"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Bobt45]

You linked to your messages instead of her profile page.

Yep I sure did and I've already blocked her. Sorry. You can still search her by name though. Scarlettonthebeach Is her nickname

[NewAnonymousName]

Ran across this one today. Immediately wanted to go to text, first red flag. Sent eight self pics without me asking, second red flag. Says she wants her bank account and her pussy filled. Not really what I've had a lady say in the past, but ok. Seems like a scam and I swear I've seen her pic in the past. Any intel would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...c-a5848283d425

You linked to your messages instead of her profile page.

[Bobt45]

Ran across this one today. Immediately wanted to go to text, first red flag. Sent eight self pics without me asking, second red flag. Says she wants her bank account and her pussy filled. Not really what I've had a lady say in the past, but ok. Seems like a scam and I swear I've seen her pic in the past. Any intel would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...c-a5848283d425

[Hotrod82]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e7a44...4-65344fb8c539

Asked for 1 k ppm, then discuss an allowance when we are more comfortable with each other. Politely told her, that I was not the right guy for her. 1 k. Bahahaha, WTF.

[LoveMeLong]

Considering lunch with this one. Anyone met her recently? I want to make sure its on the up and up. She seems nice.

https://www.seeking.com/member/91eb1...b-25ec667d6690

[BraveJohn]

It is listed under "Type of Place" not under "Other Filters" where you might expect.

Airing been here, thanks.

[Leep12]

I agree about the hosting, in my experience that is more of a deal breaker than being married. In my case I've thought about using open relationship rather than married since in my case the wife had an affair 12 years ago but I stayed for the kids but it's been separate bedrooms since then with more of a don't ask, don't tell situation when it comes to meeting intimacy needs. I'm not concerned with her finding out for obvious reasons, more just a drama reduction device. I have considered just getting a nearby apartment to kill two birds with one stone, solve any hosting issues and with the kids at 16/17 divorce without child support is on the horizon anyway. I guess that raises the possibility of just listing separated as a status too.

I got luck and paying about 330 mo for a shared office suite. Other company is never there after 5;00 or weekends.

But obviously new get an apartment for any of these girls. I was smashing a girl who's other SD was leasing the apt I found out later. He suspected something and installed a camera LOL.

[Jims2321]

It is listed under "Type of Place" not under "Other Filters" where you might expect.

Thanks for the direction on the filter.

[ByzantineLoop]

How do you add that filter to the search? I don't see a place on result set page to add it.

It is listed under "Type of Place" not under "Other Filters" where you might expect.

[Jims2321]

Agreed. Airbnb's (search with "Entire Place" option) instead of hotels helps with this, especially for the overnights.

How do you add that filter to the search? I don't see a place on result set page to add it.

[ByzantineLoop]

You are so right about the hosting. The hotel thing can work if you are meeting about once month with a girl. But the hotel thing just seems unnatural if your trying to do it with the same girl every week. The girls start feeling like hoes and the vibe just doesn't strengthen it seem.

I'm married so can't host at home, but I do have a private office space w / fold out Futon. Number of girls have really liked just coming there to smash rather than hotel.

Just so much more natural is she can host and things seem to escalate.

I agree about the hosting, in my experience that is more of a deal breaker than being married. In my case I've thought about using open relationship rather than married since in my case the wife had an affair 12 years ago but I stayed for the kids but it's been separate bedrooms since then with more of a don't ask, don't tell situation when it comes to meeting intimacy needs. I'm not concerned with her finding out for obvious reasons, more just a drama reduction device. I have considered just getting a nearby apartment to kill two birds with one stone, solve any hosting issues and with the kids at 16/17 divorce without child support is on the horizon anyway. I guess that raises the possibility of just listing separated as a status too.

[GABob706]

You are so right about the hosting. The hotel thing can work if you are meeting about once month with a girl. But the hotel thing just seems unnatural if your trying to do it with the same girl every week. The girls start feeling like hoes and the vibe just doesn't strengthen it seem.

I'm married so can't host at home, but I do have a private office space w / fold out Futon. Number of girls have really liked just coming there to smash rather than hotel.

Just so much more natural is she can host and things seem to escalate.

Agreed. Airbnb's (search with "Entire Place" option) instead of hotels helps with this, especially for the overnights.

[Leep12]

I have often wondered what I should put in my profile about being married or not. I have always included that. It probably makes it more work to get a reply from an initial message but the reality is I have always had good success on SA. This week alone I have met up four times in four nights while on business. One is a unicorn (I met two different nights) and the other two were new and are keepers I'm thinking. I may share with the group here one of the new ones I just want another meet or two with her is all. Bottom line SA has been very good for me, even with "married" in my profile.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

I'm married, but I list as "open Relationship" . Kind of true, at least open on my end LOL. I use my own pictures and sometimes keep then public for a bit. Just doesn't seem smart to list as married and be open to blackmail / whatever.

I do usually break the news to them in either chat before meet or when we meet f2 f. Married did hurt me a couple times maybe. Hard to say where it has helped, but I'm sure it does in some cases. Most SA girls are cool with it.

I'm really surprised by the number of single guys on SA.

[Leep12]

I think one of the reasons I have a lot of success is because I am single & can host. Hotels are great but meeting someone only at a hotel room puts a damper on a longer term relationship.

You are so right about the hosting. The hotel thing can work if you are meeting about once month with a girl. But the hotel thing just seems unnatural if your trying to do it with the same girl every week. The girls start feeling like hoes and the vibe just doesn't strengthen it seem.

I'm married so can't host at home, but I do have a private office space w / fold out Futon. Number of girls have really liked just coming there to smash rather than hotel.

Just so much more natural is she can host and things seem to escalate.

[Shizzy6969]

I am with SD here. I am married and in both cases, my unicorns are all girls that understand the situation and end up being amazing. Some enjoy the thrill, and others like the confidence and reliability (if they are in similar situation or open relationship). Regardless, I am made it a point to disclose that, if its not her things. Then that's fine, but no point hiding it.

I have often wondered what I should put in my profile about being married or not. I have always included that. It probably makes it more work to get a reply from an initial message but the reality is I have always had good success on SA. This week alone I have met up four times in four nights while on business. One is a unicorn (I met two different nights) and the other two were new and are keepers I'm thinking. I may share with the group here one of the new ones I just want another meet or two with her is all. Bottom line SA has been very good for me, even with "married" in my profile.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.