hotel, no M&G, which while great if it works out also always raises the question of if she's legit and / or a pro. Figured I'd seek the wisdom of the board before moving ahead in case anyone's had dealing with her. Any intel greatly appreciated.

Here's her profile link:

https://www.seeking.com/member/ff7ee...1-69f9d3900e35

**Rudy Wellz** · 12-27-20 06:30

Originally Posted by NovaDaddy69 [View Original Post]

Hi all. Curious if anyone has ever met this one? She seems cool, dtf, says she just got out of a decade-long marriage and now wants to explore her kinky side. So that's all encouraging.

Though also into skipping right to a hotel, no M&G, which while great if it works out also always raises the question of if she's legit and / or a pro. Figured I'd seek the wisdom of the board before moving ahead in case anyone's had dealing with her. Any intel greatly appreciated.

Here's her profile link:

https://www.seeking.com/member/ff7ee...1-69f9d3900e35

Skipping the M&G, even for just a drink and going straight to the FC is not kinky. It's poor judgement, unless you are a professional (I. E. Hooker). Plus she claims to be a medical student with a picture of a cigarette in her hands? And a medical student doesn't have a flexible schedule. Spidy senses saying be careful.

They are all hookers, they won't fuck you unless you pay them, that makes them a hooker. I get it that some of you guys need to delude yourselves but end of day, you don't pay them they don't fuck you, they are prostitutes.

A2