Sugar Baby Guide

[Charlie441]

I agree. SA and SB are not escort sites, and should not be reviewed as such.

True, they're not. But they are being used as such -- to a straight-up degree as found on Skip The Games, or in another "genre", but still on the same level as an escort where it's still pay-to-have-me-around-and-pork while you're not a match-making item by any means, just a GFE-regular. But yes, there are some who aren't quite like that, or not at all. It can then become more like Massage Parlors -- you don't want to give away everything and go into detail, but more categorize what to expect.

You'll want to know that X gal is going to want to charge you a PPM (pay per meet) -- even with no fooling around, on the 1st person-to-person meetup. You'll also want to know what X gal charges in general, where obviously it's not just a meet-and-greet, and if an initial meeting doesn't cost anything (which it shouldn't), and what she looks like in person, etc.

But you'll also want to know what X gal is looking for VS what you're looking for, etc.

IMO, unless she's a straight-up escort on there (yes, they commonly exist there but almost all don't Say it in their ad; you find out once chatting some) -- you don't have to go into the details of all the positions, how good her vagina is, how wet she is, whether she likes greek or not, like an escort ad. You can just say "Yeah, she's as hot as her pics, and she's just looking for a guy to be 'dating' for a while only. Looks great naked, it was great," and that's about it on the physical side. I do believe one could say she was x / why / z, good or bad, in wanting money / gifts and in what way to be dating.

So in essence, outside one ending up being a play-to-play (=escort) on there, the focus should just be how they roll as far as being out in public's concerned, their attitude, how long it lasts, etc. Those categories so one knows what to expect. Is she like a not-serious GF? Or is she like the secretary you're sleeping with? How much does it run you per month for whatever "genre" she is?

[MichiganMan686]

IMHO we shouldn't allow reviews of a women you hook up with from a sugar baby site. There is a clear distinction between women on a Sugar site vs STG or EM. Whatever happens between you and a Baby is private and confidential. By posting links to a woman's profile and reviewing what she did for $ invalidates that trust. If we all did that it could prevent other women from joining those sugar sites because they might be fearful of seeing their daddy review them like a cheap prostitute. Sugar Babies can always claim they joined just to "find a relationship" with a rich guy and not ever admit what they are willing to do discreetly.

I know other city forums do this, so maybe I'm in the minority here. If one wants to share GR sugar baby experiences here I suggest post in general terms about meeting a 40 yo MILF, college girl, etc and leave out her details. We can alway private messages if you want to pass along a lead to another member if she's actually operating more as a UTR. Again, just my opinion.

I agree with this too. I like SA cause its UTR. I do like this forum for asking if others have seen a SB before to just make sure they are legit and safe to see. I don't want to get into a bad situation. MM686.

[Boomstick25]

I kind of agree with this. There are certainly girls on the site that are more or less using as a straight up escort type ad, but there are a lot of women on there legit looking at this as a sugar baby situation. I have two I see regularly. One is a legit 9 out of 10 girl in her early 20's who wanted some extra money, doesn't want to be sleeping with a bunch of random guys so was hoping to find one that'd meet semi-regularly. The other is a cute college girl that was bored, lonely and looking for some experience with an older guy to help her get more comfortable with sex. The latter doesn't even want money anymore. I wouldn't post details here about either of them to protect their privacy because they aren't looking to be escorts.

I have no issue with those confirming people are real, and for those that are looking for 1-off PPM type deals, sure, fine. But for the women on there looking for legit SB / SD type arrangements, I agree it's best to keep that between yourselves.

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IMHO we shouldn't allow reviews of a women you hook up with from a sugar baby site. There is a clear distinction between women on a Sugar site vs STG or EM. Whatever happens between you and a Baby is private and confidential. By posting links to a woman's profile and reviewing what she did for $ invalidates that trust. If we all did that it could prevent other women from joining those sugar sites because they might be fearful of seeing their daddy review them like a cheap prostitute. Sugar Babies can always claim they joined just to "find a relationship" with a rich guy and not ever admit what they are willing to do discreetly.

I know other city forums do this, so maybe I'm in the minority here. If one wants to share GR sugar baby experiences here I suggest post in general terms about meeting a 40 yo MILF, college girl, etc and leave out her details. We can alway private messages if you want to pass along a lead to another member if she's actually operating more as a UTR. Again, just my opinion.

I would like more members to chime in on this. At first I thought it was okay to let others know the person was real, not a scammer or out to waste your time.

[ChastD1959]

IMHO we shouldn't allow reviews of a women you hook up with from a sugar baby site. There is a clear distinction between women on a Sugar site vs STG or EM. Whatever happens between you and a Baby is private and confidential. By posting links to a woman's profile and reviewing what she did for $ invalidates that trust. If we all did that it could prevent other women from joining those sugar sites because they might be fearful of seeing their daddy review them like a cheap prostitute. Sugar Babies can always claim they joined just to "find a relationship" with a rich guy and not ever admit what they are willing to do discreetly.

I know other city forums do this, so maybe I'm in the minority here. If one wants to share GR sugar baby experiences here I suggest post in general terms about meeting a 40 yo MILF, college girl, etc and leave out her details. We can alway private messages if you want to pass along a lead to another member if she's actually operating more as a UTR. Again, just my opinion.

I agree. SA and SB are not escort sites, and should not be reviewed as such.

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Met with this one.Communication was excellent. She was ready for a last minute meeting quickly. Traveled to me and was prompt. Really soft touch and a magic mouth. Really nice breasts. Enjoyed a couple of rounds with her for $$ I recommend and would repeat.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fef67...b-eceab614416f

[MichiganMan686]

Actually, I disagree. On SA, it's not Skip-the-Games under-cover. It's set as a Personals Site -- pretty much like Adult Friend Finder. Except with two twists -- many will use it for escorting and such out the door but are up for a potential guy-on-the-side regular. Others are a settled in "relationship" as a "regular" in that same manner. Others want to go out and be pampered, and yeah, will fool around (possibly not on first 'date' as it all Varies. Some gals are just using it the same as if they're on Adult Friend Finder. Heck, some women have $$ and just want to find guys with $$ themselves.

So like the gals -- you can't expect it to flow just one-way, as if it's one-purpose / expectation only. For legit gals on there for more it's purpose, it's roughly a match-making site, not something like Skip-the-Games but in a different way. Hence, most non-straight-up under-cover escorts on there are going to treat it like a Personals site, but for fun. So they'll want to end up seeing a pic just the same. But many gals have many different angles -- and their angles can change from one guy to the next.

Again I'm new at SA. Worried about being UTR. TY for the info. MM686.

[Charlie441]

Had an SA girl insist on a face pic of me. I'm like no. Ifu want to meet up you can see me but you are the one selling your goods not me. Really weird.

Actually, I disagree. On SA, it's not Skip-the-Games under-cover. It's set as a Personals Site -- pretty much like Adult Friend Finder. Except with two twists -- many will use it for escorting and such out the door but are up for a potential guy-on-the-side regular. Others are a settled in "relationship" as a "regular" in that same manner. Others want to go out and be pampered, and yeah, will fool around (possibly not on first 'date' as it all Varies. Some gals are just using it the same as if they're on Adult Friend Finder. Heck, some women have $$ and just want to find guys with $$ themselves.

So like the gals -- you can't expect it to flow just one-way, as if it's one-purpose / expectation only. For legit gals on there for more it's purpose, it's roughly a match-making site, not something like Skip-the-Games but in a different way. Hence, most non-straight-up under-cover escorts on there are going to treat it like a Personals site, but for fun. So they'll want to end up seeing a pic just the same. But many gals have many different angles -- and their angles can change from one guy to the next.

[MichiganMan686]

Besides the other site mentioned below, read this thread. Lots of advice. For married men, don't use a face pic on your public profile, and be cautious of anything you post (public or private album). My advice is to take new pictures of yourself wearing different clothes than what you normally wear or use image filters to change colors so it looks different. Also don't take the pic in your house. You have no idea if your wife, friend, or daughter might be on that site and recognize you or your surroundings.

Once you make contact with a girl the way you play it depends on how they act. Some are more willing to meet right away than others, some are looking for a financial arrangement while I've met others that are just looking for a relationship. See if you can get them to text for a while so when you finally talk money it's not via their messaging site. You can try to hold off giving out your picture until you're sure she's legit, but keep in mind for every 1 girl you contact she's got 10+ guys in line. So if you are too secretive and not willing to share stuff about yourself you risk she'll move onto to someone else.

You may find some women who are ready for pay per meet right away, but more likely you'll find they want to get to know you. So Sugaring is more like dating, at least initially, so you've got to be prepared to work it a bit to get the reward.

Awesome. TY. Very good info. Happy Thanksgiving. MM686.

[PrivateParts]

Besides the other site mentioned below, read this thread. Lots of advice. For married men, don't use a face pic on your public profile, and be cautious of anything you post (public or private album). My advice is to take new pictures of yourself wearing different clothes than what you normally wear or use image filters to change colors so it looks different. Also don't take the pic in your house. You have no idea if your wife, friend, or daughter might be on that site and recognize you or your surroundings.

Once you make contact with a girl the way you play it depends on how they act. Some are more willing to meet right away than others, some are looking for a financial arrangement while I've met others that are just looking for a relationship. See if you can get them to text for a while so when you finally talk money it's not via their messaging site. You can try to hold off giving out your picture until you're sure she's legit, but keep in mind for every 1 girl you contact she's got 10+ guys in line. So if you are too secretive and not willing to share stuff about yourself you risk she'll move onto to someone else.

You may find some women who are ready for pay per meet right away, but more likely you'll find they want to get to know you. So Sugaring is more like dating, at least initially, so you've got to be prepared to work it a bit to get the reward.

Ok. TY. I'm a experienced monger. Escorting and massage. Just not SA. I don't want to get kicked off it for saying the wrong thing either. I'm looking for ppm utr girls to see a few times a month. MM686.

[MichiganMan686]

Look at the Richmond Virginia Sugar baby section on this site. It's filled with tons of helpful info if you are just getting started. It's an incredible active section. Helped me a lot years ago when I first joined SA.

Ok. TY. I'm a experienced monger. Escorting and massage. Just not SA. I don't want to get kicked off it for saying the wrong thing either. I'm looking for ppm utr girls to see a few times a month. MM686.

[Mike Yepthatsm]

Look at the Richmond Virginia Sugar baby section on this site. It's filled with tons of helpful info if you are just getting started. It's an incredible active section. Helped me a lot years ago when I first joined SA.

OK. TY for the responce. I'm still learning. I was worried about my actual pic being put out there. Always worried about being in a bad situation. Again TY for the responce. MM686.

[MichiganMan686]

It's a sugar baby site, you are hoping to discover a hot young thing who likes sex and she's thinking she might as well see if some rich guy might gift her things instead giving it up to some guy at a bar, right? That's the idea behind SA. Any woman I've ever hooked with via an online site has always wanted to see a pic of me before agreeing to meet. That seems pretty standard. That's the ante to be dealt into the game. If you want a woman to agree to see you sight unseen then stick with the escorts.

OK. TY for the responce. I'm still learning. I was worried about my actual pic being put out there. Always worried about being in a bad situation. Again TY for the responce. MM686.

[PrivateParts]

Had an SA girl insist on a face pic of me. I'm like no. Ifu want to meet up you can see me but you are the one selling your goods not me. Really weird.

It's a sugar baby site, you are hoping to discover a hot young thing who likes sex and she's thinking she might as well see if some rich guy might gift her things instead giving it up to some guy at a bar, right? That's the idea behind SA. Any woman I've ever hooked with via an online site has always wanted to see a pic of me before agreeing to meet. That seems pretty standard. That's the ante to be dealt into the game. If you want a woman to agree to see you sight unseen then stick with the escorts.