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10-18-20 11:25 #7256Regular Member

Posts: 10I agree about the hosting, in my experience that is more of a deal breaker than being married. In my case I've thought about using open relationship rather than married since in my case the wife had an affair 12 years ago but I stayed for the kids but it's been separate bedrooms since then with more of a don't ask, don't tell situation when it comes to meeting intimacy needs. I'm not concerned with her finding out for obvious reasons, more just a drama reduction device. I have considered just getting a nearby apartment to kill two birds with one stone, solve any hosting issues and with the kids at 16/17 divorce without child support is on the horizon anyway. I guess that raises the possibility of just listing separated as a status too.
Originally Posted by Leep12
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10-18-20 07:05 #7255Regular Member

Posts: 22Agreed. Airbnb's (search with "Entire Place" option) instead of hotels helps with this, especially for the overnights.
Originally Posted by Leep12
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10-18-20 00:34 #7254Senior Member

Posts: 245Married thing
I'm married, but I list as "open Relationship" . Kind of true, at least open on my end LOL. I use my own pictures and sometimes keep then public for a bit. Just doesn't seem smart to list as married and be open to blackmail / whatever.
Originally Posted by SugarDaddio
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I do usually break the news to them in either chat before meet or when we meet f2 f. Married did hurt me a couple times maybe. Hard to say where it has helped, but I'm sure it does in some cases. Most SA girls are cool with it.
I'm really surprised by the number of single guys on SA.
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10-18-20 00:00 #7253Senior Member

Posts: 245Hosting
You are so right about the hosting. The hotel thing can work if you are meeting about once month with a girl. But the hotel thing just seems unnatural if your trying to do it with the same girl every week. The girls start feeling like hoes and the vibe just doesn't strengthen it seem.
Originally Posted by SeekingHead
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I'm married so can't host at home, but I do have a private office space w / fold out Futon. Number of girls have really liked just coming there to smash rather than hotel.
Just so much more natural is she can host and things seem to escalate.
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10-17-20 11:00 #7252Senior Member

Posts: 95Married
I am with SD here. I am married and in both cases, my unicorns are all girls that understand the situation and end up being amazing. Some enjoy the thrill, and others like the confidence and reliability (if they are in similar situation or open relationship). Regardless, I am made it a point to disclose that, if its not her things. Then that's fine, but no point hiding it.
Originally Posted by SugarDaddio
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10-17-20 10:07 #7251Senior Member

Posts: 237Married
I agree. I have that I'm married on my profile and it really never seems to matter to them. The ones that are bothered by it normally indicate they won't talk to married men right on their profile so I don't ever message them. My last local SB initially didn't want to see me because I was married but we talked and I explained to her why in some instances it's better for them to see someone that's married and she saw the logic. We had a great run, right up until she started dating a guy she worked with and ghosted me LOL. No loss there, the sex was ok but not great LOL. Stay safe,
Originally Posted by SugarDaddio
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Bob.
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10-16-20 23:54 #7250Senior Member

Posts: 158Pumkin_1217
This one's a piece of work. Said her previous arrangement started with $1500/ month and ended at $3000. For that she sent her prior sugar daddy pictures videos and gave him a true connection and commitment and had real conversations and gave him someone to confide in. Her exact words. OK. I'll play with you on this one.
I told her that was higher than my play budget for pics, videos and conversation. She said everything was up for discussion. So I Moved her to text (the first number she gave me was bad). That's when she tells me she won't be "back" in Atlanta til December. Butthinks we should "start" our arrangement so we can get to know each better. I told her I don't have a problem with learning more about each other, but if she's looking for an allowance during that time, I don't do online. She says, you mean you won't send me MY allowance til you see me? Not even with video chat? That's right. Smh.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/638d0422
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10-16-20 23:09 #7249Senior Member

Posts: 355The whole married thing
I have often wondered what I should put in my profile about being married or not. I have always included that. It probably makes it more work to get a reply from an initial message but the reality is I have always had good success on SA. This week alone I have met up four times in four nights while on business. One is a unicorn (I met two different nights) and the other two were new and are keepers I'm thinking. I may share with the group here one of the new ones I just want another meet or two with her is all. Bottom line SA has been very good for me, even with "married" in my profile.
As always may the pussy be with you.
SD.
Originally Posted by SeekingHead
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10-16-20 22:20 #7248Senior Member

Posts: 579I think one of the reasons I have a lot of success is because I am single & can host. Hotels are great but meeting someone only at a hotel room puts a damper on a longer term relationship.
Originally Posted by SugarDaddio
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10-16-20 21:59 #7247Senior Member

Posts: 355SayYes6969
She never responded to my initial message plus a follow up. I show on my profile that I am married. My guess that some will not reply for that reason, most probably don't reply because I'm just not what they are looking for.
May the pussy be with you.
SD.
Originally Posted by Bobt45
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10-15-20 13:38 #7246Senior Member

Posts: 237BabyCece1133
Yet another scammer. You MUST adhere to her rules and FaceTime her for 5 0 0 before she will meet LOL. It's to prove you're serious LOL. Please report her and get her dumb ass kicked off Seeking! Sorry for no link but I reported her prior to copying her link. She's in Atlanta and active.
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10-12-20 16:23 #7245Senior Member

Posts: 237SayYes6969
Any intel at all on this one? I know her photos are obviously filtered but she's very willing. Anyone seen her or talk to her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/56575...3-b8b6ac6f0256
Please PM me if you have any intel, thanks.
Bob.
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10-12-20 14:45 #7244Senior Member

Posts: 515
Originally Posted by Bobt45
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Dammit, they took that option away. At one time it was possible to unblock them, I had a whole list of blocked and could go in and manipulate it accordingly.
Originally Posted by Jims2321
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10-12-20 13:22 #7243Senior Member

Posts: 355Sugarbaby1101 XO
No she can't host. I usually get rooms for work and invite friends over that way.
Originally Posted by TallGuy3000
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10-12-20 11:13 #7242Senior Member

Posts: 158Does she host?
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