Seeking Arrangements

[SaltWaterLbc]

I also had difficulty arranging to see her for a few weeks. See report #3696 in this thread for my first visit. I just saw her a couple days ago too. Great little bubble butt and soft skin. No smell issues this time either and her mood was markedly improved. I might make her my new go-to. My only concern now is she is seeing I think four men including myself and going bare. She says she is tested every several weeks but it seems she should be doing that more often.

Well make that 5! I saw her in early October. Really nice but, when she told me she doesn't see a lot of guys I definitely questioned it. I mean I still hit it I didn't BBFSCIP something told me not to.

[suaimmagine]

https://www.seeking.com/member/9e64e...f-919d05e9c4f6

Anyone been with her?

I am meeting her tomorrow night. Any reviews would be good.

To message her. Curious to find out how it goes. Good luck.

[DrinIvisible]

Hey guys. I am new SA (like opened my account 2 days ago) and wow! My mind is blown. Holy crap! It is its own world. My god! Anyway, I started to talk to Amanda Mac - https://www.seeking.com/member/70103...-69677904a73e. I know she's been reviewed here. One of the things that stands out to me. I asked her to meet at public place and come to a hotel for our first time just to make sure (just in case nobody is recording in closet, LOL) - call it my paranoia. She won't go to a hotel and is adamant hosting it in her house. Claims her house is 5 bdrm with 4 dogs and 1 roommate. I am planning to see her on Tuesday. Have people who have seen her seen her at her house or their own. Curious!!

[Bran001]

95% of girls use texting apps so Google searching their number won't always work. The benefits of searching there number is to see if there on escort sites. Regarding Quincy, how about when girls say their in Boston then tell you their in the cape? LOL.

I know Quincy isn't THAT far. I live west and it's just a long loop around 95. The Cape? Yah. No way that is happening. A pretty SA find from the spring moved back to the Cape with her parents a few months ago. It's too bad but we've not seen each other since; I'm not driving that far. It was different when she had her own apartment in Brookline.

The later-20-somethings that have nothing to hide often don't use apps; overall I find identities for about half of the numbers I search. I seem to have a nose for the true pro's; I can't remember being interested in someone, getting their number, and finding an escort ad with the number.

[Chuchunga]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4ebaf...3-d8a1eb0ebf98

400 ppm. Has some mental issues. Will do anal and prefers it. Will also go bare. Personality wise it's a do not repeat for me but others might have more luck.

[Tribeca67]

Best way to make payments is to hand over cash, in person. I've never had a girl say no to that. It's the only 100% non-traceable method I can think of. I've used an anonymous cashapp acct, when I already have experience with them, but I always prefer cash and they do too.

Who is real?? If you get a phone number you can reverse search it and see if the info lines up with the pics and profile info. That's about the only way. Almost all the girls lie about something. But if you meet them in person and they seem trustworthy, you can go from there. Don't go to their place the first time unless you've got great reverse search info. If they are quick to suggest a hotel room they are a scammer or pro. And NO real well-intentioned SB will refuse to meet because you won't pay online before meeting.

I also get frustrated when the profile says Boston, we chat, we text, start to plan, and I find out they live in Quincy. I'm NOT driving to Quincy and so it ends. I don't know why they do that.

95% of girls use texting apps so Google searching their number won't always work. The benefits of searching there number is to see if there on escort sites. Regarding Quincy, how about when girls say their in Boston then tell you their in the cape? LOL.

[OkWhatever]

Never send them money and never pre-pay. Also, get them talking off the site asap and never discuss terms on SA. I was thrown off twice. Once because I was talking game on the SA and the second time, for no apparent reason. The hi-volume ones will start talking $$ right away.

I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.

[Bran001]

I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.

Best way to make payments is to hand over cash, in person. I've never had a girl say no to that. It's the only 100% non-traceable method I can think of. I've used an anonymous cashapp acct, when I already have experience with them, but I always prefer cash and they do too.

Who is real?? If you get a phone number you can reverse search it and see if the info lines up with the pics and profile info. That's about the only way. Almost all the girls lie about something. But if you meet them in person and they seem trustworthy, you can go from there. Don't go to their place the first time unless you've got great reverse search info. If they are quick to suggest a hotel room they are a scammer or pro. And NO real well-intentioned SB will refuse to meet because you won't pay online before meeting.

I also get frustrated when the profile says Boston, we chat, we text, start to plan, and I find out they live in Quincy. I'm NOT driving to Quincy and so it ends. I don't know why they do that.

[Bran001]

Many girls say they have been scammed so this is a red flag that they may be looking for prepayment. Just use you big head when deciding who to meet and when to pay. Tough times with Covid so don't lose your patience while this works itself out.

Many girls say theyve been scammed as a reason for wanting prepayment. I'm sure some % of them have been. Oh well. Sucks for them. I don't scam and if it means NEXTING someone I will because there is NO WAY I'll send any sort of prepayment to someone I've never met. I doubt any truly good ones have gotten away because I refused to prepay. I will give Uber or parking money on occasion; there really are some legit girls for whom $20 on Uber is a hardship. And no scammer will come out to meet just for $20.

[HounDog3]

I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.

This has been written so many times on this board I'll keep it brief.

NEVER pay upfront.

NEVER pay for pics and vids. If that's what you're looking for go to pornhub and get it for free.

NEVER pay for a meet & greet (other than the coffee or drinks) except possible reimbursement for REASONABLE baby sitter if she's a single mom and Uber if she does not have a car.

Yes, finding good ones on SA is equivalent to a part-time job. It takes work but the rewards are well worth it.

And of course, move the discussion off SA to text as quickly as practical. SA monitors messages for language that may imply prostitution. They will boot you off the site with no refund and ban you forever. Words such as PPM, money, payment, hotel, hosting, sex acts, etc.

[HounDog3]

Anyone ever talk to her? She won't even look at my profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/703d3...7-5982cae9aa68

Messaged her shortly after she joined SA. Never received a response. Did you see her left shoulder in the profile pic with money on it. Don't recall it being there or I would not have messaged her.

[Joe1223]

I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.

Run away from the ones who want a prepayment. Many girls are just fishing for that free pot of gold. Probably not even in your area anyway. It takes some work depending on what your type is. I'm very particular so it takes me longer to finally find that one but I also try to keep her around longer and gave up on the bouncing around for different flavors awhile ago. Way to much work for me at this point.

As for payment I always only offer cash only as this deters some scammers because they are expecting Venmo or Other e money app. I will do cash the first visit only after sex but do prefer Venmo (fake account name ofc) once the arrangement is progressing nicely. Don't link your real name to your Venmo account! If it already is then don't use it. Stay in the shadows, if you are married especially. Do yourself a favor and us, don't pay for meet and greets. Sure pick up the tab for drinks or coffee but don't offer a nice payout just to meet her.

Many girls say they have been scammed so this is a red flag that they may be looking for prepayment. Just use you big head when deciding who to meet and when to pay. Tough times with Covid so don't lose your patience while this works itself out.

[Javazer]

And this guy sees her weekly, that's about 2 k a month and over 20 k a year. That's a nice car or mortgage payment for her, clean cash. I don't mind spending 150 bi-weekly. But, 500? You must be from the rich and famous or something brother. She's not hurting during this pandemic. LOL. I've had a couple of women reach out to me on my CL post and had a woman who wanted 500. Be funny if this was the same woman. She was out of newton. Says she deserves 500 as she's smart, educated, beautiful and fun to be with. I asked, is BBFS, CIM, etc available? She said no, everything is covered. I said good luck!

Though recently, these beautiful Brazilians are popping out everywhere, trying to beat out the Chinese agencies. But, they too are all covered up. Maybe if I was still in my early twenties, I would cover up. But, not anymore. Need to make the donation worth it as we all work hard for it.

I know what you're saying "500? But I do make crazy money from my computer, I trade / invest in biotech stocks. 2 days ago MNKD open at $3. 30 ish and the the day at $3. 98, I have 100 K shares, that's over 65 K profit in one day, just one example. Patience in investing pays handsomely. And I will stick with for few more months unless I find someone more fun in the meantime.

[Discretion23]

I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.

It is a job, but you are the consumer.

If they don't have what you want, politely move on. Whether, it is distance, on-line relationship, up front pay, you can just say no.

I do not pay someone I haven't met, I do not send money for photos or videos.

It takes time to weed them out, but it is worth being patient.

[Discretion23]

I recently joined SA and OMG, it is unbelievable. Not necessarily in a good way.

Between sugar babes who are demanding money upfront, what is the best way to decipher who is real and not real?

Also, what is the conventional way of making payments?

I have had girls post they are from Boston and they are not. One told me it is because that location attracts the guys.

This seems like it is a full-time job.

Thanks for any help. I am a raw rookie at this game.

Your assessment is correct, it is a full time job.

Be forward with the women that want money up front: I do not donate to women I haven't met. I am not interested in an online arrangement. I am not interested in buying pictures / videos.

If they do not what you are looking for (time, distance, in -person meeting), move on. You are paying, you should get what you want. You decide on what you are willing to compromise.

This is a good forum to help weed out the bad ones.