Rants and Raves

**Assman To You** · 10-25-20 10:04

Originally Posted by HeadLuvr [View Original Post]

I'm glad someone else said it. I don't think people realize that this board is supposed to supplement your mongering. Too many on here try to monger through this board. I mean, give me a break. Some guy post a review and next thing you know, clowns act like they are fucking helpless without directions. I understand wanting a brief description, but these dudes want a phone number, pictures, time of day they can be found (like that shit is consistent for any SW, they walk when they need to get high, duuuuh), exact GPS coordinates of where you scooped, mother's maiden name, SSN. Shit is ridiculous.

I have to ask. What exactly is it that some want? For others to do all legwork so all you have to do is drive in town, scoop and bounce? Put in work and master the loops like others who have the knowledge and feel for these loops. Use info on this board to supplement your personal activities and stop acting like you need someone to hold your hand and walk you through picking up a dope fiend and getting your dick sucked. Geesh.

Except I did post a bunch of pics of girls recently. He's the one to pop off without "putting in the work" and looking at what I did post. I have put in many tanks of gas at WW loop and not seen these unicorns being discussed so yeah if anyone has pics I'm asking.

**Happy One** · 10-25-20 09:22

Originally Posted by Dagame [View Original Post]

Are you guys looking for a cute young college looking girl with the long hair to clean their house naked exotically wake me up in my DM hit me on my DM she's very cute but looking for work with she doesn't have to be a street walker she doesn't do that. So if you're like me and like young pretty girls walking around naked this is for you.

A question most would want to know, how much is she asking for these cleaning service, Thanks.

Be Safe.

**HeadLuvr** · 10-23-20 08:52

Originally Posted by Ezerbef [View Original Post]

You want others to post pics of these girls yet some might appreciate if you would do the same for Tink or Tessa. Just saying don't ask for favors that you're not supplying as well. Sorry if I come across mean-spirited just I see it on so many boards where people want something done for them but don't offer the same up.

I'm glad someone else said it. I don't think people realize that this board is supposed to supplement your mongering. Too many on here try to monger through this board. I mean, give me a break. Some guy post a review and next thing you know, clowns act like they are fucking helpless without directions. I understand wanting a brief description, but these dudes want a phone number, pictures, time of day they can be found (like that shit is consistent for any SW, they walk when they need to get high, duuuuh), exact GPS coordinates of where you scooped, mother's maiden name, SSN. Shit is ridiculous.

I have to ask. What exactly is it that some want? For others to do all legwork so all you have to do is drive in town, scoop and bounce? Put in work and master the loops like others who have the knowledge and feel for these loops. Use info on this board to supplement your personal activities and stop acting like you need someone to hold your hand and walk you through picking up a dope fiend and getting your dick sucked. Geesh.

**Ezerbef** · 10-22-20 20:06

Originally Posted by AssmanToYou [View Original Post]

I wish someone would post pics of L, Kim and Rachel.

I drive around WW loop and circle and never see these gems you guys talk about. Met Red for a hot second the other day but decided not to partake. Tink was a zombie and hands are blown up. Took Tessa for a ride and she doesn't disappoint but YMMV.

You want others to post pics of these girls yet some might appreciate if you would do the same for Tink or Tessa. Just saying don't ask for favors that you're not supplying as well. Sorry if I come across mean-spirited just I see it on so many boards where people want something done for them but don't offer the same up.

**Assman To You** · 10-22-20 14:51

I wish someone would post pics of L, Kim and Rachel.

I drive around WW loop and circle and never see these gems you guys talk about. Met Red for a hot second the other day but decided not to partake. Tink was a zombie and hands are blown up. Took Tessa for a ride and she doesn't disappoint but YMMV.

**SyntorX** · 08-27-20 17:58

Originally Posted by Dagame [View Original Post]

Are you guys looking for a cute young college looking girl with the long hair to clean their house naked exotically wake me up in my DM hit me on my DM she's very cute but looking for work with she doesn't have to be a street walker she doesn't do that. So if you're like me and like young pretty girls walking around naked this is for you.

I wonder if my wife would do a trade? I will pay someone to clean the house for her, if I get to watch a cute young lady do it in the nude.

**FairFight** · 08-27-20 13:53

People don't dwell too long on their problems and usually fix them in a matter of months or a year. Since it's a personal issue it's a figure it out on your own type of situation but I can't imagine how anyone could be more of a loser than someone that has their first relationship in their 30's or even 40's.

I spend most of that energy lifting weights. I'm 5'7 155 lbs and I bench 200. I will be 180 lbs benching 300 in 1. 5- 2 years.

**FairFight** · 08-27-20 03:41

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Sound like you are just tried of playing the dating game.

And it's funny because it doesn't feel like I ever started. I needed to be muscular, have a good job, fake extroversion and talk to random girls anywhere. And didn't spend a single weekend in 2019 on the couch with a girl watching movies. Very depressing.

**Dagame** · 08-26-20 11:18

Are you guys looking for a cute young college looking girl with the long hair to clean their house naked exotically wake me up in my DM hit me on my DM she's very cute but looking for work with she doesn't have to be a street walker she doesn't do that. So if you're like me and like young pretty girls walking around naked this is for you.

**FairFight** · 08-24-20 17:30

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

I was a virgin till I was 23, mainly because I was shy. Biggest problem most guys isn't their looks or lack of money. Unless they are on the extreme negative on looks. They are shy, and not use to talking to girls. Try online dating sites, it will help you learn what mistakes your making, also there is a lot less fear of rejection. Remember any girl on a online dating site is looking to be asked out.

I've probably asked out 1000 girls face to face trying many different things. Speed dating, clubs, meetups. I get the vibe that most girls aren't trying to date because they already have multiple guys or have been asked out a lot. Shit even these girls that are jobless, addicted to crack and never graduated school get asked out pretty regularly. Online dating has never worked for me which is fine, a lot of girls on there aren't exactly who'd want to date.

I feel like the only thing there is to do is to make money but it doesn't feel that rewarding. I also never spend money on myself.

**Shade Snake** · 08-24-20 12:23

Originally Posted by BusterHymen55 [View Original Post]

I feel like I'm watching some bad episode of a Dr. Phil session!

Come on man, I appreciate the community here coming together for this guy.

FairFight, modern day dating is extremely hard. I'm about the same age as you so I can relate to what you're saying. Try not to compare yourself to all of your coworkers. They may be married or have girlfriends, but does that mean they're truly happy? There may be trouble at home and unlike us, they have the complete freedom to do whatever we want whenever we want.

Also I would avoid dating apps and online dating to an extent. There are so many entitled bitches on there who are just on them for attention, Instagram followers, or to be amused by you as oppose to seriously dating or just hooking up.

Oh and the whole cute girl that works out and play video games. Dated a girl that just did that, but I swear a lot of the gaming girls tend to have mental issues. In my case, the girl I was dating had manic depression and it was terrible. You can definitely see the highs and lows. However, it does make me want to seek something more real (maybe you too), but it's fun being in her company so much that sex wasn't at the forefront because she had a lot to offer. No to mention sex will be awesome because you can go bare and not be afraid of catching anything.

**BusterHymen55** · 08-24-20 11:03

I feel like I'm watching some bad episode of a Dr. Phil session!

**Shinshi** · 08-24-20 10:03

Originally Posted by FairFight [View Original Post]

It does seem like the whole being a loner thing isn't really common. I'm the only guy on my team of 16 staff that doesn't have a girlfriend or is unmarried. The weird thing is everyone's claimed a girls had interest in them but not me. A girl has never tried talking to me and usually when I make conversations with them. They have boyfriends or aren't interested beyond a conversation. Doesn't everyone get a shot at love? Wouldn't create some happiness knowing you have control over that? What about the lack of intimacy. I've met girls that have never gone more 2 weeks without sex and bits embarrassing to know I went from 18- 25 without sex.

It's not unheard of--nor is it a thing to be embarrassed about--to be the lone single guy in any work environment. I can't stress this enough, man: don't worry about things outside your control. If you're typically quiet & introverted, be quiet & introverted. If you're alpha & outgoing, be alpha & outgoing. If you're shy, be shy. The only thing I suppose you could / might want to change on account of a woman is if said change will improve your overall quality of life: working out more, eating healthier, learning a new skill, enjoying a new hobby, etc.

I firmly believe in the time-old adage that "there's someone out there for everyone. " Corny, I know. It often requires patience, putting yourself out there, dealing with rejection (a lot of it), and thinking for yourself. As I mentioned in an earlier post, you're going to live a miserable existence if you're constantly worrying about another woman's well-being & always sacrificing your comfort for her's. And no, that's not being selfish--that's healthy, keeping yourself sane!

If you find yourself in the beginnings of a real relationship (outside this hobby), don't focus on the lack of intimacy at first. That sort of thing usually takes time. Accept that that'll come naturally or when both parties are ready. Though I'd say it's time to jump ship if you feel for a second that you're getting financially played or if there's nothing to be had after 6 months. And during the times you're not in a relationship and feeling the itch, see the occasional provider. In your instance, I'd recommend a professional over a SB (because the latter is an amateur and does require some partial chasing / work). However if you do wish to go the SB route, I recommend reading up on the Richmond forums. There's some fantastic info and stories to be had over there!

Temper your expectations, be realistic, have "fun" within the confines of your budget, and focus on what makes you happiest while being yourself. I get that training your mindset to be like this won't happen overnight. My point is that you'll never be satisfied--nor content in life--until you change your outlook. There's no reason to be celibate if you've got the itch and the funds. And there's no reason to hit the panic button just because you're the only single guy in his 30's within 100 miles of somewhere.

**FairFight** · 08-24-20 00:58

It does seem like the whole being a loner thing isn't really common. I'm the only guy on my team of 16 staff that doesn't have a girlfriend or is unmarried. The weird thing is everyone's claimed a girls had interest in them but not me. A girl has never tried talking to me and usually when I make conversations with them. They have boyfriends or aren't interested beyond a conversation. Doesn't everyone get a shot at love? Wouldn't create some happiness knowing you have control over that? What about the lack of intimacy. I've met girls that have never gone more 2 weeks without sex and bits embarrassing to know I went from 18- 25 without sex.

**Barraquda22** · 08-22-20 23:40

Originally Posted by FairFight [View Original Post]

To see other dudes type that they aren't hot or successful and still get girls.

All I wanted in life was a cute girl that loves to work out and play video games. Yet another year will go by with only rejections and it just makes me want to avoid everyone and sit in my apartment day after day knowing I tried my best and even invested financially into therapy, dating coaching, even sugar baby.

My wife works, works out, and plays candy crush haha. But seriously, please stop pissing money on therapy and the scammers that are "dating coaches". And also you don't want someone that sits around all day spending your money. That just sews the seeds of resentment and youll want to slap her the first time she says no to any request made no matter how trivial.

BQ22.