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[BamBam]

Never talk about ANY money, and sex at or near the same time, with ANY woman, on Seeking. Hollywood is about the only guy to even try to get away with lowball offers. (I know one more but he offers to do them on his yacht while on a boating excursion which is not the same thing at all. He also lets them take home a case of restaurant wine.) Just avoid talk of any quid pro quo until you get them off the site.

Bam.

Never talk about lowball money for sex with a white girl.

[BamBam]

Did you only see her for four weeks and this happened? The chances of BOTH people getting hit by lightening bolts of attachment that quick at the same time is vanishingly small. More likely, you were the one who was smitten, you over-reacted and scared her then she made up an excuse to bail. It happens; you will survive; the pain most likely happened because she took the initiative to get out. Try to see yourself a year from now out of the emotional vortex happily doing young, lissome coeds. Two things that have helped me: can you imagine her on the toilet taking an especially noisy dump? Come on, you know that happens. If you cannot imagine it, you are smitten with some unreal vision not a real person. Second, if you were not apart, where do you think you would be with her ten years from now? Those fire are not going to burn hot that long. You would at some point be dumping her. A nice guy would not lead a gal on that long. Own it.

Bam.

I posted recently about catching feelings for a girl I met on SA and how she ghosted me after 4 wks. This is more to vent and maybe get insight. There's too much to this but I think this happened because she caught feelings too and it was too much and too soon for her to get serious so she bailed without a word.

[EvilTmp]

I posted recently about catching feelings for a girl I met on SA and how she ghosted me after 4 wks. This is more to vent and maybe get insight. There's too much to this but I think this happened because she caught feelings too and it was too much and too soon for her to get serious so she bailed without a word. This was her first time doing this and she was looking for an SD but I don't think she knew what to expect. I've seen that a lot. She is 20 and attends local university. Her parents are divorced. There's drug addiction in her family and she has trust issues with men and friends. We clicked from the moment we met and she never asked me for anything. Anything I did for her was on my own such as treating her to items for her college apartment or surprising her with a jacket or snacks. I actually treated her good like I would any regular girl that I would go out with. There were times where she needed help (money was not asked for) and I gave her what I thought would be needed to help. She would also return whatever was not needed and a few times gave everything back when she didn't need it at all. One of the last times she saw me she said she was afraid to like me more than she already did. My apologies for venting. I just have to get some of this off myt chest and no t having closure is killing me.

Apologies in advance for busting your little bubble but there has never been a girl that will cut it off because she likes you too much. She wanted out and didn't want to hurt your feeling so she came up with some BS she knew you'd fall for. Seriously, you need to see other girls and forget about this one. She is nowhere near what you thought she was and she didn't care much about you. Don't be upset, it's just how girls are. My guess is that you were one of several guys in her life and she just wanted to replace you in her rotation. Always keep in mind: you don't own her, it's just your turn.

[HollywoodGuy]

I recently joined the site. How does someone get banned?

Never talk about lowball money for sex with a white girl.

[Gaga Mash]

Okay so I've been banned again. I have a burner phone from Target that I used But now I think that number cannot be associated with my account also I use Green Dot to pay but using Green Dot you need to have his phone number associated with it I tried using a phone app but it's not recognised any tips.

I recently joined the site. How does someone get banned?

[TylerDurd]

I'm using a voice text so my apologies for typos and grammar So the conclusion is she has a boyfriend I seen on social media that they have been together for 3 years since high school from age 17 to 20 which is a long time at her age That's a big portion for dating life so far. So I understand the connection that they have and their history to be honest I didn't plan on falling for this girl and I had this so many questions of course if they're talking the whole time and why wasn't she honest with me or they on a break was he out of town because in the military and now he's back I'm still the way she goes with me hurt a lot especially because I thought I had hurt her and if you know me in real life you know I'm a good person I'm just an average guy that loves sex and women. Like I said this has so many questions about what was true and not true You know she never really asked for anything I gave as my own choice. To be honest my sex drive has been killed for the whole last week I've been like that depressed I went pretty far out knowing the campus apartment she stays at but not the room but I found out so much information by her accidentally show me her real name one time and a photo and just piecing everything together honestly don't wish this upon anybody and I know I want to make sure going for that I'm always honest with women.

Dude, don't want to be mean but you knew this girl for a month. She's not special, theres 1000's of girls just like her and better out there. And the hard truth is she didn't like you as much as youd like. Happens to all of us. Girls operate in mysterious ways. They can seem incredibly interested in when you're together but it turns out the next day they found an upgrade and complete forget about it. It happens to all of us. It just sucks cause you found someone you like and its not easy to find another immediately. Thats what the game is all about. Go out and see other girls. Theres always another "the one" out there.

[Tomatillo]

I'm using a voice text so my apologies for typos and grammar So the conclusion is she has a boyfriend I seen on social media that they have been together for 3 years since high school from age 17 to 20 which is a long time at her age That's a big portion for dating life so far. So I understand the connection that they have and their history to be honest I didn't plan on falling for this girl and I had this so many questions of course if they're talking the whole time and why wasn't she honest with me or they on a break was he out of town because in the military and now he's back I'm still the way she goes with me hurt a lot especially because I thought I had hurt her and if you know me in real life you know I'm a good person I'm just an average guy that loves sex and women. Like I said this has so many questions about what was true and not true You know she never really asked for anything I gave as my own choice. To be honest my sex drive has been killed for the whole last week I've been like that depressed I went pretty far out knowing the campus apartment she stays at but not the room but I found out so much information by her accidentally show me her real name one time and a photo and just piecing everything together honestly don't wish this upon anybody and I know I want to make sure going for that I'm always honest with women.

Mongering 101. If you plan to partake in these endeavors whether it be Sugar Daddying or seeing professionals, you have to learn to leave your emotions behind before partaking. Otherwise, as you're experiencing, you will always be the one getting hurt since the girls are rarely and most likely never in it with you for the long haul. And of those I've witnessed actually establishing long term relationships or marriage with these women, it never ends well. So as stated, move on and have enjoy finding a new one but don't get fixated. If you do aspire to seek longer arrangements with someone and have difficulty suppressing your emotions, forego all of this and just go and be active on dating sites and remember this rule, if you have difficulty in acquiring girls of a certain caliber of girl irl, there is no way you will be retain them via mongering or sugar daddying long term so enjoy it while lasts.

[HollywoodGuy]

It used to be if you stopped paying on your SA account after about a month or even less they would offer you a free month to get started again. No more.

[TheHuntsman]

I'm using a voice text so my apologies for typos and grammar So the conclusion is she has a boyfriend I seen on social media that they have been together for 3 years since high school from age 17 to 20 which is a long time at her age That's a big portion for dating life so far. So I understand the connection that they have and their history to be honest I didn't plan on falling for this girl and I had this so many questions of course if they're talking the whole time and why wasn't she honest with me or they on a break was he out of town because in the military and now he's back I'm still the way she goes with me hurt a lot especially because I thought I had hurt her and if you know me in real life you know I'm a good person I'm just an average guy that loves sex and women. Like I said this has so many questions about what was true and not true You know she never really asked for anything I gave as my own choice. To be honest my sex drive has been killed for the whole last week I've been like that depressed I went pretty far out knowing the campus apartment she stays at but not the room but I found out so much information by her accidentally show me her real name one time and a photo and just piecing everything together honestly don't wish this upon anybody and I know I want to make sure going for that I'm always honest with women.

[Ind Oc]

What area do you stay? I know of a could on SA that look for 3 some. The guy is an older SD that likes to see the girl fucked by other men.

I am over at Irvine and might be interested. Appreciate a DM with details if you are ok with connecting. Thanks!

[TheHuntsman]

I posted recently about catching feelings for a girl I met on SA and how she ghosted me after 4 wks. This is more to vent and maybe get insight. There's too much to this but I think this happened because she caught feelings too and it was too much and too soon for her to get serious so she bailed without a word. This was her first time doing this and she was looking for an SD but I don't think she knew what to expect. I've seen that a lot. She is 20 and attends local university. Her parents are divorced. There's drug addiction in her family and she has trust issues with men and friends. We clicked from the moment we met and she never asked me for anything. Anything I did for her was on my own such as treating her to items for her college apartment or surprising her with a jacket or snacks. I actually treated her good like I would any regular girl that I would go out with. There were times where she needed help (money was not asked for) and I gave her what I thought would be needed to help. She would also return whatever was not needed and a few times gave everything back when she didn't need it at all. One of the last times she saw me she said she was afraid to like me more than she already did. My apologies for venting. I just have to get some of this off myt chest and no t having closure is killing me.

I've been off and on this site a few times and I would say there are a few different types of girls on SA. 1. Full on escorts. 2. Girls needing a little help and willing to give a little to get a little. 3. Girls who picture themselves being spoiled for nothing in return. 4. Girls curious about it but not sure what to expect.

I had two simultaneous 3 yr relationships with girls that were pretty normal. One was a girl at UCI who never once asked me for anything besides a box of frozen waffles. Besides that we would meet up and have great sex. She would even spend the weekend at my place. The other girl started off as PPM but I felt we were both liking each other so one time I gave her nothing and she continued to see me. But that turned into me still helping her out like getting her nails done and miscellaneous expenses.

[TheHuntsman]

Okay so I've been banned again. I have a burner phone from Target that I used But now I think that number cannot be associated with my account also I use Green Dot to pay but using Green Dot you need to have his phone number associated with it I tried using a phone app but it's not recognised any tips.

[Large Ess]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0e562...4-1054dd0338ad

This one is either (probably) fake or insane. Responded to my generic intro with an insult but then kept on to keep insulting. LOL. I think people should hit her up. She only deals with millionaires.

[FirstClass1]

What area do you stay? I know of a could on SA that look for 3 some. The guy is an older SD that likes to see the girl fucked by other men.

I know two bisexual girls in a lesbian relationship who want to share a daddy, and will do creampie and swallow. DM if you have dimes to trade.

[HollywoodGuy]

Anyone else develop feelings for the sb they were seeing? I did and now my heart aches. I believe they caught feelings too and it scared them. Now they haven't text me back in 3 days. I know this isn't a place for love advice but it's hard to share in my normal social groups.

Having lived with multiple SB's I can say I never regretted the breakups. But it was always me doing the breaking up, except once. I try to stay grateful for the good times we had. The only one to break up with me I lost to a rich SD, and so that made it a bit easier to accept. But the pleasure I get overall from all this SD life is far more than any emotional pain I have suffered. The truth is there is always another, young, hot in bed, crazy in the head, pretty, funny, and loving girl out there. Maybe even better than anyone you had before.

Depending on your budget ($-$$$ per meet) we guys are outnumbered anywhere from 10-30 to one or even way more for the high rollers. With those kind of odds we really are spoiled far more than they are. In 15 years of sugaring I fell in love 3 times so far. Don't regret any of them (one was 18 the other two were 19 when I met them). Considered marrying all three of them. The first one I discovered was mentally ill after 6 months but continued to see her for another year. The second one I realized after 6 months that she was no where as into me as I was into her (but still good friends 7 years later). The last one left me for the rich SD as I really could not provide for her. I am still holding out that she may get back to me one day. But that could have been a civi girl just as easily. Girls want security above all else.

During those 15 years I have only had one civi relationship and that only lasted 3 weeks. lol... Just a hot milf getting back at her husband who was out of town on a work assignment. At this point it would be impossible for me to date anyone even remotely near my age. Even if I met a super hot single 40 year old, her expectation$ would be far higher than any 18-20 year old girls could ever be. So I will gratefully just continue down the path of sugaring until death do us part.