Seeking Arrangements

**RandomChance72** · 10-28-20 02:08

Originally Posted by LatinXLuvr [View Original Post]

Had a recent few girls asking to use snapchat over anything else in terms of communicating off the site is this a scam of some kind?

Also found 2 girls willing to ppm.

Debbie asking 3 willing to meet up for a drink beforehand but she's too far for me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12ba...a-1c9624c2d00c

Holly was happy with 3 didn't discuss what she was willing to do but seemed desperate and open to anything.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a47a...5-7243a17534c2

Were both ladies up to BBFS?

**KnotLikeMe** · 10-28-20 00:24

Originally Posted by Satine [View Original Post]

Texted with her for a while, decided to meet. She delayed the meeting an hour before the agreed time. I agreed to push the meet for 2-hours, allowing her to finish her stuff. Then she wanted to cancel it again 30 min before the 2nd agreed time, wanted me to go to her place instead. I suspected it is a setup and refused to go. She called several times, sent me her address, and sent me a video with her rubbing herself. Now it really smelled like a setup. At the end of the day, hours after all these. I actually drove to her place. It is an apartment complex. I texted and called her saying I want to see her now. No response. Two days later she texted / call me again, want me to go see her.

Man, am I paranoid or this really feels bad. Would not talk to her again.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1537...c-d47ca429707c

I met her a few weeks ago. She was all over the map from maybe to come fuck me now. Showed up and she was a slam dunk bbcip. She could have used a shower and her apartment smelled like she had smoked enough weed to get a small village high. Wouldn't repeat but had worse.

**Satine** · 10-27-20 21:46

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

They want you to SC so you will buy their premium or OF. They will stop talking if you decline.

So they could ask you to send dick pictures with any other tools, can't they? And what is OF, may I ask? If they really try to scam, they'll have half dozen ways ready to receive funds, not particularly tied to snap, right? So turn off the location sharing, don't send money (or pictures). Is snapchat worse than text / kik? Not promoting either, just try to understand.

**Bran001** · 10-27-20 21:31

Originally Posted by SwimSays [View Original Post]

Game player for sure, I am guessing she just doesn't have the guts to actually go through with any arrangement but likes the idea of it and the attention.

I wasted 20 minutes of my life on a no-show today too. Texted me all morning, and then from the coffee shop, and I was 10 minutes behind. By the time I got there she'd left (if she ever truly was there) and deleted her SA profile, and ghosted me. I know it's deleted because I looked using my other account. It wasn't a total waste as I had some grocery shopping to do anyway, and the coffee place was 2 minutes from the grocery store I like.

**Joe1223** · 10-27-20 20:45

Originally Posted by LatinXLuvr [View Original Post]

Had a recent few girls asking to use snapchat over anything else in terms of communicating off the site is this a scam of some kind?

Also found 2 girls willing to ppm.

Debbie asking 3 willing to meet up for a drink beforehand but she's too far for me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12ba...a-1c9624c2d00c

Holly was happy with 3 didn't discuss what she was willing to do but seemed desperate and open to anything.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a47a...5-7243a17534c2

They want you to SC so you will buy their premium or OF. They will stop talking if you decline.

**SwimSays** · 10-27-20 20:17

Originally Posted by JustFunHere [View Original Post]

Also update on Erica523. Set up an appointment to meet outside a hotel and go for a walk to see if we click. Never showed up. Link again: https://www.seeking.com/member/755d7...0-ca3cada4e06e.

Game player for sure, I am guessing she just doesn't have the guts to actually go through with any arrangement but likes the idea of it and the attention. We hit it off when she first signed up and moved to text fairly quickly and every few days trying to meet up she always had a last minute excuse. After a couple of weeks of this I just asked her point blank if she ever planned on actually hanging out and I haven't heard from her since LOL.

**Bran001** · 10-27-20 19:57

Originally Posted by LatinXLuvr [View Original Post]

Had a recent few girls asking to use snapchat over anything else in terms of communicating off the site is this a scam of some kind?

Also found 2 girls willing to ppm.

I don't know about snapchat per se being scammy other than them getting you to send dick pics that they can they try to blackmail you with. I say no to snapchat, no to whatsapp (it's tied to my real cell # and will do KiK occasionally.

Be careful about talking "ppm" in SA chat; they do monitor some chat and you don't want to get banned.

**LatinXLuvr** · 10-27-20 17:42

Had a recent few girls asking to use snapchat over anything else in terms of communicating off the site is this a scam of some kind?

Also found 2 girls willing to ppm.

Debbie asking 3 willing to meet up for a drink beforehand but she's too far for me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f12ba...a-1c9624c2d00c

Holly was happy with 3 didn't discuss what she was willing to do but seemed desperate and open to anything.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a47a...5-7243a17534c2

**Bran001** · 10-27-20 17:09

More GPS. Wanted 750 PPM. I tried 500 just to see if she'd bite, but nope. And can't host. NEXT!!

https://www.seeking.com/member/2b622...8-7b39f0bab426

**TheList00** · 10-26-20 16:30

Originally Posted by JustFunHere [View Original Post]

Anyone meet up with this cutie? She can't host but said she was willing to go straight to the hotel room: https://www.seeking.com/member/a5e10...e-2d4bfe3329da.

Also update on Erica523. Set up an appointment to meet outside a hotel and go for a walk to see if we click. Never showed up. Link again: https://www.seeking.com/member/755d7...0-ca3cada4e06e.

I met with her like 2 years ago. 50 dollar blowjob in my car. Looks better in her pics than in person but she's legit.

**Muskey** · 10-26-20 11:46

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Not necessarily a scam. At least in Massachusetts, they may show the location that way because they're far from Boston and hoping to draw from a wider reach. I replied to a few Massachusetts, Massachusetts. Seemed to be legitimate (as far as the communication went) but located west of Boston past Worcester or south near the RI border and they were trying to draw guys from a wider area. If you have an interest in the girl, it's at least worth an initial message to ask where they're located. Tell them where you are located and don't want to waste their time if the geography isn't practical.

I don't disagree. However, most of the accounts I've seen are fairly new and aren't active for long.

This setting is all over the county—Texas, Texas—Florida, Florida—etc.

To me it is too common. When an 18 or 19 year old has it, I'm not sure they are aware of using the State, State setting to scope a larger area. But, then again, I'm ignorant when it comes to scams on here. 😂 I've had my share.

**Longjblues** · 10-26-20 11:35

Noticed this one recently in the Haverhill area. Description seems nice, indicated massg therapist. Anyone recognize moniker or description?

Here is link, general info and pic. She has name tyler tattooed to chest area. Thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/member/be835...0-dabd7ebfe4d3

29 • Female • Haverhill, Massachusetts, United States.

Meet my needs and I'll be happy to meet yours.

About Me: I'm a massage therapist. I need $ and you need attention (I can make you feel real real good &#128521 so let's make this happen.

Seeking: (Flexible schedule & FWB, etc) A mutually beneficial exchange 👄 💵 with someone I have chemistry / connect with and some fun.

**Joe1223** · 10-26-20 10:10

Originally Posted by JustFunHere [View Original Post]

Anyone meet up with this cutie? She can't host but said she was willing to go straight to the hotel room: https://www.seeking.com/member/a5e10...e-2d4bfe3329da.

Also update on Erica523. Set up an appointment to meet outside a hotel and go for a walk to see if we click. Never showed up. Link again: https://www.seeking.com/member/755d7...0-ca3cada4e06e.

No shows are fairly common especially with the Covid. SA isn't the worse thing but it takes work and patience to land the good ones. Never book the room until after the M&G otherwise you may end up with an evening staring at the wall. If the m&g goes well there is still a chance they won't show up to your room.

Sometimes these girls don't know how to say they are not interested and will just agree to meetings to avoid conflict and never show up. I wait until they reach out to me after making it clear of my intentions and interest. If they hmu then the odds usually work in my favor for an actual hookup.

**HounDog3** · 10-26-20 10:09

Originally Posted by Muskey [View Original Post]

I contacted support at SA regarding the State, State location instead of City, State. The person I spoke with said there wasn't an issue and provided a bunch of troubleshooting tips that told me he didn't know or he did but wouldn't offer any info. I'm betting on the latter. I agree it's a scammer.

Not necessarily a scam. At least in Massachusetts, they may show the location that way because they're far from Boston and hoping to draw from a wider reach. I replied to a few Massachusetts, Massachusetts. Seemed to be legitimate (as far as the communication went) but located west of Boston past Worcester or south near the RI border and they were trying to draw guys from a wider area. If you have an interest in the girl, it's at least worth an initial message to ask where they're located. Tell them where you are located and don't want to waste their time if the geography isn't practical.