Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[XxMarkXx]

I renewed my SA subscription after about a 4 month hiatus. I had thought I was done until an old "friend" from a year earlier sent me a message. It drove me crazy for about a week before I re-upped in order to read it. It unfortunately turned out to be a waste of time but it did allow me to play for a month and this is what I found.

I sent over 125 messages. I normally do not target any female under 25 as they are 99% flakes with older men. If you are in your 20 to 30's and have cash to burn then they can be had easily. For me it is a waste of time trying to relate with their idiotic immature view of the world and sex. I also stay away from over tall, fat and black women on that site for personal tastes. Of the many I wrote I had about 1/4 reply. Most were oblivious to the fact that 4,5,and 600 is a lot of money to pay for a date with them. They were special and worth it, LOL! I had such great conversations with several and ended up being ghosted. Accounts cancelled or numbers disconnected.

From the responses I had several commit to meet but was stood up by two. Another was found out by her hubby because of someones over telling description of her online and cancelled 10 min before we were to meet. I did have a nice lunch with one who was not my cup of tea but offered me a BJ in the parking lot afterwards. I did not refuse. For the price of lunch and conversation, she was rewarded a salty load for desert. The good girl swallowed the whole thing. Nice but still not my type.

Another encounter was with a 22 year old. Yes, I broke my own rule and promise to never do so again. She was very hot and had the story. She worked me so well she had me thinking she was into me for me. Not one mention of money. Exchanged sexy texts and pictures for a few days after our lunch until the morning of our planned get together. Money was then brought up by her and 400 was requested. She would not budge and was not happy with my counter of 200. She did not get my cash and I unfortunately did not get her gash.

On one other occasion I met a sexy black girl at the motel. We catted for a few weeks before hand trading pictures. She actually turned out to be even better in person than pictures. A solid hour and a half of GFE fun. So much so that I gave her an extra 50 for a total of 200. Maybe I will start "liking" black girls now.

No longer is meeting women on SA like shooting fish in a barrel. Like everything else change has made it more like fishing when the lake is high. It is almost to the point of not worth the energy and time needed to make a connection. Please, don't get me wrong their are still women there to be had. Gems abound more so than any place else but I find because of the large amount of lines in the water alongside your own you get overlooked more often than not.

So in summation for the 90 entry fee, 80 in lunches, 85 hotel and 200 for my one get together I got laid once and one BJ and spent many many hours in research and flirtation. On STG for 200 total I got laid twice and it took me only 5 min to plan both.

I am Taking some time off. My line is pulled from the lake good lunch to everyone still around the fishing hole.

Poo.

Agreeing with Poo on almost all accounts. Tough to go wrong heeding his advice.

I have been very cautious with STG girls the past few months though. There are so many horror stories from these boards. Use the reviews here to be careful!

One SA advantage, once you weed out the obvious scammers, you usually only risk losing time or pay for dinner with no "dessert". Sa girls seem to not be the thieves that dominate stg.

[ILoveThatPoo]

I renewed my SA subscription after about a 4 month hiatus. I had thought I was done until an old "friend" from a year earlier sent me a message. It drove me crazy for about a week before I re-upped in order to read it. It unfortunately turned out to be a waste of time but it did allow me to play for a month and this is what I found.

I sent over 125 messages. I normally do not target any female under 25 as they are 99% flakes with older men. If you are in your 20 to 30's and have cash to burn then they can be had easily. For me it is a waste of time trying to relate with their idiotic immature view of the world and sex. I also stay away from over tall, fat and black women on that site for personal tastes. Of the many I wrote I had about 1/4 reply. Most were oblivious to the fact that 4,5,and 600 is a lot of money to pay for a date with them. They were special and worth it, LOL! I had such great conversations with several and ended up being ghosted. Accounts cancelled or numbers disconnected.

From the responses I had several commit to meet but was stood up by two. Another was found out by her hubby because of someones over telling description of her online and cancelled 10 min before we were to meet. I did have a nice lunch with one who was not my cup of tea but offered me a BJ in the parking lot afterwards. I did not refuse. For the price of lunch and conversation, she was rewarded a salty load for desert. The good girl swallowed the whole thing. Nice but still not my type.

Another encounter was with a 22 year old. Yes, I broke my own rule and promise to never do so again. She was very hot and had the story. She worked me so well she had me thinking she was into me for me. Not one mention of money. Exchanged sexy texts and pictures for a few days after our lunch until the morning of our planned get together. Money was then brought up by her and 400 was requested. She would not budge and was not happy with my counter of 200. She did not get my cash and I unfortunately did not get her gash.

On one other occasion I met a sexy black girl at the motel. We catted for a few weeks before hand trading pictures. She actually turned out to be even better in person than pictures. A solid hour and a half of GFE fun. So much so that I gave her an extra 50 for a total of 200. Maybe I will start "liking" black girls now.

No longer is meeting women on SA like shooting fish in a barrel. Like everything else change has made it more like fishing when the lake is high. It is almost to the point of not worth the energy and time needed to make a connection. Please, don't get me wrong their are still women there to be had. Gems abound more so than any place else but I find because of the large amount of lines in the water alongside your own you get overlooked more often than not.

So in summation for the 90 entry fee, 80 in lunches, 85 hotel and 200 for my one get together I got laid once and one BJ and spent many many hours in research and flirtation. On STG for 200 total I got laid twice and it took me only 5 min to plan both.

I am Taking some time off. My line is pulled from the lake good lunch to everyone still around the fishing hole.

Poo.

[LBrad52]

She would be okay with $200-$250, cool chick, and nice body.

Located in Hartford county.

Enjoy.

I'd give her 250 depending on the menu.

[BigBoss203]

She would be okay with $200-$250, cool chick, and nice body.

Located in Hartford county.

Enjoy.

[Hapcj7]

Why were you banned? Did you violate the terms of service in one of your messages? If so, did they tell you which rule you violated.
Try a new email acct using Protonmail. And also use a different device.

Thanks everyone for the suggestions and help. The banned notice said something like" this site is not to be used for escorting or pro tution. Please read our FAQ, s. Your are banned forever. So, no, they did not tell me specifically why I was banned. I know there was a "300" number in my inbox that sat in the inbox for a full day. Perhaps someone from sa saw that or a bot picked it up?. POO, have to been able to sign up with a Yahoo account on Sa?. Even though Sa requires a ton of time and patience, I was just making a bunch of headway on some new friends. I think even Trump was banned from Sa!??

[Stickman55]

So this morning I went to check my messages on my sa account but did not have time to "read" or respond. Tonight I went to do the same thing, and Sa asked me to to re-sign on (which is very odd to me, usually I stay signed on). After I signed on a big notice came up. "you are permanently banned, forever, bla bla". This morning I noticed a 300 in one of my messages, that which I never ask any of those questions. Bad timing as a I just renewed my premium when they had the last special. Questions How do I create another account?. That one was on a gmail account, and I do also use aol, but I do not want to use aol for an account. I doubt a different gmail account would work?. I view from a desktop with Windows. All help greatly appreciated. Pm if you feel so. Thanks!

Why were you banned? Did you violate the terms of service in one of your messages? If so, did they tell you which rule you violated.
Try a new email acct using Protonmail. And also use a different device.

[ILoveThatPoo]

So this morning I went to check my messages on my sa account but did not have time to "read" or respond. Tonight I went to do the same thing, and Sa asked me to to re-sign on (which is very odd to me, usually I stay signed on). After I signed on a big notice came up. "you are permanently banned, forever, bla bla". This morning I noticed a 300 in one of my messages, that which I never ask any of those questions. Bad timing as a I just renewed my premium when they had the last special. Questions How do I create another account?. That one was on a gmail account, and I do also use aol, but I do not want to use aol for an account. I doubt a different gmail account would work?. I view from a desktop with Windows. All help greatly appreciated. Pm if you feel so. Thanks!

Make a third e-mail at another location such as Yahoo. ! Poo.

[Mankind617]

So this morning I went to check my messages on my sa account but did not have time to "read" or respond. Tonight I went to do the same thing, and Sa asked me to to re-sign on (which is very odd to me, usually I stay signed on). After I signed on a big notice came up. "you are permanently banned, forever, bla bla". This morning I noticed a 300 in one of my messages, that which I never ask any of those questions. Bad timing as a I just renewed my premium when they had the last special. Questions How do I create another account?. That one was on a gmail account, and I do also use aol, but I do not want to use aol for an account. I doubt a different gmail account would work?. I view from a desktop with Windows. All help greatly appreciated. Pm if you feel so. Thanks!

Same thing happened to me. I was logging on and it said I was banned. To this day I still don't know why. I went back and signed up again with a different email address. It went through and I had no more issues after that. I did use a VPN from time to time but I don't believe it made a difference when logging in with the new email. Good luck.

[BlueFox141]

This one, name Kelly ("Better Beginnings" 31 New Britain) messaged me just a week ago. We chatted a little and and exchanged digits, but I didn't think it would go anywhere. She kept texting and I ignored her over the weekend. Monday I told her I had been sick. Nothing Tuesday, I figured she gave up, no big loss. Wednesday around 11:00, she texts me "I'm horny"(turns out she was drinking and playing with herself). We go back and forth and I tell her I could meet at a motel in Naugatuck. She says "We haven't even met, yet". I say "I was just trying to help you out and now I'm really horny, too". Well, that's all it took. She suggests We meet someplace near the motel and she will get in the car nd talk to me to see if she feels comfortable. We meet at my office, and she gets in the car and says she's never done this and maybe it wasn't a good idea. I look at her and say "I thought yo were horny". She replies "Let's go!" On the way down I had called the Comfort Inn on Rt 63 in Naugatuck (next to the fleabag many of the Waterbury STG girls use. I was full- ("SHIT" I called the Courtyard Marriott in Waterbury $80. So, back to Kelly- on the way over she says "We never discussed an amount! Damn! I said "I thought we were just helping each other out?" She mumbles a little bit. I tell I have $100 on me and she says she usually get $250. She asks me about going to an ATM, I look in my wallet saying "I don't think I have my card. NOPE!" By then we are at the Marriott. She says "What are we going to do?" I say the magic phrase again!- "I though you wee horny?" "Get the room", she replies! She is thicker than I like, but we had a really good time! She came during and loved the DATY. Her oral skills are great. She came again while I was fingering as she gave me a BBBJ to get me going. I stopped her to do MISH (she was surprised when I grabbed a condom, so bareback is on the table) but she wasn't as into it as she had been. Turns out she can only cum twice, so I went back to the BBBJCIMSW. I went down on her again and she was right, she could only cum twice! It was getting late so we headed out, both of us satisfied. I. "managed" to find another $50, so she felt better. I won't repeat only because she is thicker than I like. She is a real sweetheart. A lot of fun. Greek is very much on the table with her but I'm not into that. So BBFS & Greek lovers, she's your girl! Posting her link and profile photo below.

Blue.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1f044...e-bd7fbec7d35d

[XxMarkXx]

So this morning I went to check my messages on my sa account but did not have time to "read" or respond. Tonight I went to do the same thing, and Sa asked me to to re-sign on (which is very odd to me, usually I stay signed on). After I signed on a big notice came up. "you are permanently banned, forever, bla bla". This morning I noticed a 300 in one of my messages, that which I never ask any of those questions. Bad timing as a I just renewed my premium when they had the last special. Questions How do I create another account?. That one was on a gmail account, and I do also use aol, but I do not want to use aol for an account. I doubt a different gmail account would work?. I view from a desktop with Windows. All help greatly appreciated. Pm if you feel so. Thanks!

Getting a new email is needed, making a new gmail account is easy enough.

The real trick is your IP address. Based on other discussions here, it seems that IP address is tracked and that what they will get you on. So, you need something like a vpn, there is software you can install for that, quick google search. OR, you can use your new email addy on your pgone's browser. If you do that, don't ever login on your computer that was banned.

Just what I heard from a friend's experience.

[Hapcj7]

So this morning I went to check my messages on my sa account but did not have time to "read" or respond. Tonight I went to do the same thing, and Sa asked me to to re-sign on (which is very odd to me, usually I stay signed on). After I signed on a big notice came up. "you are permanently banned, forever, bla bla". This morning I noticed a 300 in one of my messages, that which I never ask any of those questions. Bad timing as a I just renewed my premium when they had the last special. Questions How do I create another account?. That one was on a gmail account, and I do also use aol, but I do not want to use aol for an account. I doubt a different gmail account would work?. I view from a desktop with Windows. All help greatly appreciated. Pm if you feel so. Thanks!

[Eblan]

We've been talking. Been getting a decent vibe but sometimes they can turn quickly. Let's keep each other up to date with progress. BTW she's supposed to be a server at Hooters.

I was on a bit of a hiatus but got back in touch with this one. Wants 1 k for a meet up but I think even that is just to direct traffic to her onlyfans account. She bartends at Mynx. Wouldn't waste your time for now.

[Iphone97]

https://www.seeking.com/member/fbab3...d-6c9e973f553b this one told me $500 per meet then tried to sell me her pornhub subscription.

This girl can really squirt waterfalls and gives a dam good BJ, tight pussy and has a bubbly personality. Although I had to stop seeing her after that big jump In her prices. Which I can understand with her new implants. Here's her pornhub account though.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h5f9f494430e06#1.

[Bbctrev]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7a4cd...c-90dcdd50149d

Favorited her, got favorite back and a message right away that said:

Well I will be so straightforward with you, I am interested, in you! And as for my allowance I start with 400 weekly allowance but with a upfront of 100 via my cashapp as a sincerity fee just to show you not a time waster and you are for real! Sorry but I have come across few men who are not really serious and not true to their words, I definitely have no negative intentions to hurt you nor ghost you.

Mary.

I wonder how many suckers she caught with that line.

[Swm11]

https://www.seeking.com/member/fbab3...d-6c9e973f553b this one told me $500 per meet then tried to sell me her pornhub subscription.

She's got to pay for the impants in her ass and chest somehow.

Was talking to her right before Covid but stopped because of it.