WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**Jt1896** · 12-17-20 23:21

https://www.seeking.com/member/6e030...8-2e9e8b61607c

Don't know why she doesn't put that in her profile. Went to text and then said no sex. WTF? Waste of time.

**ProCatHunter** · 12-17-20 23:13

Originally Posted by HappyOne [View Original Post]

I have said it before, I LOVE SUGAR DADDYs. I have a couple UTRs that have SDs, at least I know she is fucking less than an escort and the SD is throwing money at her. Guys that think they can support these girls are dreaming and wishful thinking.

The girls know how to play the game, you are just a mark to get their best deals. Business 101. Unless you can throw 1,000 to 1,500 a week you are not even in the game of being a SD. My UTR used to tell me stories about her SD, how she would lead him on to keep him hooked LOL.

Be Safe.

$1,500 a week is outlandish. That's a 6 figure salary post tax.

Every SB I've met is in the $200-$500 range p / week or ppm.

I wish I had that kind of coin to mess around with.

**CarloRogue** · 12-17-20 18:28

Originally Posted by LikItFun [View Original Post]

This has got to be the mind set. I discovered over the past couple of weeks that my ATF lied to me pretty much every day of the 18 months we were SD / SB. It was an incredible fantasy while it was going on--she was amazing at her SB job.

I've said this before in other forums, but my rule #2 for sugar babies is: never believe anything they say. No matter how long you've known them, no matter how sweet they seem, no matter how sincere they sound. If you have put yourself in a position that you need to trust them for some aspect of your well-being, then you've made a mistake. They're sugar babies, you shouldn't care whether they're telling the truth or not, only if they please you when you're together. You shouldn't be over-analyzing them. It's very basic arithmetic, not abstract tensor set theory.

**Old Chinese Guy** · 12-17-20 16:38

Originally Posted by BobDingle10 [View Original Post]

Dude, she's out here fucking. I could have nailed her several times but I had other options and put her off. She sent me an ass pic once that I guess she thought was sexy, but was not. Made her look chunky and pale. She's still down to fuck though. We've messaged recently. Really recently. Might crack it just out of boredom.

SA is not the spot to look for monogamy dude. It just isn't. All these women are either fucking other SD's or their boyfriends / classmates / coworkers.

You want monogamy, get a real gf, get married and get a wife. If you pay for companionship, it's a business transaction and good business people have many clients. You want an exclusive business relationship, then you better be willing to pay way more than all the other clients. Some argue than even gfs and wives need us to buy them shit. But a real gf or wife, it is 50:50, you get as much as you give. Every time to exchange money or gifts for sex, it is business. You know what they say, do not mix business with pleasure.

**Happy One** · 12-17-20 15:29

Originally Posted by LikItFun [View Original Post]

This has got to be the mind set. I discovered over the past couple of weeks that my ATF lied to me pretty much every day of the 18 months we were SD / SB. It was an incredible fantasy while it was going on--she was amazing at her SB job.

I have said it before, I LOVE SUGAR DADDYs. I have a couple UTRs that have SDs, at least I know she is fucking less than an escort and the SD is throwing money at her. Guys that think they can support these girls are dreaming and wishful thinking.

The girls know how to play the game, you are just a mark to get their best deals. Business 101. Unless you can throw 1,000 to 1,500 a week you are not even in the game of being a SD. My UTR used to tell me stories about her SD, how she would lead him on to keep him hooked LOL.

Be Safe.

**LikItFun** · 12-17-20 14:13

SweetTea is back:

https://www.seeking.com/member/0923f...7-9f60a07b5477

**LikItFun** · 12-17-20 13:44

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

Always assume there's at least one other guy banging her, otherwise you're only setting yourself up for dissappointment.

This has got to be the mind set. I discovered over the past couple of weeks that my ATF lied to me pretty much every day of the 18 months we were SD / SB. It was an incredible fantasy while it was going on--she was amazing at her SB job.

**Numbers314** · 12-17-20 11:56

Originally Posted by BobDingle10 [View Original Post]

Dude, she's out here fucking. I could have nailed her several times but I had other options and put her off. She sent me an ass pic once that I guess she thought was sexy, but was not. Made her look chunky and pale. She's still down to fuck though. We've messaged recently. Really recently. Might crack it just out of boredom.

SA is not the spot to look for monogamy dude. It just isn't. All these women are either fucking other SD's or their boyfriends / classmates / coworkers.

Yeah, I know she's got a bf. And it's not the monogamy, for me it's the stories and the lying. There's a bit more to it. But, I appreciate the feedback man.

**Mongerian** · 12-17-20 10:53

Got a bunch of messages yesterday, more than normal. A few had very similar wording, like this:

What exactly are you looking for on this site?

They all used "exactly" in the message so don't know if they all read from the same SB advice column or Reddit page or what.

I'll see what response I get and see if they are similar.

**ProCatHunter** · 12-17-20 01:01

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

My 1st SB did the same thing to me. I was too possessive and ask her to delete SA account. She agreed that I would be her only SD, but I found out later that during our time together she was doing M&G with other forum members. I drop her when I found her on other SD sites. Plus the sex wasn't all that, but she was hot. Remember at the end of the day we are paiding for them. It isn't real till there is no money involved. I only have 2 SBs that I believe don't have other SDs. They deleted or stop login to their SA account with out me asking for them too. All my other SBs I see login in to SA, so I know they are still seeking. Don't take things too personal remember it's all a game.

If you met and fucked her off a sugar site, she is mentally conditioned (either naturally, by a prior relationship or SD, or by you) to equate trading her body for $, gifts, experiences, or all of the above. There are specific words that are reserved for women who do this (just as there are words to refer to guys like us).

Always assume there's at least one other guy banging her, otherwise you're only setting yourself up for dissappointment.

**BobDingle10** · 12-16-20 22:26

Originally Posted by Numbers314 [View Original Post]

I'm just wondering if anyone else out there has seen her. I was seeing her and she swore that she wasn't seeing anyone else.

Dude, she's out here fucking. I could have nailed her several times but I had other options and put her off. She sent me an ass pic once that I guess she thought was sexy, but was not. Made her look chunky and pale. She's still down to fuck though. We've messaged recently. Really recently. Might crack it just out of boredom.

SA is not the spot to look for monogamy dude. It just isn't. All these women are either fucking other SD's or their boyfriends / classmates / coworkers.

**Member #7176** · 12-16-20 22:16

My 1st SB did the same thing to me. I was too possessive and ask her to delete SA account. She agreed that I would be her only SD, but I found out later that during our time together she was doing M&G with other forum members. I drop her when I found her on other SD sites. Plus the sex wasn't all that, but she was hot. Remember at the end of the day we are paiding for them. It isn't real till there is no money involved. I only have 2 SBs that I believe don't have other SDs. They deleted or stop login to their SA account with out me asking for them too. All my other SBs I see login in to SA, so I know they are still seeking. Don't take things too personal remember it's all a game.

Originally Posted by Numbers314 [View Original Post]

I'm just wondering if anyone else out there has seen her. I was seeing her and she swore that she wasn't seeing anyone else.

**Numbers314** · 12-16-20 16:59

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

So I did a M&G with this one a few months ago. Cost of M&G was $100. I got her to comeback to my hotel room that same night. Her ppm is 400, and I got bbfscip. I don't mind girls that are a little thick, but she is at less 30 lbs bigger the her pics. She has a pretty face, but I'm not into BBW.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d28a8...8-6f66676b6f42

I'm just wondering if anyone else out there has seen her. I was seeing her and she swore that she wasn't seeing anyone else.

**SlowThrottle** · 12-16-20 10:21

Originally Posted by BigFrog [View Original Post]

I saw her the other day. She agreed to 300. When she said the pickup was at Wilkins and Gilmore I was skeptical. When I saw her (an hour late) immediately saw the swollen hands. I said no but she seemed desperate and agreed to 150. Took her to a notel. She spent a LONG time in the bathroom. When she came out at last she performed well. Everything was on the table including BB but I didn't partake. Baby damage big time. Damage from use is easily apparent once the clothes are off. Says she has lots of friends.

I won't repeat.

I messaged her a looong time ago months later she replied back. After that didn't hear back for like a month and then she responded with her number. We texted and she gave me a whole speech of how she wants only one daddy to financially support her very well. She would be super available always. I said I was looking for more of ppm situation. She again went silent. One morning last week she texted Heyy! And then again stopped responding LOL. Didn't even bother to hit her up and now I see it's for the best. I do see her profile is showing Baltimore now vs Gaithersburg when I started talking to her. Her Instagram Facebook and OnlyFans are easy to find. Now that I look closely you can def see the bruising on the arms. Staying clear of this one.

**Shinshi** · 12-15-20 23:54

Originally Posted by BigFrog [View Original Post]

I saw her the other day. She agreed to 300. When she said the pickup was at Wilkins and Gilmore I was skeptical. When I saw her (an hour late) immediately saw the swollen hands. I said no but she seemed desperate and agreed to 150. Took her to a notel. She spent a LONG time in the bathroom. When she came out at last she performed well. Everything was on the table including BB but I didn't partake. Baby damage big time. Damage from use is easily apparent once the clothes are off. Says she has lots of friends.

I won't repeat.

Also, I didn't realise it until a minute ago, but she apparently favorited me back in October. Never responded though since I was out-of-state for much of that month and I was on the fence about even trying (seeing how communication & timeliness is clearly not her forte).