"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**BrownSugaTwo** · 11-20-20 01:22

Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend.

**BoJackSugarman** · 11-19-20 22:01

If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Like anything else, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. The way I've seen it done right.

1) Only really works with a girl you've seen a few times and have some trust built up.

2) You tell her "well, I know a few guys who might help you out, met them online. I bet if you text them they'll be happy to hook you up. " If she's game, then you can ask the guy on the board for his burner info and pass it to her. She can text the guy and set things up from there.

At the end of the day, it's a judgement call on your part. If some guy with little to no post history is asking, ignore him. If it's Senior, maybe take a few seconds to review his posts, you can usually figure out pretty quickly if they are an asshole or not. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, but you can weed things out pretty easily.

It really just depends on how much you want to contribute to this board. You do it well, you'll get a rep for being a stand up guy, and next thing you know some other senior is trading UTRs with you. The only currency you have on this board is rep. The more you have, the better you can get. Just my 2 cents.

**NewAnonymousName** · 11-19-20 12:15

Originally Posted by CagerCoach [View Original Post]

My experience was just the opposite. She decides to make a grab and dash. Got $100 of my money and immediately blocked everything.

Thanks for the info. I haven't seen her in a month. I won't try to see her again despite my prior good experiences. She went downhill fast, apparently.

**Harley32** · 11-19-20 11:01

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Like anything else, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. The way I've seen it done right.

1) Only really works with a girl you've seen a few times and have some trust built up.

2) You tell her "well, I know a few guys who might help you out, met them online. I bet if you text them they'll be happy to hook you up. " If she's game, then you can ask the guy on the board for his burner info and pass it to her. She can text the guy and set things up from there.

At the end of the day, it's a judgement call on your part. If some guy with little to no post history is asking, ignore him. If it's Senior, maybe take a few seconds to review his posts, you can usually figure out pretty quickly if they are an asshole or not. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, but you can weed things out pretty easily.

It really just depends on how much you want to contribute to this board. You do it well, you'll get a rep for being a stand up guy, and next thing you know some other senior is trading UTRs with you. The only currency you have on this board is rep. The more you have, the better you can get. Just my 2 cents.

Exactly. Once you've met and been with one of these women, you can figure out what they're in it for. If someone is looking to make some more money, I'll offer to pass on her number. It's totally her choice. I would never just give out someone's number. As well, you don't want to disclose that they're being reviewed on a site. The bad ones, fuck them. Those reviews go up right away.

**Hal1957** · 11-19-20 08:21

I prefer to do my own vetting. I love the chase and that's what sugar world offers for me. I appreciate when guys post about scammers and fakes and I'm willing to do the same. When I find a gem, I hold onto her for a while.

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Like anything else, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. The way I've seen it done right.

1) Only really works with a girl you've seen a few times and have some trust built up.

2) You tell her "well, I know a few guys who might help you out, met them online. I bet if you text them they'll be happy to hook you up. " If she's game, then you can ask the guy on the board for his burner info and pass it to her. She can text the guy and set things up from there.

At the end of the day, it's a judgement call on your part. If some guy with little to no post history is asking, ignore him. If it's Senior, maybe take a few seconds to review his posts, you can usually figure out pretty quickly if they are an asshole or not. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, but you can weed things out pretty easily.

It really just depends on how much you want to contribute to this board. You do it well, you'll get a rep for being a stand up guy, and next thing you know some other senior is trading UTRs with you. The only currency you have on this board is rep. The more you have, the better you can get. Just my 2 cents.

**ElPerron** · 11-19-20 05:35

Originally Posted by CagerCoach [View Original Post]

My experience was just the opposite. She decides to make a grab and dash. Got $100 of my money and immediately blocked everything.

I reported her few months ago, few weeks later a monger here was saying that had a 18 year old utr to trade, when I contacted him she was his utr smh I think he got some other good utrs numbers giving her number to lots of guys, hope you not one of them.

**CagerCoach** · 11-19-20 00:56

Originally Posted by CuriousInquir [View Original Post]

I had a good experience with her. She's frumpy, but her attitude is good. Although we had to start slow, she hung in there and let me hit it full bore after we got warmed up. The head was really good too.

My experience was just the opposite. She decides to make a grab and dash. Got $100 of my money and immediately blocked everything.

**Gca393** · 11-18-20 23:00

Missme8 AKA Missthing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e0290...f-1ac0de06af7b

This one only wants to sell pics.

Babylookingtohavefun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1966b...d-1adb8ee057ca

This one texted me wanting to know if I could send $ for an uber because her car broke down and she has her son with her with no way to get home. So I asked her to send me a picture of her and her son on the side of the road with the car and you guessed it. Crickets. She has now changed her location to Texas on SA.

**GoneForGood97** · 11-18-20 22:57

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

Reasons not to share numbers.

1. It burns other members (we have proof of this repeatedly).

2. It's unsafe for all of us (what if someone assaults a girl whose number you gave out. You could be liable as well as the site).

3. Rude. How would you feel if we gave out your number to hundreds of SA girls who randomly started texting you?

4. Creepy.

Reasons why guys ask to have numbers shared.

They don't want to pay for the SA membership. We all know this is the real issue. Let me offer a solution. Split the membership with someone or even two people. Girls do it all the time. When you switch to texting it will be no issue. If it's still too expensive, stick to EB and the escort thread. Although I will say, per time spent, you can't beat SA if you know how to use it.

Forums are supposed to be for group benefit not my benefit at your expense.

Like anything else, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. The way I've seen it done right.

1) Only really works with a girl you've seen a few times and have some trust built up.

2) You tell her "well, I know a few guys who might help you out, met them online. I bet if you text them they'll be happy to hook you up. " If she's game, then you can ask the guy on the board for his burner info and pass it to her. She can text the guy and set things up from there.

At the end of the day, it's a judgement call on your part. If some guy with little to no post history is asking, ignore him. If it's Senior, maybe take a few seconds to review his posts, you can usually figure out pretty quickly if they are an asshole or not. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, but you can weed things out pretty easily.

It really just depends on how much you want to contribute to this board. You do it well, you'll get a rep for being a stand up guy, and next thing you know some other senior is trading UTRs with you. The only currency you have on this board is rep. The more you have, the better you can get. Just my 2 cents.

**Ngasub20** · 11-18-20 12:55

Anyone met with this one? Is willing to voice verify and video chat up front. Just curious if anyone has met her. Seems TGTBT.

https://www.seeking.com/member/20aa5...d-11bb58381e1a

**Gca393** · 11-17-20 17:05

PuertoRicanHottie69.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b350ed76-4c34-475d-a593-5a2973c469cc
For any of you that have the means to spend 2 k / month for (4) visits this one is for you! GPS at it's best. I passed on this one.

ArielRoseBaby.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f02d8c3-516b-4e0b-b1a5-dfe0f2e64608
This one prefers platonic because hubby doesn't want her to do anything sexual.

Maybe you guys will have better luck.

**Jboogie91** · 11-17-20 11:56

Looking to set something up with these 2. Any intel will be greatly appreciated and I'll report back if I do meet with them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/10743...d-80cfec177f65

https://www.seeking.com/member/20cbb...a-f059785a85cf

**YeOldHornDawg** · 11-17-20 10:53

So, this one hit me up yesterday and we've tentatively agreed to meet. 1. 5 for initial meet with a reevaluation afterwards. Anyone have any pro or con insights?

https://www.seeking.com/member/dd811...0-ad4cb783ffab

**MrPepper** · 11-17-20 10:28

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

Reasons not to share numbers.

1. It burns other members (we have proof of this repeatedly).

2. It's unsafe for all of us (what if someone assaults a girl whose number you gave out. You could be liable as well as the site).

3. Rude. How would you feel if we gave out your number to hundreds of SA girls who randomly started texting you?

4. Creepy.

Reasons why guys ask to have numbers shared.

They don't want to pay for the SA membership. We all know this is the real issue. Let me offer a solution. Split the membership with someone or even two people. Girls do it all the time. When you switch to texting it will be no issue. If it's still too expensive, stick to EB and the escort thread. Although I will say, per time spent, you can't beat SA if you know how to use it.

Forums are supposed to be for group benefit not my benefit at your expense.

Just to add a point to this, plenty of the girls don't want to view themselves as escorts, they can view this site as a step away from that, so even if someone gave you the number for one of them and you reached out, first off it would burn the member that gave you the number, and second you wouldn't get anywhere cause that's not how they want to be contacted.

**SeekingHead** · 11-17-20 09:35

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

Reasons not to share numbers.

1. It burns other members (we have proof of this repeatedly).

2. It's unsafe for all of us (what if someone assaults a girl whose number you gave out. You could be liable as well as the site).

3. Rude. How would you feel if we gave out your number to hundreds of SA girls who randomly started texting you?

4. Creepy.

Reasons why guys ask to have numbers shared.

They don't want to pay for the SA membership. We all know this is the real issue. Let me offer a solution. Split the membership with someone or even two people. Girls do it all the time. When you switch to texting it will be no issue. If it's still too expensive, stick to EB and the escort thread. Although I will say, per time spent, you can't beat SA if you know how to use it.

Forums are supposed to be for group benefit not my benefit at your expense.

100% this, quite a few of us trade info back channels but we never give out the girls phone number. Just the link to her SA account & info.

If you can't afford the $90 a month fee, or the ability to jump through a few hoops so your significant other doesn't find out then SA isn't your thing.