Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Steve 99]

Got outbid yesterday. Texted girl in morning for drinks at 5 pm. No reply till 1 pm. "that sounds great" see you there. My spidey senses were up.

I told her ok I will text at 4 to make sure you are on schedule. Texted her. Her 4:15 . "oh sorry the hospital called". Lie.

I then said "Another SA Date. Hmmmm" I give her credit. She said "yeah".

So remember these girls often will go with highest bidder and see what they have for day. Rude though they don't care about your time. Also some will schedule 3-4 a day just like and escort. They arent angels believe me.

[Swm11]

This past month was by far the worst of any month I have been on that site. I have encountered more scams and fakes in the last 30 days then in the last year together.
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The second woman I met turn out to be a sweet sexy MILF and we clicked so well but it was free. My only expense was the hotel room.

Poo.

Completely agree, Poo; many more scammers on the site.

Love the free ones, I had two this year.

One actually took me to dinner a few times and I never gave her anything. Unfortunately, she lived an hour away on the Eastern Shoreline.

She has a boyfriend now.

The other I stopped seeing when her name popped up here a few times. Just can't risk being with her; free or not; because of Covid.

[SlsCT203]

SA has been a wasteland lately, hopefully once school starts it will get better. Seems like the few legitimate ones on there have been around for years and should be considered pros and based on these threads the majority of us on here have fucked.

[JustLooking30]

Objects in mirror may be larger than they appear.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7a2b5...2-b7f0270e3f74

Did you meet. In person and you saw her size?

[MyHobby]

Objects in mirror may be larger than they appear.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7a2b5...2-b7f0270e3f74

[BBFreak]

Based near Stamford, this lovely lady just needs to have her meet and greet covered. You know, to know you're serious about her.

Pass.

https://www.seeking.com/member/16c72...7-7938c536bab6

You should have played along and had her meet you there. The way I figure, if these girls are going to waste our time with this crap, we may as well have a little fun with it. If a girl asks you to send her some money via cashapp before meeting up, play along and act like you're having technical difficulties sending the money. Then tell her you can send it via Western Union but you need to know her real name. If she gives it to you great. Make up some fake Western Union receipt and have her go to some location only to find out the transaction is fake.

[JustLooking30]

Based near Stamford, this lovely lady just needs to have her meet and greet covered. You know, to know you're serious about her.

Pass.

https://www.seeking.com/member/16c72...7-7938c536bab6

[Ilsw203]

I'm in the same boat. I had high hopes for this summer. I may try again a month into the fall semester and try to land a college coed but for now I'll stick to what I was able to get.

I'm kind of pissed because I joined back up again recently and my inbox is dry. Nothing like it was before the pandemic.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Says yes to anything and pics look good, but wants 100 before a meet.

Blocked and I'll move along.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8ba57...a-4bfaf1956635

She's moved along, too. Down to Charlestown, South Carolina. Good riddance to yet another scammer. I hope you reported her.

BMD.

[JustLooking30]

Says yes to anything and pics look good, but wants 100 before a meet.

Blocked and I'll move along.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8ba57...a-4bfaf1956635

[Doc Simp]

I'm in the same boat. I had high hopes for this summer. I may try again a month into the fall semester and try to land a college coed but for now I'll stick to what I was able to get

Much of how piss poor the experiences on this site are right now has to do with females heading back to college, this has been a yearly phenom where as they get ready to go back to school the behavior is crazy with insane requests, no follow up on convos etc, just alot with IDGAF attitudes. Once Colleges start back up the ones that are flakes will largely clear out and go back to school and the ones left tend to be the ones really looking for a daddy of sorts.

[JustLooking30]

So my month is up I have decided not to renew. I'm going to take a break. This past month was by far the worst of any month I have been on that site. I have encountered more scams and fakes in the last 30 days then in the last year together.

I'm in the same boat. I had high hopes for this summer. I may try again a month into the fall semester and try to land a college coed but for now I'll stick to what I was able to get.

[ILoveThatPoo]

So my month is up I have decided not to renew. I'm going to take a break. This past month was by far the worst of any month I have been on that site. I have encountered more scams and fakes in the last 30 days then in the last year together. I met with in person only two ladies. One was a hot blonde from West Hartford but we didn't click. Never even talked money. The second was a few days after my ranting post about pink sugar and how much $$$ she was looking for. Her number I still have any plan on meeting with eventually. The second woman I met turn out to be a sweet sexy MILF and we clicked so well but it was free. My only expense was the hotel room. We have an ongoing thing now. She's the perfect side chick.

Some funny things that did happened. I was talking with a couple women that I had apparently banged six plus months ago and they had to remind me of the fact. One even told me I only gave her 60 bucks! LOL talk about a cheap bastard. Another old friend I tried hooking up with again but she unfortunately she reads the boards now (thanks to the ass) and knows what a sick dirty bastard I truly am! LOL.

Poo.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Just started chatting. She hasn't given me any figures yet but I'm on high alert cause pics look too good to be true.

PM if need be.

I'm willing to bet she's a fake, scammer, or spammer. I've yet to meet anyone there using the location of CT, CT. They don't put a city because they're too lazy to lookup any city.

I'll usually reach to them for a chat. After a few exchanges, I'll suggest a meet at a place or restaurant and time of their choice. Do that and you'll get radio silence. The scammers have no answer so the jig is up and they move on to their next mark. I've been on there off and on for more than 3 years. Try my test and you'll see. 😉.

BMD.

[Steve 99]

Truth.

I have had luck with very nice girls in 150-200 per meet. Just be very business like about the negotiations. Don't be a jerk about it and be prepared to walk away if you are not able to agree. You may have to talk to lots of girls over a period of time.

I have had some girls contact me weeks later, agreeing to my price. Its rare, but can happen when they find out they are pricing themselves out of the market.

Same with me. I have been off and on for many years. Before it got popular. Just seems it gets worse every year. This summer the pickings have been horrible for me. Guess just a rough patch.

So true on vast amounts of time. Thats why you have to take breaks. It is not healthy texting 50 girls to weed down to 10 to weed down to 2. LOL. Drives you nuts. I just won't go over 250 out of principle. I travel overseas a lot so I think that is a plane ticket to DR etc that I just wasted on a USA sugar girl couple hours if we talking 300 and up.

I also don't have patience for the ones who want to date 3 or 4 times and want it to happen naturally. Those could turn into diamonds but I just can't do it. If we arent at hotel by second date. I check out.

Good example of someone who could be great. But she isn't going to jump into bed. Looks hot though. Too much effort:

https://www.seeking.com/member/94f89...c-761f0632ec3f