Rants Raves and Stupid Shit in Seattle.

[SugarNuts]

Not sure why you guys are acting like wussies. It wasn't her who pulled the trigger. Upon reading the article I feel that she was innocent just doing her provider job and was simply at the wrong place at the wrong time.

She went to the victims house for a session and brought the dude that pulled the trigger along. According to the court reporting, he had the intention of robbing the monger from the jump so even if she didn't know, she's still complicit.

You want to go see her, go for it. Your choice, I don't begrudge anyone for their life choses, apparently you do. As far as being a wussy, multiple combat tours beg to differ, but you do you keyboard warrior.

[BrstMan]

It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.

75% of the ones with issues I have met or talked to were over 30, there was one who was about 35 and I asked what happened to her bathroom door and her ex-BF had put her head into it, another older one had been raped by and ex-BF, another lost her parents in an accident and had no emotional or financial support so was on SA, when I made the post I was not specifically talking about any age group.

I found 1 right now that is young and seems to have few issues, steady job, own place, close but not too close, doesn't want too much in return and randomly sends me pics and tells me she wants to get together.

[Marko Ramius]

It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.

There are no shortage of the older ones with issues as well, though. On the average I prefer them a little older myself but I've ran into plenty of batshit over the years from sugar babies in their thirties.

[MikeIsHome]

Cute little thing; encounter just went south and they both stood their ground. It happens.

[TheNovelist]

It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.

That's always advisable. I've found that avoiding girls under 28 is always the best. Rarely do they have a good level of maturity, but there's also the prowess factor. The women over 28 usually have perfected techniques and developed a real lust for intimacy. Girls 18-28 may have firmer bodies, but 9. 5 times out of ten, they are as sexually interesting as banging your own hand. Hey, at least my hand knows what I like, isn't going to rush me, have a nasty smell of being unclean, or ruin the mood by talking.

[Michael1967]

Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood? So far I have encountered the following.

One who lost their dad at young age and seems to be jumping from guy to guy.

One who started dating her older brothers friend when she was 14 and he 21.

One who started being molested by grandfather at 12, pregnant at 15.

One who had no dad in her life that just likes having sex, she said why not get something in return.

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?

It's why I avoid the younger ones on there. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than hearing how they were molested by xxxxx or raped by her brother's friend when she was 12. At least the older people have learned to deal with their issues.

[Michael1967]

Yep. Sounds like he didn't realize what an unstable wacko he was dealing with until it was too late.

Looks like they deleted about half the replies on that thread. It appears anyone who questioned her viewpoint had their posts deleted, then they closed the thread.

Typical. It's why I don't waste my fingertips typing there. They probably did that to any negative reviews that she had too (just like all negative reviews there).

[RedHot11]

Did you read the 2015 Everett Herald herald DOT net stories? Double Yikes!

Not sure why you guys are acting like wussies. It wasn't her who pulled the trigger. Upon reading the article I feel that she was innocent just doing her provider job and was simply at the wrong place at the wrong time.

[Diver6390]

Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood?

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?

My preference run toward the more mature ladies. Those seem to have a better balance to their lives. Yes, they are usually divorced, but that is kind of the nature of the beast. Most have children that are somewhat grown, as I do, so we actually have something to talk about after coitus. One was / is a professional (not that way, like a doctor / lawyer).

And to be quite frank, looking in the mirror, my background is not the most Mayberry and Cleavers either. Not that I was abused, but my folks had some pretty old-school ideas, and a certain part of my outlook on life and choosing to play in the world of pay to play has a lot with those puritanical attitudes.

[Marko Ramius]

Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood?

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There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?

No, not really.

The arrangement world really is the Island of Misfit Toys.

[BrstMan]

Has anyone noticed that many of the women on SA when you meet and talk to them have had a pretty messed up childhood? So far I have encountered the following.

One who lost their dad at young age and seems to be jumping from guy to guy.

One who started dating her older brothers friend when she was 14 and he 21.

One who started being molested by grandfather at 12, pregnant at 15.

One who had no dad in her life that just likes having sex, she said why not get something in return.

There are others but has anyone met a woman that doesn't have a messed up background?

[DrtyHarry]

Looks like they deleted about half the replies on that thread. It appears anyone who questioned her viewpoint had their posts deleted, then they closed the thread.

Why is that not surprising at all. That site has not only lost it's soul. But also it's moral compass. Predictable. Do what you have to ensure you can propogate a false reality and use the board to make as much money for the SPs as possible even if that compromises the safety and security of the people who pay to keep that board running.

[Jonderin]

Yes. I also feel he's telling a majority of the truth also. The fact that the police came and he wasn't arrested is quite telling. The fact that absolutely nothing happened and he took his money and tried to leave and an altercation occurred is also very telling. The fact that after all of that she is complaining that she didn't get paid (for nothing) is also very telling.

Could he have handled it better? Hell, yeah! Unfortunately, the other board seems to think that all hookers are delicate flowers and incapable of launching themselves at men. They believe that even if she did launch herself at him, he has no right to defend himself (and then declare that they are feminists). I think most of us rational people know better.

I look at it as 4 years on the board, 22 reviews, 14 references without a problem, then suddenly he's beating hookers. Doesn't make sense.

Yep. Sounds like he didn't realize what an unstable wacko he was dealing with until it was too late.

Looks like they deleted about half the replies on that thread. It appears anyone who questioned her viewpoint had their posts deleted, then they closed the thread.

[MrSteves]

I'd probably just tell them the truth. Honestly a prostitution charge is less of a hassle than an assault charge which either of them could have been looking at at that point.

Again, they were BOTH insanely stupid.

A lot of girls, especially the crazier ones, have a weapon (or weapons) in their incall. How would this situation looked if she would have used a knife on the dude rather than bit him? And a lot of guys are packing, so what would have happened if he pulled out a pistol and shot her when she bit his arm? Once you it escalates to physical there aren't a lot of boundaries and neither party had any control of the situation.

(Note on "the crazier ones": my experience is that most of the girls in the biz are at least a little bit crazy).

This entire Situation sounds crazy. I hope I don't run into something like this!

[Marko Ramius]

I'm just wondering what he told the cops? The truth, I came to see a hooker and she got crazy or made up a scenario as q date he met online. I would've booked it before the cops got there, but that prolly would've made me look guilty. Tough situation!

I'd probably just tell them the truth. Honestly a prostitution charge is less of a hassle than an assault charge which either of them could have been looking at at that point.

Again, they were BOTH insanely stupid.

A lot of girls, especially the crazier ones, have a weapon (or weapons) in their incall. How would this situation looked if she would have used a knife on the dude rather than bit him? And a lot of guys are packing, so what would have happened if he pulled out a pistol and shot her when she bit his arm? Once you it escalates to physical there aren't a lot of boundaries and neither party had any control of the situation.

(Note on "the crazier ones": my experience is that most of the girls in the biz are at least a little bit crazy).