Non Pro's

**BrstMan** · 10-08-20 02:27

Originally Posted by KuatoKuato [View Original Post]

It seems like lately I get a lot of ladies (assuming they're real and not fake profiles) favoriting me who are located in South America, like Venezuela or Colombia, or Philippines. Are you too? I would presume they want $$ for pictures & videos, which I'm 100% not into. It is annoying however to deep hiding them to de-clutter. Just curious if anyone else gets a lot of these too.

Yep, and this may be cruel but you can have fun with them, ask them to email you pics, or if they say they want to come to the US on a visa and marry you tell them that you will only propose once they are pregnant, they will drop after that.

I have been poking around there recently and found girls that you know are pros, ones looking to sell pics, once looking for weekly allowance that is high, and there are a few that are looking for just a few bucks and some attention.

**CoffeeTurd** · 10-07-20 18:58

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

Yes. On the surface it sounds a little far-fetched, but I watched guys do stupider shit to impress someone. I actually believe her because she wasn't doing anything to try and impress me. We had a one-time meeting and she was talking about the people she met and mentioned the pizza date. It was pretty obvious that we would never see each other again, so it wasn't like she was setting herself up to get more money from me, but she said she was getting tired of guys offering $250 to fuck her when she can get paid $500 to eat pizza.

Maybe my ex-sd was lying, but she told me her new SD tells her to up her prices because she deserves more. Sometimes when you call the bluff, they try to negotiate to save face, but this one didn't and that's fine. Just hope it doesn't happen with someone I like.

**Morgan Creamin** · 10-07-20 17:22

Originally Posted by TwoPop [View Original Post]

It is a common occurrence, some are looking for a man in the USA because the economy and life is difficult in their country, for others they are trying to scam you.

Indeed, if you've ever mongered abroad you quickly realize that you are often just an ATM to them. Some are actually looking for a long term situation but there is and always will be a financial component with them. Take Thailand, for example. You can easily find a girl to marry and bring home, I know several guys that have done it, but you will always have to support her family and send them money. It's like a never-ending pussy tax.

In Latin America they are usually just looking for a path to US residency / citizenship, same with Eastern European women. Last time I was in LatAm I pre-arranged a meeting with a hot ass girl with the biggest tits I've ever had my hands on and I knew what she was up to. I just played the game like we were dating and having fun and so on. When it was getting near the end of my time there she started on the whole "maybe I can come visit you, you can buy me a place ticket" etc and so forth. I try not to lie to them so I kept things vague. Of course, there was no ticket purchased but she was well compensated for her time and activities while I was in-country.

It's not so much a scam as it is an opportunity for some, though you absolutely will find those that will play you and even play the long con. As a dude, you just have to know the rules and understand what you are and are not getting. Find a hot Russian girl and bring her to US to marry her? Fine, but you damned well better sign a pre-nup or you run the risk of getting served divorce papers the day after she takes her naturalization oath. She never loved you, she just wanted that US passport and whored herself out for three to five years to get it. So sign that pre-nup, get some really good id-theft protection, and fuck the shit our of her for a few years- everybody wins.

**Michael1967** · 10-07-20 15:21

Originally Posted by TheNovelist [View Original Post]

Unless you're Bobby Axelrod or a multi-millionaire, that amount of a donation just for pizza. Yeah, not believing that for a second. I believe she told you that, but I don't believe her.

Yes. On the surface it sounds a little far-fetched, but I watched guys do stupider shit to impress someone. I actually believe her because she wasn't doing anything to try and impress me. We had a one-time meeting and she was talking about the people she met and mentioned the pizza date. It was pretty obvious that we would never see each other again, so it wasn't like she was setting herself up to get more money from me, but she said she was getting tired of guys offering $250 to fuck her when she can get paid $500 to eat pizza.

**Twister100** · 10-07-20 13:39

Originally Posted by Diver6390 [View Original Post]

I was bored and scanning the channels, and ended up watching "90 Day Fiance" At first, I started watching because they were showing a scene with a hot looking girl, and kept watching because it was such a train wreck you can't help but watch. A consistent thought, especially about this one overweight dude with hair plugs flying to Brazil or some other South American country to meet these hot chicks, hoping to marry one. I kept thinking what a pathetic putz. Then I log on to SA to delete all the girls from Latin America and Russia that are favoriting me without ever seeing my profile, and think, what pathetic putz falls for this crap?

The same ones that believe that a provider must be in love with them because she is so nice to him and it has nothing to do with the fact that he's paying her.

**Diver6390** · 10-07-20 11:48

Originally Posted by TwoPop [View Original Post]

It is a common occurrence, some are looking for a man in the USA because the economy and life is difficult in their country, for others they are trying to scam you.

I was bored and scanning the channels, and ended up watching "90 Day Fiance" At first, I started watching because they were showing a scene with a hot looking girl, and kept watching because it was such a train wreck you can't help but watch. A consistent thought, especially about this one overweight dude with hair plugs flying to Brazil or some other South American country to meet these hot chicks, hoping to marry one. I kept thinking what a pathetic putz. Then I log on to SA to delete all the girls from Latin America and Russia that are favoriting me without ever seeing my profile, and think, what pathetic putz falls for this crap?

**Bronco62** · 10-07-20 10:03

Nice girl, we just didn't click. 250 bare cip can't host. No I won't share her number.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9d253...a-251b98ebd923

**TwoPop** · 10-06-20 22:34

Originally Posted by KuatoKuato [View Original Post]

It seems like lately I get a lot of ladies (assuming they're real and not fake profiles) favoriting me who are located in South America, like Venezuela or Colombia, or Philippines. Are you too? I would presume they want $$ for pictures & videos, which I'm 100% not into. It is annoying however to deep hiding them to de-clutter. Just curious if anyone else gets a lot of these too.

It is a common occurrence, some are looking for a man in the USA because the economy and life is difficult in their country, for others they are trying to scam you.

**TheNovelist** · 10-06-20 20:58

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

She's going to read this because she checks this site, but I was with someone a few weeks ago and she said someone paid her $500 to have pizza date. The truth is, that 99.99999% of the time no one is going to pay her $500 to go on a pizza date, but that has set the bar for her expectations

Unless you're Bobby Axelrod or a multi-millionaire, that amount of a donation just for pizza. Yeah, not believing that for a second. I believe she told you that, but I don't believe her.

**Michael1967** · 10-06-20 19:12

Originally Posted by CoffeeTurd [View Original Post]

Why do some of these sugar daddies tell their babies to charge everyone more? I've had great nights in the past with some babies and then, when I reach out again, they tell me about a daddy that told them to raise their rates, even though the baby was a mess to begin with. I've run into this a few times and it's annoying. I understand rewarding them with gifts or nice things from time to time, but come on.

I don't think it works that way. What I think happens is that they take a certain amount and then someone throws a price out there that's higher than everyone else and then that raises the bar for what they are willing to accept. They may never get that price is again, but that is now officially what they believe they are worth. It's interesting because I usually do about $300 for a PPM. Some people turn their noses up at it and some immediately jump on it because they usually don't get offered that much.

It's like the one day I drove from West Seattle to Redmond and it took 20 minutes during rush hour. So, whenever someone asks me how long it takes to get to Redmond from West Seattle, I say it takes 20 minutes, but I'm sure that was a once in lifetime thing. The SBs are doing the same thing. She's going to read this because she checks this site, but I was with someone a few weeks ago and she said someone paid her $500 to have pizza date. The truth is, that 99.99999% of the time no one is going to pay her $500 to go on a pizza date, but that has set the bar for her expectations.

**Twister100** · 10-06-20 19:01

Originally Posted by KuatoKuato [View Original Post]

It seems like lately I get a lot of ladies (assuming they're real and not fake profiles) favoriting me who are located in South America, like Venezuela or Colombia, or Philippines. Are you too? I would presume they want $$ for pictures & videos, which I'm 100% not into. It is annoying however to deep hiding them to de-clutter. Just curious if anyone else gets a lot of these too.

At one point, I assumed I must have been friended by every Venezuelan SB in the world. Yeah, it's annoying.

**CoffeeTurd** · 10-06-20 16:07

Why do some of these sugar daddies tell their babies to charge everyone more? I've had great nights in the past with some babies and then, when I reach out again, they tell me about a daddy that told them to raise their rates, even though the baby was a mess to begin with. I've run into this a few times and it's annoying. I understand rewarding them with gifts or nice things from time to time, but come on.

**Twister100** · 10-06-20 13:46

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

I did it once. I guess not the traditional way, I had a SB that wanted to make me happy bring a friend. All I can say was that it was cute. They didn't do much with each other, but one did sit on my face while the other blew me. I liked that. It was obvious they were just friends and doing it for the money and not really into it. After we finished, they then fought about the split of the money. I gave one of them an extra $200 because I felt she got screwed in the deal (and because of that, I still see her to this day. We are now good FWB and I rarely give her money).

To me, I've been in more than my share of 3 somes and it really doesn't work unless the women are into it (or they're really drunk). If they are doing it just to make you happy or for money it's going to suck. It's nowhere near as good as the porn.

When I first got on SA, you never or rarely saw duals. Now it seems more common. Call me paranoid but they just seem like scams to me. I think your situation is different since your established SB brought friend. I'd be curious to know if anyone has had any success with these ladies that are advertising as a dual.

**Maui Glory** · 10-06-20 12:48

It seems like lately I get a lot of ladies (assuming they're real and not fake profiles) favoriting me who are located in South America, like Venezuela or Colombia, or Philippines. Are you too? I would presume they want $$ for pictures & videos, which I'm 100% not into. It is annoying however to deep hiding them to de-clutter. Just curious if anyone else gets a lot of these too.

**DrtyHarry** · 10-06-20 10:56

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

I did it once. I guess not the traditional way, I had a SB that wanted to make me happy bring a friend. All I can say was that it was cute. They didn't do much with each other, but one did sit on my face while the other blew me. I liked that. It was obvious they were just friends and doing it for the money and not really into it. After we finished, they then fought about the split of the money. I gave one of them an extra $200 because I felt she got screwed in the deal (and because of that, I still see her to this day. We are now good FWB and I rarely give her money).

To me, I've been in more than my share of 3 somes and it really doesn't work unless the women are into it (or they're really drunk). If they are doing it just to make you happy or for money it's going to suck. It's nowhere near as good as the porn.

True that. Could not agree more. I have not done this too many times, but everytime I have paid for this, it has been not a stellar appointment. BTW Michael to your last line. YEah in porn they are doing it for the money too. But the motivation seems to be different. BTW one of these ladies (see pic below) used to post on SA as solo. I remember to speaking to her and I remember the deal fell through for some reason. Cannot remember her name or why it fell through though. But do remember definitely speaking to this lady.