Arrangement Reports

**MikeIsHome** · 10-30-20 10:55

Agreed. I think if using real clear pics it's inevitable someone is going to recognise you. Looking for dates isn't a career killer; it could certainly be a relationship ended. Not as if you got involved with an intern; that could be trouble. If someone is going to freak at being recognised you've got to be selective with pics.

**FafaFooey** · 10-30-20 10:14

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

Guys I fckd up and I'm freaking out. I saw my profile was looked up by a cute Asian chic and it was under the viewed me tab. I looked at her pics and she looked cute so I messaged her saying hi however few hours later I looked at her pics closer and I'm almost sure she worked at my job few months ago. She was very sweet and had a wild side and she was the lowest in the totem poll like a temp intern and I'm as high as it goes short of the owners and big administrators. If it was her she had definitely recognized me cause we worked closely many times. As soon as I realized it may be her I blocked her but obviously I'm freaking out she may tell others that we both know about this part of my life. She doesn't work at my job for few months now. Can she still view my profile if I had blocked her if she creates a new profile I disabled my account so I can lay low and I wonder if I create a new account in 1-2 mo again can she stumble on the new profile again and obviously worry if she had snapped few pics of my profile and start blackmailing me to tell my employer

It can be terrifying to feel like your identity has been found out on SA or in the hobby in general, but in this case it feels very low risk unless the girl is just purely malicious or really stupid. The blackmailer in a scenario like this has just as much if not more personal, career, and legal risk as the target, so if she is building a career, etc it makes no sense for her to even consider this. And unless you somehow brought your superior position at work up to try to push an arrangement, there's really no ammunition to bring it up to your employer. And this could have even worked out to your advantage

. In the old days if I'd run into a cute ex-intern at a bar and she said hi, who knows where the night could have led.

**Lookin4it** · 10-30-20 09:38

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

Guys I fckd up and I'm freaking out. I saw my profile was looked up by a cute Asian chic and it was under the viewed me tab. I looked at her pics and she looked cute so I messaged her saying hi however few hours later I looked at her pics closer and I'm almost sure she worked at my job few months ago. She was very sweet and had a wild side and she was the lowest in the totem poll like a temp intern and I'm as high as it goes short of the owners and big administrators. If it was her she had definitely recognized me cause we worked closely many times. As soon as I realized it may be her I blocked her but obviously I'm freaking out she may tell others that we both know about this part of my life. She doesn't work at my job for few months now. Can she still view my profile if I had blocked her if she creates a new profile I disabled my account so I can lay low and I wonder if I create a new account in 1-2 mo again can she stumble on the new profile again and obviously worry if she had snapped few pics of my profile and start blackmailing me to tell my employer

I will second, third, and fourth what others on here have said. IF she intends on blackmailing you (which I feel is highly unlikely) she will come to you first to do so. Blackmail doesn't work if she has already told your employer. And back to "which I find highly unlikely," if she DID recognize you, she has just as much to lose by outing herself and really she has very little to gain. I can understand your freaking, as that is exactly what I would be doing. So, listen to the sympathetic friends you have on this board who can empathize: Take a few days, relax, let it go. Chances are high that it is nothing.

Finally, even YOU are not sure it is HER. Do you think, again IF she recognized you, she would have the exact same doubts?

**Dodge55** · 10-30-20 06:26

Originally Posted by WhiteSoxTom [View Original Post]

Whoa, slow down and take a breath. Your mind is running wild with the absolute worst case scenarios, which based on what you have written most likely will never happen. I know when I'm upset, it can be hard to think rationally when so many negative scenarios are running through my head.

Here are some things to consider.

It may not be her. If it was her, she may not have recognized you. If it was her and she did recognize you she may fear the same thing you do. Don't assume she is a horrible person out to blackmail people. She may have literally looked at your profile for 10 seconds, moved on to the next one never again giving yours a second thought.

I know it sucks that there is no way to know for sure if she recognized you. Try to let it go, there is nothing to do accept move forward and hope for the best.

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

Guys I fckd up and I'm freaking out. I saw my profile was looked up by a cute Asian chic and it was under the viewed me tab. I looked at her pics and she looked cute so I messaged her saying hi however few hours later I looked at her pics closer and I'm almost sure she worked at my job few months ago. She was very sweet and had a wild side and she was the lowest in the totem poll like a temp intern and I'm as high as it goes short of the owners and big administrators. If it was her she had definitely recognized me cause we worked closely many times. As soon as I realized it may be her I blocked her but obviously I'm freaking out she may tell others that we both know about this part of my life. She doesn't work at my job for few months now. Can she still view my profile if I had blocked her if she creates a new profile I disabled my account so I can lay low and I wonder if I create a new account in 1-2 mo again can she stumble on the new profile again and obviously worry if she had snapped few pics of my profile and start blackmailing me to tell my employer

Worst case scenario; she did recognize you and decided to blackmail you to tell your employer. OK, tell your employer what? That you crossed paths on a "dating site" where women sell their bodies for money? So that makes her a what? She is an intern, looking to advance her career; seems to me she's at just as much risk for you to blackmail her. I agree with Whitesox, this is probably not going to go anywhere so just lay low. Also, I don't put my pictures on the site for this very reason. Good luck and chill!

**WhiteSoxTom** · 10-30-20 06:14

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

Guys I fckd up and I'm freaking out. I saw my profile was looked up by a cute Asian chic and it was under the viewed me tab. I looked at her pics and she looked cute so I messaged her saying hi however few hours later I looked at her pics closer and I'm almost sure she worked at my job few months ago. She was very sweet and had a wild side and she was the lowest in the totem poll like a temp intern and I'm as high as it goes short of the owners and big administrators. If it was her she had definitely recognized me cause we worked closely many times. As soon as I realized it may be her I blocked her but obviously I'm freaking out she may tell others that we both know about this part of my life. She doesn't work at my job for few months now. Can she still view my profile if I had blocked her if she creates a new profile I disabled my account so I can lay low and I wonder if I create a new account in 1-2 mo again can she stumble on the new profile again and obviously worry if she had snapped few pics of my profile and start blackmailing me to tell my employer

Whoa, slow down and take a breath. Your mind is running wild with the absolute worst case scenarios, which based on what you have written most likely will never happen. I know when I'm upset, it can be hard to think rationally when so many negative scenarios are running through my head.

Here are some things to consider.

It may not be her. If it was her, she may not have recognized you. If it was her and she did recognize you she may fear the same thing you do. Don't assume she is a horrible person out to blackmail people. She may have literally looked at your profile for 10 seconds, moved on to the next one never again giving yours a second thought.

I know it sucks that there is no way to know for sure if she recognized you. Try to let it go, there is nothing to do accept move forward and hope for the best.

**dbones** · 10-30-20 04:35

Originally Posted by Flipper12 [View Original Post]

Damn this eros girl is gorgeous. I doubt it's this blond ace of spades. She knows her value, doubt she'd post on eros. Was pretty easy to get her for 250, she knows she's lower end.

I suggested she change her user name to blond deuce of spades.

I was thinking the same thing, I do not think it is the same girl.

**dbones** · 10-30-20 04:25

Originally Posted by StanKost [View Original Post]

Guys I fckd up and I'm freaking out. I saw my profile was looked up by a cute Asian chic and it was under the viewed me tab. I looked at her pics and she looked cute so I messaged her saying hi however few hours later I looked at her pics closer and I'm almost sure she worked at my job few months ago. She was very sweet and had a wild side and she was the lowest in the totem poll like a temp intern and I'm as high as it goes short of the owners and big administrators. If it was her she had definitely recognized me cause we worked closely many times. As soon as I realized it may be her I blocked her but obviously I'm freaking out she may tell others that we both know about this part of my life. She doesn't work at my job for few months now. Can she still view my profile if I had blocked her if she creates a new profile I disabled my account so I can lay low and I wonder if I create a new account in 1-2 mo again can she stumble on the new profile again and obviously worry if she had snapped few pics of my profile and start blackmailing me to tell my employer

I would for sure freak out too, but to say anything about you she would have say she was on the site and that's also not a good look for her. If I were you, I would just keep the profile and own up to it. Try laughing about it. Offer her some hush money or even see her and then she would not likely say anything. I don't know, I feel like deleting and running is just going to make yourself go crazy worrying about if this is going to come up at work. What do others think? I admit I am a little relaxed on the site figuring they are on there too, but also I do not have pictures of my face, I only share my private photos once I know that I do not know the girl and I am interested.

**StanKost** · 10-30-20 01:47

Guys I fckd up and I'm freaking out. I saw my profile was looked up by a cute Asian chic and it was under the viewed me tab. I looked at her pics and she looked cute so I messaged her saying hi however few hours later I looked at her pics closer and I'm almost sure she worked at my job few months ago. She was very sweet and had a wild side and she was the lowest in the totem poll like a temp intern and I'm as high as it goes short of the owners and big administrators. If it was her she had definitely recognized me cause we worked closely many times. As soon as I realized it may be her I blocked her but obviously I'm freaking out she may tell others that we both know about this part of my life. She doesn't work at my job for few months now. Can she still view my profile if I had blocked her if she creates a new profile I disabled my account so I can lay low and I wonder if I create a new account in 1-2 mo again can she stumble on the new profile again and obviously worry if she had snapped few pics of my profile and start blackmailing me to tell my employer

**RoronoaZ** · 10-29-20 23:09

Originally Posted by FightingFungus [View Original Post]

This one is dtf! Because she is married I decided against pursuing!

https://www.seeking.com/member/ac01d...9-8f338ad0e072

She's been writing erotic fan-faction and is a straight freak. She is ok with you being aggressive with her behind closed doors. I didn't date her again because she was just super weird to me and I hated her voice.

**FeldSpot** · 10-29-20 21:23

Originally Posted by FightingFungus [View Original Post]

This one is dtf! Because she is married I decided against pursuing!

https://www.seeking.com/member/ac01d...9-8f338ad0e072

She wanted 400 which made me pass.

**FightingFungus** · 10-29-20 18:47

This one is dtf! Because she is married I decided against pursuing!

https://www.seeking.com/member/ac01d...9-8f338ad0e072

**Truthfu11** · 10-29-20 18:33

DTF west loop student that's DTF. Cute but IMO not worth pursuing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4ea5c8f1-558b-4d54-b4b4-288cf3d61a52

**FightingFungus** · 10-29-20 17:58

Any intel on her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b2f47...d-d6e7f94daf8f

**SummerCheer** · 10-29-20 02:52

Originally Posted by AngelBravo [View Original Post]

Here I'll save you the trouble.

https://www.seeking.com/member/764a5...1-55843e9423f8

So idk if she blocked me or something like that. I would of definitely hit her up. She looked cute. If anyone what's to introduce me to her you know were to find me LOL.

Thanks!