Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**BlueFox141** · 11-28-20 17:02

Veryt 31 Trumbull.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6f9ab...4-ad94d6e84880

Wanted to text immediately after contacting her. Chatted for a while, then said she wanted me to suck her pussy right now! I offered to meet her at a motel tonight and she was all for it. Then she pulls the money for gas and extras. I asked her to send a verification phot with the date on a piece of paper. She said she didn't have paper but she would write the date on the photo. Below is her profile picture which shows her left nipple. A photo with her face that I asked for, and the verification photo.

Blue.

**OhHellWhyNot** · 11-28-20 11:43

Even with a couple of ladies for me to have my fun with, I am contemplating it just due to the discount. I have paid for 2 separate months so far this year and have gone through the bad ones (maybe the term crazy is more fitting) and a couple of gems. The key is to put in the time and effort while you have the membership. Heck, I was even fortunate enough to meet one that was just on here for FWBs and no $$ has ever exchanged in the several get togethers we have had.

Originally Posted by Bbctrev [View Original Post]

I was waiting on the next sa deal to happen to join but with all the recent reviews about some of the b. S. Some of you guys through now I'm confused what to do whether to take advantage or not. Any advice?

**TSmithers24** · 11-27-20 06:12

Originally Posted by Bbctrev [View Original Post]

I was waiting on the next sa deal to happen to join but with all the recent reviews about some of the b. S. Some of you guys through now I'm confused what to do whether to take advantage or not. Any advice?

I'd do it. Just be patient and put in the effort and you will have some really good times.

**Mankind617** · 11-27-20 05:38

Long time lurker first time posting. She emailed me on the SB site. Quickly gave me her cell number so we could text. Seems pleasant and sent a few more pics. Wants to meet up today at her place. Not asking much. Any intel? If not, I'll TOFT and report back. I'm Always leery of the first time meeting someone new. Thanks.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...1c7f8b7f20c629

**Mankind617** · 11-27-20 05:21

Originally Posted by Bbctrev [View Original Post]

I was waiting on the next sa deal to happen to join but with all the recent reviews about some of the b. S. Some of you guys through now I'm confused what to do whether to take advantage or not. Any advice?

Some say they do well on the site, I didn't. Got a few numbers and chatted offline but it never went anywhere. 2 ghosted me and the other wanted $$ Not worth it. Most of the others that messaged me were scams trying to sell pics and videos. I let the month expire and won't be subscribing again. You may have better luck as they say YMMV. Good luck.

**Bbctrev** · 11-27-20 05:09

I was waiting on the next sa deal to happen to join but with all the recent reviews about some of the b. S. Some of you guys through now I'm confused what to do whether to take advantage or not. Any advice?

**Chudakkad** · 11-22-20 21:19

Originally Posted by TheWsgMan [View Original Post]

Yes, if they mention Covid, Online, Platonic anywhere, ignore them. 100 percent of the time it is a scam. There are plenty of girls that want to meet.

Add sentences like " For your safety & my safety", "I don't give my number out" , "I only need money for gas&food" and "You could be a scammer" to the list, just block them and save time.

**JustLooking30** · 11-22-20 17:46

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

As always, YMMV. Personally, I am not planning on signing up again until the virus situation is better and things are a bit more socially normal.

My thoughts are in line with this perspective. I have 2 that I have off of SA that are off the site for one reason or another. Past winter's I have 4-6 girls / providers I cycle through from Oct till April. I just don't see the clear advantage to exposing myself to that many people. Esp now that I'm older. Covid isn't something I want to come close to experiencing. 2020 is a wash for me. I don't think I'll resume SA till a vaccine is out. Then I'll go hog wild.

**TheWsgMan** · 11-22-20 15:12

Originally Posted by Sutigel2 [View Original Post]

In my opinion, most of the girls who want "online only" or "online only until Covid improves" are the ones who would never meet up in the first place.

I did have another girl, who lived too close to me for me to risk meeting. She's a pre-school teacher and told me that she's "done with covid" and would have no problem meeting.

Yes, if they mention Covid, Online, Platonic anywhere, ignore them. 100 percent of the time it is a scam. There are plenty of girls that want to meet.

**Sutigel2** · 11-22-20 14:13

In my opinion, most of the girls who want "online only" or "online only until Covid improves" are the ones who would never meet up in the first place.

I did have another girl, who lived too close to me for me to risk meeting. She's a pre-school teacher and told me that she's "done with covid" and would have no problem meeting.

**BBFreak** · 11-22-20 13:58

Originally Posted by XxMarkXx [View Original Post]

I just let my membership expire. I think 2020 is just f'ing everything up. Talked with a lot of girls, but none met in the past few months. They ghost, want only online or some crazy $. Luckily, I have some that I can see regularly.

As always, YMMV. Personally, I am not planning on signing up again until the virus situation is better and things are a bit more socially normal.

I let my membership expire as well. I got a few numbers this last round and have been meeting up regularly with one girl but the site has been really weak lately. The majority of the girls will respond to one text and then not log back into the site for weeks.

**XxMarkXx** · 11-22-20 13:45

Originally Posted by BigBoss203 [View Original Post]

Thanks for sharing your experience.

I wonder if it's worth to subscribe to SA soon since it seems we are going back to stricter covid rules. If you recall, at the beginning of the pandemic most girls wanted online.

I just let my membership expire. I think 2020 is just f'ing everything up. Talked with a lot of girls, but none met in the past few months. They ghost, want only online or some crazy $. Luckily, I have some that I can see regularly.

As always, YMMV. Personally, I am not planning on signing up again until the virus situation is better and things are a bit more socially normal.

**BigBoss203** · 11-22-20 12:57

Thanks for sharing your experience.

I wonder if it's worth to subscribe to SA soon since it seems we are going back to stricter covid rules. If you recall, at the beginning of the pandemic most girls wanted online.

Originally Posted by Sutigel2 [View Original Post]

Just finished my one month on SA. I do one or two months a year, get some numbers and have a girl or two to see until the next time I join. I've been doing this for probably four years. The prices have gone way way up, the quality of girls has gone down, the attitudes of the girls has gotten worse etc.

I went from having an ex-stripper / shot girl for $100 in-calls (with almost no rules) to having girls looking for $1000 a week allowances and no intimacy "until I feel comfortable with you. ".

I never saw Emma Kotos but I did have a similar aged beautiful girl who wasn't really looking to get rich off the site.

Anyway, this time around I met with one girl. Very good in bed but appearance not quite what I'm looking for. I got a couple other numbers but nothing that really excited me. There was one girl who looked promising but her actual location was very different than her listed location making it almost impossible for us to meet.

Probably the most interesting was a little expensive but I think I could have talked her down. Really kinky. Great body. Then I see her picture. And she is a server at one of my favorite places! Kind of made it a bigger turn on. But. I need to maintain discretion and anonymity. Also could have been awkward for both of us.

**Sutigel2** · 11-22-20 09:27

Just finished my one month on SA. I do one or two months a year, get some numbers and have a girl or two to see until the next time I join. I've been doing this for probably four years. The prices have gone way way up, the quality of girls has gone down, the attitudes of the girls has gotten worse etc.

I went from having an ex-stripper / shot girl for $100 in-calls (with almost no rules) to having girls looking for $1000 a week allowances and no intimacy "until I feel comfortable with you. ".

I never saw Emma Kotos but I did have a similar aged beautiful girl who wasn't really looking to get rich off the site.

Anyway, this time around I met with one girl. Very good in bed but appearance not quite what I'm looking for. I got a couple other numbers but nothing that really excited me. There was one girl who looked promising but her actual location was very different than her listed location making it almost impossible for us to meet.

Probably the most interesting was a little expensive but I think I could have talked her down. Really kinky. Great body. Then I see her picture. And she is a server at one of my favorite places! Kind of made it a bigger turn on. But. I need to maintain discretion and anonymity. Also could have been awkward for both of us.