What would you do if the escort you meet is someone you know?

[Shinshi]

I joined SA back in January of this year. Prior to this, I've had excellent sessions with DMV agencies like LF (now defunct), AG, and eventually DS. Nevertheless, I became enticed by the idea of SBs who are supposed to be true amateurs (ones who opt to stay hours longer than most pros and charge far less). Unfortunately, my first 7-8 weeks on the site was like hitting a brick wall. I had absolutely zero success in meeting up back then, and I even fell for the ol' PBM scam twice while also getting stood up a few more times to boot. It took a ton of patience, luck, and a little game. But since then, I've finally hit my stride and Seeking's been pretty decent to me ever since.

During that initial drought and after weeding through countless scams & flakes, I stumbled across the profile of a gorgeous Asian in her late-20's who had the body of a supermodel. Very thin waist, seemingly natural Cs or Ds, long straight hair that spilled well past her shoulders, and legs & abs to die for. She clearly took her physical fitness seriously. Very intelligent, flirtatious, well-travelled, loved all sorts of food, and even said she was down with FWB and "private fun. " For initial meet-and-greets, I always offer to go near their location just to be accommodating. So we arranged to meet for drinks and then find a hotel afterwards if we hit it off.

While I was exhilarated to break my Seeking cherry back then, there was a tiny suspicion that something was off. She seemed oddly familiar and had blurred out her face in her profile, both public & private pics. The latter only showed off her body in a bikini and sexy lingerie. To be fair, I never show my face in my profile either. Additionally, she never once asked for my private pics. So I figured that in the worst-case scenario, I'll still be a gentleman, pay for drinks, then wish her the best if she didn't look as advertised or was asking for some outrageous arrangement. Nevertheless in the back of my mind, I couldn't shake the feeling that she looked vaguely familiar--despite not glimpsing her face yet.

Anyway, I got stuck in some major traffic on my way to the meet. So I shot her a SnapChat message to let her know. She assured me it was no problem, described what she was wearing, and said she'd grab us seats. Cool, so I found parking and finally walked in the restaurant about 15 minutes late. The place was surprisingly packed, but I eventually glimpsed my date and froze in my tracks. The reason I thought she looked familiar was because I did in fact know her! She was my sibling's classmate during their high school years! Once she became a sophomore in college, I asked her out and got rejected. I didn't take it personally as she was pretty nice about it. Also to her credit, my life was a goddamn mess at that time and she was a straight-A student with quite a future mapped out. Fast forward a decade later, and here she was in the most stunning dress & heels and looking as jaw-dropping as when we had first met. So what did I do? I played it off like I was looking for my table or party, then walked right the fuck out.

Why, you ask? If she's indeed one of the most beautiful women I've ever laid eyes on, why not go for it? Well [U]apart from not wanting to mix it up in this hobby with folks I know, I also happened to know that she's married. Call me old-fashioned, a wuss, a pansy, whatever--but I will never, ever mess with another man's wife.That's one line I'll never cross. I honestly feel bad for anyone who's significant other cheats on them. I know that that shit would devastate me if I was in the other's position, so it'd be hypocritical if I went through with it. After making it to my car, I messaged some vague excuse about being unable to make it after all. I then blocked her on both SnapChat & Seeking. Last I heard, she & her husband are still married. Do I think she's still getting some on the side? For sure, no doubt. But I won't be a part of that, and I won't judge anyone here who takes the opposite stance. Thankfully, that's been the only instance where I nearly mixed it up with someone I knew in all my hobbying years.

[SamTam]

1. Found my daughter's best friend on SA. Didn't have the nerve to test it;.

2. Saw at a bar with a "date" someone that I had shagged at a ********* group grope a number of years ago. Did a quick wink;.

3. Knew the "civy" job of someone that I was seeing. She and I wound up at a party that her company was having. She introduced me to her bosses. We made up a story as to how we met.

[Decadentme]

Here's my story and my contribution to get this thread started.

For business reasons, I know a certain, nice, conservative, middle-aged lady.

One day, I'm with my SO, at a friend's party. I meet this tiny, waify girl, with little puffies, who triggers my spidey-senses. (They're always right, about meeting a sex worker, because I've dated so many strippers, been with so many escorts, to so many foreign brothels, and so many AMPs.) I'm sure alot of you dirty dogs also have finely honed spidey-senses.

The rest of that party and the next days, I keep thinking about how my spidey-senses were triggered and my caveman instincts are screaming at me to somehow find a way to spend some touchy-feely time with the girl that I met.

Next, I find out that she's the aforementioned middle-aged lady's daughter.

A few days later, I run into the daughter, in my very small town. (one stop sign). Spidey-senses are triggererd, conce more. Can't think about anything else, for the rest of the day, except for playing with her puffies and boning her. She then reaches out and friends me on FaceBook. We know a ton of the same people. (Again, small town). She asks if she can come to my house and teach me some yoga. I'm dying to say yes, except for the fact that my SO lives with me and is self-employed, working out of my house. This girl doesn't know about my spidey-senses and doesn't know that I am certain that she's a sex worker. What does that mean? Of course, it means that I can't have her over to teach me yoga.

Now, I'm dying to have her. She's a tiny waif, little puffies, cute, just the way that I like my girls.

Some of you might ask, then why don't I go and have some fun with the SO, to take the edge off. I'm sure that you understand what I'm about to say, wherein I could proceed to have relations with my SO, but that wouldn't do. I have to now experience the thrill of meeting up with someone sexually unknown to me, to have that fresh excitement, that titillating experience of the initial forbidden fruit.

Same day, I'm trolling through escort sites, ads, PV sites, AMP reviews, TER, them, etc. I look into BlueGems, and who do I see? My tiny waif, with little puffies! (She was Alexandra, at BlueGems.) And to see those sexy, provocative pics! Wow! Wow! Wow!

Now, I'm really dying to have her. She's within reach. I'm struggling with the cognitive dissonance. Dare I throw all caution to the wind?

Many days, many weeks, I struggled. Never making that call. The fact that we already know each other, that she triggered the carnal lust of my spidey-senses, that we know a ton of the same people, that we both live in the same small town, makes it even, more exciting to consider looking as far over the cliff as I possibly can, to see how far I can lean, without falling into the pit of destruction.

Nobody knows that I'm a monger and my straight-laced world would never tolerate it.

Next, she got married, and a few months later, dropped off the BlueGems site. (Yes, she was at BlueGems while she was engaged and married!

Much to my dismay, I still run into her and her mom, on occasion.

It kills me.

She will always be my greatest fantasy.

I know that I did the right thing, by not seeing how far I could lean over the cliff. Damn.

(FOR THE RECORD, THE ABOVE STORY IS FICTION, OF COURSE. Wink wink).

[Miketastic69]

What would you do if the escort you meet is someone you know

When I worked, one of my coworkers daughters friends ended up being the backpage date that showed up. She was over 18. I knew her from helping my coworker move. The nights ended up with dinner and talking about my coworker and daughter all night. To this day, I'm still close with that former coworker. I always wonder if she ever found out that I see escorts and her daughters friend (maybe several of her friends) are providers.

[Decadentme]

What would you do if the escort you meet is someone you know?