What in the fuck are you talking about?

[Queen City Guy]

I agree. I generally ignore those DMs. I am lucky to get out once or twice a month and I only play with those I know are safe or are highly recommended by trusted seniors. It is really annoying when they DM to ask a question when the answer is just a few posts down.

The one time I shared a referral with one of those one or two post guys he visited her then quoted my post saying how bad she was and he recommended everyone not to visit! If the WTFAYTA thread had been up then I would have called him out!

If I message guys that I have not conversed with (which I do when I travel) I always intro myself as a Sr member and they are welcome to check out my posts. If asking for a referral I'll also be honest about being older but someone they will not be embarrassed to refer. And hey, if they don't respond I respect that, their sweat equity.

The ones that get me are the ones that do post like they're Mr Expert, talk a big game, then hit me up and act all arrogant saying they have some things to share but I have to share 1st to see if my quality matches theirs. Yeah right.

Some of those that I have shared intel with come back with theirs that are STG gals that everyone knows about. So I don't do that anymore.

[NC Transplant]

I agree. I generally ignore those DMs. I am lucky to get out once or twice a month and I only play with those I know are safe or are highly recommended by trusted seniors. It is really annoying when they DM to ask a question when the answer is just a few posts down.

I have no problem with people lurking but if they are going to message you with no board contributions or history they are selfish and that trait could easily be passed on to how they treat the ladies. I am with you on that, if you are referring guys you are putting your credibility to the provider on the line. I do not have any UTRs to offer but I have been getting DMs from people asking specific questions about women I reviewed and I see very limited activity on the boards if any. I am going to start a policy of not responding to DMs from people who do not contribute with very few exceptions.

On the flip side I have gotten some great DMs from senior members who tell me the dark side of some of the girls I reviewed, girls who start out great but have a history of demons catching up to them and they rip guys off. Hats off to those with hundreds or thousands of posts, you have made mongering safer for the rest of us.

[The Big Cat]

LOL, right? I made a post on a different thread and got questions from guys who I had never even heard of, most of them with no posts at all. Not even one, like zero. I'm like "seriously?" I don't mind helping a fellow monger out at all, but at least have contributed to the board (any board). Those who post info are putting in effort to support the monger board and fellow mongers, so don't DM with no history and expect me to do additional work for you. I have no idea who you are. Certainly not going to recommend you to a girl I know, you could be a total ass_ole and then she gets mad at me? F-CK that. SMH.

I have no problem with people lurking but if they are going to message you with no board contributions or history they are selfish and that trait could easily be passed on to how they treat the ladies. I am with you on that, if you are referring guys you are putting your credibility to the provider on the line. I do not have any UTRs to offer but I have been getting DMs from people asking specific questions about women I reviewed and I see very limited activity on the boards if any. I am going to start a policy of not responding to DMs from people who do not contribute with very few exceptions.

On the flip side I have gotten some great DMs from senior members who tell me the dark side of some of the girls I reviewed, girls who start out great but have a history of demons catching up to them and they rip guys off. Hats off to those with hundreds or thousands of posts, you have made mongering safer for the rest of us.

[Bouinage]

I can't believe how many PMs I received from members who were not even active on this board.

She is a UTR for her own personal reasons, and I have to respect that. She may be open for a couple of my referral, but it'll be very selective.

LOL, right? I made a post on a different thread and got questions from guys who I had never even heard of, most of them with no posts at all. Not even one, like zero. I'm like "seriously?" I don't mind helping a fellow monger out at all, but at least have contributed to the board (any board). Those who post info are putting in effort to support the monger board and fellow mongers, so don't DM with no history and expect me to do additional work for you. I have no idea who you are. Certainly not going to recommend you to a girl I know, you could be a total ass_ole and then she gets mad at me? F-CK that. SMH.

[TwoShots]

From one senior member to another, I suggest that you always post about a provider that disappoints you as well as promote a provider that impresses you. That is the purpose of this board. Our posts and comments do get back to most of these girls. Hopefully, it will make them step up their game.

If a monger disagrees with what you post about, he can state his own opinion. Other mongers don't always agree with what I say but my skin is thick enough to handle it.

Well said. We should respect other mongers opinions and disagree if that is the case but refrain from critiquing the monger because if his *taste*. Case on point, fun size Steph, (king, what happened, still waiting for digits.) she was nothing to look at and definitely not the type of girl I was looking for at that time (young spiners was my thing at that time) but I couldn't have enough of her. You couldn't tell why I like those 2 types from my picture. .

[FunderJ]

You are right of course. However, most times that I am disappointed it is not because of the providers performance or attitude, but because of the body or lack thereof. And there is the conundrum of tactfully telling someone that they like to screw around with nasty looking women. Still, I should diplomatically post my opinion. Thanks for the feedback.

If you want to be tactful about a below average looking woman, you could just say she looks alright or just so so. That's what I used to say about my ex old lady's horrible cooking.

I personally feel on this board, we should be brutally honest.

[Gator1961]

From one senior member to another, I suggest that you always post about a provider that disappoints you as well as promote a provider that impresses you. That is the purpose of this board. Our posts and comments do get back to most of these girls. Hopefully, it will make them step up their game.

If a monger disagrees with what you post about, he can state his own opinion. Other mongers don't always agree with what I say but my skin is thick enough to handle it.

You are right of course. However, most times that I am disappointed it is not because of the providers performance or attitude, but because of the body or lack thereof. And there is the conundrum of tactfully telling someone that they like to screw around with nasty looking women. Still, I should diplomatically post my opinion. Thanks for the feedback.

[ModelX]

Agreed with you, especially when there is a regular 19 yo UTR who is willing to do 140 reliably.

I can't believe how many PMs I received from members who were not even active on this board.

She is a UTR for her own personal reasons, and I have to respect that. She may be open for a couple of my referral, but it'll be very selective.

[FunderJ]

I must admit that I agree with many of the opinions shared recently in this thread. I am definitely not anyone's definition of God's gift to women, but if I am paying for it, I want some good look pussy. I do not mind paying for it and for the most part I look on Eros. That said, those ladies are getting a little pricey. I do read the boards on USASG pretty religiously hoping to find that diamond in the rough, but for the most part I am usually disappointed. I have definitely learned that beauty is in the of the beholder. I do get lucky sometimes, but not as often as I would like. When I do visit a provider that disappoints base on a recommendation from a board member, I usually don't post about it. I probably should to keep another monger from making the same mistake, but I generally like to avoid the drama that comes from calling someone's baby ugly. LOL. Not sure what the right approach is.

From one senior member to another, I suggest that you always post about a provider that disappoints you as well as promote a provider that impresses you. That is the purpose of this board. Our posts and comments do get back to most of these girls. Hopefully, it will make them step up their game.

If a monger disagrees with what you post about, he can state his own opinion. Other mongers don't always agree with what I say but my skin is thick enough to handle it.

[FunderJ]

Mines right there man. I get it maybe once a month. Even then she acts like it's a gift. I don't understand it. If she put out on the regular I wouldn't even know about this place or the hobby.

Neither would I. Punani is fabulous whether it's from a middle age lady or a 20 something YO lady.

[MrGoodHands71]

Just from the experience of my loveless marriage, a pussy stops working when your wife becomes 50. I had this same discussion with other men my age who are going through the same experience as I am.

Mines right there man. I get it maybe once a month. Even then she acts like it's a gift. I don't understand it. If she put out on the regular I wouldn't even know about this place or the hobby.

[Macho Manny]

One thing this latest thread shows is why we can never control the market. Our expectations for hobbying are simply too different.

Mid-30's and in shape or 60's with dad body- we are all paying for it, but what is attractive to one may not be for another. Eye of the beholder is, within certain limits, a real thing.

While the providers will have certain expectations of their own (when I started, I remember a real knockout saying that being with someone old enough to be their father could be ok, but it was always weird when the monger was old enough to be their grandfather), all providers are in this for the money; we each simply should (without denigrating others), decide what combination of money vs looks, attitude, etc. Is worth it to us

This is the point that is missed way too much in here.

[AllTheTime]

My standards are not as high as a lot of you mongers. Personally, if a girl has a beautiful face, a decent body, natural boobs, good personality, and little or no tats, I will be satisfied just about every time. When I say decent body. I'm talking about being on the slim side. Doesn't have to look like a fitness or swimsuit model. I also prefer brunettes over blondes.

Basically I prefer the "Girl next Door".

One thing this latest thread shows is why we can never control the market. Our expectations for hobbying are simply too different.

Mid-30's and in shape or 60's with dad body- we are all paying for it, but what is attractive to one may not be for another. Eye of the beholder is, within certain limits, a real thing.

While the providers will have certain expectations of their own (when I started, I remember a real knockout saying that being with someone old enough to be their father could be ok, but it was always weird when the monger was old enough to be their grandfather), all providers are in this for the money; we each simply should (without denigrating others), decide what combination of money vs looks, attitude, etc. Is worth it to us.

[FunderJ]

I must admit that I agree with many of the opinions shared recently in this thread. I am definitely not anyone's definition of God's gift to women, but if I am paying for it, I want some good look pussy. I do not mind paying for it and for the most part I look on Eros. That said, those ladies are getting a little pricey. I do read the boards on USASG pretty religiously hoping to find that diamond in the rough, but for the most part I am usually disappointed. I have definitely learned that beauty is in the of the beholder. I do get lucky sometimes, but not as often as I would like. When I do visit a provider that disappoints base on a recommendation from a board member, I usually don't post about it. I probably should to keep another monger from making the same mistake, but I generally like to avoid the drama that comes from calling someone's baby ugly. LOL. Not sure what the right approach is.

My standards are not as high as a lot of you mongers. Personally, if a girl has a beautiful face, a decent body, natural boobs, good personality, and little or no tats, I will be satisfied just about every time. When I say decent body. I'm talking about being on the slim side. Doesn't have to look like a fitness or swimsuit model. I also prefer brunettes over blondes.

Basically I prefer the "Girl next Door".

[FunderJ]

Married pussy is the most expensive pussy of all. I haven't fucked the other half in over 10 years. Hell, we don't even sleep in the same room.

Before my separation, I was able to fuck my wife but it took some begging which I find demeaning.