NoVA SugarBabies

[TinyTim123]

Chatted with her, seemed a stuck up sb. Wanted 800. I politely said my goodbyes.

Thanks for the insight, much obliged. 800!? Yeah that's some serious GPS. We hadn't yet discussed a number just because I'll normally try to set up a meet and greet before getting into $ specific discussions, but if she's going to be tossing out per meet figures in the $800 range, sounds like I'm better off avoiding this one.

[MadeYoulLook29]

This movie was a cultural phenomenon (to the sugaring world) because it presented the differences between a prostitute and a sugar baby.

Lots of lessons to be learned from the film. One being, SD's typically don't want prostitutes. They want a connection more than sex (or at least to project that to the SB). Because that connection is going to ultimately lead to more sex. Thats the key to getting all that you want. You must be willing to be all she wants and in return she be all that you want.

[InSearch69]

I would say most of my SB's are at or exceed the looks of the ones I have posted. I prefer trying for the best looking girls I can. But I might do a meet and greet, I just refuse to pay 500 for that. I will pay for drinks, the meal and maybe 100 for traveling. But most girls refuse that offer. They want the full allowance for the meet and greet. I've been on like 3-4 years so luck comes and goes but overall I have been pretty lucky.

From one monger to another, I think a different technique will yield higher results. I would rate all of these SB's as physically highly desirable. Mentally and how they are in the FC you may only find out if you approach them subtly and draw them into your web. Messaging and talking about sex and $ doesn't work. How about a message leading to a M&G. Invest in drinks, a nice meal and conversation. Then move forward with talk about sex and $ after they've developed some type of attraction and connection. Trust me. It works!

Of course there are plenty of SB's that you can message, get a price and hammer them that night. But not with the quality (appearance) that you've posted above. Just my 2 cents. Good luck.

[FogHorn1]

Actually, I have had pretty good luck on SA. I usually I troduce myself and ask what allowance they are looking for. When they ask what I am looking for I let them know that I am looking for a FWB arrangement. I prefer discreet but I am willing to meet in public and do lunch / dinner dates with them. But I let them know that a 20 year old and a 50 year old out for drinks usually raises eyebrows so prefer discreet. And that I also don't want to spend 3,4,500 or more for 3-4 platonic dinner dates for them to feel comfortable with me only at the end of that te for them to say I don't feel comfortable and ghost me. I'll takes my loss and keep my money till I find one I like that agrees. And I keep them for as long as we are both happy.

Hey bud, you do you with regard to what makes you comfortable with your approach, 100%. That said, friendly advice and JMO (seems others might share it) but maybe you shouldn't be so quick to discuss money and sex. These SBs like to tell themselves they aren't escorts, sex workers, whatever. When they are told that they will essentially be paid for sex, I'm sure that plays a part in them stopping responding to you. You got to play the game and keep up the notion that this isn't just another form of escorting. If you feel more comfortable just getting to the details and jumping in the sack you might consider Eros (and do your research there too.) Hope that helps!

[RazorFish1801]

The mother / daughter thing would certainly check off a bucket list item. Did you go for it? Closest I got there was a SB I met earlier this year. When I asked how she found out about SA, she said her mother told her to do it. Couldn't believe it when she said it, until I thought about it for a few seconds. Then my immediate follow-up was to inquire on the current relationship status of her mother, but she was unfortunately not in play.

The stories and the characters you'll meet are one of the best things about the bowl, and I've developed material for a mini-novel over the last few years. Strippers, swingers, sadists, polyamorists, cam girls, minor porn stars, rope bunnies, devout Christians, lactating moms, cheaters, and many sweethearts gone bad (the best). Sad thing is that I can't really tell anyone about them, although I've sanitized a few of my best as generic date stories for my unaware vanilla friends.

I didn't take her up on it. My friend said she was offering her mother as an alternative, not as a two fer. I have also had similar experience. Maybe not quite the breadth, but sure there are some great stories. But who are we going to share it with.

[InSearch69]

Actually, I have had pretty good luck on SA. I usually I troduce myself and ask what allowance they are looking for. When they ask what I am looking for I let them know that I am looking for a FWB arrangement. I prefer discreet but I am willing to meet in public and do lunch / dinner dates with them. But I let them know that a 20 year old and a 50 year old out for drinks usually raises eyebrows so prefer discreet. And that I also don't want to spend 3,4,500 or more for 3-4 platonic dinner dates for them to feel comfortable with me only at the end of that te for them to say I don't feel comfortable and ghost me. I'll takes my loss and keep my money till I find one I like that agrees. And I keep them for as long as we are both happy.

I have to ask, and not being snarky, but have you ever had much luck on SA? From what you've written, it's pretty clear your approach is the problem. But I definitely give you props for your taste.

[CarloRogue]

https://www.seeking.com/member/00843...7-636b20e7b7cd

Offered 600 a week. She said she would do 400 a meet but don't expect her to jump into bed right away. That is too escortyish.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b9dfe...0-1243573576f5

Offered 500 a week but as soon as sex was mentioned she stopped responding.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e4db4...8-27a9649cf0d6

Offered 500 a week. Flat no response.

I have to ask, and not being snarky, but have you ever had much luck on SA? From what you've written, it's pretty clear your approach is the problem. But I definitely give you props for your taste.

[CarloRogue]

Hey,

I've been experiencing some very unusual situations lately.

This one lady asked if I would be interested in having her mother join us, and she sent a picture of her mother with large breasts.

Another lady told me she spoke 11 languages.

Have you had any funny / unusual experiences with Sugar Babies you've met?

The mother / daughter thing would certainly check off a bucket list item. Did you go for it? Closest I got there was a SB I met earlier this year. When I asked how she found out about SA, she said her mother told her to do it. Couldn't believe it when she said it, until I thought about it for a few seconds. Then my immediate follow-up was to inquire on the current relationship status of her mother, but she was unfortunately not in play.

The stories and the characters you'll meet are one of the best things about the bowl, and I've developed material for a mini-novel over the last few years. Strippers, swingers, sadists, polyamorists, cam girls, minor porn stars, rope bunnies, devout Christians, lactating moms, cheaters, and many sweethearts gone bad (the best). Sad thing is that I can't really tell anyone about them, although I've sanitized a few of my best as generic date stories for my unaware vanilla friends.

[Rudy Wellz]

https://www.seeking.com/member/00843...7-636b20e7b7cd

Offered 600 a week. She said she would do 400 a meet but don't expect her to jump into bed right away. That is too escortyish.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b9dfe...0-1243573576f5

Offered 500 a week but as soon as sex was mentioned she stopped responding.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e4db4...8-27a9649cf0d6

Offered 500 a week. Flat no response.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4546c...a-7380a7297fad

Offered 500 a week. Seems she wants a connection before she will think about any bedroom fun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e7728...3-a4f2069b98e8

Offered 500, no response.

From one monger to another, I think a different technique will yield higher results. I would rate all of these SB's as physically highly desirable. Mentally and how they are in the FC you may only find out if you approach them subtly and draw them into your web. Messaging and talking about sex and $ doesn't work. How about a message leading to a M&G. Invest in drinks, a nice meal and conversation. Then move forward with talk about sex and $ after they've developed some type of attraction and connection. Trust me. It works!

Of course there are plenty of SB's that you can message, get a price and hammer them that night. But not with the quality (appearance) that you've posted above. Just my 2 cents. Good luck.

[RegularJoe1985]

Curious if anyone has crossed paths with this one? Seems cool on the phone and setting up a M&G for this weekend, but claims to have been active in the scene for a couple years and yet didn't find anything here through the usual searches. Sometimes that can be good or bad, or course, so figured I'd pose the question here before hauling all the way down to Woodbridge. Any intel would be much appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/56dae...a-a2f7ed1bd0fe

Chatted with her, seemed a stuck up sb. Wanted 800. I politely said my goodbyes.

[MadeYoulLook29]

I paid $800 for a single date with one girl. Was traveling on business and arranged to meet a new SB. Original agreement was to meet for dinner and then hotel fun. Dinner was great, hotel was fun, then we took a break and went out for drinks again, and she ended up coming back to the hotel for the night and staying until 11 am the next morning. She even gave me a ride to the train station. Best $800 I ever spent. I have seen her several times since, but never for 800. Like others have said, I prefer quality over quantity, and she was everything I dreamed of.

That's it. From my experience, meeting their needs often unlocks whatever you may want from them. But if meet them with low balling and requesting the world for 500 of course there are going to immediately be turned off by you.

[AdcFellow]

Sorry for how I phrased my question. Has anyone paid 800+ for 1 date with 1 girl? And I would hope that whatever anyone pays that there's a mutual agreement set before any money is exchanged. Again from my experience, I've had IG caliber models doing whatever was asked of them sexually. And for the record, I'm not shaming the cheap guy or the big spender. I just see a lot of guys shaming girls that want more in here. Almost as if it's a blow to their pride. If you think she's not worth it. That's fine just keep it moving. But doesn't seem like that's grounds to give her a negative review in here. Unless you've done more work and found out they are scammers. Me personally, I only look for SBs that are 10's in the looks department when I'm searching. I'm looking for quality not quantity. So you'll never see me listing a bunch of girls calling them 6's or 7's laughing at what they are asking because I'm never going to contact someone I view as a 6 or 7. Seems folks see a girl. Know she's not as attractive. So they assume she should be 200. And then when she says 800. Guys are like "how dare her! As folks have mentioned some girls are in this for different reasons. Some have jobs, careers, or are working towards one. So they don't necessarily need our money. So no they aren't going to apply your business models or accommodate our wallet. Lastly, if guys are looking to pay 200, what's wrong with the escort?

I paid $800 for a single date with one girl. Was traveling on business and arranged to meet a new SB. Original agreement was to meet for dinner and then hotel fun. Dinner was great, hotel was fun, then we took a break and went out for drinks again, and she ended up coming back to the hotel for the night and staying until 11 am the next morning. She even gave me a ride to the train station. Best $800 I ever spent. I have seen her several times since, but never for 800. Like others have said, I prefer quality over quantity, and she was everything I dreamed of.

[InSearch69]

https://www.seeking.com/member/00843...7-636b20e7b7cd

Offered 600 a week. She said she would do 400 a meet but don't expect her to jump into bed right away. That is too escortyish.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b9dfe...0-1243573576f5

Offered 500 a week but as soon as sex was mentioned she stopped responding.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e4db4...8-27a9649cf0d6

Offered 500 a week. Flat no response.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4546c...a-7380a7297fad

Offered 500 a week. Seems she wants a connection before she will think about any bedroom fun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e7728...3-a4f2069b98e8

Offered 500, no response.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9c93d...1-d9dc60ca474c

Offered 500. As soon as sex mentioned, disappeared.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bab58...4-c81466f0d417

Offered 500. Soon as sex mentioned, disappeared.

Needless to say I'm not having much luck lately LOL. But I would have an arrangement with any of them. Maybe one of you gentlemen will have better luck than me.

[ItsAHobby45]

1st day on SA and never been in a SB relationship. She knew to ask me to sent her $20 to show that I'm real. I told her her that I can show her I'm real by senting $1. Next response was we aren't going to work out. Her phone area code comes back to California.


https://www.seeking.com/member/4564f...f-3c1b2d448f88

She has multiple other profiles in different areas as well. I've talked to this girl on 3 of her profiles already. I'm guessing it's not the same girl as she'd remember my picture on seeking and not even waste her time after I called her out but she keeps acting like nothing happened and she didn't scam me. All of the accounts use Snapchat Mel Higgins which has a 59000 snap score so at some point it was a legit account. Here is a link to a another one of her profiles.

https://www.seeking.com/member/211a2...c-deb5b7ff99d1

[MadeYoulLook29]

I can see it from both perspectives. Once I paid $800 for a fun night with two SB best friends and it lasted about 4 hours long. Literally, everything you could think of sex related happened, and it was glorious. I don't regret it and I'd pay it again in a heart beat. But those experiences are rare, and unless I knew I was getting multiple hours or something truly special, I'd have a hard time paying $800 for just an ordinary experience. To each their own, though. I won't get mad at the guys paying $200 for a M&G or the guys paying $200 for BBFSCIP. Do what makes you happy and do what you can afford. That's just my $0. 02.

Sorry for how I phrased my question. Has anyone paid 800+ for 1 date with 1 girl? And I would hope that whatever anyone pays that there's a mutual agreement set before any money is exchanged. Again from my experience, I've had IG caliber models doing whatever was asked of them sexually. And for the record, I'm not shaming the cheap guy or the big spender. I just see a lot of guys shaming girls that want more in here. Almost as if it's a blow to their pride. If you think she's not worth it. That's fine just keep it moving. But doesn't seem like that's grounds to give her a negative review in here. Unless you've done more work and found out they are scammers. Me personally, I only look for SBs that are 10's in the looks department when I'm searching. I'm looking for quality not quantity. So you'll never see me listing a bunch of girls calling them 6's or 7's laughing at what they are asking because I'm never going to contact someone I view as a 6 or 7. Seems folks see a girl. Know she's not as attractive. So they assume she should be 200. And then when she says 800. Guys are like "how dare her! As folks have mentioned some girls are in this for different reasons. Some have jobs, careers, or are working towards one. So they don't necessarily need our money. So no they aren't going to apply your business models or accommodate our wallet. Lastly, if guys are looking to pay 200, what's wrong with the escort?