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  1. #39359

    The Cultural Difference Is the Hardest Part

    Quote Originally Posted by AmpVader  [View Original Post]
    I presume a strong mind not to be taken for a ride and making sure you are happy with the benefits you extract.

    If you want to make one of these girls your wife then you would need to be very Open Minded, they see this job as work and usually 6 days a week 12 hrs, easiest to make the most money compared to working a $3 k restaurant or market job.

    One girl told me once, having her boobs touched does not cost her anything, she does not loose anything so why not. It is the tools in her toolbox. The culture is different and that is why their husbands don't care. Just how much money did you bring home, how much can you send to the family back in China etc.

    Now of course there are variance for those that tolerate some light touching to all the way BBFS.

    You will be amazed how they save mongers numbers, . Everyone have a nickname. Could be the car you drive, a physical appearance thing, race, attitude, tip and a combination of all above so when you call or text they know who of the 100's of mongers you are.
    Avoiding the gold diggers should be easy for a monger. If a provider is getting you to shell out for gifts, then you are already lost. Do not take the romance route of spending a lot of money on someone you barely know.

    If you have real chemistry with a provider and want to pursue romance, you can take it slow and keep it on your terms to keep yourself safe. You should be vigilant as you would with any other woman if you are looking for love. And remember, they will be naturally cautious about YOU. The good ones have heard and seen a lot of things already that would probably blow your mind or drive you crazy. And since they work so much, you're not going to suddenly get sex every day of the week during the honeymoon period of your dating.

    Next you will have to confront the idea that they are touching dicks all day long as part of their job. You will eventually tire of knowing that every day, guys are hitting your girl up openly for sex. You will tire of knowing that she is faking or flirting her way through sexy moves nearly every day. You will be worried someone will treat her poorly and not tip her because she won't blow her client or let her client finger blast her. You will worry that she gets turned on sometimes when she's rubbing down a hot guy, no matter what she tells you. You will be occasionally or often jealous, especially if she comes home tired after milking 5-7 cocks in one day and just doesn't have the energy to crank YOUR cock. And when that happens, you will become resentful that her job is to perform sex acts on everyone else, and it takes away from your own sex life.

    But honestly the harder part is the cultural gap if you are dating or married to someone who moved here as a young adult or later. Many providers have a very strong survivor mentality that comes with being an immigrant. They, like you, grew up in a culture that defines their worldview and it is not easy for them (or you) to change. The language barrier, unless she is truly fluent, will always be an issue. The subtleties in talking are almost always compromised until you've spent many many hours together and know each other. This seems trivial until you are trying to make gains as a couple, and you realise that communication breakdowns require constant vigilance. And when the breakdowns happen it is easy to be resentful of their career choice and cultural attachments that conflict with yours.

    My default position is to treat providers very well, to be friendly and sweet and play the game so that I can feel great about my experience. And developing friendly relationships can be very rewarding when they happen. But it also can lead to damaging emotional attachment that most guys are not prepared for.

  2. #39358

    Had a massage woman mid thirties, tell me once

    Quote Originally Posted by AmpVader  [View Original Post]
    I presume a strong mind not to be taken for a ride and making sure you are happy with the benefits you extract.

    If you want to make one of these girls your wife then you would need to be very Open Minded, they see this job as work and usually 6 days a week 12 hrs, easiest to make the most money compared to working a $3 k restaurant or market job.

    One girl told me once, having her boobs touched does not cost her anything, she does not loose anything so why not. It is the tools in her toolbox. The culture is different and that is why their husbands don't care. Just how much money did you bring home, how much can you send to the family back in China etc.

    Now of course there are variance for those that tolerate some light touching to all the way BBFS.

    You will be amazed how they save mongers numbers, . Everyone have a nickname. Could be the car you drive, a physical appearance thing, race, attitude, tip and a combination of all above so when you call or text they know who of the 100's of mongers you are.
    "you think these young, pretty Chinese girls are so nice, they are sometimes real witches. ".

  3. #39357

    Strong mind

    Quote Originally Posted by Mike454  [View Original Post]
    Not as hard if u have a strong mind, and a good pair of mountain climbing shoes. LOL.

    If not they are as you said very good at extracting max value for themselves.(it has to be mutually beneficial)

    That said, you dont have to be a rocket scientist to see it, although most think with the wrong head.
    I presume a strong mind not to be taken for a ride and making sure you are happy with the benefits you extract.

    If you want to make one of these girls your wife then you would need to be very Open Minded, they see this job as work and usually 6 days a week 12 hrs, easiest to make the most money compared to working a $3 k restaurant or market job.

    One girl told me once, having her boobs touched does not cost her anything, she does not loose anything so why not. It is the tools in her toolbox. The culture is different and that is why their husbands don't care. Just how much money did you bring home, how much can you send to the family back in China etc.

    Now of course there are variance for those that tolerate some light touching to all the way BBFS.

    You will be amazed how they save mongers numbers, . Everyone have a nickname. Could be the car you drive, a physical appearance thing, race, attitude, tip and a combination of all above so when you call or text they know who of the 100's of mongers you are.

  4. #39356

    Chasing Unicorns

    I know this topic has been brought up before but I've been searching for the old Yan elite. A couple of them popped at other stores but I haven't heard anything about my fav Julie. Any new intel on whereabouts? Pm's welcome and thanks.

  5. #39355

    Cobb County is it!

    Quote Originally Posted by ShyGuy1011  [View Original Post]
    Anywhere in the northwest GA area. Marietta, Smyrna, Kennesaw, or within 20 minutes or so. Thanks again!
    You will have plenty of choices there. PM'ed you the best.

  6. #39354

    Recent visit to T plus

    Quote Originally Posted by Red1992  [View Original Post]
    Saw Sarah, from what I can tell. Late 30's to early 40's?

    Doesn't talk much but her English is good.

    Looks 6/10.

    Massage 7/10.

    Performance 6. 5/10.

    Overall, decent experience but probably will not repeat. There was another girl working (Coco) but I didn't get a look at her.

    Per Sarah, she has been there for 2 months and does not know when she will be going on vacation and as for Coco she has only been there for 3 weeks.

    8 1 hr house and 1. 4 cfs.
    Sounds like Sarah isn't worth 1,4 for cfs. Perhaps a fellow monger could give us good intel on Coco. As I will be there this Fri. Or sat Thanks for anything;.

  7. #39353

    Is No. 1 or Mei Mei any better?

    Quote Originally Posted by MassageAwesome  [View Original Post]
    A1 is hit or miss with older women. Li Massage you'll leave happy but you may have to spend 100 to see and feel some bare titties. I hear Holiday women also may have GPS. If you got some $$ and like younger girls then hit the last 2.
    How about No. 1? Remember some good posts from a few months back. Mei Mei is around there as well but next to a very busy Japanese Restaurant (may not be discrete enough). Don't remember seeing any report on that one.

  8. #39352

    Anna at PTC 74

    I have been getting massages from Anna for 4 years now. She is a very nice lady. What you can expect from her is the best massage in Atlanta, a beautiful smile, and friendly conversation. She gives a first class massage with no extras. I see her because she is a great masseuse.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tj1987  [View Original Post]
    I went the PCT 74 the girl is look like 30-40, She's took off everything vary tasty kitty, hair plenty. She gave me CFS, so let me get the point. And then I puted my D in her mouth. 60 min lots of fun.

  9. #39351
    Quote Originally Posted by OopaRam  [View Original Post]
    Guys, will be in Windy Hill area soon and can't decide between these three CAMPs. Provider Recommendation Please!
    A1 is hit or miss with older women. Li Massage you'll leave happy but you may have to spend 100 to see and feel some bare titties. I hear Holiday women also may have GPS. If you got some $$ and like younger girls then hit the last 2.

  10. #39350

    Area

    Anywhere in the northwest GA area. Marietta, Smyrna, Kennesaw, or within 20 minutes or so. Thanks again!

  11. #39349

    Ok Then

    Quote Originally Posted by SarcasticKing  [View Original Post]
    This. 100% agree with night on this. I used to frequent top v as well but it's gotten so bad with time being shorted and one hand phone massage, I quit going. Girls used to be cuter too but at least they are still under 50.
    Perhaps I'll reconsider a repeat visit then. Maybe I got good service being the first time there. But, not seeing a whole lot of good options in the Norcross / Doraville area lately. Nonetheless, thanks for the advice.

  12. #39348

    What part of town

    Quote Originally Posted by ShyGuy1011  [View Original Post]
    Hello fellow mongers. I'm from the upstate SC area, Greenville, so usually looking there. But will be in the Atlanta area mid week next week to check on a rental property. I'm looking for suggestions for a good place with at least a younger cute girl for a massage with a HE. Also if anyone knows where I might be able to get one for after work hours asvibwill be staying in a local hotel overnight. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
    If you narrow it down a little to a specific area, someone here will point you in the right direction.

  13. #39347

    True

    Quote Originally Posted by AmpVader  [View Original Post]
    Finding a wife in this business is almost impossible and a mountain to climb that is not for everyone.

    These girls are masters at extracting value out of you to suite them, from $, to gifts, to vacations, to green cards.

    Especially those of us that are dreamers, lonely and gullible for their sweet words and attention.

    I have been in 2 relationships and seen both sides, very familiar with the inner workings, the girls and how they exploit some guys.

    Here is one: Ask a guy that is truly in love with her to go shopping and buy la prairie makeup $3000 (they like the expensive stuff) just to sell it to one of the other girls at 1/2 the cost. Plane tickets, boob jobs.

    Not as hard if u have a strong mind, and a good pair of mountain climbing shoes. LOL.

    If not they are as you said very good at extracting max value for themselves.(it has to be mutually beneficial)

    That said, you dont have to be a rocket scientist to see it, although most think with the wrong head.

  14. #39346
    Quote Originally Posted by Niteluvr  [View Original Post]
    Getting one fresh off the boat, who hasn't been jacking dicks and who has a good attitude is a rarity. Most are the opposite.
    I Agree with this. I wouldn't go looking for a wife at these places.

  15. #39345
    Senior Member


    Posts: 174

    100%

    Quote Originally Posted by AmpVader  [View Original Post]
    Finding a wife in this business is almost impossible and a mountain to climb that is not for everyone.

    These girls are masters at extracting value out of you to suite them, from $, to gifts, to vacations, to green cards.

    Especially those of us that are dreamers, lonely and gullible for their sweet words and attention.

    I have been in 2 relationships and seen both sides, very familiar with the inner workings, the girls and how they exploit some guys.

    Here is one: Ask a guy that is truly in love with her to go shopping and buy la prairie makeup $3000 (they like the expensive stuff) just to sell it to one of the other girls at 1/2 the cost. Plane tickets, boob jobs.
    Same story here, doesn't matter what you do. Had 2 different ones at different times staying with me during shutdown. There are always 10 other guys more lonely with bigger pockets. After 6 figures I know its all about money. Some still believe in unicorns, but I never met one.

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